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Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by Sylva2147: 2:55pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
skypeme:Amen! But then you don't need to underestimate the advice he offered. people talk to you out of experience though sometimes it hurts but we also put it into consideration. 1 Like |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by Dyt(f): 2:55pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
decub: Leave the stingy man Even calculating in percentage I use owo abu to take care of abu |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by Dayoade92(m): 2:55pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
kimbra:@ the boldened. This is marriage, can't we just have total transparency? You need more money? Tell me. Why should you lie about price of stuffs? Look, it's bad. Let's be honest. I'll feel bad as a man no matter the billions I have. Transparency is the best. 1 Like |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by otitokoroleti: 2:56pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
Dyt:I blamed d retardd dat marry i neva chop gal lyk u 2 Likes |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by Dyt(f): 2:56pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
ventq: Just like you |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by Nobody: 2:56pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
Op you have over spoiled your wife. Instead of getting her a job you are here paying December bonus. The lord is your strength o 1 Like |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by Dyt(f): 2:56pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by Alphamale2017(m): 2:57pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
op since u feed her and also pay her fees. what is she doing with the money u are giving her?? I am not against giving her money but it should not be in form of a salary. that makes her appear more like a nanny than a wife. u can start Paying her salary after u both must have packed to your own house. not at this stage. your baby is still growing in less than 1 year, ur baby will start school. that means two school fees to pay. at this rate, it may take long for you to build a house. in case u don't know, u are giving her 12 bags of cements per month. as mandatory payment. if u continue like that, ur growth will be slow. but if u have built your own house. maybe u can think of increasing it. my 2 cent |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by DICKtator: 2:57pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
Ayinke93: This one is a chartered accountant CPA,ACA,ACCA |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by AKNDBC(m): 2:57pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
Bros, don't give her any monthly salary after giving her money for home stuffs . As a man should save for raining day. Many families are in disarray today because they didnt prepare for it when there was money. When u dont have money that is when u now know the true love from such a woman. Be wise. 2 Likes |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by k199192: 2:57pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
skypeme:are you trying to be funny abi are you really funny and this whole story is a joke.. 2.5%...reallly niggar... 30,100... Why not 30k... Maybe it's the 100naira you added that is annoying her, who knows? |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by Praktikals(m): 2:57pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
Atk1nson:Are you married yet? |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by otitokoroleti: 2:58pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
Dyt:pm, 4 what? u must be a huge joke! 1 Like |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by paschu: 2:58pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
If you do that twice in my house I will simply send you parking. Why get married when you cannot uphold the sacredness of matrimony? TRUST is everything in marriage dear. Stop wasting yours, rather rack it up. Dyt: 2 Likes |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by Bimpe29: 2:59pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
Take it easy bro, it happens virtually in every relationships. And, mind you, two wrongs will never make a right. For the sake of God and the love that exists in your home, sit her down and educate her on the importance of being contented and grateful. |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by mecussey(m): 3:00pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
Pieromania: Yea..woman not matured for marriage...poster you will be broke as soon as u leave work. She is lost, bring her back and advise her on what marriage is all about. As she dey she is not concerned if you broke or not, save ur side now. Save your money and tell her how much you guys need to manage everymonth. If u get broke today, she might be forced to leave you. |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by Dyt(f): 3:00pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
paschu: I wish I understood you
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Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by eodavids(m): 3:00pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
Sit you wife down and explain to her that you love her so much and that is why you have shown your self a considerate husband all along. Keeping quiet is not advisable in this circumstance and what you say to her to must not be out of anger, but politely mixed with smiles. I know exactly what you are going through because your Dear wife is taking things for granted. Educate her that values are more appreciated when they are lost, and she should immagine the situation when you finally change and make her face the music she is asking for. In a nutshell, you should talk to her more, for a long time, before she faces the music. So that when it starts (if unfortunately she refuse to reason well), then you will only refer her to your days of warnings. NB: please show her more love with God's word advices, I still believe she will make amends. |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by golddust6000(m): 3:00pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
NoToPile:hmm, see talk o. You mean men should marry and pay their wives monthly salary? So marriege is now Employment? The dude was angry because her wife is disrespecting him, how can he pay her salary on what ground? If marriege were to favoring the women i rather remain single orgo for sorrogation, women wahala to much, even adam sef tire for them. One thing i can diggest on what op narrate was the woman have high taste, she want to be among the big girls in school. I dont care how ugly a woman can be, if she respect me i can buy her the world 1 Like |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by Dyt(f): 3:00pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
otitokoroleti:
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Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by ideykwum: 3:01pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
Dyt: Call it what you want "add a little money" or "steal a little meat" or "tell a little lie" or "just a harmless kiss" etc. It all points to a faulty moral compass. That you don't understand that is a tragedy of the Nigerian society. That's why someone can say "Stealing is not corruption"!! Just so you know, a good balance of curry and theme can give untrammeled taste to the stew of life. The critical question really is: How do people like you truly reason? 4 Likes |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by golddust6000(m): 3:01pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
NoToPile: NoToPile:hmm, see talk o. You mean men should marry and pay their wives monthly salary? So marriege is now Employment? The dude was angry because his wife is disrespecting him, how can he pay her salary on what ground? If marriege were to favoring the women i rather remain single orgo for sorrogation, women wahala to much, even adam sef tire for them. One thing i can diggest on what op narrate was the woman have high taste, she want to be among the big girls in school. I dont care how ugly a woman can be, if she respect me i can buy her the world |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by Ibime(m): 3:01pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
skypeme: You add 2.5% yet official CBN inflation rate is 17.8%. Maybe that's why she dey vex |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by Dyt(f): 3:01pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
ideykwum:
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Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by otitokoroleti: 3:03pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
Dyt:I c. u nid a fucck, plz wait till ur hubby iz back! thank u 1 Like |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by Icon79(m): 3:03pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
abescom: Thank you very much, my brother. I thought I was the only one Thanks for helping me understand that I am not crazy sha. O pari |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by Nobody: 3:03pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
....I won't date such talk less of wife such! 1 Like |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by Habymbollah(f): 3:04pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
agabaI23:Pls sit her down and ask her y she did that, it is possible she needs some money n does not know how to ask from you. Or maybe she now has a teacher outside your matrimonial home.. |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by samsard(m): 3:04pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
LeView1:Money he works for by himself? common, ladies and entitlement mentality. SMH 1 Like |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by micxwell(m): 3:06pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
skypeme:I like your faith sir. , Not giving her, her regular 17.2% will only cause more trouble. You are doing all the above for her yet she inflated payments for you and still talk to you in a rude manner when you confronted her! Sieze her SALARY (17.2%) and you will see miracle |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by Nobody: 3:07pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
this is wat they call GOBE |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by HumanistMike(m): 3:07pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
NoToPile: Okay I see you point. Maybe he chose % due to his profession. |
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