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Re: What Are Your Major Challenges As A First-time Parent? by Maxvasia(m): 12:42pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
pearlforlady:This one does not even know what an advice is. What is Nairaland turning into sef? Lemme check ur profile pic sef to see the kind of face der. Sm1 like u wnt even wanna show urself in public. |
Re: What Are Your Major Challenges As A First-time Parent? by SirVintageCock: 12:43pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
Maxvasia:You are uncouth and very irresponsible even from this write up. I barf on the idea of you attending to patients and dishing medical advice here and there 8 Likes |
Re: What Are Your Major Challenges As A First-time Parent? by Maxvasia(m): 12:47pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
Pidgin2:What i am saying is that a helper can do all those under ur supervision. If ur husband does not give reason for failure to perform his role as a husband, she shud not give excuses for failure in hers. Der r other options. Op did not even state if she had an operation or not. She did not make us know her husband doea not accept house helps( which is unlikely). I replied based on info given so calm down. I am not mean. I am one of the ppl very passionate about the way women are treated by men. So pls relax |
Re: What Are Your Major Challenges As A First-time Parent? by Maxvasia(m): 12:49pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
SirVintageCock:i am uncouth? Lol...says someone with a very disgusting username. I am a Doctor and a good one at that. Come and beat me. See ur face. |
Re: What Are Your Major Challenges As A First-time Parent? by Maxvasia(m): 12:51pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
Pidgin2:Lol....see ur face. Talking cos u see other ppl talking. |
Re: What Are Your Major Challenges As A First-time Parent? by Omoluabi16(m): 12:54pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
Pidgin2:you ehn! |
Re: What Are Your Major Challenges As A First-time Parent? by SirVintageCock: 1:01pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
Maxvasia:yeah, we've heard that already. "Doctor" my left vintage black ball. 6 Likes |
Re: What Are Your Major Challenges As A First-time Parent? by Maxvasia(m): 1:07pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
SirVintageCock:Hehehe.....na u sabi sha. U can do jamb again and bcom a Doctor and prove better than this useless Nairaland Doctor that is a "disgrace to his profession" oo. Abi? 1 Like |
Re: What Are Your Major Challenges As A First-time Parent? by snowblaq(f): 1:09pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
SirVintageCock:....don't mind the stupid somebody.... 6 Likes |
Re: What Are Your Major Challenges As A First-time Parent? by snowblaq(f): 1:11pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
adontcare:....don't mind the stupid somebody.... 4 Likes |
Re: What Are Your Major Challenges As A First-time Parent? by SirVintageCock: 1:12pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
Maxvasia:yeah. Same old. Same old bullcrap. You are a mistake that shouldn't have happened. 8 Likes |
Re: What Are Your Major Challenges As A First-time Parent? by pearlforlady(f): 1:17pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
Maxvasia:thank you soo much. |
Re: What Are Your Major Challenges As A First-time Parent? by Nobody: 1:28pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
Dear God, I have screamed my intestines out. The fact they don't listen, hurt themselves and come back to you for the 'sorry' Or the cries that don't end no matter how you scream. The sibling fight. The forceful feeding after cooking and you hear I don't want. The paper tearing. My kids so destructive sha! I stopped buying toys. My son did spider man from couch to TV and guess what TV landed on the floor. The remotes, the Dstv card always replaced, broken IPads. Having to be lesson teacher that would google answer cos you don't remember the answers again. Having to stall your own life to are for little ones who do not know anything about life. Instilling discipline and praying they turn out right and not pick up negatives from other kids. Mummyhood changed my life. I'm thankful still and pray to be a better mum with kids who turn out right. 7 Likes |
Re: What Are Your Major Challenges As A First-time Parent? by Maxvasia(m): 1:52pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
SirVintageCock:Lol...SirVintage..... |
Re: What Are Your Major Challenges As A First-time Parent? by Maxvasia(m): 1:54pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
pearlforlady:Ohh u r so welcome. Can i send my bank acct number so u can thank me more? And ohh, ur profile pic is lovely by the way |
Re: What Are Your Major Challenges As A First-time Parent? by darlenese(f): 2:20pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
So nobody here ever had that nosy relative or compound over _sabi nurse' My worse part was my over-sabi sister in law who believes she knows all' always giving lectures about how to handle my baby' now to breastfeed properly , how to do this and how to do that ' she would blame me when my baby won't poo for days ' And when he pools several times in a day nkor its also my fault ! The next thing u hear ' what did u eat that is making the baby poo so much? Painfully I had no one helping us' it was just hubby and I doing all the work alone . infact i started bathing ,my baby as soon as I was discharged from the hospital ' , my SIL won't help but use her mouth to confuse and frustrate me, she would even give unsolicited advice and make it look like I wasn't caring for my child . My experience as a first time mom was hell, thank God for my wonderful hubby' if not for his wisdom' the blessing of a child would have turn the family apart! Everybody in his family wants to teach me how to be a mother Awful experience 8 Likes |
Re: What Are Your Major Challenges As A First-time Parent? by StevensJojo(f): 2:25pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
Maxvasia:What happened to being considerate? For your information Omugwo started from "our grandmothers" and the woman is allowed to eat and rest well. I don't blame you for the mentality you just displayed. A lot of things are wrong with this society and for things to change it has to start with the family. 9 Likes |
Re: What Are Your Major Challenges As A First-time Parent? by StevensJojo(f): 2:32pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
adontcare:My dear dont mind him please.You are very strong and very patient.May God keep your home and bestow wisdom upon your husband. 5 Likes |
Re: What Are Your Major Challenges As A First-time Parent? by StevensJojo(f): 2:40pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
Maxvasia:It is so sad that you cant see that you are the one who is a disgrace to your family. Go home and show this thread to your mother or sisters maybe even aunts. 5 Likes |
Re: What Are Your Major Challenges As A First-time Parent? by Maxvasia(m): 2:54pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
StevensJojo:Lol...u just talk cos u see people talking bah? See ur mouth |
Re: What Are Your Major Challenges As A First-time Parent? by Viking007(m): 5:43pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
Some comments here look scary. I'm no more looking forward to getting married. 1 Like |
Re: What Are Your Major Challenges As A First-time Parent? by mrjojo: 6:53pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
Chai, now these comments are scary, hmmn |
Re: What Are Your Major Challenges As A First-time Parent? by maasoap(m): 7:47pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
Bigsteveg:You didn't get it. My first daughter has outgrown that part, it is my second daughter who is still at that stage. She needs more time to be able to get the message. |
Re: What Are Your Major Challenges As A First-time Parent? by hawt: 11:51pm On Apr 13, 2017 |
U want another strong lady to be cooking for her husband? What is making her weak 2 days after delivery? I am a Doc and i know thats an embarassingly stupid excuse! What happened to employing a helper as part of preparation for the "challenges ahead"? The only problem here is the attitude of ladies of nowadays. Apparently the real women are long dead. Our grand mothers wer never like this. You are also an embarassingly stupid doc, that is if you are actually one. I ve heard of women who die few days after childbirth, even lost a friend like that, this happens mostly because of lack of proper care and fake docs like u. Her bp could be high, vaginal tears, all manner of complications, what if it was CS? I spent 7 days in the hospital after delivery. Dear God, pls save women from this type of docs during delivery. Karma never looses an address. 5 Likes |
Re: What Are Your Major Challenges As A First-time Parent? by Bibitayo2: 10:39am On Apr 14, 2017 |
The kind of crazy people we have on Nairaland ehn..... and a lady will get married to this one and do thanksgiving on Sunday . 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Are Your Major Challenges As A First-time Parent? by Nobody: 12:10pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
Bibitayo2: . Lol at your comment. So wetin you expecte her to do before? |
Re: What Are Your Major Challenges As A First-time Parent? by peacettw: 7:16pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
SirVintageCock: I cant believe a doctor actually spewed forth such utter rubbish. Idiots everywhere. 3 Likes |
Re: What Are Your Major Challenges As A First-time Parent? by tonyfran: 10:54pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
Truth is that maxvisia is not a doctor. And if he is, he's quack and lacks emotional intelligence. 6 Likes |
Re: What Are Your Major Challenges As A First-time Parent? by SirVintageCock: 6:28am On Apr 15, 2017 |
peacettw:Oh No!! There are many warped minds like him out there in our hospitals causing lots of havoc and mayhem. Products of quota systems and dysfunctional families. 1 Like |
Re: What Are Your Major Challenges As A First-time Parent? by peacettw: 7:31am On Apr 15, 2017 |
SirVintageCock: I beg to differ cos I work in a hospital and no self respecting medical student or doctor for that matter will make such flippant statement. That man is not a doctor. 2 Likes |
Re: What Are Your Major Challenges As A First-time Parent? by SirVintageCock: 11:08am On Apr 15, 2017 |
peacettw:alright |
Re: What Are Your Major Challenges As A First-time Parent? by Giddyperson: 1:54pm On Apr 15, 2017 |
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