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I am a Nigerian living in America (somewhere in the South) and men never seem to approach me. Not even black men approach me, or at least only one has. People tell me I have a babyface and it doesn't help that I am a petite girl. People always ask me for my age all the time. 5'6 and weigh 125 lbs and I am 21 and in college. I don't go to bars or nightclubs.

I am not an ugly girl because strangers call me beautiful/pretty. I have Sudanese men ask me if I am Hausa and that I am really attractive. One Sudanese man asked if I have a bf and when I told him I never had one before he was surprised and said I was really pretty and said that he sees ugly women with bfs all the time. Or sometimes on the street, a man will say I am beautiful but still never approached. I am confused as why when I go out shopping or anywhere other than bars or clubs, I am never approached by a man?

Picture or...

Aii just show us a pic of yo pretty face u know

maybe i finna approach you

Upload your pix

SEND ME A PM and I will change that fate for you. Also I suggest you go to social gatherings ... It helps o.

eziera:
I am a Nigerian living in America (somewhere in the South) and men never seem to approach me. Not even black men approach me, or at least only one has. People tell me I have a babyface and it doesn't help that I am a petite girl. People always ask me for my age all the time. 5'6 and weigh 125 lbs and I am 21 and in college. I don't go to bars or nightclubs.

I am not an ugly girl because strangers call me beautiful/pretty. I have Sudanese men ask me if I am Hausa and that I am really attractive. One Sudanese man asked if I have a bf and when I told him I never had one before he was surprised and said I was really pretty and said that he sees ugly women with bfs all the time. Or sometimes on the street, a man will say I am beautiful but still never approached. I am confused as why when I go out shopping or anywhere other than bars or clubs, I am never approached by a man?

Actually, if u wouldn't mind uploading your pix it might actually help to know the angle to tackle the situation from.

eziera:
I am a Nigerian living in America (somewhere in the South) and men never seem to approach me. Not even black men approach me, or at least only one has. People tell me I have a babyface and it doesn't help that I am a petite girl. People always ask me for my age all the time. 5'6 and weigh 125 lbs and I am 21 and in college. I don't go to bars or nightclubs.

I am not an ugly girl because strangers call me beautiful/pretty. I have Sudanese men ask me if I am Hausa and that I am really attractive. One Sudanese man asked if I have a bf and when I told him I never had one before he was surprised and said I was really pretty and said that he sees ugly women with bfs all the time. Or sometimes on the street, a man will say I am beautiful but still never approached. I am confused as why when I go out shopping or anywhere other than bars or clubs, I am never approached by a man?

why are you complaining now? Be stronging face there like you own America nah

Miss american

Come Nigeria baby, Na you go tire.

most guys especially Nigerian guys living abroad go after white women more, for the obvious though, Green card!!

Mtchew... Telling us that you are pretty without pictures to backup your claims.. How do you expect us to decide now..

eziera:
I am a Nigerian living in America (somewhere in the South) and men never seem to approach me. Not even black men approach me, or at least only one has. People tell me I have a babyface and it doesn't help that I am a petite girl. People always ask me for my age all the time. 5'6 and weigh 125 lbs and I am 21 and in college. I don't go to bars or nightclubs.

I am not an ugly girl because strangers call me beautiful/pretty. I have Sudanese men ask me if I am Hausa and that I am really attractive. One Sudanese man asked if I have a bf and when I told him I never had one before he was surprised and said I was really pretty and said that he sees ugly women with bfs all the time. Or sometimes on the street, a man will say I am beautiful but still never approached. I am confused as why when I go out shopping or anywhere other than bars or clubs, I am never approached by a man?

hi, you're lying... Thank you.

So what do we do without seeing the pics of you?

Please, do not insult our intelligence.

If men don't approach you or rarely do, it's either you're unpleasant to look at or you've a certain repulsive attitude that's been reflected on you.

But you claim it's neither...

So stop being a bìtch and upload your picture.

Bush meat want to catch hunter. Kindly go straight to the point YOU ARE LOOKING FOR HUSBAND

Oya judge yourself, you're either lying or an underage, men over there don't want to be seen as a paedophile.. Work on your looks sha..

A picture will be nice to begin with.

eziera:
I am a Nigerian living in America (somewhere in the South) and men never seem to approach me. Not even black men approach me, or at least only one has. People tell me I have a babyface and it doesn't help that I am a petite girl. People always ask me for my age all the time. 5'6 and weigh 125 lbs and I am 21 and in college. I don't go to bars or nightclubs.

I am not an ugly girl because strangers call me beautiful/pretty. I have Sudanese men ask me if I am Hausa and that I am really attractive. One Sudanese man asked if I have a bf and when I told him I never had one before he was surprised and said I was really pretty and said that he sees ugly women with bfs all the time. Or sometimes on the street, a man will say I am beautiful but still never approached. I am confused as why when I go out shopping or anywhere other than bars or clubs, I am never approached by a man?

The problem is not whether you live in America or not.......it's from your village. If you like go to Canada or Australia, the remote control from village will get there. Sharply visit the nearest MFM.......

i understand ur situation cos me too i don't fancy smallish girls, but they are quite fun to be with.

But where is lalasticlala sef?

If you're beautiful, petite, and no man wants to approach you then the problem is from you, 'cause the average petite lady gets wooed once in a while if not often. Men are attracted by what they see, so how you dress and carry yourself matters. I'm not saying you should be on revealing clothes. Just try to change the way you do things. Do always wear a smile when people say "Hi" to you, instead of forming over seriousness.

Help yourself with any of the numerous Naija guy you see, Yankee got an abundance of high class exotic women, a poor black guy can have 3 fresh black American baby mama's,plus Latinos too, Wetin dey wan take Third World average looking girl do?...when their local LovePeddler and stripper fresh pass u.

Yankee guys are all about the money, they are not that marriage/family building oriented like we are

So, what do u want us to do about your condition?

I AM LUMINOUZ!!!!! Now upload ur pic or else......

vanida6:
Miss american

Thank you, I nukwa Americana mtcheww.


www.eharmony.com. www.meetnigerians.com, go get your own man there and stop disturbing us here.

Ori re buuru nii

You need to pray, its a spiritual something.

eziera:
I am a Nigerian living in America (somewhere in the South) and men never seem to approach me. Not even black men approach me, or at least only one has. People tell me I have a babyface and it doesn't help that I am a petite girl. People always ask me for my age all the time. 5'6 and weigh 125 lbs and I am 21 and in college. I don't go to bars or nightclubs.

I am not an ugly girl because strangers call me beautiful/pretty. I have Sudanese men ask me if I am Hausa and that I am really attractive. One Sudanese man asked if I have a bf and when I told him I never had one before he was surprised and said I was really pretty and said that he sees ugly women with bfs all the time. Or sometimes on the street, a man will say I am beautiful but still never approached. I am confused as why when I go out shopping or anywhere other than bars or clubs, I am never approached by a man?

Perhaps you look too serious and therefore scare away liverless men in the US environment of sexual assault and harassment.
You have nothing to worry about.
You should volunteer for activities that interest you and you will start meeting men who will FIRST be your friend and see how things unfold.

MhizTenderly:
You need to pray, its a spiritual something.

Are you a spiritualist?

deanoffaculty:
The problem is not whether you live in America or not.......it's from your village. If you like go to Canada or Australia, the remote control from village will get there. Sharply visit the nearest MFM.......

Pastor must wack even though they tell you that the gospel is free.
Scamming the poor in spirit.

Do you have Kyphosis? Hunchbacked