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MhizTenderly:
My ex is very caring but the present one is a no-no. You call someone everyday and expect him to call you too and they feel like you are disturbing them, it has caused serious issues between I and my bf, he actually blocked me for some days and later unblocked me. Well I decided to give it a rest cus he told me he needed time, whatever that means.

If a guy is comfortable not hearing from his gf for days but do online , well I will be comfortable too.

Did the new boyfriend no calling start suddenly or there was symptoms of it from the start?

Sometimes I feel women have problems with guys that care 100%, they are just not Comfort with it.

Had a girlfriend I showed excess love with surprises. Once in a while I will either;
1- Pay for her SPA without her knowing, the SPA people will just call her to come for her session and she will be surprised.

2- Pay for customised chocolate to be delivered to her.

3- Go for a romantic weekends at a very nice hotel. Etc

Yet, this girl left for a stupid reason that I am too caring and it scares her.

I love to be in control, therefore if I say I'm busy I mean it and any Lady who dare bend my rule may face my anger sometimes.

They say am not romantic.
What does that mean sef ??

pillan:
for me..I think I'm stubborn and sometimes can act as if i don't care..what's yours?

Which means u are complete opposite inside, those fronting is just to protect u...

Noted

dhardline:
Although I am not too sure but someone said I am a perfectionist,I think that's my only issh.

Now i have found my colleague.

I am completely unromantic, nd hve a fetish for wierdness. Its crazy

Linqsz:
Did the new boyfriend no calling start suddenly or there was symptoms of it from the start?

Sometimes I feel women have problems with guys that care 100%, they are just not Comfort with it.

Had a girlfriend I showed excess love with surprises. Once in a while I will either;
1- Pay for her SPA without her knowing, the SPA people will just call her to come for her session and she will be surprised.

2- Pay for customised chocolate to be delivered to her.

3- Go for a romantic weekends at a very nice hotel. Etc

Yet, this girl left for a stupid reason that I am too caring and it scares her.

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i dont normally call and 99% of girls like u to call them every now and then
also am (selfish) always placing myself ahead any relationship maybe that is why i found it hard to hold a relationship long

Laveda:
It's not easy, I must confess.

Yes I know its not, but there I things you need to do else boredom will come in even i n marriage.

Just try in your little ways.

WealthyMay:
I plan a brighter future fr u if u dnt av one.. I dnt date lazy ass wit or without a bright future.
And i'm stubborn in a cute way.

Funny,,,, how wud you knw if a man has a bright future or not,,,,,, u are a suspect

My sarcasm can be very annoying thats if I have ur time.

When you are yelling and throwing your anger , I can be smiling, finding it funny, stupid or too petty to take serious. On a good day, i would be staring at u blankly with no response, while u show ur crase, sometimes enjoying the scene

My worst reply at ur rants is usually sarcasm with coolheadedness and some devilish smile. I wonder why it makes gals go more haywire

I will never insult someone I'm truly dating so any form or shade of insult from you is the deal breaker.... Infact, I start doubting your merit/ worth the first day u insult me no matter the love we share.

I find it hard to understand, or take serious, those petty quarrel girls like to brew.....Most times I can't connect with it, or it doesn't make sense or get at me...that makes them go berserk and spoil everything

God help women with their unending dramas
Lastly, I wake early and will most likely disturb u for early morning sex......

joseph1832:
Code name: BlackFire. I remember that movie...

....and I also remember your moniker last year.

MhizTenderly:
He never calls right from time but chats, now, no calls ,hardly chats and he is out of the country. That's how the push girls to cheat.

So why leave the caring one for the uncaring one?

I am demanding, let me expantiate;
I want a guy that will call me first thing in the morning and last thing at night (fairy tale,not everyone has that time. So I have come to realise)

Blackfire:
Noted,...
I hope tomorrow, you will not come and say he/i doesn't show concern...


Again noted.

Lol, I'm not like that all the time, so the people I've been with were able to tell when I wasn't being myself. They left me alone, knowing that it'll pass. I mean come on, everybody has a dark side.

Blackfire:
....and I also remember your moniker last year.

Last year? How come you remember it?

queenfav:
My OCD as per cleanliness and organization .. Most men find it annoying.

I hope you have seen a doctor about it?

Passive aggressive.. I may not get jealous or get angry but I don't forget things easily.

ZarZar:
Lol, I'm not like that all the time, so the people I've been with were able to tell when I wasn't being myself. They left me alone, knowing that it'll pass. I mean come on, everybody has a dark side.

You meant 'a petulant side'?

I am very possessive.
I want all the space I can get.
I am very possessive of my space.
BTT is that you will not be able to understand me.
Heck! I don't understand what I want half the time.

joseph1832:
You're still a diva, any day, any time.

Awww thank you.

YTderin:
I get tired of arguments(no strength)
I can be spontaneous

I remember dis words........, you tell her you love her and she didn't reply, you decide to complain abt it and she tells you I don't have strength to argue, she flirts wit a guy on phn, you decide to communicate wit her to clear ur doubt, and probably beg her not to do dat in your presence , and she tells you same words............. Dat word ruined my 3 years relationship back in skul

WealthyMay:
I plan a brighter future fr u if u dnt av one.. I dnt date lazy ass wit or without a bright future.
And i'm stubborn in a cute way.

I see...

ZarZar:
Lol, I'm not like that all the time, so the people I've been with were able to tell when I wasn't being myself. They left me alone, knowing that it'll pass. I mean come on, everybody has a dark side.

Apparently u need to deal with that dark side... Else one day it will swallow u.
This is a point blank truth.
But if that dark side makes u to recuperate or recharge yourself... Ok


Anyway my name is blackfire...

chiraqDemon:
Its that i am usually not committed
Ill do everything to ask a girl out and wgen she now agrees i will now see it as stress
Especially when she wants us to go out ill just be like
Babe i csme back from lectures and went to work, i dont have energy and ill just b that way till she is tired and when she is gone i usually dont even feel it, or no, it feels more like a burden has been lifted and im free again

I just don like someone else trying to change my lifestyle settings
School to work to home, anyday i deviate will b at the bar close to my house where men meet and then back home
If no school and im free from work id rather stay home

thought i was the only one with this attitude, i tend to lose interest once i've succeded in making a girl fall for me. it's so bad that, i have no qualms if i don't hear from her in 3weeks, i just like being on my own, i've got a serious commitment problem, i just taya for myself.

Linqsz:
So why leave the caring one for the uncaring one?

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Linqsz:
Yes I know its not, but there I things you need to do else boredom will come in even i n marriage.

Just try in your little ways.

Thank you.

Laveda:
Awww thank you.

And you're most welcome, any day, any time.

For the fun of it here's mine......
I think things the opposite way. *see this one* can be taken as an insult especially when I am yet to know the person well. I also keep dates. You hurt me today, the time and date is automatically added to my database. I usually don't know I have done that until after a year or more I suddenly pull it out when something similar comes up. I don't forget the hurts. I didn't wire myself abeg

Mine is stubbornness. Not that I give women headache but I'm a bit of an assh0le



Anyway the ladies love it and most of my ex still wanna come back

Blackfire:
Noted

Lol...you won't need it.