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He Invited Me To Spend A Weekend With His Family by Sweetlemon(f): 4:44pm On Jan 06, 2013 |
The "bed guy" I have been talking about here has invited me to spend a weekend at his family house (with his folks) Lord! I'm so excited! And I'm so scared! One minute I'm on top of the world, the next my tommy churns. What if they are snobs? What if I do or say the wrong things? What kind of clothes should I even take along with me? Oh well, at the end I guess I'll just have to settle for being confident in myself. 1 Like |
Re: He Invited Me To Spend A Weekend With His Family by Dyt(f): 4:47pm On Jan 06, 2013 |
@ topic Yes I hav Jst b ursef and don't go wit all dose show me ur boobi n waist clothes Dress swt n responsible |
Re: He Invited Me To Spend A Weekend With His Family by EzePromoe: 4:51pm On Jan 06, 2013 |
Sweetlemon and her Bed guy season 3 11 Likes |
Re: He Invited Me To Spend A Weekend With His Family by xynerise: 4:55pm On Jan 06, 2013 |
Dont eat too much when u get there 5 Likes |
Re: He Invited Me To Spend A Weekend With His Family by EzePromoe: 4:56pm On Jan 06, 2013 |
Just be careful and be yourself. Something tells me the boy is a lil bit serious by inviting you to his family house. More comments are still coming that you wouldn't find impressive please just swallow it and don't make the thread turn to a warzone. Thanks, beauty! 1 Like |
Re: He Invited Me To Spend A Weekend With His Family by IZUKWU(m): 5:03pm On Jan 06, 2013 |
SMDH 11 Likes |
Re: He Invited Me To Spend A Weekend With His Family by Sweetlemon(f): 5:04pm On Jan 06, 2013 |
Eze Promoe: Just be careful and be yourself. Something tells me the boy is a lil bit serious by inviting you to his family house. More comments are still coming that you wouldn't find impressive please just swallow it and don't make the thread turn to a warzone. Thanks, beauty!Lol! I don adjust to NL craze! I'm only going to answer people like you who have something encouraging to say. thanks! |
Re: He Invited Me To Spend A Weekend With His Family by Sweetlemon(f): 5:10pm On Jan 06, 2013 |
Dyt: @ topicLol! Thank you my sister. How was your own experience? How long did you spend there? Were they nice to you? Did the mother tell you to cook for them or join her in the kitchen? What scares me the most is that I will be spending a full weekend! I wish it started with a day's visit but one full weekend? lord help me! I'm so nervous! |
Re: He Invited Me To Spend A Weekend With His Family by EzePromoe: 5:12pm On Jan 06, 2013 |
You're welcome, dearie |
Re: He Invited Me To Spend A Weekend With His Family by EzePromoe: 5:14pm On Jan 06, 2013 |
Sweetlemon:Is the guy ready for marriage? |
Re: He Invited Me To Spend A Weekend With His Family by Sweetlemon(f): 5:31pm On Jan 06, 2013 |
Eze Promoe: He hasn't formally proposed to me. He's been more loving and caring each time we are together. No sex yet. He still says he wants to buy a bed first (And that's why I'm so crazy about him) |
Re: He Invited Me To Spend A Weekend With His Family by Dyt(f): 5:38pm On Jan 06, 2013 |
I cooked We talked Started frm a day visit Afta dat she calls me 2 come play wit her |
Re: He Invited Me To Spend A Weekend With His Family by Nobody: 5:42pm On Jan 06, 2013 |
smh |
Re: He Invited Me To Spend A Weekend With His Family by Nobody: 5:44pm On Jan 06, 2013 |
Sweetlemon: Its normal to get butterflies but I'd just give little tips. * help out with whatever u can * don't oversleep. Its not ur home so learn to wake before D real owners * be nice * never overdo things. If you know for real you won't be running around doing this n that. Just be moderate so they wud know ur limits and won't be surprised if u change. * light make up will do d trick * be polite in addressing other member of d family even to the youngest. * lastly and most importantly : be yourself. I hope this helps 6 Likes |
Re: He Invited Me To Spend A Weekend With His Family by Nobody: 5:46pm On Jan 06, 2013 |
Yeah! I remember the bed guy. He sounds awesome to me. |
Re: He Invited Me To Spend A Weekend With His Family by Sweetlemon(f): 5:50pm On Jan 06, 2013 |
candygosh:#big hug How early should I get up? I can sleep o! Kai! *shivers 1 Like |
Re: He Invited Me To Spend A Weekend With His Family by Nobody: 6:03pm On Jan 06, 2013 |
Sweetlemon: Well, didn't saay u shouldn't sleep but be early enough to say your good mornings. 1 Like |
Re: He Invited Me To Spend A Weekend With His Family by AZeD1(m): 6:08pm On Jan 06, 2013 |
Be in charge of the tv remote Wear short skirts and bum shorts Eat like the "food prefect" 29 Likes |
Re: He Invited Me To Spend A Weekend With His Family by Sweetlemon(f): 6:16pm On Jan 06, 2013 |
A-ZeD: Lol! E se gan! Thank you very much 2 Likes |
Re: He Invited Me To Spend A Weekend With His Family by EzePromoe: 6:26pm On Jan 06, 2013 |
Sweetlemon:If he lives with his parents then try to know the kind of people his parents are whether they're God-fearing. And again don't behave yourself cheaply before his parents, they might have planned it with their son to bring his GF to see whether she's a wifey material. And pleeeeaaase, zip up. Thanks! |
Re: He Invited Me To Spend A Weekend With His Family by Okontami: 6:29pm On Jan 06, 2013 |
Lemon wey sweet..My Sister, please try hold body for his house o. By the time you go loose guard and he nack your toto akpako now, he could be a bit resentful. Please I beg you my sister. 2 Likes |
Re: He Invited Me To Spend A Weekend With His Family by cigaricon(m): 6:42pm On Jan 06, 2013 |
They are likely to ask u questions about ur ambition and how u are planning for ur future (with their son lol ), just be free and and show them u gat dreams and goals to achieve as they would not want their son to marry a lady who'se got none (that is if him go propose oh). By the way, enjoy ur stay and no forget to bring garri for us when u come back oh 1 Like |
Re: He Invited Me To Spend A Weekend With His Family by dopeJemi: 6:44pm On Jan 06, 2013 |
ooooh! I hate commenting Late oh Don't act Like its d first time u seeing dem Don't wait 4 sum1 2 greet u b4 u greet d person Be joviaL and LiveLy ALways smiLe Since u staying 4 d weekend, don't wake up Late Try and heLp out wiv d chores If he has sisters, pLay wiv dem n try 2 cook wiv dem Don't taLk 2 much oh Be confident, cuz dey r not going 2 eat u Thank Me Later 3 Likes |
Re: He Invited Me To Spend A Weekend With His Family by Sweetlemon(f): 6:52pm On Jan 06, 2013 |
Okontami: Lemon wey sweet..My Sister, please try hold body for his house o. By the time you go loose guard and he nack your toto akpako now, he could be a bit resentful.Lol! I don buy strong padlock and zip put for that place! |
Re: He Invited Me To Spend A Weekend With His Family by chronique(m): 6:52pm On Jan 06, 2013 |
Eze Promoe: Sweetlemon and her Bed guy season 3 Coming soon to a store near you. Grab ur copy nowwwww!!!!....*(in an alaba marketer's thick igbotic voice)* 2 Likes |
Re: He Invited Me To Spend A Weekend With His Family by Sweetlemon(f): 6:54pm On Jan 06, 2013 |
dopeJemi: ooooh! I hate commenting Late oh |
Re: He Invited Me To Spend A Weekend With His Family by lolaluv1(f): 6:55pm On Jan 06, 2013 |
First impression is the lasting one. Smile pleasantly as you enter the house and be graceful and courteous. The time when the mum is in the kitchen (if she cooks) is the time you could go offer to help her. She will probably refuse your help and instead involve you in a little tete-a-tete to know you better! Get a seperate bedroom from his own (even though some cultures advocate that intending couples spend the night together). Ask him to tell you about his family before you embark on the trip. Also talking about his experiences as a child with his parents and siblings, will go a long way in telling you the type of people they are and the kind of person he is! Don't just hang with him alone. Sit with the family when they're seeing a movie, when having dinner, etc. Be yourself. 2 Likes |
Re: He Invited Me To Spend A Weekend With His Family by AZeD1(m): 7:00pm On Jan 06, 2013 |
Sweetlemon: On a more serious note, Just be yourself. Things my mother looks for in a girl 1)Respect/up bringing 2)Hygiene. I think those are the two most important factors. Anything else would bother on trivial things like tribe, religion, denomination, e.t.c If you pretend and they like you for what you are not you would have a problem in the long run. |
Re: He Invited Me To Spend A Weekend With His Family by dopeJemi: 7:00pm On Jan 06, 2013 |
Sweetlemon: *Faints* LoLa just do season 2 of my story |
Re: He Invited Me To Spend A Weekend With His Family by Sweetlemon(f): 7:01pm On Jan 06, 2013 |
I just have a strong feeling this visit will determine my final destination with him that's why I'm so nervous! But why didn't he just start with a day's visit? Why a full weekend?? I'm happy about it but meeeen! It's so scary! |
Re: He Invited Me To Spend A Weekend With His Family by Sweetlemon(f): 7:22pm On Jan 06, 2013 |
lola.luv:Should I insist on helping with the cooking if they turn down my offer? They have maids who do the housework. If I try to help out with the work will it look like I'm trying too hard? He's said some nice stuff about his family. But who doesn't say nice things about their family?? *sighs As for sharing the same room with him, that wouldn't happen because we haven't even had sex yet. |
Re: He Invited Me To Spend A Weekend With His Family by Nobody: 7:23pm On Jan 06, 2013 |
make sure u sleep with his dad and brother when u get there 11 Likes |
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