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Nigerian girls give just sex in relationship...agreed.
Nigerian guys that are collecting just sex nko? Are they any sensible?

It's a case of two senseless people, very deserving of each other.
You're what you attract.

It's easy for you guys to point fingers. I will keep asking, what have you guys given to the women you've dated apart from sex?

Bros eh! You can take everything but offer me number 4.

You won't understand until you date chewing gum babe.

pocohantas:
Nigerian girls give just sex in relationship...agreed.
Nigerian guys that are collecting just sex nko? Are they any sensible?

It's a case of two senseless people, very deserving of each other.
You're what you attract.

It's easy for you guys to point fingers. I will keep asking, what have you guys given to the women you've dated apart from sex?

Gbam!

Hello

Respect, men need to be respected even if you are the one that is taking care of them.RESPECT us

lastmaster:
Gud one bro, imagine my babe telling me dat she have done much for me, and I asked her what, she said I so much love sex and she have been giving it to me freely without complain and do I want to sex her to death. This is a lady dat can't contribute 1 kobo in the relationship. I just open mouth dey look am.Dat was d last time I made love to her just to tell her dat I can survive without sex.

Lolz, could recall my ex telling me that in a relationship, a guy is to provide while the girl gives him sex in return.... The statement weak me sha

Griffon:
Good list bro, but sorry to say this, once you take away sex from the equation, 95% of Nigerian girls have NOTHING to offer in relationships.

It has been spiritually and scientifically proven.

If you bump into a Nigerian chick who's willing to spend, sacrifice, and give up tons of benefits just for you, my brother pause and ask those around you if you are really in Nigeria or Singapore.

This is not entirely true, we attract our kind, you can't be half baked as a man and expect to get the best of women.

Most men too have sexx in mind when approaching a lady that's why that's all they end up getting, but here on Nairaland and other social media, men are always represented as saints, and women as the big bad wolves.

Sarang:
If you both know what you want, it is not a waste of time mbok.
It happens still, hard or not hard, it is very possible. I'm sure if you give all or some of the above mentioned qualities, a man can wait for you till marriage. Try it.

Sweat heart I am talking from experience, maybe I have not meet the right man in my life, all those qualities above I believe I possess them, no man wants a relationship without sex, they see sex as love, unfortunately I found myself in this generation. When a man will tell you that he is emotionally starved. That doesn't mean the men are not decent, but they all have the urge and you don't expect them to change it because of you.

oluwashedy:
Lolz, could recall my ex telling me that in a relationship, a guy is to provide while the girl gives him sex in return.... The statement weak me sha

No be small thing bro, some ladies are so terrible.

Crixina:
This is not entirely true, we attract our kind, you can't be half baked as a man and expect to get the best of women.

Most men too have sexx in mind when approaching a lady that's why that's all they end up getting, but here on Nairaland and other social media, men are always represented as saints, and women as the big bad wolves.

A people get the women it deserves.

Same the other way around. Try to judge each individual on his/her own merit. Problem is I don't see lots of thread about women complaining about men. Seems the men have a point. But I'm quite convinced that all have sinned.

nkemdi89:
Sweat heart I am talking from experience, maybe I have not meet the right man in my life, all those qualities above I believe I possess them, no man wants a relationship without sex, they see sex as love, unfortunately I found myself in this generation. When a man will tell you that he is emotionally starved. That doesn't mean the men are not decent, but they all have the urge and you don't expect them to change it because of you.

I am talking from experience too. I hope you meet a good man sometime.

Why guys of nowadays doesn't remember they themselves aren't husband materials in financial aspect but quick to judge ladies of not being wife material? Simply because she ask you to take your responsibility as a man meanwhile she is performing her role as a house wife.

If you know you cannot provide for three please stay off women. As a man you must be able to cater for yourself, wife and a kid. A man is to till the soil to provide for his family while a woman is to comfort him and pass through severe pain in child bearing. Why add to woman suffering to share in the struggle of a man in addition to all these.

maiahsaiah:
Pls add this: women go for plastic surgery and change to a dog, on your way home buy a collar, when you get home, build a kennel, your man will never leave you.

What is this one saying

right

nkemdi89:
Sweat heart I am talking from experience, maybe I have not meet the right man in my life, all those qualities above I believe I possess them, no man wants a relationship without sex, they see sex as love, unfortunately I found myself in this generation. When a man will tell you that he is emotionally starved. That doesn't mean the men are not decent, but they all have the urge and you don't expect them to change it because of you.

i am begining to fall in love with ur sincerety.... Following u asap

OnyeEgo1:
i am begining to fall in love with ur sincerety.... Following u asap

Thanks and I will also follow you back rich person.

even the sex self is earned.he has to do all the calls to gifts before he can get it. remember he has to maintain it too

nkemdi89:
Sweat heart I am talking from experience, maybe I have not meet the right man in my life, all those qualities above I believe I possess them, no man wants a relationship without sex, they see sex as love, unfortunately I found myself in this generation. When a man will tell you that he is emotionally starved. That doesn't mean the men are not decent, but they all have the urge and you don't expect them to change it because of you.

what is even wrong with sex.

Standin ovation for the op

Xzbit91:
I'm not telling you to give me work. Just quote your source

no be only source na origin...

BiafranBushBoy:
Relationships again??
Una no dey tire>??

consult nnamdi kanu for your answer...

nkemdi89:
You right and in the other way round Nigerian relationship without sex is just a waste of time, hardly you see a Nigerian man that will stick to a no sex relationship.

How can a grown up man be in a relationship without sex?. I do imagine that sometimes. I use to be in a relationship without sex when I was a virgin

iamDaisy:
stories if he doesn't like me the way i am he can please take a long walk.

I do put it in prayers, for God to never let me marry your type

pocohantas:
Nigerian girls give just sex in relationship...agreed.
Nigerian guys that are collecting just sex nko? Are they any sensible?

It's a case of two senseless people, very deserving of each other.
You're what you attract.

It's easy for you guys to point fingers. I will keep asking, what have you guys given to the women you've dated apart from sex?

But I need to ask this, Is sex a favour to someone?

pocohantas:
Nigerian girls give just sex in relationship...agreed.
Nigerian guys that are collecting just sex nko? Are they any sensible?

It's a case of two senseless people, very deserving of each other.
You're what you attract.

It's easy for you guys to point fingers. I will keep asking, what have you guys given to the women you've dated apart from sex?

And what have you given apart from demanding for silly things when there are important things for him to do?

chain this very interesting thread suddenly became cold

iamDaisy:
stories if he doesn't like me the way i am he can please take a long walk.

Like you for who you are when you can't cook. Chai

Since when do women like men for whom they are if they don't have egunje?

Kentrasso:
In other words be a slave to the man. If she takes care of you who takes care of her??

A man will definitely care for the one who cares for him because he knows that if she's not in good shape he jeopardizes his own well-being

Hi, Thank you for gathering these comprehensive points.
They are excellent. I certainly learned a few new and important tricks, that's for sure. Keep it up from https://relationshipnest.com

importexpert:
We men have always said that women are the most complex creatures God has ever created. And some of us still hold this view. But when we hear women say that they do not understand us, we get shocked! Really?! We are the simplest creatures on the earth (you may choose not to agree though). Where you women have pages of things you expect of us, our list is quite simple. I mean very simple.
Once you can understand what we want, you’ve struck gold. And yes, don’t assume to know what we want. Know it instead. When you do, you will be able to meet our needs. When you do, you will have made yourself too valuable to lose. So, here are eight things we really want in a relationship.

1. Be Independent: If you ask an average Naija guy, he would put it very bluntly thus: “stop demanding for money!” A young man cannot be trying to build his future and you keep demanding money from him incessantly. Nobody wants a leech. Be independent for yourself. Work with your own hands. Make your own money. Take care of yourself. Once you do, our attraction to you skyrockets. And when you become independent, you won’t need to beg us for money. Ask any guy around, he will give anything to a woman that does not ask him. Yes, the less you ask, the more valuable you tend to become, and the more you will eventually receive from us.

2. Invest in the relationship: When we want a relationship, we are not seeking to add another load to our burden, please. A woman who makes a man keep working in a relationship will soon lose him. The era of killing ourselves over a relationship is fast winding up. Buy us gifts from your own money. Call us with your own airtime. Pamper us when you see the need to. You are not the only one that wants to feel loved in a relationship; men do too! We want to see that we are really in a relationship with someone and not with ourselves.

3. Be homely: Men love beautiful women. But what is the advantage of a woman that is not homely? Or a woman that will fry plantains and serve us something that looks like coal? You visit your man’s house and notice it is ruffled; you complain about it but have never made an attempt to tidy it up. No one is asking that you perform all the roles of a wife, but we have to see that you can take care of a home. You think we want to return from work and see cobwebs everywhere? Be homely. Learn how to cook dishes rather than always pushing us to eatery. Learn how to keep a home.

4. Give us space: Yes, we may love you; but that does not mean we have to be together always. You need to hang out with your friends. But if you chose not to, don’t try to tie us around you. We don’t want a woman who will not give us space to breathe fresh air. Understand this; you cannot stop us from watching football matches. You cannot stop us from having a guys’ timeout. Relationship is not a prison. In fact, if you want your market to sell with us, encourage us to go watch the games. Come along if possible and do the shouting with us. You can even invite our friends over to play video games while you offer to make us snacks. That will be one of the most romantic thing you can do. In fact, your wife material will just increase by 200 yards instantly.

5. Don’t even think about changing us: Even our parents did not think about changing us. We love the way we are. If you know you are not happy with it, then you should never have said ‘yes’ to our proposal. If we love being indoors, don’t suddenly expect us to start going out. If we love being silent for one hour a day, don’t even imagine that you can get us to stop that routine. Kolewerk! We may have bad habits. Is that a new stuff? We may have flaws. Is that a strange ‘something’? When you agreed to be in a relationship with us, you were signing up for the full version of us. So, just hold your peace and love us like that.

6. Be faithful: While this goes both ways, it is one of the most important things we look out for. There are too many incidents of infidelity around. And it bothers us, especially if we are really interested in the relationship. Does that mean we cannot trust you? Not at all. But don’t ever give us a reason to think you are being unfaithful. I will say in my own opinion that most relationships of today get broken because of cheating than anything else. You don’t believe me? Read break up stories on nairaland. If you are sure it is a guy you want, then be true with him. If you are tired of the relationship, then walk away. It is called a ‘relationship’ not a ‘group meeting’.

7. Remain good looking: We know the usual cliché: “it takes good looks to attract a man but character will keep him.” But never forget what that we are creatures of sight. Don’t assume that you can let your physical looks go just because we are in a relationship. We want women that we can show off. Dress good. Watch your weight. Exercise if you need too. Some of us do not really fancy heavy makeup. Well, you have to know which your man is. But at all cost, please, keep looking good.

8. Support us: You have no idea how many times a guy needs encouragement. Because you see us smiling always, you now assume all is rosy? We encounter a lot of challenges. We face plenty disappointments. The responsibility to be a man can be crushing. It is real! Support us. If we are down, become our cheerleader. If things turn around negatively, stay with us. Motivate us. Let us know that you believe in us even when we do not believe in ourselves. Tell us you approve of us unconditionally. No need to nag or be contentious. Instead, be our peace! Don’t be indifferent when you notice we are down. That will be a very bad idea.

So, there we have it! Is there anything complex about this list? Of course not! We hope you women can now get along with us easily. Thank you for your cooperation.

P. S

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Nothing do you bro - so on point. Thanks for speaking our minds.

maiahsaiah:
Pls add this: women go for plastic surgery and change to a dog, on your way home buy a collar, when you get home, build a kennel, your man will never leave you.

Like seruously! If u objectify yourself to a dog, pls no drag others into this.