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Re: Dating A Lady Who Is Older Than You by omoseth(m): 4:00pm On May 08, 2017
I've dated a Lady that was 5yrs older than me during my undergraduate days(she was in another department). It was a beautiful experience, she was everything a Man would want in a Woman,the respect was mutual. sad it didn't work out. So yeah,I can date an older woman but the age difference shouldn't be much.

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Re: Dating A Lady Who Is Older Than You by Laveda(f): 4:00pm On May 08, 2017
Big turnoff
Re: Dating A Lady Who Is Older Than You by hucienda: 4:01pm On May 08, 2017
Let's ask President-elect Macron for his views on the topic ...

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Re: Dating A Lady Who Is Older Than You by DeepDarkTunnel: 4:01pm On May 08, 2017
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Re: Dating A Lady Who Is Older Than You by abachaphilo(m): 4:01pm On May 08, 2017
i will not marry any woman older than me simple
Re: Dating A Lady Who Is Older Than You by Nobody: 4:01pm On May 08, 2017
clemz85:


Something about your language, where did you study?

I'm a foreigner, hence the little difference in expression. I hope that answers your question.

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Re: Dating A Lady Who Is Older Than You by tonychristopher: 4:06pm On May 08, 2017
it deepends, anytrhing more than 3 yrs is a no no for me....

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Re: Dating A Lady Who Is Older Than You by Marinee(f): 4:06pm On May 08, 2017
[quote author=BISIXCLUSIVE post=56324972][/quote] undecided undecided
Re: Dating A Lady Who Is Older Than You by Nobody: 4:08pm On May 08, 2017
sisisioge:
Hmmm...my take is:

Dating younger men may happen to any babe without her aiming for it. However, though they say age is nothing but number, don't be deceived. Stay away from younger men. This is African where men are the automatic head of the family, its a bit tedious for said men to be younger than their partners. No matter how cool you two start out to be with the age thing, it will creep in as time goes by. Especially when faced with real life situations where the woman gets a bit too vocal. Marry your mate or an older guy...don't invest emotions unnecessarily. Na word o.


Hi, I have a problem.
I never ever get attracted to older guys or even my age group, I love young guys alot and this is really affecting me as my boyfriend is 18 abi 19

older guys just ain't my thing and I know this is bad but I don't why or how to change it, I'm scared this is going to affect me
Re: Dating A Lady Who Is Older Than You by Nobody: 4:09pm On May 08, 2017
Marinee:
I just like older guys.. They are kinna cute and I can be childish and immature as much as I want around them. grin
They won't mind... they just gonn think "oh well..she's still a teen" grin

^
she's got daddy issues..
#redflag

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Re: Dating A Lady Who Is Older Than You by Nuvalga85(m): 4:10pm On May 08, 2017
I'm coming
Re: Dating A Lady Who Is Older Than You by agrovick(m): 4:10pm On May 08, 2017
As long as her puna is working fine, I've got no problem with dating someone older but definitely not the Emmanuel Macron type.

Older lasses rock

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Re: Dating A Lady Who Is Older Than You by Nobody: 4:10pm On May 08, 2017
As for me, I can't date a lady who is over 4 years older than me, nor more than 5 years younger
Re: Dating A Lady Who Is Older Than You by Marinee(f): 4:12pm On May 08, 2017
CorGier:


^
she's got daddy issues..
#redflag
Seriously??
SMH undecided undecided
Re: Dating A Lady Who Is Older Than You by agrovick(m): 4:15pm On May 08, 2017
Evaberry:



Hi, I have a problem.
I never ever get attracted to older guys or even my age group, I love young guys alot and this is really affecting me as my boyfriend is 18 abi 19

older guys just ain't my thing and I know this is bad but I don't why or how to change it, I'm scared this is going to affect me

Paedophile alert. grin

On a serious note, your happiness is what matters and as long as you are happy with someone younger and he feels same, then damn the consequences.

I hope the age gap is not too much though

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Re: Dating A Lady Who Is Older Than You by elsse(m): 4:15pm On May 08, 2017
Bae is 28 and am 24....and we have been dating for 4yrs n counting....numbers don't determine love[/b]

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Re: Dating A Lady Who Is Older Than You by BISIXCLUSIVE: 4:19pm On May 08, 2017
Marinee:
undecided undecided
No vex sis.
Re: Dating A Lady Who Is Older Than You by trilobite: 4:20pm On May 08, 2017
Marinee:
I just like older guys.. They are kinna cute and I can be childish and immature as much as I want around them. grin
They won't mind... they just gonn think "oh well..she's still a teen" grin

A good writer we have here. your marine kingdom text killed me. lol.
Re: Dating A Lady Who Is Older Than You by theSpark(m): 4:22pm On May 08, 2017
It's all good until they get impatient and feel the pressure to marry. Or are poached by more established guys.

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Re: Dating A Lady Who Is Older Than You by Lexusgs430: 4:24pm On May 08, 2017
I am looking to date a lady that is more older than me (possibly 10 years older). I hope she is more mature and financially able to look after me......
My desire ...........

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Re: Dating A Lady Who Is Older Than You by Elmojiid(m): 4:25pm On May 08, 2017
my wife is 2years older than me.....i av even date a lady that is 4years older than me.

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Re: Dating A Lady Who Is Older Than You by Marinee(f): 4:27pm On May 08, 2017
trilobite:


A good writer we have here. your marine kingdom text killed me. lol.
Lool..What about it?
Re: Dating A Lady Who Is Older Than You by sisisioge: 4:28pm On May 08, 2017
Evaberry:



Hi, I have a problem.
I never ever get attracted to older guys or even my age group, I love young guys alot and this is really affecting me as my boyfriend is 18 abi 19

older guys just ain't my thing and I know this is bad but I don't why or how to change it, I'm scared this is going to affect me

Hmmmm...so long as you are thinking about settling soon, my advice is for you to leave younger guys alone. Try to do all you can to wean yourself off them biko. By the way, there are some older guys with some juvenile tendencies and serious hot bodies...if that's the fancy.
Re: Dating A Lady Who Is Older Than You by dultmax(m): 4:29pm On May 08, 2017
I just don't know why I can't date anyone younger than I am... I can't cope.... My lady, a fellow nairalander is 6 yrs older than me

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Re: Dating A Lady Who Is Older Than You by DeepDarkTunnel: 4:29pm On May 08, 2017
elsse:
Bae is 28 and am 24....and we have been dating for 4yrs n counting....numbers don't determine love[/b]

Are you planning to get married to her... At 28 she should be thinking of marriage...
Re: Dating A Lady Who Is Older Than You by Fashek07(m): 4:29pm On May 08, 2017
what about a girl dating a guy and dude is 11years older than her?
Re: Dating A Lady Who Is Older Than You by Nobody: 4:31pm On May 08, 2017
sisisioge:
Hmmm...my take is:

Dating younger men may happen to any babe without her aiming for it. However, though they say age is nothing but number, don't be deceived. Stay away from younger men. This is African where men are the automatic head of the family, its a bit tedious for said men to be younger than their partners. No matter how cool you two start out to be with the age thing, it will creep in as time goes by. Especially when faced with real life situations where the woman gets a bit too vocal. Marry your mate or an older guy...don't invest emotions unnecessarily. Na word o.






I beg to disagree. What if the woman doesn't get too vocal? What if the younger guy is smart and wise with his behaviour towards her ?
Someone like me , am easily irritated and can flip if am dating an unintelligent guy , no matter the age .
And trust me some guys my age and n older have said some dumbb things and I will be like ? Does this guy think women are so naive ? WTF!
Not all younger guys are matured in most ways , likewise not all older guys are also matured upstairs .
For me, age is just a number as long as he doesn't look like my child and we have mutual level understanding . then am good to go ..
Am about tying the knots with my younger fiance .and its been bliss all way .

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Re: Dating A Lady Who Is Older Than You by Nobody: 4:31pm On May 08, 2017
Marinee:
Seriously??
SMH undecided undecided

it's the truth. All you (girls of your sort) bring is drama. Always wanting to be petted and indulged. . .sighs
Hey guess what? sometimes, we guys 'need' a mother figure too, not some big spoilt baby.

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Re: Dating A Lady Who Is Older Than You by oweniwe(m): 4:32pm On May 08, 2017
If you have gbensh older lady before... Those 35-40 ones... You won't like small girls again

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Re: Dating A Lady Who Is Older Than You by Marinee(f): 4:32pm On May 08, 2017
CorGier:


it's the truth. All you (girls of your sort) bring is drama. Always wanting to be petted and indulged. . .
Hey guess what? sometimes, we guys 'need' a mother figure too, not some big spoilt baby.
Hahaha..Wee you shuttup? grin undecided undecided

I can be a mommy too when I want grin angry angry
Re: Dating A Lady Who Is Older Than You by joenor(m): 4:33pm On May 08, 2017
Ya right to an extent, but you know our younger guys n girls want to still rock their youthfulness, so if you must date a younger girl or guy, there must be that line that can bind u 2 well.
ZarZar:
When people specifically go for younger men, that's when I find it a little predatory & disturbing. If it's something that just happened, I can see how it can become intriguing. Like there you are with junior in your arms, breaking society rules grin That's hot!

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