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mypassions:
Live with the pain forever but remember to treat your STD and always be proud of your ugly face.

And he is still showcasing his stupidity and empty head!!
Ugly yahooyahoo boy,how market??
You don't even have anything to say so just shut up and continue your stealing before EFCC go locate you oh!

lol insults thrown here and there .the answer to this question is simple.u are inviting this lady to ur home and this is the first time she is coming.u are the host and she"s the visitor.courtesy will demand u entertain her.when u both are familiar wit each other and shes spends time with u ...u wont be the one telling her to cook.ladies do things for men they are fond of.

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mypassions:
O ta la ra BYE!!!

Ga gbuo onwe gi! Quote me again like the fool you are. How many times will you say bye?? You are so hopeless I swear

God which day naija girls go get common sense

If you come to my house as my friend and I ask you to help me, so you won't do it?

ImaIma1:
He invited her to his house. He should entertain her if that means buying food. If i invite a guy to my house, i could cook for him or buy him food not ask him to buy his food when he is coming or enter the kitchen to cook.

ekems2017:
If you come to my house as my friend and I ask you to help me, so you won't do it?

Think! Oh Think! She's not coming to his house for the first time. She's coming to his house on a first date! She shouldn't cook. If someone is your friend already then Yh the person can cook. Also if they had gone on previous dates at a restaurant and she now decides to come to his house she should cook. But this is a FIRST DATE!!

thesuave10:
Everyone should hold up for a minute and listen to some wise advice.
First of all, there is ABSOLUTELY NOTHING WRONG in bringing a lady to your house on a first date. It's a moment of bonding and getting to know each other and there's no better place to let her know you than your house cuz she'll see pictures, know your style etc. However bringing your friends as well on a first date is fcking stupid and it doesn't make any sense at all.

Secondly, it is the duty of a woman to cook in a relationship. Period. However on a first date, the cooking should be done by the man or both of them. It's WACK and crazy for a guy to let a woman enter his kitchen and cook by herself on a first date(i swear some guys are crazy lol.. .)

gbam!

lefulefu:
gbam!

Cheers

lefulefu:
gbam!

Cheers..

Femlexx:
Alainikanse

TI N KU LO JO SUNNA

ekems2017:
If you come to my house as my friend and I ask you to help me, so you won't do it?

As your friend, I will cook you a village. Cooking comes naturally to me. I can make u love a dish u think u hate.

But do not make it my job and your right that I cook for you if you are wooing me and you invite me for a first date at your house. On our first date, you are already giving me test and assignment. Next date you will bring out dirty clothes.

like someone pointed out ealier I think the guy was considering marriage hence he asked you to cook for both you guys and friends I feel he was only accessing. her , If it a gurl he wanted to bang he would have head out for fast food and drinks so he can get down and get it over with. Lol this is a case of you use your hand to do your self

in actual sense the guy dumped you

Joy1706:
Take over fire. I'd just stay in the kitchen and keep you company.

Na so, Lol

hmmm

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majorbravo:
By the time she turns 30, she would be begging strangers to allow her cook for them.

For the post,

Point 1
How can you even dump someone you aren't dating yet? You say he is well to do so this dude can literarily get any girl he so wishes. If not for anything, He was probably thinking marriage while you were thinking boyfriend/girlfriend. Besides, Dude was doing you a favour, he wanted to give you an opportunity to impress his friends, he probably already told them a lot about you, and you know what that means if his friends adore you. You must suck at cooking to decline such an opportunity.

Point 2
If it's not a woman's responsibility to cook, then it shouldn't be a man's responsibility to pick the bills for the meal you ate. I expected you to have written that you paid the bills at the restaurant. Feminists and double standards.

Point 3
What makes you think he cant cook himself? Have you been the one cooking for him all the time he has been alone before you came along? Do you know if he was really hungry and too tired to drive out that he really needed help? Give you an example: If a really tall man were to come to your house on his first visit as a potential bf, and suddenly there was a power cut, you successfully turned on the generator but cos you are short you would usually climb a stool to change the power. Now your friends were there and this potential bf is a tall guy who actually stands behind you and watches you struggling to reach the switch. You kindly ask him to help you, and he tells you its not a man's responsibility. lol

Point 4
Do you know some men were raised not to eat out? They prefer to cook what they eat themselves. He even trusts you enough to taste food cooked by you when he barely knows you. Besides what do you think his friends would have said about you, if they saw you in his house as a potential wife to be, relaxed while he was in the kitchen. Dude could have done it himself, but he was mindful of the ridicule you could have faced if he was seen doing it himself while you were there. I'm trying to imagine your face swallowing those spoons of rice from the restaurant, Now you just proved to him and his friends that you aren't a match.

Point 5
Why have your first date in a guy's house if as you claim, you don't know him well enough? So saying it was a first date is not likely(ruled out), you probably knew him well enough to go spend time with him at his crib, dude aint no stranger. Ok, so it was a stay at home date, and they got hungry, was she expecting to see Ainsley Harriott jump out of the kitchen wearing an apron with a frying spoon in hand awaiting orders? Cos it would be unlikely to expect candle lit dinner on a first date. You don't accept dates of a skydiving nature if you're scared of heights, don't expect KFC when you are sitting it in at home for a date (perhaps Netflix and Chill was on her menu).

Well said bro

In as much as I may only ask you to cook for me if I'm really really tired and need it. Your behavior proves your unworthiness ma'am.

If you believe you dumped him, he dumped you too.

ericsmith:
was dat suppose to b a justificatn,,"wat if she cannt cook".. i thank God i live in a world diff. frm NL,,as much as i lik homemade food gurls that ar nt my bae cum cook fr me,, they bring up d offer ,,bring money lemme ... wu eatery epp
you cannt xpect sum1 lik me to take a date home n she wil tel me she cannt cook .. my bae asides cookin ,,she wash my cloths n @time brush my teeth fr me... am yet to see hw that lower her standard b4 me,,or makes her my slave cos she is free as air.
in naija our gurls ar turning crazy formin "slay queen" n i even wish vulgar language is enuf to get my point across!

Did you read the story very well at all? Only a greedy, mannerless, long-throat guy would expect a girl who is visiting his house for the very first time, to enter the kitchen and cook for him & his friends. The girl has not even agreed to be his girlfriend, because he is still toasting her since she has only known him for 2 weeks.

But the very first time the girl steps into the house, he expects her to resume kitchen duties. By the way, he doesn't even know if such a girl is a good cook, and he is asking her to also cook for his friends on a first date? What kind of behaviour is that? Some men have ended up eating 'jazz unknowingly, because of this kind of action.

Joy1706:
And a man should show his spending skills too. Take her shopping on a regular 1st date and spoil her

na u wan tell a man when to spend...is there no man dat does not spend on a woman...i beg get some real talk ok

i pity u ,,na ur type go de your parent house....till u reach 35 yrs...do you know if thats the test for u to get married.....de there de sharp mouth .....nonsense

Joy1706:
My friend shat ya dirty mouth. I shouldn't tell a man when to spend but he can tell me when to cook? Are you ok?
If I dey my parents house till 35 nko, what will happen? I live in a mansion and I'm over comfortable, so ur talk holds no water.
Test ko, test ni. If I ask you to pay my fees, sheybi you will pay because it might be my way of testing you. Go around testing women o and see if you'll not die a bachelor. Mumu

hmm iron lady Thatcher

lefulefu:
hmm iron lady Thatcher

Hahahahaha! Commot jor

[quote author=laudate post

But the very first time the girl steps into the house, he expects her to resume kitchen duties. By the way, he doesn't even know if such a girl is a good cook, and he is asking her to also cook for his friends on a first date? What kind of behaviour is that? Some men have ended up eating 'jazz unknowingly, because of this kind of action. [/quote]its well known dat sex happens even on first date scenes ..,.no big deal
the road to a man's heart is his stomach,...d lady in question wonnt av seen big deal in it,she no luv nii! a gurl giving sex or to cook on first date ,,which preserves her esteem??

Tnx deary,al d best.

mypassions:
Your mama train you well jare, the beauty of a woman is her character not her facial beauty.

Tnx deary,al d best.

Joy1706:
My friend shat ya dirty mouth. I shouldn't tell a man when to spend but he can tell me when to cook? Are you ok? If I dey my parents house till 35 nko, what will happen? I live in a mansion and I'm over comfortable, so ur talk holds no water.
Test ko, test ni. If I ask you to pay my fees, sheybi you will pay because it might be my way of testing you. Go around testing women o and see if you'll not die a bachelor. Mumu

Chai!! See as you dey vex! Take am easy, biko....

Joy1706:
My friend shat ya dirty mouth. I shouldn't tell a man when to spend but he can tell me when to cook? Are you ok?
If I dey my parents house till 35 nko, what will happen? I live in a mansion and I'm over comfortable, so ur talk holds no water.
Test ko, test ni. If I ask you to pay my fees, sheybi you will pay because it might be my way of testing you. Go around testing women o and see if you'll not die a bachelor. Mumu

then die ion your mansion.....idiot....so whats wrong in telling a woman to cook for you.....it may be a test it may be not

look as i am....sometimes girls cook for me for no good reason ....if i remember....just because thats the woman in them....you dont expect me to buy food stuff and keep at home and cook for a woman am dating....is that not stupidity upon a man....

kai dis generation

laudate:
Chai!! See as you dey vex! Take am easy, biko....

leave the baboon there.....make i see d man wey go marry you....infact can she cook ? dey there de feel over comfortable....

ajufinz:
This is a blogging stunt. Fabricated nonsense.
The picture here appeared on the YouTube l slept with 2thousand plus post.

she is for real. I sourced it.

Elesta:
Callous guy. He lacks respect for ladies.

am a guy and I agree with yu.

ACE1010:
So you think taking a picture of yourself and uploading it on nairaland will make think you're beautiful??
Let me advice you girl!! Your beauty can never guarantee you a responsible man, character does.

Mr what are trying to say? read again it's as if yu don't understand the post. yu are out of context.