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Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by ImaIma1(f): 8:43pm On May 11, 2017 |
Oluwasaeon: Pride?? Be reasonable here. Why should she cook on the first date? The guy obviously sees her as a help.The first day she is invited to hus house to cook for him and his friends. Next time he will say his toilet is dirty. That is how she will be slaving for him and his friends will be calling her "our wife" and he will end up marrying someone who does not do half of what she does. Most guys here seem to have one kind village mentality. When a woman refuses to be walked over, you say it is feminism or pride. So women should be fools. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by obadesanre: 8:53pm On May 11, 2017 |
If you are not filled with regrets why bring the topic for discuss? You should go and hide your face in shame because your pride has eluded you of good tidings |
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by Nobody: 9:01pm On May 11, 2017 |
ImaIma1: Men and woman are not equals. Have never been and will never be. Why are not asking, why she ate the food he bought and also got into his car to go home. Are those the signs of a strong woman. When she felt - asking her to cook (a woman's glorious duty - her pride and one of the things she uses to negotiate in a relationship), was demeaning; why did she remain in the house. She should have simply picked up her bag, and find her way home or the nearest mama put to wack. No, she sat in the house - waited for the guy to bring food, she ate and he dropped her at home. Madam, this girl was looking for a maga - nothing to contribute in a relationship only sex. And, thats all she had to offer. She rejected the guy because he respects gender roles, not because he asked her to cook. She could have simply spoke to him. Mr. A, if you want me to cook - we need to define this relationship - simple. But, that not what she and many girls in Nigeria want. They want man that they can enslave. When they don't find one, the switch to feminism instead of womens rights. |
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by Jokkarm2: 9:14pm On May 11, 2017 |
Your ego and foolishness did not allow you to bring your self down and cook or tell him to teach you if you don't know . You could have placed a very good record in his mind , I believ you dint know how to cook because girls that know how to cook will like to impress and demonstrate they can do it . You girls cause your self why you run to alter for husband. |
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by Jokkarm2: 9:18pm On May 11, 2017 |
Ok since you are in support because you are a woman like her , after you go and marry her When you get to 30 you start blaming people from village |
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by Bigsteveg(m): 9:30pm On May 11, 2017 |
missomo: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ltSTeZA6xMI The same girl that boast of sleeping with over 5000 men, i guess she is your role model. Keep it up dear |
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by Nofuckgiven: 9:32pm On May 11, 2017 |
mypassions:You are the worst dumb ass nigga I have ever come across in my entire life. So because a woman is bold enough to know she deserves better from fools like yourself who feel because your archaic and cave-mentality African culture deny women their God-given rights as humanbeings they can do whatever they please! You are so pained that you are still quoting me. Better just jump into the lagoon because feminism is here to stay and would only grow stronger. This isn't the stone age where you treat women anyhow and get away with it!! You are a gay fool who hates women and claims he has a girlfriend. Ode ni e,ko kan mi! Aboriyin ti gbale! Chineke kpogbu gi n'oku!! Dambrokoba!! Shege Dan banza!! Onye apari! You are a perfect definition of a bastard. Product of a Leaking Condom(PLC). 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by Bigsteveg(m): 9:38pm On May 11, 2017 |
YelloweWest: I remember your dad has always being the grand patron, its nice to see a daughter of another bastard man 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by mypassions(m): 9:44pm On May 11, 2017 |
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Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by Nofuckgiven: 9:51pm On May 11, 2017 |
mypassions:That is only what you can say! Compound fool! You just concluded on someone you have never seen what does that make you?? After calling me a lesbian, yet you say guys use and dump me! Do you know you have already ran mad?? Useless old gay lord!! Bastard gay who hates women! Even at 50 years you are not ashamed that your arsehole has been widened by dicks of different colors and sizes. Its people like you that whites use as gay slaves and Bleep their assholes daily!! Useless piece of shit!! Like I said earlier go and die!! You are totally hopeless!! 3 Likes |
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by Nobody: 9:55pm On May 11, 2017 |
vicfuntop:Yeah, this is where I wink Really. You're interpreting it as the guy issuing a command and relegating her to the kitchen, while the poor guy just wanted to feel loved. The expression "the way to a man's heart is through his stomach" isn't a metaphor, the best way to ingratiate yourself to a guy is by subconsciously reminding him of his mother's love (or the love he wished he'd been shown) by 'taking care of him'. But you ladies seem to view guys as unfeeling Hot babarians that just want sex. We have feelings, it feels good to be loved. Pity how all you could garner from the story was a power tussle the lady won. Shame 1 Like |
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by Nobody: 10:01pm On May 11, 2017 |
you are not my husband; you are not my brother heck you are not even a very close friend. why should I cook for you? 3 Likes |
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by Eaugusta(f): 10:01pm On May 11, 2017 |
sinaj:Nah the story didn't say he came to pick her to cook for him, the story is not really explicit and doesn't seem to be real. But if it is, then I still stand on my point because of the angle I viewed it from, we all have our own view to issues. It doesn't mean u r doing it for him to love u more sister, the fact that relationships either leads to marriage or not doesn't mean u will not be yourself, do what u are comfortable with not because u want him to love u more or settle down with you,but because u want to be you 1 Like |
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by ImaIma1(f): 10:15pm On May 11, 2017 |
TheCabal: Men and women might not be equal but none is inferior to the other. Cooking is not the issue. But a guy wont invite me for a first date and tell me to go and cook. He is meant to entertain me in his house not use her. If he visits her i am sure she wont tell him to go and help her wash her car. Nobody is a slave and they should respect each other. You cannot invite a lady to your house for the first time and you tell her to go and cook. I just asked my brother's opinion about this matter and his words were "not only cook rice...stew nko?" |
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by Nobody: 10:17pm On May 11, 2017 |
There's no english word for that
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Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by princessayesha(f): 10:28pm On May 11, 2017 |
SafeDavid:That's much better |
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by ajufinz(m): 10:44pm On May 11, 2017 |
rumenase: This is a blogging stunt. Fabricated nonsense. The picture here appeared on the YouTube l slept with 2thousand plus post. |
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by sinaj(f): 11:02pm On May 11, 2017 |
Eaugusta:It's fine tho. We all entitled to our opinion that's why we are unique. It's just that I wnt be comfortable doing that for a stranger (potential bf according to the passage) who might even have a gf that will end up coming over to eat my food. I can only cook for my close palz. |
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by mypassions(m): 11:11pm On May 11, 2017 |
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Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by mickeymoore: 11:11pm On May 11, 2017 |
My dear im so sorry for you.just because he asked ypu to cook dats y u dey keep body abi? Dont u know the money he used in buying food for you and hia friends from a fast food would have been yours when u wan go.so,so, so, so sorry for u |
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by deyemia: 11:15pm On May 11, 2017 |
The thing is, our ladies are all full of surprises. In my own experience, I actually cooked rice and plantain, very delicious. SHE DIDNT WASH HER PLATE WITH THE SAME EXCUSE. She said so as a visitor she should go and be washing plates in my kitchen. I didnt tell her to wash it all the while she was around, I just told her on the phone after I dropped her off, that she left her plate for me to wash and that I will keep it for her till next weekend. |
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by ameh99: 11:16pm On May 11, 2017 |
Another stupid olosho seeking cheap fame |
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by medra(m): 11:35pm On May 11, 2017 |
Omo ale wey no sabi cook.
awon slay oloribu..... |
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by Nofuckgiven: 11:56pm On May 11, 2017 |
mypassions:Who the gods want to kill,they first make him mad! Oga abeg stop disgracing yourself here! Its obvious you lack class and manners,how can you act like a tout and expect people to respect you?? I just feel pity for your jobless and broke ass because truth is men who have better things to do like making money do not come online to exchange words with women. You are so shameless and useless. I would never date a Yoruba man for any reason,when everyone knows you guys are demons. There are many responsible guys from my tribe and other tribes close to us that are willing to be in serious relationships. You really need to get a job and stop acting like an immature kid online. How old are you by the way? It would be a shame for your junior to be advicing you don't you think?? Use your sense small na and be a man,stop ranting like a woman on her period abeg!! 1 Like |
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by mypassions(m): 12:23am On May 12, 2017 |
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Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by Nobody: 12:26am On May 12, 2017 |
Hian. Cooking is no gender's 'responsibility'. If you like food, learn how to cook. Simple as that. As for the ".. Until you clock 30" mumus, no words yet for y'all 1 Like |
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by laudate: 12:27am On May 12, 2017 |
gprincead:Did you read the entire story very well? This was the girl's first visit to his house. They didn't know each other that well. But the guy get mind, o! No acquaintance or stranger can be allowed into my kitchen to cook for me, the very first time they visit my house. What if they put something into the food, behind my back? That is how some people have chopped 'love potion' unknowingly, because they were not careful enough to vet those they allowed to get close to them... Just saying! 1 Like |
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by laudate: 12:34am On May 12, 2017 |
Idreal22: Let me guess - you were over 30, single, desperately trying to hook the guy, afraid of being left on the shelf, and you already had a mega crush on him before he asked you out. 2 Likes |
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by laudate: 12:37am On May 12, 2017 |
missomo: Well said, sista! Preach it, I say pre-ea-ach! 1 Like |
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by laudate: 12:46am On May 12, 2017 |
ericsmith: That guy is the clueless one. On her very first visit into his house, he wants her to cook not just for him, but also for his friends?? He has not even tasted her cooking to know if it is palatable or not, yet he wants her to also include enough meals for his friends. That is a dumb thing to do! What if the food is tasteless, peppery, salty or prepared in an unhygienic manner? He will still pass it on to his friends, right? The same girl's cooking, which he has not even sampled yet? And yes, there is no need to use vulgar language to get your points across. |
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by chizobam7(f): 1:23am On May 12, 2017 |
One word - attention |
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by leofab(f): 1:51am On May 12, 2017 |
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