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Re: Should I Expose My Wife's EX? by Lloydfolarin: 11:41pm On May 27, 2017 |
eeby1983: Ode!!! You are the most foolish sissy boy on earth. Do you even know what love is all about? If a woman loves you, reporting you to ex or chatting with ex ll be the last thing on her mind. Women are naturally emotional and when they are in love, d emotion takes over their senses. If a lady is in love with you, she ll be mindful of her words towards you. Only a lady without feelings would say such stupid thing. Women are quite cunning, sharing those stories with him about her ex doesn't mean she is not sleeping with the ex. It could be any reason... Women are fucking smart when it comes to cheating. A devoted housewife ll cheat for years and nobody ll even suspect but as soon as you start as a man, d same week, she ll know. Women usually know cos that's their area of specialisation 9 Likes |
Re: Should I Expose My Wife's EX? by Nobody: 11:41pm On May 27, 2017 |
djeezy: I understand all you have said. The lady is admittedly immature. The truth is the op and his wife need to sit down and tell each other how they really feel. If they can do that, their marital issues will be reduced. Thank you for your compliment |
Re: Should I Expose My Wife's EX? by lilyheaven: 11:41pm On May 27, 2017 |
kaffy4tope:It is called, Okafor's law 1 Like |
Re: Should I Expose My Wife's EX? by mercy232(f): 11:42pm On May 27, 2017 |
But what kind of a man admires another lady's ass and bad enough was caught by his wife... u both aren't serious @all # there is 80percent of truth dat ur wife isn't cheating on u.. work on ursef first, then ur wife will be forced 2 respect u... # as for me, silent treatment is my weapon # 1 Like |
Re: Should I Expose My Wife's EX? by princeakinola1(m): 11:42pm On May 27, 2017 |
Let her understand as a husband that what she is doing is not good,even you can give some example of the bad woman and the good one around you,even u can talk to her with Bible,after this set a serious principle that u want for her and remember dont take things easy for her,so that she wil fear u&nt calling u mumu husband again,75% ladies need iron hands. |
Re: Should I Expose My Wife's EX? by PREBuhari2019: 11:43pm On May 27, 2017 |
am sorry to call your wife a LovePeddler which i just did. |
Re: Should I Expose My Wife's EX? by lilyheaven: 11:43pm On May 27, 2017 |
kaffy4tope: . |
Re: Should I Expose My Wife's EX? by djeezy(m): 11:44pm On May 27, 2017 |
missomo: True. Most relationships or marriages suffer due to lack of communication. Op and his wife should have a conversation and try to resolve their issues. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Expose My Wife's EX? by adontcare(f): 11:47pm On May 27, 2017 |
This is serious |
Re: Should I Expose My Wife's EX? by freshvine(f): 11:48pm On May 27, 2017 |
missomo: Morons can be found on this forum but there are significant percentage of intelligible individuals on here too so before you post anything it must be analytical, unbiased and have a watered down hypothesis to feed the sensible group here. Don't post cos oestrogen compels you. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Expose My Wife's EX? by Bangalee10(m): 11:49pm On May 27, 2017 |
1) Hit the gym, full body workout grow some muscles 2) Cut down on the beer/ in fact stop the beer. start drinking wine once in a while. 3) Create time for family, take them on vacations. 4) Bang your wife like 4 or more times in a week. Nack am well. You can even clean plate. 5) Pray with your family morning and night. 6) Speak good words to them With all this brotherly you will be a happy man. Find this movie to watch Prayer Room and Kama Sutra. 6 Likes |
Re: Should I Expose My Wife's EX? by Lloydfolarin: 11:49pm On May 27, 2017 |
grossintel: If your wife or girlfriend could say such thing to your face regardless of what you have done, you are as good as a living dead. You are just a living dead. It means you are nothing to her but a piece of shit. For a lady to utter such stupid statement to her husband... then d husband must be a dickless sissy man. Pls, keep that sermon to yourself and learn what women are all about... Have you seen how ladies who are in love with their boyfriends behave or talk to them as oppose the ones who aren't in love? If a lady is in love with you, she ll be so mindful of what she says to you so as not to lose you 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Expose My Wife's EX? by Nobody: 11:53pm On May 27, 2017 |
freshvine: Sigh. And you think it's smart to reply a "slowpoke". Twice? You can't even decide if you want to be male or female on this forum and I'm the one with hormonal issues? Lol. Hermaphrodite please walk away. This is the final recognition I'll give your attention seeking rump. |
Re: Should I Expose My Wife's EX? by Kakamorufu(m): 11:55pm On May 27, 2017 |
I went out to Bleep a man with a bigger dickk.. What impunity, what rubbish. My gf can't try that with me. She go hear am In addition. She has fuckedd that ex already and might have had it with another man that you don't even know. Okafor law at work here mehn. |
Re: Should I Expose My Wife's EX? by GuntersChain(m): 11:55pm On May 27, 2017 |
Maybe her ex was her first, ladies and there ex who seems to be there first I don't know the kind of attachment they do have. |
Re: Should I Expose My Wife's EX? by Kakamorufu(m): 11:56pm On May 27, 2017 |
lilyheaven:don't be a stranger |
Re: Should I Expose My Wife's EX? by freshvine(f): 11:59pm On May 27, 2017 |
missomo: Thought as much. Life time member of gender equalisation disorder group. |
Re: Should I Expose My Wife's EX? by angel4life: 12:01am On May 28, 2017 |
Please make peace with your wife. |
Re: Should I Expose My Wife's EX? by Nobody: 12:06am On May 28, 2017 |
@rogovo20, in this 6yr marriage or while courting, have u ever cheated on ur wife? Or has she ever caught u sexting. You left Dt part out cos I don't know where her distrust is coming from, u only detailed where ur own distrust is stemming from. The only reason this woman would distrust u so much & have d effontery to joke about having sex WT a bigger dick to get at u, is if uve cheated on her before. If dts d case, then please ull have to lay on d bed u made. When trust is broken, love disappears, all dts left is just convenience and resentment. I think ur wife is hurt. |
Re: Should I Expose My Wife's EX? by ehimon: 12:15am On May 28, 2017 |
Pls my brother letting his wife know will compound issues. Try ur best to make ur wife know that she will destroy her marriage by still seeing her ex. Her removing the wedding ring because you looked on a lady's ass is so funny. Instead of involving her ex's wife,I think is better to call the guy and threaten him that you are going to tell his wife what has been going on BTW him and your wife. If you do this I bet you the guy go use him hand run 44T from your wife. Again y will ur wife tell u jokenly that she went out to make love with guy's with bigger dick,I think you need to properly investigate that statement of her. She might be passing info to you but you fail to notice it. Cheers. |
Re: Should I Expose My Wife's EX? by AreaFada2: 12:17am On May 28, 2017 |
MrAlfa:Sharp sharp! |
Re: Should I Expose My Wife's EX? by Nobody: 12:18am On May 28, 2017 |
Take the children for a DNA. And she is a cheat. Send the ashawu wife of yours to where she belong,,., AMINU KANO CRESCENT WUSE 2 ABUJA. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Expose My Wife's EX? by Nobody: 12:19am On May 28, 2017 |
rogovo20:Hire private investigators.. Cheaters. |
Re: Should I Expose My Wife's EX? by Nobody: 12:21am On May 28, 2017 |
I don't understand why married couples are playing games and trying to psychologically hurt each other. Well, while stories like this one are not my usual, my principle on matters like this one is very clear. I WILL KICK YOU OUT! I don't care if we have 200 million children. I don't care if they are all infants. I don't care if they will be raised by another man. I don't care if your parents or my parents beg. I don't care what your pastor says. I wont be bothered if your village king begs. I wont bother about your siblings or mine begging. The fact that this is what I will do and the fact that this reaction from me is guaranteed saves me a lot of energy. 1. The lady knows way before we even get serious. You do it, and you are gone. THE BOUNDARIES ARE SET AND ARE CLEAR. 2. While I can't guarantee her fidelity, I can guarantee my reaction. I don't have to call or ask or go on Nairaland or Facebook etc. To ask what I should do. In principle what I will do is swift, clear, decisive and exacting. 3. My family and her family are aware of my no nonsense when it comes to other men. Whether ex or not. 4. I have ended relationships for much less e.g. accepting a phone gift from a guy; one was going out on a lunch date with a guy;Another was leaving my sitting room to go into the bathroom to answer a call from a "guy friend". 5. I am not begging any woman. Love or marriage is not compulsory. I can't trade a peaceful life for an embattled marriage or relationship. To me, as I pass through life, studies, work, volunteering etc. if I find love, then fine. If I don't, all good. Talk things out with your wife. Regardless of what we say or suggest, it will still be both your responsibilities to take action. Talk things out. Try to get an agreement that no more petty games from any of you. Then watch and see. Trying to expose the guy is giving him too much credit/regard. He did not force her to himself. I don't know why guys think their problem is with the other guy. If your wife allowed him, why blame him? Why fight him? Nah. Spare your energy for better things. Besides going headlong could spell more problems. Ignore him because no matter how you fight, if she wants, she will go back to him. 7 Likes |
Re: Should I Expose My Wife's EX? by Nobody: 12:23am On May 28, 2017 |
djeezy:But na the ones wey dem don get bring this kasala. Which other conversations? |
Re: Should I Expose My Wife's EX? by MurphyTheory99(m): 12:24am On May 28, 2017 |
All I can say here is nobody is sure if she has slept with ex or not. She is still attracted to him and May be the joy stick is actually bigger and better. You need to find a way into her phone and God help you she hasn't deleted their conversation. Get to know what has been happening between those two. Or involve his own wife if you can to get to his phone too. You both need to save your marrIages. If I was the one that her phone line sieze to exist. I'll get her a new sim. |
Re: Should I Expose My Wife's EX? by MMMscam: 12:24am On May 28, 2017 |
rogovo20: You see, a woman is never a finished product. She is always a raw material that you must continuously mold into the thing you want at that period. A woman is like a fluid, the man is the container and the molder of the container. A woman will take whatever shape of the container you put her in. Your work as a man is to put her inside the type of container that you can be happy with when she takes shape inside that container. It can be a strenuous job and an arduous task but the pleasure of seeing your woman conform into the kind of personality that you're proud of is priceless. I deduce from your naration that you have good wisdom in you, so I won't talk much because I know you will catch my points well. As a man, a husband and the head of your family, no matter how you love your wife, never give her total freedom, learn to set boundaries. I believe you're catching on well with my allusions and metaphors. Without pre-defined boundaries, a woman can inadvertently destroy anything, even the things she cherishes and loves. Let there be boundaries in communication, both to you and other people. There are somethings you should educate and mandate that your wife shouldn't say. Like telling you she was late because she went to have sex with a man who has a bigger dick than yours.Even if it's a joke or lie, such things should not be allowed. So set a boundary on the type of communication she makes. She is of course free to talk her mind, but let there be discipline in her communication. Next, is relational boundaries. Set boundaries on who she relates with and how far she can relate with such people. Personally, relating with ex's is a NO, but sometimes flexibility is required and there are some ex's that are still good friends. But this is where your intelligence is put to work. If there are ex's that she is allowed to talk to, #1 know who those ex's are #2 set boundaries on how far their communication can go e.g. No lonely visits. If they want to see her physically it must never be private or without your knowledge, and you must be present. #3 all texting app chats between them must be accessible to you. If she knows you will check her convos with her ex it will help keep her in check to make her check the ex from crossing the line when they chat on phone. Sometimes, my wife then, men will be messaging her but along the line I collect her phone and continue the chat and the other person doesn't know it's me and not she any longer. And sometimes along the line, some men cross the line and start flirting, thinking she is still the one on the end. Then i cut in, and say like, this is her husband, having a normal convo with my wife is ok, but flirting is unapologetically disallowed etc. Then the man corrects himself and me and my wife would laugh over it. Next time the man will be more circumspect because he doesn't know who is at the other end, whether it is me again. So he aborts his flirting mission etc. Build a strong partnership with your wife, let her know she is your bestfriend, show her she's your strongest teammate and teach her how to be a reliable teammate that is loyal and trustworthy. Never indulge unfaithfulness, make trust a vital non-negotiable requirement. Use wisdom to build your wife, and your wife will build you a happy home. All the best to you. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Expose My Wife's EX? by niyi123: 12:29am On May 28, 2017 |
kaffy4tope: You have said it all 1 Like |
Re: Should I Expose My Wife's EX? by BondExpert: 12:33am On May 28, 2017 |
Yes do so and free your conscience. |
Re: Should I Expose My Wife's EX? by djeezy(m): 12:35am On May 28, 2017 |
elfmann:The right conversation. Not about arguing whose right or wrong or the party that should be blamed. This one will enable them reach a consensus. The man should also man up. He's acting too weak. |
Re: Should I Expose My Wife's EX? by Bruglie(m): 12:37am On May 28, 2017 |
rogovo20:I feel you both dobt understand what marriage is all about. The problem is not the ex bf and us not your wife but you. U failed to be a Man and to be in control. To communicate with ur wife that's why she finds herself going to her ex bf to talk because u so far away. Women need strong hand and companionship. U need to let her know the bases of ur relationship, it is marriage not just sex relationship. So get her naked make good love to her , do it like a job till you know she is satisfied and talk senses into her empty brains while she is naked. Let her know what you want and what you can't tolerate. She shouldn't remove her ring for anything and she dare no make a joke of tasting another man's coke to ur face. That's an insult and a taboo. Let her know it will be to her disadvantage if the marriage fails and most let you both should give your life to Christ. Get a counsellor on marriage |
Re: Should I Expose My Wife's EX? by Nobody: 12:39am On May 28, 2017 |
djeezy:The woman is regretting marry him...even cash is there.. Sex is down the hill to her. Nothing d man can do. |
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