oluwashedy:
The reason why I've refused to comment on this thread long before now is because at some point in OP's life, a nice guy came to ask her out and she declined

motherfuckers:


You can't wait till marriage... FACT. That guy just hasn't understood your button. When the guy who knows how to press it comes, you won't know when those legs will be spread.

You don't want sex, what are you doing in a relationship?

preccy69:
hey,I fell in love couldn't help it

Peacefullove:


Bro, he agreed with the terms and lets say he couldn't cope anymore . he should Let her know, and finalise or end the relationship instead of cheating

motherfuckers:
lol. U had to answer. Actually, I don't take girls serious who say they are a virgin and want to wait after marriage. Let me ask: Are you in the uni already?

preccy69:
not yet

motherfuckers:
that's where you lost it... go write it down! And when u do, remember I told you it will happen.

preccy69:
i won't, its nt impossible, my libido is d main reason I wunt

motherfuckers:
madam, I have heard that before. Most girls have said same thing, my ex said same thing but in the end, they lost it. You think it's about libido? Lol. You never jam... all I know is that it will happen before you even know it.

pocohantas:

I've told you severally, you misunderstand me.

preccy69:
amen,I loved him nd it comes with sexual attraction,I couldn't help not kissing him,d sex part was an agreement, I knew it from d first day he touched me dat if he disvirgins me abstinence would b impossible,nd I didn't want to ruin my life dat way,its nt all about virginity but decency nd dignity,he was something else on bed,if we had sex,nd maybe breakup in future I myt become a freak,my libido is something else,I have my reasons for wanting to stay dis way till after marriage, if uve watched addicted u would understand me better, its nt easy but I thank God av nt started

motherfuckers:
madam, I have heard that before. Most girls have said same thing, my ex said same thing but in the end, they lost it. You think it's about libido? Lol. You never jam... all I know is that it will happen before you even know it.

preccy69:
amen,I loved him nd it comes with sexual attraction,I couldn't help not kissing him,d sex part was an agreement, I knew it from d first day he touched me dat if he disvirgins me abstinence would b impossible,nd I didn't want to ruin my life dat way,its nt all about virginity but decency nd dignity,he was something else on bed,if we had sex,nd maybe breakup in future I myt become a freak,my libido is something else,I have my reasons for wanting to stay dis way till after marriage, if uve watched addicted u would understand me better, its nt easy but I thank God av nt started

Kondomatic:
24 years old and he has the balls to have sex without locking his door?

KINGOFJAPAN:

KINGOFJAPAN:
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motherfuckers:
madam, I have heard that before. Most girls have said same thing, my ex said same thing but in the end, they lost it. You think it's about libido? Lol. You never jam... all I know is that it will happen before you even know it.

KINGOFJAPAN:
Dick ain't that bad tho. It'll transform you, you should try it.

Rukkydelta:

Thank God is most girls and not all girls
When I gained admission newly most people tell me what you are saying now but fortunately for me I am in my 200L and non of such has happened. Remaining 2years for me and I pray that God will help me through

preccy69:
this is wot I mean, it myt nt b a virtue but self control is,nd abstinence is d best way I can control myself

preccy69:
yea cos she was in love with d wrong guy,nd right guy is not written on d forehead,dey no dey smell am for nose,u all act nice at first

Fucktensei:
do you wannk off?

preccy69:
I don't knw hw to start,ok
am just 19,we've been dating for a year nd six months now,we r crazily in love,I think I love him more,recently he's been acting strange no love texts messages,kisses, nd all d things he used to do,I miss d man I fell in love with, he's changed everything about him,so I went to see him on Saturday, nd he was on bed with another girl,he didn't even notice dat I opened door till I shut,den he came after me,he's 24,up to dis moment I can't bliv he cheated on me truth is we r nt having sex I asked if he could wait till after marriage nd he was cool with it,I confronted him nd all he could say was how long was I expecting him to stay,without sex,guys is it fair??u have a girl dat loves nd respects u,cares for u,its nt like he even asked me for it,I feel so hurt,he's been banging her for months nw,but is it all about d sex u guys getis itu myt b thinking dat it has to do with money but its doesn't I just wanted to b happy with him,dats all,we were close to taking an oath last year,but cos of his exams he couldn't come,he later convinced me to drop d idea my question is, are their good guys,is it all about a pair of legs dat spread

mikejegede:


yes its all abt the sex oo..you've been giving him eba without soup na..what do u expect him to do..

mixter:
A lot has been said already, but here is what I think.
Stay away from dating for a while and every form of relationship, thus allowing and giving yourself time to heal. According to what you wrote earlier, he wasted 18months of your life. Good thing you've had the experience at a tender age. Do not hate men, see it as one of those things that happens in life (shits), I know it hurts ,but you just have to pick yourself and move on. Good luck in your endeavors.
Concentrate on your academics. You still have a long way to go.

motherfuckers:
OP said after marriage... will urs be after marriage? Can u resist the temptation?

preccy69:
I don't knw hw to start,ok
am just 19,we've been dating for a year nd six months now,we r crazily in love,I think I love him more,recently he's been acting strange no love texts messages,kisses, nd all d things he used to do,I miss d man I fell in love with, he's changed everything about him,so I went to see him on Saturday, nd he was on bed with another girl,he didn't even notice dat I opened door till I shut,den he came after me,he's 24,up to dis moment I can't bliv he cheated on me truth is we r nt having sex I asked if he could wait till after marriage nd he was cool with it,I confronted him nd all he could say was how long was I expecting him to stay,without sex,guys is it fair??u have a girl dat loves nd respects u,cares for u,its nt like he even asked me for it,I feel so hurt,he's been banging her for months nw,but is it all about d sex u guys getis itu myt b thinking dat it has to do with money but its doesn't I just wanted to b happy with him,dats all,we were close to taking an oath last year,but cos of his exams he couldn't come,he later convinced me to drop d idea my question is, are their good guys,is it all about a pair of legs dat spread

NaeChris:
Do you make him spend on you involuntrily? If yes, that could be a reason. If not, asking for sex very occasionally is quite normal(body no be wood) but abstainance is the best though.