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Re: Married Men, Please What Exactly Are You Enjoying In Your Marriage? by IamaNigerianGuy(m): 6:52pm On Jun 04, 2017
Godfullsam:
D only reason why I am still married is because of my beautiful sharp and wonderful daughter.

She is the only joy I have in my marriage right now.

This right here is why I dread getting married. Human beings are very complex organisms and it is very difficult to achieve compatibility. But people make it seem as if it's as simple as waving a wand.

Still curious to hear from the married people on NL.

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Re: Married Men, Please What Exactly Are You Enjoying In Your Marriage? by Destined2win: 7:25pm On Jun 04, 2017
Lalasticlala pls take this to front page
Re: Married Men, Please What Exactly Are You Enjoying In Your Marriage? by tuscani: 11:29pm On Jun 04, 2017
Sorrow, tears and blood

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Re: Married Men, Please What Exactly Are You Enjoying In Your Marriage? by Destined2win: 6:26pm On Jun 05, 2017
tuscani:
Sorrow, tears and blood
I know you are joking. Please stop
Re: Married Men, Please What Exactly Are You Enjoying In Your Marriage? by tuscani: 6:39pm On Jun 05, 2017
Destined2win:
I know you are joking. Please stop
well you may not believe. If you are not married, my dear look carefully. Your wife or husband to be must be your choice. Do not give in to any advice from any one. Just be sure of your choice of a life partner. I repeat, sorrow tears and blood

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Re: Married Men, Please What Exactly Are You Enjoying In Your Marriage? by redcurry(f): 6:40pm On Jun 05, 2017
tuscani:
well you may not believe. If you are not married, my dear look carefully. Your wife or husband to be must be your choice. Do not give in to any advice from any one. Just be sure of your choice of a life partner. I repeat, sorrow tears and blood
Hmmmmm.
Re: Married Men, Please What Exactly Are You Enjoying In Your Marriage? by Destined2win: 6:41pm On Jun 05, 2017
tuscani:
well you may not believe. If you are not married, my dear look carefully. Your wife or husband to be must be your choice. Do not give in to any advice from any one. Just be sure of your choice of a life partner. I repeat, sorrow tears and blood
Hmm. I will get the opposite of all these. Thanks for the advice though.
Re: Married Men, Please What Exactly Are You Enjoying In Your Marriage? by tuscani: 6:43pm On Jun 05, 2017
Destined2win:
Hmm. I will get the opposite of all these. Thanks for the advice though.
big amen. I do not even wish my enemy this. But in praying, remember : laborare est orare

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Re: Married Men, Please What Exactly Are You Enjoying In Your Marriage? by Wiretransfer: 6:45pm On Jun 05, 2017
I am scared of marriage cos of the responsibilities involved.
I think marriage is an unnecessary burden especially with kids.
It becomes more difficult to achieve your goals and dreams as you are now responsible for others and not yourself alone. Coupled with the economic situation in this country.
I sometimes feel for my married colleagues and friends cos its really not easy.
Family issues, In-laws, Kids, Health, School fees, disagreements with spouse e.t.c
not worth it.

I do not look forward to getting married. I dont even think about it. NOT A THOUGHT

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Re: Married Men, Please What Exactly Are You Enjoying In Your Marriage? by Destined2win: 6:55pm On Jun 05, 2017
Wiretransfer:
I am scared of marriage cos of the responsibilities involved.
I think marriage is an unnecessary burden especially with kids.
It becomes more difficult to achieve your goals and dreams as you are now responsible for others and not yourself alone. Coupled with the economic situation in this country.
I sometimes feel for my married colleagues and friends cos its really not easy.
Family issues, In-laws, Kids, Health, School fees, disagreements with spouse e.t.c
not worth it.

I do not look forward to getting married. I dont even think about it. NOT A THOUGHT
Really? Iono what informed your perception
Re: Married Men, Please What Exactly Are You Enjoying In Your Marriage? by Destined2win: 6:56pm On Jun 05, 2017
tuscani:
big amen. I do not even wish my enemy this. But in praying, remember : laborare est orare
Ah. Amen. Thanks.
Re: Married Men, Please What Exactly Are You Enjoying In Your Marriage? by tuscani: 6:58pm On Jun 05, 2017
Destined2win:
Ah. Amen. Thanks.
did you check the meaning of laborare est orare

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Re: Married Men, Please What Exactly Are You Enjoying In Your Marriage? by Destined2win: 7:05pm On Jun 05, 2017
tuscani:
did you check the meaning of laborare est orare
Was about asking you just that now. Said amen for not wishing your enemy that
Re: Married Men, Please What Exactly Are You Enjoying In Your Marriage? by tuscani: 7:27pm On Jun 05, 2017
Destined2win:
Was about asking you just that now. Said amen for not wishing your enemy that
it means to work is to pray.

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Re: Married Men, Please What Exactly Are You Enjoying In Your Marriage? by Destined2win: 7:28pm On Jun 05, 2017
tuscani:
it means to work is to pray.
OK. Thanks.
Re: Married Men, Please What Exactly Are You Enjoying In Your Marriage? by Olivers(m): 4:40am On Jun 06, 2017
The Jogbodos gave birth to triplet after 20 years. So what's big about this?
Re: Married Men, Please What Exactly Are You Enjoying In Your Marriage? by dingbang(m): 4:44am On Jun 06, 2017
sisisioge:


Suddenly you don't wanna be President anymore? Hmmm, shows just how unreliable you are tongue. I want a guy that is steadfast and definitely not rigid cool You have a dream Mr. President... Don't get swayed by skirts grin

Dyt, come see your man o.
nice one...
Re: Married Men, Please What Exactly Are You Enjoying In Your Marriage? by udumosam23(m): 4:46am On Jun 06, 2017
I don't have much friends. The few I have are damn good liers and betrayers. I guess I've not been too lucky with friends.

I however, find a good friend in my wife. She is a definition of truth and loyalty. She has a sense of humour, she plays a lot, but even in her jokes, you'll not find falsehood.

I also like good food, and she's made me believe I've been living on junk.

We have made 2 kids, they're so wonderful. The day she left them with me for a whole day, I realize she deserve payment for a full time job. The day she took them along with her I felt free and had a sense of relief for a while.

But later on, I realise I was so lonely and bored. No activity could fulfil my joy.

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Re: Married Men, Please What Exactly Are You Enjoying In Your Marriage? by timilehin007(m): 4:56am On Jun 06, 2017
Children
Re: Married Men, Please What Exactly Are You Enjoying In Your Marriage? by timilehin007(m): 5:03am On Jun 06, 2017
Godfullsam:


You won't understand

I can relate very well blv me...just like you, my cute little daughter is still d reason y I am enduring...
Kó easy rara in my next life, if by chance I come again I would just get a surrogate mother to bear my babies they wouldn't be plan for marriage..not in another life time

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Re: Married Men, Please What Exactly Are You Enjoying In Your Marriage? by seguntijan(m): 5:04am On Jun 06, 2017
Just pray for the right person and your life seems perfect, the feeling of companionship, the only sure team work, the fun associated to it LEGALLY and the fruits that comes along it.

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Re: Married Men, Please What Exactly Are You Enjoying In Your Marriage? by abescom: 5:07am On Jun 06, 2017
I have been married for a little less than two years. The benefits are awesome.

1. Marriage gives me the assurance of a better future. I am a team player and my wife seems to have complemented me a lot in this aspect. She gives me the energy to keep going. She is like a torchlight into the future for me.

2. As all women are, my wife is so annoying but for the most part for the best. She gets the best of out me and knows how to help put my anger in check.

3. No more laulau spending. We building a future.

4. Some will be hypocritcal about this. But truth is I was depressive before we got married but she has helped fight that. Not by doing anything really but the more thoughts of her and my daughter gives me hope that I am going places.

5. Before I got married, I average between 700k to 1m per month in profit. I make less but have more than. I make less as I have to now combine with school. But we surprisingly have more. Part of what almost turned me to a pyscaritic patient.

6. I enjoy the thought of going out and knowing my wife and my daughter will welcome me home. You just give me an appointment then watch how I will lose interest in it all once it is approaching 6pm and I am not done with you.

7. My daughter. Just have a child first to understand this benefit.

8. My health became better because I all of a sudden became grateful and while being grateful I forgot my past hurts, I forgot how life was unfair to me. She opened my eyes.

9. My in laws. Nuff said on this benefit.

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Re: Married Men, Please What Exactly Are You Enjoying In Your Marriage? by doskie(m): 5:10am On Jun 06, 2017
frenzydilz:
Marriages are different bro. Wait to experience yours
this is the truth.

your friend may have married a sharer, and you end up marrying a taker. it wont be the same.

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Re: Married Men, Please What Exactly Are You Enjoying In Your Marriage? by Nobody: 5:12am On Jun 06, 2017
tuscani:
Sorrow, tears and blood
This statement just reminded me of spartacus and other gladiator movies i have watched.So you mean your marriage has become an arena where you and your partner fight like gladiators? shocked God help us oh

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Re: Married Men, Please What Exactly Are You Enjoying In Your Marriage? by omooba969(m): 5:14am On Jun 06, 2017
Lexusgs:


Marriage is a school of compromise, togetherness, fulfilling tendencies, companionship, understanding, been humble, accepting flaws etc etc etc

If you get all of the above wrong and more, the union would be like hell on earth........

Get it right, and it would be a joyful and fulfilling experience.....

There's no definite formula to a successful marriage. It is tricky, it can make you & it can destroy you. In marriage, the test/challenges will come unannounced but if the feelings are mutual the efforts will be equal & you both shall come out unscathed - victorious & stronger.

You both need to do some serious talking & agree on lines not to cross in your marriage, then ensure to honour your agreement. Don't be harsh to each other but address everything in love, let maturity play. When you're angry do not decide anything nor say anything other than what is constructive & edifying. It is important to choose your words carefully because words do hurt.

Life is what you make of it.

Let me stop here. cool

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Re: Married Men, Please What Exactly Are You Enjoying In Your Marriage? by Nobody: 5:15am On Jun 06, 2017
Destined2win:
I really look forward to getting married; currently searching but just like I have read and seen all over the place, marriage comes with a lot of challenges.

A lot of you guys are married and have decided to stay married because of one thing or the other. Now there must be something that has made you to stick to that decision no matter what.

Please I ask that you kindly share so that people here can learn.
What are you enjoying in your marriage that you look at and conclude that you are not going to quit.

Please kindly share. Thanks.
Happiness for both of you
Re: Married Men, Please What Exactly Are You Enjoying In Your Marriage? by Efewestern: 5:19am On Jun 06, 2017
Godfullsam:
D only reason why I am still married is because of my beautiful sharp and wonderful daughter.

She is the only joy I have in my marriage right now.

hm.. is your wife the nagging type?
Re: Married Men, Please What Exactly Are You Enjoying In Your Marriage? by adecz: 5:20am On Jun 06, 2017
Nothing ohhh.. undecided

Many ppl dey marry because
society demands it.

Everything obtainable in marriage you
can get outside marriage at cheaper
cost & less stress for both 'victims'.

Marriage is simply overrated.

But, how man for do?? sad

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Re: Married Men, Please What Exactly Are You Enjoying In Your Marriage? by omooba969(m): 5:22am On Jun 06, 2017
doskie:
this is the truth.

your friend may have married a sharer, and you end up marrying a taker. it wont be the same.

Re: Married Men, Please What Exactly Are You Enjoying In Your Marriage? by doskie(m): 5:24am On Jun 06, 2017
[quote author=omooba969 post=57235086][/quote] yay!!! watin be dis oooohhhh i don run

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