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Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by bukatyne(f): 12:39pm On Jun 08, 2017 |
johnson232: I haven't said the BIL did it deliberately... that's another discussion; It is the fact that 1. The husband did not scold his brother especially in front of his wife to ease her embarrassment and asking her why she is making a issue out of nothing ----- Disrespect 2. The BIL barging into his brother's marital room without knocking ---- Disrespect The apology is not enough... the fact he never does it again. 1 Like |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by Nobody: 12:46pm On Jun 08, 2017 |
bukatyne:Let me ask you a question on the highlighted, you seem to understand these men more. Why do some men think it's okay for their wives to be embarrassed publicly, but the culprit has to be scolded privately? I'm sure a single firm word from her husband would have easd her embarrassment like you implied. 1 Like |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by Nobody: 12:57pm On Jun 08, 2017 |
SmartyPants: Sure bro....the husband mezz hup big time,he didn't take a stand on the matter.....signs of weakness......am sure a number of us on the forum will learn a tin or 2 1 Like |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by Skubidude(m): 12:57pm On Jun 08, 2017 |
Delphi:Best post n advice so far. 1 Like |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by Nobody: 1:11pm On Jun 08, 2017 |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by bukatyne(f): 1:13pm On Jun 08, 2017 |
technicallyrich: Are you seriously a lady? Wawu! 1 Like |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by bukatyne(f): 1:17pm On Jun 08, 2017 |
AreaFada2: You need to paste this on the wall. |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by peacengine(m): 1:20pm On Jun 08, 2017 |
If I barged in on my sister in law, I will leave immediately not stand moping unless i like what I'm viewing 1 Like |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by Samsonklin(m): 1:26pm On Jun 08, 2017 |
richyblink1:This is anoda pussy ass niqqa.... So, I should fight my broda because of what? If I have a bro Like u, wetin I wan cum find for ur house.. Mitchew 1 Like |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by Samsonklin(m): 1:28pm On Jun 08, 2017 |
johnson232:I swear, u get sense. If DAT guy na NY broad, I nor go near him ouse 1 Like |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by bukatyne(f): 1:40pm On Jun 08, 2017 |
PaperLace: Honestly, i don't understand what runs through the average Nigerian males' mind. This thread is unbelievable! CC: Onegai 1 Like |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by Water101(f): 1:44pm On Jun 08, 2017 |
Barzinime:mad-furious in the sense that he will show his annoyed and give strict warning.d op husband did non of dat.and am nt saying he shud go into d ring and throw blows. |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by Water101(f): 1:50pm On Jun 08, 2017 |
Organs:Is gud to be cautious,this days u see things happen 4rm pple u list expect dem 4rm.i agree with u i have trust issues alot perhaps it 4rm personal experience. |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by Barzinime(m): 1:54pm On Jun 08, 2017 |
Ok thanks for explaining better You're one of the few on here with wisdom. Answered without an insult Water101: 1 Like |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by Nobody: 2:12pm On Jun 08, 2017 |
MissIndependent:#Thatsright |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by Organs(m): 2:12pm On Jun 08, 2017 |
Water101: Its good you admit it. Now time to address it cos you might drive away the good people just because you distrust them, its not them, its you. An after one former girlfriend of mine blocked me from entering her 4 year old daughter's room because the 4 yr old was naked, can you imagine, 4 years old, naked.... anyways i asked her that soo, i cant shower her daughter, she went crazy for me to even ask that question, oh girl na there we share the garri, i carry my own waka leave her with hers. She and her family beg tire, say she get trust issues and phobia of her daughter being abused. She come go register with therapist to deal with the trust issue. I said God forbid, i neva born, i dey consider am cos of other qualities wey i see and the trust issue scatter everything for me, because she thinks in her head that i or any man around her can potentially hurt or abuse her daughter. anyways, i have daughters of my own now and she'd emailed me in 2015 telling me that her daughter had had 2 false accusations of inappropriate behaviour against her peers at age 9. She said she'd messed up her daughter with her trust issues. |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by MARKETfund: 2:34pm On Jun 08, 2017 |
Delphi: Sound and logical analysis! 1 Like |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by johnson232: 2:38pm On Jun 08, 2017 |
bukatyne:Nothing unusual is running through our mind, just Perception...It's natural... |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by eyinjuege: 3:16pm On Jun 08, 2017 |
Barzinime: A simple "Can't you knock?" By Ops husband immediately would probably have sufficed 3 Likes |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by HaneefahRN(f): 3:18pm On Jun 08, 2017 |
PaperLace: Amen. Don't mind them. You can notice it's mostly single guys, some of who are known women haters that seem to support it. They would support anything obviously wrong as long as the woman takes the blame. 4 Likes |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by Nobody: 3:22pm On Jun 08, 2017 |
After reading some of these comments, I have come to the conclusion that many Nigerians on nairaland lack home training. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by HaneefahRN(f): 3:30pm On Jun 08, 2017 |
kaymart: You weren't there, it is her story so you saying you won't agree with something doesn't mean it didn't happen. I am certain the woman would have gotten quickly over the embarrassment if he had said 'I'm sorry' while immediately leaving the room upon seeing she was naked, immediate turn out of the room. He can nau come back later to apologize after she is covered. And let's assume he was shocked and his brain couldn't process he was supposed to leave, the husband should have spoken up, 'leave and do not barge in like that next time without knocking'. And the case would have died there. I think the op is more shocked the husband took the matter with such levity. I get and understand your point too though About me contacting you or the other way round, sorry, don't bother. 2 Likes |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by salesforce: 4:09pm On Jun 08, 2017 |
On.purpose or |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by teozey111(m): 5:39pm On Jun 08, 2017 |
iyaayi:shebi d guy apologize abi you want make him brother behead am or be-eye am?mbok |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by MiddleDimension: 6:12pm On Jun 08, 2017 |
Organs: thank you so much with this response! Today, it is becoming even more difficult to be a man because the media and the heavily financed and supported feminist culture of that we now live in has made many people to mistrust men and see every single man as a criminal rapist even before he ever thinks of immorality. On this forum sometime ago, a person came up with a thread (i really cannot remember what it was all about), but one reply a lady who is very much like bukatyne in attitude said was: you should ask the little girl if her father was touching her. Anyway, she said this even when from the story, it doesn't look like any kind of abuse was possible. Today, to ruin a man, just tell the world he is abusing a child. Today, being a single father taking care of a daughter is even more difficult because people will automatically suspect you and go behind to ask the daughter if the father touches her. They think this way because they feel men cannot live without sex and a single father taking care of a daughter will definitely be touching her. Our roles in our daughter's lives is even more difficult to play out. We can't get involved in our daughter's lives like we would have loved to and this is all the fault of the shameful feminist culture we now live in. 1 Like |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by nedsly: 6:17pm On Jun 08, 2017 |
bukatyne: So you advice he scolds the brother in front of the wife to ease her embarrassment? Apology is not enough, what more do u advice? |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by Edum13656: 9:09pm On Jun 08, 2017 |
donkilidon: it might not be deliberate. When I was in school our female hostel mates always accuse my roomie and I of coming into their rooms whenever they finished bathing so see if we can accidentally see them unclad. |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by eyinjuege: 9:32pm On Jun 08, 2017 |
MiddleDimension: I doubt if feminism has anything to do with people being careful about their daughters. Let us be honest with ourselves, the world is a dangerous place for children. Many women today were victims of sexual abuse as a child, by trusted family members, and their parents never even knew about it right under their noses. Some were also violated by their fathers. I've read of at least 2 different stories on NL of fathers impregnating their biological underage children. The abuse had started years earlier before they even became teenagers. Step children even face worse. How about this new one now- male children are also no longer safe. The world has become so corrupt, that as a parent, you cannot afford to be careless. You just cannot. Pedophiles are everywhere and I fear we don't have the records or statistics in Nigeria. They are plenty. They appear like normal people, professionals, artisans, religious etc but their hearts are darker than what you can imagine. There was a time Amber alerts became a regular almost daily thing in some parts of the US. I repeat, the world is a dangerous place. 3 Likes |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by bencarson007(m): 9:41pm On Jun 08, 2017 |
Davash222: Oga, its her bedroom... Her sacred chamber where things dey happen on a coded level and where she can open yansh as she likes and not a supermarket you walk into anytime you like...even her kitchen is scared bros not to talk of her room... BTW, the husband is an idiot... Why not caution his brother to always knock b4 entry ? 2 Likes |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by bencarson007(m): 9:48pm On Jun 08, 2017 |
Caustics: Ur comment no make sense at all... She has to speak out so next time that nigga knocks b4 entering her sacred chamber and for her husband to say sometin would have calmed her down... Stay there talking about escalation and not being bothered about being naked until the woman gets raped.... Its called her bedroom and not a dancing floor or a supermarket... Even old mama dey try cover her nyansh not to talk of youngitos... Bros abeg no talk like this again o... No insults intended sha 3 Likes |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by bencarson007(m): 10:05pm On Jun 08, 2017 |
technicallyrich: Ur words are mean ... I doubt if u r truly a woman... |
Re: My Brother In Law Barged Into My Room While I Was Unclad!! by Organs(m): 10:47pm On Jun 08, 2017 |
MiddleDimension: Excellent point my brother. I run away from people mostly women with that kinda mentality and yes there are lots of them out there. 1 Like |
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