Till date, b4 I got married, have had several gf's, but one thing I always respect myself for is the ability to stay with one regardless of the temptation out there. That alone, made me feel that I archived one hell of a strong man;s will.

Tearless:
Yes, exactly right. He is. A bold one at that.

So because i support polygamy i am now a cheat smh

Fourwinds:
no matter d story she has no excuse.... .



many of u don't know what loyalty means.: d u know Rose in Titanic never got married again....do u know members of Spartacus team fought to death because of what they believe....do u know 300 Spartans died for what they believe even with sweet promises from their adversary.?

Bro Rose in Titanic got married Again ***Know your fact now.

After 8 yrs together I found out he cheeted I threw 90% alcohol in his eyes he was blind for 3 days in the hospital

Patheos:


So because i support polygamy i am now a cheat smh

A dumb woman with skull bored by termites, giving worms access to her brain to feast on it, came out to tell ladies that "Cheating DOES NOT make your husband bad", and you said "She's RIGHT" , so in what way are you NOT an advocate for cheating, who believes that a GOOD HUSBAND cheats?

Moreover, the following are your very own words, dude:

Patheos:
Nigga i paid her bride price in other words(which i know say go pain some gals here )i bought her, I use what i buy what i buy does not use me abi she pay my groom price

What kind of fuc_king justification could there be for this kind of statement?

Even if you claim to only support polygamy, marrying another woman WITHOUT YOUR WIFE'S CONSENT is cheating.. You have no right to do as you please, 'cause your wife is not your slave. And talking about consent, what kind of man makes this kind of offer to his wife, "Hey, honey, I'll like to take in another wife. Am I allowed?"? Do you know how much that kind of sh!tty question would hurt your woman? Even if you would be marrying another wife, your wife should be the one to suggest that, then you wouldn't be causing her any hurt feelings, since that would mean it comes right from the bottom of her heart, and she knows her reasons. Only then will polygamous men like you have the excuse to marry another woman. You can't force it on your wife. And, the interesting thing is, most faithful men wouldn't oblige such request by their wives.

faithchubby93:
That was how I paid him a surprise visit and found him in lala land. I waited outside the room for him to finish, guess what the idiot said next He said he was teaching the girl Bible study that he has converted the girl to a christian. He didn't know that I already saw both of them through the window. I started laughing like a mad person

Lmmaoo!! Epic!

Realhommie:
Your story is very very similar to mine.. Haba, fear women and fear who no fear women oooo..

I dey tell u my brother.

Tearless:
A dumb woman with skull bored by termites, giving worms access to her brain to feast on it, came out to tell ladies that "Cheating DOES NOT make your husband bad", and you said "She's RIGHT" , so in what way are you NOT an advocate for cheating, who believes that a GOOD HUSBAND cheats?

Moreover, the following are your very own words, dude:



What kind of fuc_king justification could there be for this kind of statement?

Even if you claim to only support polygamy, marrying another woman WITHOUT YOUR WIFE'S CONSENT is cheating.. You have no right to do as you please, 'cause your wife is not your slave. And talking about consent, what kind of mine makes this kind of offer to his wife, "Hey, honey, I'll like to take in another wife. Am I allowed?"? Do you know how much that kind of sh!tty question would hurt your woman? Even if you would be marrying another wife, your wife should be the one to suggest that, then you wouldn't be causing her any hurt feelings, since that would mean it comes right from the bottom of her heart, and she knows her reasons. Only then will polygamous men like you have the excuse to marry another woman. You can't force it on your wife. And, the interesting thing is, most faithful men wouldn't oblige such request by their wives.

That was an answer to a quote and i was being sarcastic abi u no see my stand(which is my support for polygamy) when u were quoting me upandan d whole thread

Patheos:



That was an answer to a quote and i was being sarcastic abi u no see my stand(which is my sulport for polygamy) when u were quoting me upandan d whole thread

Alright. If that was sarcasm, then I blame myself for not seeing it. However, do you agree that you need your wife's consent before you can satisfy your polygamous cravings?

NwaNimo1:
I said the woman pounced on my Dick when I wasn't looking just as she was walking in.....

She believed me the first 3 times....

D girl na imbecileee..??

Tearless:
Alright. If that was sarcasm, then I blame myself for not seeing it. However, do you agree that you need your wife's consent before you can satisfy your polygamous cravings?

Patheos:

Guys like me are the type that table it down to a girl the type of man that they want to marry so if they are not comfortable with it the door is open

This part of my post answers your question, she will know before hand and if she is cool with it no problem ,if not we both move on....Marriage is not for all

That's why i need girls with like-minds which i know are kinda rare but i hope to be lucky

Patheos:
This part of my post answers your question, she will know before hand and if she is cool with it no problem ,if not we both move on....Marriage is not for all

That's why i need girls with like-minds which i know are kinda rare but i hope to be lucky

Then I misunderstood you from the start. I apologize for calling you a backward, worrisome savage and for labelling you a cheating advocate.

Nina4u:
After 8 yrs together I found out he cheeted I threw 90% alcohol in
his eyes he was blind for 3 days in the hospital

8 years!! Wow

I don't think that the cheating part is as terrible tbh.. na the ignorance we your iyawo dey exhibit after you don catch am cheating.. na it dey pain pass.

lolz..i remembered my first love...she called me one evening after i had sex with...she confessed to av slept with her best friend...claiming the guy took advantage of her..bla bla bla.....it looked as if i was in d middle of d sea sinking down... ..e nor easy sha, since den i suspect any gal aving a guy as a bestie..infact if you keep mentioning one guy as you cousin..i leave you ASAP

BabaCommander:
It's possible you were the wrong person... If you can't meet up with your responsibilies, your partner may seek solace in another arm.

what is wrong with your brain? How do u define meet up with ur responsibilities? Please can u state the responsibilities? Kontinue to reason like 1 year old baby...ode

Beatles:
It takes courage to speak it out. Well done.

Thanks

Tearless:
Then I misunderstood you from the start. I apologize for calling you a backward, worrisome savage and for labelling you a cheating advocate.

No P bro apology accepted


I get your point sha, you feel monogamy is better and i respect that



The funny thing is that i may end up marrying only one wife after all this arguments









Peace!

Patheos:



No P bro apology accepted


I get your point sha, you say monogamy is better and i respect that 8-)



The funny thing is that i end up marrying only one wife after all this arguments

That's so true!

Peace! 8-)

NevetsIbot:
Lol. I wanted to faint.... She didn't know I was aware. I just kept silent and changed towards her. shimpu

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Hei!,lies�

youngbelieve:



no problem honey

May I proceed by sending you a pm?

lol! U serve him ryt

hello, I have a girlfriend that I've been dating for 3yrs now...i have loved her Nd cherished her .also supported her the way I can...

In the beginning of the relationship it was quite fun Nd interesting... she is the church type...or rather, she claims to be.... we've had serious problems.... we fight constantly but we truly love each other... for me, I love her like 100℅ ..she's hurt me a lot of times......

it all began when we started dating... I've mentioned before that she's the churchy kind of girl... well, I'm not churchy... Nd her actions have made me open my eyes to the fact that most horrible people hide in the church...

Okay. let me resume my story..

we started dating...I started studying her...coz she's the secretive type...but I study people a lot..I never stop..I wanted to know her well, Nd thoroughly.

Before she met me, there was this guy she knew before me, his name was Gibson. I didn't meet her through the guy , but from the moment we met.. we started liking each other. I had a feeling they were running something...(she and this Gibson guy) ..so I made sure that nothing was going on between them before I jumped in... after a while, she started a fling with him...Nd I knew about it..but she was not aware..till I confronted her...I used to go visit her at her place...she would escort me. But one day, after she accompanied me...I bid her bye...so she thought I was gonna get a bus as she didn't wanna wait for me to get on a bus..so as she was going back to her place...I just turned around and saw that she didn't use the normal route...she diverted . so..I decided to stalk her.. I did And found out she went to the Gibson's place...after when I confronted her severally about it...she denied...Nd I kept asking if she did anything with him previously...she said NO.
. and kept crying until i felt bad... this happened continuously and after a while... she confessed Nd told me ..they were friends that she didn't wanna date him.. she said they just kissed Nd smooshed...nothing much... I was very much in love with her..so was she.. so I decided to forget about it..but I kept on watching her closely...


I almost forgot to mention she told me she was a virgin... but I doubted that normally na.. it was all in a bid to deny me of sex initially when we first met.. but I still got in..tho it was very very tight but she wasn't a virgin... it was just recently that she started having sex..Nd it wasn't me that took her virginity...

When I first had sex with her, we struggled for long till it finally got in... tho I was bruised a bit...but it still got in...eventually... there was this so called friend that I didn't trust that she claimed it was her best friend.. a guy( another church guy )..

so that particular day that we had sex, could u imagine that she was behaving as if she was guilty of something she has done that was very bad... so she decided go call the so called "best friend"... she was claiming that she did something bad... while on the phone with him... (loud speaker).. the guy asked what it was she said she had sex with her boyfriend... so the guy acted like he was heartbroken from his voice... Nd she told him she needs to find solace in God for the act....in my mind... I was like..."she no even be virgin".. so I kept mute...the guy started making some kind noises as if he was crying which I sort of thought he did...Nd he wanted to drop the call..so he said " I love you"..... that was very dramatic...

We argued about him...Nd I told her that the guy had feelings for her....but I suspected she like him...just distance separated them.. we stopped arguing then she told me that she saw blood stains when she was bathing...I didn't say much..I just played along...

We've broken up on multiple occasions but we got back on multiple occasions.... the one she did recently... was... She cheated on me last year.. with a guy.....I found out through her Facebook... she has really hurt me.... she loves me o..I can tell its just that... I don't wanna loose what might actually be mine...I don't cheat... I'm good looking handsome and 6ft 6 inches tall...I play basketball.. ladies flock around me..a lot...just that...I'm in a relationship.. I have the fear of making a mistake...if I break up finally with her..coz I love her...

we've been through a lot... but on a second thought.. I've gotten really tired...I always have that insecure feeling that she always wanna cheat on me..or if she's actually cheating....coz I don't seem to trust her......I know when she's lying and she really lies a lot... ..when she cheated on me that last time, she begged me alot...o..coz i told her i was done...she used everything to beg me..sending me nude pics...of everything...back then, having sex with her was a problem.o..she go put church rehearsals first..nd ill be like.."ok"... just when we broke up...she started telling me about her attitude towards sex has increased...bla bla...that she's always wet...nd everything..I just made my decision to keep blowing her..but in a long run...I changed back to my old self...Nd fell back in love with her...no be Jazz but one kind crazy thing called love.

Tho she really opened my eyes...to the world out there... Girls are really not be that trusted... Shine your eyes..even if you're in love..Nd end it before it seems harder to stop...


pls don't criticise me..

Junaknoni:

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Hei!,lies�

Junak. what of I told you that you know her well. she's on my fbk page.

chikachike86:


You are a criminal! Why do I say this? If a normal being experiences the " so called agony you portrayed above" and still maintain the stoicism you exhibits in your reply to Post's, then you are superhuman with little or no emotions.

What was stoic about what he did though?

saaedlee:
I cried, not because of the betrayal, but the time wasted, loving the wrong person. But the experience never made me stop loving, I just continued.

I have done so much for the wrong person and I am just imagining what I'll do for the right one.

Don't worry, someone who will love you till death will come ur way. Just keep loving

elantraceey:


Goan sleep.. it's way passed your bed time

I did, and I'm back. is it your sleeping ?

Augustap:

Don't worry, someone who will love you till death will come ur way. Just keep loving

That's kind, though tainted with a little bit of sarcasm

saaedlee:


That's kind, though tainted with a little bit of sarcasm

I meant every word i said...ur reply is funny though

saaedlee:


That's kind, though tainted with a little bit of sarcasm

I meant every word i said. Btw, ur reply is funny

Augustap:

I meant every word i said...ur reply is funny though

Okay Ma'am, if you say so. Happy Sunday to you.