doris4u:
I must say ur a sensible lady for opting out but there is something that caught my attention, U said girls should learn to know guys before opening there legs.Must a lady sleep with a guy while dating. For me i don't think is a must u sleep with a guy ur dating,most times it backfires. I don't see it as increasing or reducing love.

Fabulocity:
Cc Iamkingzlee
Read the first story. Like I said, there's no way you won't know or at least suspect something. The signs would be too obvious and it's up to the girl to give herself brain.

fastgyal:
I'm writing this from my own personal experience. Dear girls, don't just fall 'head over heels' for a guy without knowing the nature of his job or any of his close relatives.

There's this guy who's been inviting me over for quite sometime, we met at an event and exchanged contacts. I did that because he assisted me with something at that event. He calls me for about an hour or two every night. That was early this year.

When I asked about his nature of job, he said he was a contractor, he couldn't tell me which firm he works with. He stays at home 24/7 from Monday through Friday, weekends inclusive.

I finally agreed to go out with him sometime in February. This guy owns a Bentley and a Range Rover. Each time I try to bring up the issue of his job, he waives it off. The way he spent money on me and my friend that day was lavish and suspicious. I wasn't comfortable at all. He paid for my Uber ride to and fro. Spent about 80K at the exquisite restaurant just for food and drinks. We were three;Him, my friend And I. He uses two iPhones, one infinix hot4 and a smaller phone. I felt so much discomfort with him that day. Thank God my spirit never accepted him. that evening, he had a minor issue with his friend. I was listening to their conversation and I found out my guess was right. I had to cut up all ties with him after that day. abeg I can't be spending money whose source I know nothing about.

The second was a guy I loved, I won't lie. I met him at the mall and there was this kind of attraction. We flowed freely, got talking and all that. I won't say everything I witnessed at his place for personal reasons. I asked what he's been doing since he graduated, he said business. What kind of business? He replied; 'online business'

The day I visited him, his friends came over and for more than one hr, they were glued to their laptops, doing 'heaven knows what' and making calls to dupe victims. I also saw about 7 master keys for cars. I had no access to his FB account then. only whatsapp and IG.

When I checked his pictures on FB, I was trembling with all the things I saw. he's in a gang, probably a cult. Always wearing shirts with that devilish logo of a skull printed in it. Wearing all Black and all that.

And girls, please don't open your legs for any guy you've just met until you're very sure he's clean. I really loved this last one but although its hard to let go, I just have to.
I'm not saying I'm a virgin, but I just don't open my legs for any one because he throws money at my face whatsoever. I'm being very plain here so girls can learn.

Let this get to front page please mods.

skitkid2:

What are you dating, if both of you guys don't Bleep?

Its 2017!

fastgyal:



. Spent about 80K at the exquisite restaurant just for food and drinks. We were three;Him, my friend And I.

I'm not saying I'm a virgin, but I just don't open my legs for any one because he throws money at my face whatsoever. I'm being very plain here so girls can learn.

Let this get to front page please mods.

janefrancisca:
So becos its 2017, everyone should be bleeping?....woteva happened to morals...people date to know each other better, its not a license to bleep like there is no tomorrow.

skitkid2:

Nobody said you should bleep any guy you see.

If you love each other, bleeping is essential.

You mean you can date for 5years or so without bleeping?

skitkid2:

Nobody said you should bleep any guy you see.

If you love each other, bleeping is essential.

You mean you can date for 5years or so without bleeping?

AKbenson:
OP should answer this questions

will you date a broke ass nigga

will you date a jobless guy

will you date a guy who does not have a car

will you date a guy who cant pay his rent
will you date a guy who cant give you what you want if no then shut up make i no vex for you

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Oyindidi:
Praise singer, the op is worst than the girls she's advicing here.

fastgyal:
No sis, I ain't supporting that. I only noticed that most girls would happily open their legs when showered with cash and material gifts. some of these are unclean, that's the point I'm trying to prove

Madame first and foremost, refuse to be showered with gifts and money.
You can reject them from the onset.

But I guess no, you want to eat your cake and have it

You chop the guy money, but when it's time for you to open your leg, you'll start asking him for his Curriculum Vitae..
Keep deceiving yourself.
Girls and their funny mentality, wen fuvk reach you remember say dey guy Na Yahoo boy

But you nd your fellow hungry girls went to eat 80K worth of food.
That's just a little lower than my Salary .
Una chop nearly my whole salary in one sitting

Poverty it shall never be well with you

Kowalskiq:

Madame first and foremost, refuse to be showered with gifts and money.
You can reject them from the onset.

But I guess no, you want to eat your cake and have it..

You chop the guy money, but when it's time for you to open your leg, you'll start asking him for his Curriculum Vitae..
Keep deceiving yourself.
Girls and their funny mentality, wen fuvk reach you remember say dey guy Na Yahoo boy

But you nd your fellow hungry girls went to eat 80K what of food.
That's just a little lower than my Salary .
Una chop nearly my whole salary in one sitting

Poverty it shall never be well with you

fastgyal:
I'm writing this from my own personal experience. Dear girls, don't just fall 'head over heels' for a guy without knowing the nature of his job or any of his close relatives.

There's this guy who's been inviting me over for quite sometime, we met at an event and exchanged contacts. I did that because he assisted me with something at that event. He calls me for about an hour or two every night. That was early this year.

When I asked about his nature of job, he said he was a contractor, he couldn't tell me which firm he works with. He stays at home 24/7 from Monday through Friday, weekends inclusive.

I finally agreed to go out with him sometime in February. This guy owns a Bentley and a Range Rover. Each time I try to bring up the issue of his job, he waives it off. The way he spent money on me and my friend that day was lavish and suspicious. I wasn't comfortable at all. He paid for my Uber ride to and fro. Spent about 80K at the exquisite restaurant just for food and drinks. We were three;Him, my friend And I. He uses two iPhones, one infinix hot4 and a smaller phone. I felt so much discomfort with him that day. Thank God my spirit never accepted him. that evening, he had a minor issue with his friend. I was listening to their conversation and I found out my guess was right. I had to cut up all ties with him after that day. abeg I can't be spending money whose source I know nothing about.

The second was a guy I loved, I won't lie. I met him at the mall and there was this kind of attraction. We flowed freely, got talking and all that. I won't say everything I witnessed at his place for personal reasons. I asked what he's been doing since he graduated, he said business. What kind of business? He replied; 'online business'

The day I visited him, his friends came over and for more than one hr, they were glued to their laptops, doing 'heaven knows what' and making calls to dupe victims. I also saw about 7 master keys for cars. I had no access to his FB account then. only whatsapp and IG.

When I checked his pictures on FB, I was trembling with all the things I saw. he's in a gang, probably a cult. Always wearing shirts with that devilish logo of a skull printed in it. Wearing all Black and all that.

And girls, please don't open your legs for any guy you've just met until you're very sure he's clean. I really loved this last one but although its hard to let go, I just have to.
I'm not saying I'm a virgin, but I just don't open my legs for any one because he throws money at my face whatsoever. I'm being very plain here so girls can learn.

Let this get to front page please mods.

fastgyal:
You sound like a poor man. sorry about your predicament

fastgyal:
I didn't say I only date rich guys. I'm talking about my experience with guys who have asked me out whose source of income is unknown.

taylor88:


u shouldn't have brought this online precious
chaiii see gal wey i love been bashed
no wonder u made the statement"" this is the best way to get ride of people like u""
I talk am chaiii

taylor88:


u shouldn't have brought this online precious
chaiii see gal wey i love been bashed
no wonder u made the statement"" this is the best way to get ride of people like u""
I talk am chaiii

boiz2men:


You messed up bro.... How could you let her dump you? I noticed her attitude from the first day and I just knew she wasnt worth the time