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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by biz2get(m): 6:46am On Jun 28, 2017
Every Girl Has A Price...


Your Price is. He should have a Legit Job/Earning
grin

Not withstanding Criminal Attracts Criminals.

Puss_y Sellers Attracts Puuss_y Buyers.

...

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Nobody: 6:48am On Jun 28, 2017
OrestesDante:


If you have a problem with my comment, Why don't make yours and stop being childish. This is a forum.

And who made u the mouthpiece of God? To be judging people up and down? U didnt even correct or admonish her. Its people like u that make Christians to be seen as self righteous ignorant fools
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by ikwikwi: 6:49am On Jun 28, 2017
This is a good experience but women won't hear, even married women. Until eye clears them. Criminals are serious church members and woo innocent ones into their trap with the tag church member friend.

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Tiffbuxas: 6:49am On Jun 28, 2017
Op u like men that are rich and have money to throw around.... Buh unfortunately most of us who throw money around and look dashy are not legit, and you must open your leg. Ladies should learn to develop themselves, you can't just be falling in love anyhow. Take your time before to agree to date dat guy. Like I always tell my friends I can't date a girl until i know her family and friends

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Nobody: 6:49am On Jun 28, 2017
myking95:


And who made u the mouthpiece of God? To be judging people up and down? U didnt even correct or admonish her. Its people like u that make Christians to be seen as self righteous ignorant fools
OK.
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by judgedredd22(m): 6:50am On Jun 28, 2017
Luvdk:
No pussy for poor men
Simple!
If I am the only gal on ds earth, I will show them shege

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by GeneralOjukwu: 6:51am On Jun 28, 2017
I just love reading comments on posts like these.

It's obvious that the story is fake. Are Bentleys that common in Nigeria? Yes I once took a fruit shake with a friend in 1 ye ye joint in Abuja and paid 5000, but I wonder what 3 people will eat to run a 80,000 bill. Did they devour an elephant?

Maybe the OP should tell us the name of the restaurant so I can steer clear.

I wonder why people post fiction like this all because they are desperate for attention. So needy they don't mind the insults

Fastygal....apply for work as a Mills&Boon writer. It suits you

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Safiaa(f): 6:52am On Jun 28, 2017
They must always find a fault in everything. Women on this forum can never win

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by judgedredd22(m): 6:53am On Jun 28, 2017
henryhemon:


Only your nose will make poor guys even run away from you aunty no guy man with class will even say hi to you.

Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by sisisioge: 6:53am On Jun 28, 2017
SirJeffry:
With the kinda people coming after you as a lady, I kinda figure out the kinda person you are.

I ain't criticizing but responsible guys go after responsible ladies. If those stories are true, check and recheck yourself. No insult intended.

Thanks o. There's something about us attracting who we are with a tiny fraction of noncomformity. I.e...being followed by a gorilla despite being a monkey grin
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Tecno66: 6:54am On Jun 28, 2017
MhizzAJ:
I think the last point u raised is very important.

Girls shouldn't open their legs for any man like that without knowing them properly.

What a world ...
Some guys don't have any legal source of income but they drive the latest cars in town and use the most expensive phones
God shouldn't allow someone jam Evans gang one day..Look before u leap
That Evans own eh. He go use the woman, even rape am and fit force the woman go collect ransom. Even kill the woman self. But some ladies no send o. Anyhow, just bring the cash.
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Peterosky(m): 6:54am On Jun 28, 2017
Hhhhhmm, beautiful girl with beautiful sense. Omoh You just made me fall in love. you are just too amazing.
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by free2ryhme: 6:56am On Jun 28, 2017
MhizzAJ:
I think the last point u raised is very important.

Girls shouldn't open their legs for any man like that without knowing them properly.

What a world ...
Some guys don't have any legal source of income but they drive the latest cars in town and use the most expensive phones
God shouldn't allow someone jam Evans gang one day..Look before u leap


I sometimes wonder if you don't do a deep thinking before making posts?

Your post also encourages girl go stay with men who they already know their source of wealth and status ( most esp married). And fvck dem steady.


Why encourage such? check out Evans wife a more recent case study.
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by maasoap(m): 6:57am On Jun 28, 2017
OrestesDante:


Nice obsevation. Op is greedy and lustful...
People like you are the reason why people don't share their experience, judgemental lots.
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by sisisioge: 6:58am On Jun 28, 2017
GeneralOjukwu:
I just love reading comments on posts like these.

It's obvious that the story is fake. Are Bentleys that common in Nigeria? Yes I once took a fruit shake with a friend in 1 ye ye joint in Abuja and paid 5000, but I wonder what 3 people will eat to run a 80,000 bill. Did they devour an elephant?

Maybe the OP should tell us the name of the restaurant so I can steer clear.

I wonder why people post fiction like this all because they are desperate for attention. So needy they don't mind the insults

Fastygal....apply for work as a Mills&Boon writer. It suits you

Haba! Don't be so closed minded. Some places will kill you with their price tags. I once threw a tantrum when I and one bobo spent like 38k eating one yeye steak and prawns and some funny looking stuffs. What a combo...it was my birthday but I felt so bad. We would have had plenty fun in jevnik with a fraction of that. To make matters worse, I no sabi eat the accompanying condiments. Let's just say it was a total loss grin

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Saliman22(m): 6:58am On Jun 28, 2017
silly after alot, why don't you say this when Evans was not caught, you want to claimed FBI, I'm suspecting you in Evans case.
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by gypsey(m): 7:00am On Jun 28, 2017
Martin0:
hmmmm
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by judgedredd22(m): 7:01am On Jun 28, 2017
sisisioge:
Hmmmm...I absolutely agree with you. But there's really something in that saying that " you attract who you are". This isn't to say you are also a fastgal like they are fast guys o, they must have seen something in you that keeps drawing them to you.


I remember meeting a guy with the biggest dog I've ever seen in my area. His dog has the biggest fiercest looking head ever yet soooo adorable. The dog was drawn to me,so was he. After all gbogboreferefe, we exchanged contacts. Dude was too posh speaking for me to hear at once grin sef. Anyways, when I did a little digging about him, I realized the guy with the cute dog calls himself Pablo... That's all I needed to know grin. Need I say more...may God Himself keep wahala from our paths.


grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

a word for the wise...

Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Abdujapha(m): 7:03am On Jun 28, 2017
subtlemee:
Why am I having this strange feeling about this thread? And OP got registered just last month and her signature and personal text is suggesting something her topic too is eye catching...


I smell rat

OP is the rat cheesy cheesy grin
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by judgedredd22(m): 7:03am On Jun 28, 2017
Bibi294:
Did OP ever said she opened her legs for any man? Why is everyone dishing her? She shared her experience and everyone is lashing her... If she likes, let her open her legs for dogs, that should be her probs and not yours...

Person no fit advise jejely again... If na oyinbo talk this mine talk like this... She go turn celebrity... Nigerians and bad mouth ehn

Pot calling kettl black.... Most of you forming holier than thou are worst than the poor girl


you see why i dey toast you since.. grin grin grin grin but you just dey give me corner eye! chai! cheesy cheesy
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by zuto4u(m): 7:04am On Jun 28, 2017
Thank u my sister. I really hate the mentality of most Nigerian girls. A girl will dump a poor or an average guy that sincerely loves her just because another guy with a car approached her, forgetting that the world is dynamic, the poor or an average young man today might become very rich tomorrow
Nutase:
You are lucky o. But go and check yourself again because I know yahoo plus guys used to have a juju pot under the passenger seat of their cars. Any girl that seats their will either loose her womb, destiny or life depending on what they are after. Its not always till they get in between your legs.

Never enter the car of a guy you know nothing about.
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by judgedredd22(m): 7:05am On Jun 28, 2017
myking95:


And who made u the mouthpiece of God? To be judging people up and down? U didnt even correct or admonish her. Its people like u that make Christians to be seen as self righteous ignorant fools

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Nobody: 7:05am On Jun 28, 2017
maasoap:

People like you are the reason why people don't share their experience, judgemental lots.
Ok
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by StarPlayer: 7:06am On Jun 28, 2017
fastgyal:
I didn't say I only date rich guys. I'm talking about my experience with guys who have asked me out whose source of income is unknown.
You must have really dated a whole lot of guys i guess. Wow I salute the one who will end up with you

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by harizonal123(m): 7:07am On Jun 28, 2017
fastgyal:
I'm writing this from my own personal experience. Dear girls, don't just fall 'head over heels' for a guy without knowing the nature of his job or any of his close relatives.

There's this guy who's been inviting me over for quite sometime, we met at an event and exchanged contacts. I did that because he assisted me with something at that event. He calls me for about an hour or two every night. That was early this year.

When I asked about his nature of job, he said he was a contractor, he couldn't tell me which firm he works with. He stays at home 24/7 from Monday through Friday, weekends inclusive.

I finally agreed to go out with him sometime in February. This guy owns a Bentley and a Range Rover. Each time I try to bring up the issue of his job, he waives it off. The way he spent money on me and my friend that day was lavish and suspicious. I wasn't comfortable at all. He paid for my Uber ride to and fro. Spent about 80K at the exquisite restaurant just for food and drinks. We were three;Him, my friend And I. He uses two iPhones, one infinix hot4 and a smaller phone. I felt so much discomfort with him that day. Thank God my spirit never accepted him. that evening, he had a minor issue with his friend. I was listening to their conversation and I found out my guess was right. I had to cut up all ties with him after that day. abeg I can't be spending money whose source I know nothing about.

The second was a guy I loved, I won't lie. I met him at the mall and there was this kind of attraction. We flowed freely, got talking and all that. I won't say everything I witnessed at his place for personal reasons. I asked what he's been doing since he graduated, he said business. What kind of business? He replied; 'online business'

The day I visited him, his friends came over and for more than one hr, they were glued to their laptops, doing 'heaven knows what' and making calls to dupe victims. I also saw about 7 master keys for cars. I had no access to his FB account then. only whatsapp and IG.

When I checked his pictures on FB, I was trembling with all the things I saw. he's in a gang, probably a cult. Always wearing shirts with that devilish logo of a skull printed in it. Wearing all Black and all that.

And girls, please don't open your legs for any guy you've just met until you're very sure he's clean. I really loved this last one but although its hard to let go, I just have to.
I'm not saying I'm a virgin, but I just don't open my legs for any one because he throws money at my face whatsoever. I'm being very plain here so girls can learn.

Let this get to front page please mods.
Op, as a guy I have lots of yahoo friends doing fraudulent business and they never disclose their source of income. When u ask them what they are into, they can't come up with anything tangible. At that point I know who I am dealing with. I distance myself from such. I don't call them or pay personal visit to them. I have never admired their wealth. I only greet them when I see them on the way. How can a responsible person spends 80k at a sitting. That tells u all. You needed no fb verification to know he was into yeye stuff.. I believe u went to his place severally. If u had given that guy another one month he would have had his way. You tried sha but my advice to you is that u should be more careful of what u desire cos u were almost carried away

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by TrumpDonald2(m): 7:09am On Jun 28, 2017
Nutase:
You are lucky o. But go and check yourself again because I know yahoo plus guys used to have a juju pot under the passenger seat of their cars. Any girl that seats their will either loose her womb, destiny or life depending on what they are after. Its not always till they get in between your legs.

Never enter the car of a guy you know nothing about.
Now, this is scary. With the way some ladies hop into cars these days, hope their wombs are still intact
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by judgedredd22(m): 7:11am On Jun 28, 2017
free2ryhme:



I sometimes wonder if you don't do a deep thinking before making posts?

Your post also encourages girl go stay with men who they already know their source of wealth and status ( most esp married). And fvck dem steady.


Why encourage such? check out Evans wife a more recent case study.


go and learn how to read!

Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Nobody: 7:11am On Jun 28, 2017
fastgyal:
I'm writing this from my own personal experience. Dear girls, don't just fall 'head over heels' for a guy without knowing the nature of his job or any of his close relatives.

There's this guy who's been inviting me over for quite sometime, we met at an event and exchanged contacts. I did that because he assisted me with something at that event. He calls me for about an hour or two every night. That was early this year.

When I asked about his nature of job, he said he was a contractor, he couldn't tell me which firm he works with. He stays at home 24/7 from Monday through Friday, weekends inclusive.

I finally agreed to go out with him sometime in February. This guy owns a Bentley and a Range Rover. Each time I try to bring up the issue of his job, he waives it off. The way he spent money on me and my friend that day was lavish and suspicious. I wasn't comfortable at all. He paid for my Uber ride to and fro. Spent about 80K at the exquisite restaurant just for food and drinks. We were three;Him, my friend And I. He uses two iPhones, one infinix hot4 and a smaller phone. I felt so much discomfort with him that day. Thank God my spirit never accepted him. that evening, he had a minor issue with his friend. I was listening to their conversation and I found out my guess was right. I had to cut up all ties with him after that day. abeg I can't be spending money whose source I know nothing about.

The second was a guy I loved, I won't lie. I met him at the mall and there was this kind of attraction. We flowed freely, got talking and all that. I won't say everything I witnessed at his place for personal reasons. I asked what he's been doing since he graduated, he said business. What kind of business? He replied; 'online business'

The day I visited him, his friends came over and for more than one hr, they were glued to their laptops, doing 'heaven knows what' and making calls to dupe victims. I also saw about 7 master keys for cars. I had no access to his FB account then. only whatsapp and IG.

When I checked his pictures on FB, I was trembling with all the things I saw. he's in a gang, probably a cult. Always wearing shirts with that devilish logo of a skull printed in it. Wearing all Black and all that.

And girls, please don't open your legs for any guy you've just met until you're very sure he's clean. I really loved this last one but although its hard to let go, I just have to.
I'm not saying I'm a virgin, but I just don't open my legs for any one because he throws money at my face whatsoever. I'm being very plain here so girls can learn.

Let this get to front page please mods.





Please open leg for only your legally married husband.

A man should put a ring on you first before putting a ring inside you.


Can somebody say no to premarital sex?

NOOOO TO PREMARITAL SEX AND ADULTERY.

Team Chastity.

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Peterosky(m): 7:11am On Jun 28, 2017
doris4u:
I must say ur a sensible lady for opting out but there is something that caught my attention, U said girls should learn to know guys before opening there legs.Must a lady sleep with a guy while dating. For me i don't think is a must u sleep with a guy ur dating,most times it backfires. I don't see it as increasing or reducing love.
.Babe you just guffed. So you will be very comfortable dating a guy,asking and collecting without giving your honey pot to the guy ? And you will be the same girl that will call your brother names if a girl does that to him. Don't date if you don't want to go to bed with any guy.Afterall, to date no be by force. But something keeps telling me that you are a free giver and a pretender. Abeg no vex.
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by judgedredd22(m): 7:13am On Jun 28, 2017
sisisioge:


Haba! Don't be so closed minded. Some places will kill you with their price tags. I once threw a tantrum when I and one bobo spent like 38k eating one yeye steak and prawns and some funny looking stuffs. What a combo...it was my birthday but I felt so bad. We would have had plenty fun in jevnik with a fraction of that. To make matters worse, I no sabi eat the accompanying condiments. Let's just say it was a total loss grin

don't mind the guy, he must be operating in the poorest of circles and struggling to survive. he should take a trip to the inner streets of lekki, ikoyi/V.I. for one full month and come back with a different orientation and outlook about his life! grin grin grin
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Chidexsco8448(m): 7:16am On Jun 28, 2017
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GeneralOjukwu:
I just love reading comments on posts like these.

It's obvious that the story is fake. Are Bentleys that common in Nigeria? Yes I once took a fruit shake with a friend in 1 ye ye joint in Abuja and paid 5000, but I wonder what 3 people will eat to run a 80,000 bill. Did they devour an elephant?

Maybe the OP should tell us the name of the restaurant so I can steer clear.

I wonder why people post fiction like this all because they are desperate for attention. So needy they don't mind the insults

Fastygal....apply for work as a Mills&Boon writer. It suits you
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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by wizod(m): 7:18am On Jun 28, 2017
wristbangle:


It's good to know we still have virtuous ladies like you in the society because of recent some ladies don't even care whether their boyfriend is earning his source of income legitimately or not but as long as money flows, she is satisfy.

With time you will get a guy of your choice.

But why do u fall for these kind of guys? I feel you easily get attracted to materialistic guys. Not all that glitters is gold
who is a virtuous lady?
Pure olosho u dey see so

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