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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by logica(m): 1:57am On Jun 28, 2017
fastgyal:
You sound like a poor man. sorry about your predicament
Yeah! Get those legit moneybags to fvck you silly. That's how to roll!

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Nobody: 2:02am On Jun 28, 2017
fastgyal:
I'm writing this from my own personal experience. Dear girls, don't just fall 'head over heels' for a guy without knowing the nature of his job or any of his close relatives.

There's this guy who's been inviting me over for quite sometime, we met at an event and exchanged contacts. I did that because he assisted me with something at that event. He calls me for about an hour or two every night. That was early this year.

When I asked about his nature of job, he said he was a contractor, he couldn't tell me which firm he works with. He stays at home 24/7 from Monday through Friday, weekends inclusive.

I finally agreed to go out with him sometime in February. This guy owns a Bentley and a Range Rover. Each time I try to bring up the issue of his job, he waives it off. The way he spent money on me and my friend that day was lavish and suspicious. I wasn't comfortable at all. He paid for my Uber ride to and fro. Spent about 80K at the exquisite restaurant just for food and drinks. We were three;Him, my friend And I. He uses two iPhones, one infinix hot4 and a smaller phone. I felt so much discomfort with him that day. Thank God my spirit never accepted him. that evening, he had a minor issue with his friend. I was listening to their conversation and I found out my guess was right. I had to cut up all ties with him after that day. abeg I can't be spending money whose source I know nothing about.

The second was a guy I loved, I won't lie. I met him at the mall and there was this kind of attraction. We flowed freely, got talking and all that. I won't say everything I witnessed at his place for personal reasons. I asked what he's been doing since he graduated, he said business. What kind of business? He replied; 'online business'

The day I visited him, his friends came over and for more than one hr, they were glued to their laptops, doing 'heaven knows what' and making calls to dupe victims. I also saw about 7 master keys for cars. I had no access to his FB account then. only whatsapp and IG.

When I checked his pictures on FB, I was trembling with all the things I saw. he's in a gang, probably a cult. Always wearing shirts with that devilish logo of a skull printed in it. Wearing all Black and all that.

And girls, please don't open your legs for any guy you've just met until you're very sure he's clean. I really loved this last one but although its hard to let go, I just have to.
I'm not saying I'm a virgin, but I just don't open my legs for any one because he throws money at my face whatsoever. I'm being very plain here so girls can learn.

Let this get to front page please mods.
all this kind of people must they be attracted to u.young lady check your dressing ,infact yourself

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by boiz2men(m): 2:03am On Jun 28, 2017
taylor88:


u know her too

Lol... Bros... Nor b near unilag she dey?

Nor b English education she dey study?

I don't know her though like you... I was in the process when I noticed some attitude and I backed off immediately.. She isnt worth knowing... She is here forming not materialistic and gullibles are getting trapped by the facade..

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Nobody: 2:11am On Jun 28, 2017
I spend more time on laptop too mostly researching and nairaland, and I wear a ring with a skull. Sometimes I spend far more than what you mentioned there for just anyone, girl oh, boy oh, lesbian oh, etc, just depends on how I feel. And if you ask me what I do, I am very sure I do not have time to discuss my businesses with some tramp I met on the streets. This is basically the life style of an average American, European and few Nigerians who are no longer suffering the 9-5 slave trend. So what does that qualify me for ? I think you should date the politicians, they are better thieves than Yahoo Boys. Sorry, I meant Pastors. Their jets are fruits of their hardworks. I know Yahoo boys will rejoice that I support them. When dem catch una, na me go laugh pass.

Judge not. I used to, now I dont. No one is qualified to judge, not even God judges. We judge ourselves.

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by taylor88(m): 2:14am On Jun 28, 2017
boiz2men:


Lol... Bros... Nor b near unilag she dey?

Nor b English education she dey study?

I don't know her though like you... I was in the process when I noticed some attitude and I backed off immediately.. She isnt worth knowing... She is here forming not materialistic and gullibles are getting trapped by the facade..

hmmm
so speechless
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Nobody: 2:16am On Jun 28, 2017
Which sexist mod changed the title from "agreeing to be his girlfriend" to "opening legs for him"?

disgusting!

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by fastgyal(f): 2:16am On Jun 28, 2017
Billyonaire:
I spend more time on laptop too mostly researching and nairaland, and I wear a ring with a skull. Sometimes I spend far more than what you mentioned there for just anyone, girl oh, boy oh, lesbian oh, etc, just depends on how I feel. And if you ask me what I do, I am very sure I do not have time to discuss my businesses with some tramp I met on the streets. This is basically the life style of an average American, European and few Nigerians who are no longer suffering the 9-5 slave trend. So what does that qualify me for ? I think you should date the politicians, they are better thieves than Yahoo Boys. Sorry, I meant Pastors. Their jets are fruits of their hardworks. I know Yahoo boys will rejoice that I support them. When dem catch una, na me go laugh pass.

Judge not. I used to, now I dont. No one is qualified to judge, not even God judges. We judge ourselves.
true
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by phuckmachine(m): 2:17am On Jun 28, 2017
fastgyal:
I'm writing this from my own personal experience. Dear girls, don't just fall 'head over heels' for a guy without knowing the nature of his job or any of his close relatives.

There's this guy who's been inviting me over for quite sometime, we met at an event and exchanged contacts. I did that because he assisted me with something at that event. He calls me for about an hour or two every night. That was early this year.

When I asked about his nature of job, he said he was a contractor, he couldn't tell me which firm he works with. He stays at home 24/7 from Monday through Friday, weekends inclusive.

I finally agreed to go out with him sometime in February. This guy owns a Bentley and a Range Rover. Each time I try to bring up the issue of his job, he waives it off. The way he spent money on me and my friend that day was lavish and suspicious. I wasn't comfortable at all. He paid for my Uber ride to and fro. Spent about 80K at the exquisite restaurant just for food and drinks. We were three;Him, my friend And I. He uses two iPhones, one infinix hot4 and a smaller phone. I felt so much discomfort with him that day. Thank God my spirit never accepted him. that evening, he had a minor issue with his friend. I was listening to their conversation and I found out my guess was right. I had to cut up all ties with him after that day. abeg I can't be spending money whose source I know nothing about.

The second was a guy I loved, I won't lie. I met him at the mall and there was this kind of attraction. We flowed freely, got talking and all that. I won't say everything I witnessed at his place for personal reasons. I asked what he's been doing since he graduated, he said business. What kind of business? He replied; 'online business'

The day I visited him, his friends came over and for more than one hr, they were glued to their laptops, doing 'heaven knows what' and making calls to dupe victims. I also saw about 7 master keys for cars. I had no access to his FB account then. only whatsapp and IG.

When I checked his pictures on FB, I was trembling with all the things I saw. he's in a gang, probably a cult. Always wearing shirts with that devilish logo of a skull printed in it. Wearing all Black and all that.

And girls, please don't open your legs for any guy you've just met until you're very sure he's clean. I really loved this last one but although its hard to let go, I just have to.
I'm not saying I'm a virgin, but I just don't open my legs for any one because he throws money at my face whatsoever. I'm being very plain here so girls can learn.

Let this get to front page please mods.
What's spreading of legs has to do with a man's job nature. If you don't open another with a fresh vaj will. Abeg go park one side.

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by odinga1of: 2:19am On Jun 28, 2017
subtlemee:
Why am I having this strange feeling about this thread? And OP got registered just last month and her signature and personal text is suggesting something her topic too is eye catching...


I smell rat


There is no point smelling rat, those who have ears let them hear.

Even we boys sometimes are scared the way some of guys spend money, and I wonder if nor be dis same computer we dey press.

Latest cars in town and Iphones..................na wa.

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Nobody: 2:22am On Jun 28, 2017
fastgyal:
true
You are truly a fast gal, allow the loosing loser to relocate to Togo where righteous people dwell. In this country, Buharinomics is capable of changing an Angel to a Demon for survival. Even ladies now have unanimous price-tags for their pusssies yet they criticize the source of income of those who are capable of wasting such amounts of monies just for the pusssies that was designed to be free. She does not realize that she is a criminal to sell her pusssy in the first place, a crime worst than Yahoo.

Oh....fastgyal you are the OP. Sorry, but I cant edit.

Judge Not.

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by odinga1of: 2:22am On Jun 28, 2017
fastgyal:
I'm not new on NL abeg.

Please ignore some people.................thats Naija for u, they will tell u dey smell rat, cat and dog.


Those who have ears let them hear.

Even if you have 7 cars, explain ur source with backup claims to that girl u love (my 2 cents)
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by fastgyal(f): 2:24am On Jun 28, 2017
odinga1of:


Please ignore some people.................thats Naija for u, they will tell u dey smell rat, cat and dog.


Those who have ears let them hear.

Even if you have 7 cars, explain ur source with backup claims to that girl u love (my 2 cents)
very few are wise, you're one of them. thank you
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Skmoda360(m): 2:24am On Jun 28, 2017
hemartins:
Let me call lala.....

On a serious note, some ladies love material things and wouldn't even mind as long as the source doesn't have a direct negative implication on them.
You will definitely find true love for your sincerity soon.
oro agba.....kontinu

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by ice4u999(m): 2:35am On Jun 28, 2017
fastgyal:
I'm writing this from my own personal experience. Dear girls, don't just fall 'head over heels' for a guy without knowing the nature of his job or any of his close relatives.

There's this guy who's been inviting me over for quite sometime, we met at an event and exchanged contacts. I did that because he assisted me with something at that event. He calls me for about an hour or two every night. That was early this year.

When I asked about his nature of job, he said he was a contractor, he couldn't tell me which firm he works with. He stays at home 24/7 from Monday through Friday, weekends inclusive.

I finally agreed to go out with him sometime in February. This guy owns a Bentley and a Range Rover. Each time I try to bring up the issue of his job, he waives it off. The way he spent money on me and my friend that day was lavish and suspicious. I wasn't comfortable at all. He paid for my Uber ride to and fro. Spent about 80K at the exquisite restaurant just for food and drinks. We were three;Him, my friend And I. He uses two iPhones, one infinix hot4 and a smaller phone. I felt so much discomfort with him that day. Thank God my spirit never accepted him. that evening, he had a minor issue with his friend. I was listening to their conversation and I found out my guess was right. I had to cut up all ties with him after that day. abeg I can't be spending money whose source I know nothing about.

The second was a guy I loved, I won't lie. I met him at the mall and there was this kind of attraction. We flowed freely, got talking and all that. I won't say everything I witnessed at his place for personal reasons. I asked what he's been doing since he graduated, he said business. What kind of business? He replied; 'online business'

The day I visited him, his friends came over and for more than one hr, they were glued to their laptops, doing 'heaven knows what' and making calls to dupe victims. I also saw about 7 master keys for cars. I had no access to his FB account then. only whatsapp and IG.

When I checked his pictures on FB, I was trembling with all the things I saw. he's in a gang, probably a cult. Always wearing shirts with that devilish logo of a skull printed in it. Wearing all Black and all that.

And girls, please don't open your legs for any guy you've just met until you're very sure he's clean. I really loved this last one but although its hard to let go, I just have to.
I'm not saying I'm a virgin, but I just don't open my legs for any one because he throws money at my face whatsoever. I'm being very plain here so girls can learn.

Let this get to front page please mods.

First guy, you could not identify his source of income but not withstanding every time he takes you out you bring your friend along so that he can spend on the both of you. If you were to be a decent girl from a decent home you will never allow a boy friend spend sure amount on you on just food, knowing that it only takes half of that amount to prepare a good meal. Like every other runs girl in school just becos you want to feel big among your friends you will always drag a friend along to go chop money.

Common sense will tell you that a guy that sits at home 24 / 7 with no job but spend a lot of money is a criminal or a spoilt child of one rich thief.

In my opinion criminal attracts criminals

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by jibbycrown: 2:41am On Jun 28, 2017
God!! This is the best advice so far. No condemnation, no accusation and no judgement. Just piece of advice. I hope the writer can adhere to it and also ladies that look into material things before they go into relationship with a guy. grin

Ab025:
But how come you only date these guys that are well to do financially, have Bentleys, 7cars etc, then leave them when you discover they are 419ers?

Can't you hook up with that young guy in ur street or out there that has an average job, doesn't have a car, is responsible and will really love you for who you are...

I think the financial worth of the kind of guy you date is also a reflection of your financial taste.

#Lady, reduce your taste...
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by haske7(f): 2:47am On Jun 28, 2017
Dear sis.. just negodu your moniker? Fast gal most always meet fast guy naa......
fastgyal:
I'm writing this from my own personal experience. Dear girls, don't just fall 'head over heels' for a guy without knowing the nature of his job or any of his close relatives.

There's this guy who's been inviting me over for quite sometime, we met at an event and exchanged contacts. I did that because he assisted me with something at that event. He calls me for about an hour or two every night. That was early this year.

When I asked about his nature of job, he said he was a contractor, he couldn't tell me which firm he works with. He stays at home 24/7 from Monday through Friday, weekends inclusive.

I finally agreed to go out with him sometime in February. This guy owns a Bentley and a Range Rover. Each time I try to bring up the issue of his job, he waives it off. The way he spent money on me and my friend that day was lavish and suspicious. I wasn't comfortable at all. He paid for my Uber ride to and fro. Spent about 80K at the exquisite restaurant just for food and drinks. We were three;Him, my friend And I. He uses two iPhones, one infinix hot4 and a smaller phone. I felt so much discomfort with him that day. Thank God my spirit never accepted him. that evening, he had a minor issue with his friend. I was listening to their conversation and I found out my guess was right. I had to cut up all ties with him after that day. abeg I can't be spending money whose source I know nothing about.

The second was a guy I loved, I won't lie. I met him at the mall and there was this kind of attraction. We flowed freely, got talking and all that. I won't say everything I witnessed at his place for personal reasons. I asked what he's been doing since he graduated, he said business. What kind of business? He replied; 'online business'

The day I visited him, his friends came over and for more than one hr, they were glued to their laptops, doing 'heaven knows what' and making calls to dupe victims. I also saw about 7 master keys for cars. I had no access to his FB account then. only whatsapp and IG.

When I checked his pictures on FB, I was trembling with all the things I saw. he's in a gang, probably a cult. Always wearing shirts with that devilish logo of a skull printed in it. Wearing all Black and all that.

And girls, please don't open your legs for any guy you've just met until you're very sure he's clean. I really loved this last one but although its hard to let go, I just have to.
I'm not saying I'm a virgin, but I just don't open my legs for any one because he throws money at my face whatsoever. I'm being very plain here so girls can learn.

Let this get to front page please mods.

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by IdeyFindWife: 2:56am On Jun 28, 2017
The very idea of you "opening your legs" like a shopping malls revolving doors conveys some salacious impressions that are too juicily sleazy for print, which puts you in no position to preach or point fingers. LongaThroat wey dey worry you sef nor gree you cut your cucumber wey e go enter your slot without tearing you!

So, it took you how many "outings and collectings" with your oshofree friend before you "realized" the guys couldn't have been clean? Better retrace the good path and reassess your own criteria for choosing and meeting "your men" before the unthinkable happens or don't you realize say na only dis same you dey enjoy the close-brushes with danger?

Shey na close you dey close eye kpakam when you see profiles of good hardworking guys OR temporary blindness dey strike you when you see 'good' church brothers? Your type nor dey near working class pple instead na to dey chat strangers, dey jump Uber dey chop upandan like Almajiri whu parent don lost! And after ascertaining they're 'legit' in ur own way, yhu dey open leg, abi?

Younggyal, dem don talk am say "live fast, die young" but you made that your own motto; it seems Papa God is calling you to a more sober profile than you have now despite how 'above-board' you think you are, e go beta make you answer the call. Go carry your Bible enter church abeg!

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by jiangchu: 3:08am On Jun 28, 2017
if you are part of the people that condemn FALS aand support 9ICE i guess you are wrong. fastgyal
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by henryhemon(m): 3:10am On Jun 28, 2017
Oyindidi:
angry


You seem to know the Op before now? But like you said she is worst than those she is advising. She never goes out with dudes who are average,same goes for most girls here.

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by 007s(m): 3:17am On Jun 28, 2017
who fucking care about the op being materialistic or not
all i fucking care about is dat she jux said the whole truth
Society promote this wire wire of a thing, and legit hussle seems to be irrelevant nowadays.
a class-mate of mine who also went into the so called "online business" immediately we graduated and now a big boy in the game, will not post a pics on FB that get less than 500likes, and a lot of comment praising him....... the guy posted one pics of recent and still the same trend, i also comment on the pics but this time i told him legit hussle is still the surest way

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by mabeni(m): 3:21am On Jun 28, 2017
fastgyal:
I'm writing this from my own personal experience. Dear girls, don't just fall 'head over heels' for a guy without knowing the nature of his job or any of his close relatives.

There's this guy who's been inviting me over for quite sometime, we met at an event and exchanged contacts. I did that because he assisted me with something at that event. He calls me for about an hour or two every night. That was early this year.

When I asked about his nature of job, he said he was a contractor, he couldn't tell me which firm he works with. He stays at home 24/7 from Monday through Friday, weekends inclusive.

I finally agreed to go out with him sometime in February. This guy owns a Bentley and a Range Rover. Each time I try to bring up the issue of his job, he waives it off. The way he spent money on me and my friend that day was lavish and suspicious. I wasn't comfortable at all. He paid for my Uber ride to and fro. Spent about 80K at the exquisite restaurant just for food and drinks. We were three;Him, my friend And I. He uses two iPhones, one infinix hot4 and a smaller phone. I felt so much discomfort with him that day. Thank God my spirit never accepted him. that evening, he had a minor issue with his friend. I was listening to their conversation and I found out my guess was right. I had to cut up all ties with him after that day. abeg I can't be spending money whose source I know nothing about.

The second was a guy I loved, I won't lie. I met him at the mall and there was this kind of attraction. We flowed freely, got talking and all that. I won't say everything I witnessed at his place for personal reasons. I asked what he's been doing since he graduated, he said business. What kind of business? He replied; 'online business'

The day I visited him, his friends came over and for more than one hr, they were glued to their laptops, doing 'heaven knows what' and making calls to dupe victims. I also saw about 7 master keys for cars. I had no access to his FB account then. only whatsapp and IG.

When I checked his pictures on FB, I was trembling with all the things I saw. he's in a gang, probably a cult. Always wearing shirts with that devilish logo of a skull printed in it. Wearing all Black and all that.

And girls, please don't open your legs for any guy you've just met until you're very sure he's clean. I really loved this last one but although its hard to let go, I just have to.
I'm not saying I'm a virgin, but I just don't open my legs for any one because he throws money at my face whatsoever. I'm being very plain here so girls can learn.

Let this get to front page please mods.
irony of life! And a girl dumped my stupid Ass cos I'm hardworking, truthful but had no enough to lavish on her
. Op, so, Girls like u still dey exist? I get hope be that na.

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Maski87: 3:26am On Jun 28, 2017
Cork and bull story
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Innov8ve1: 3:31am On Jun 28, 2017
Tell them o, let them hear

Champions League matches are coming to Facebook

http://www.naijadailyfeed.com/2017/06/27/champions-league-matches-are-coming-to-facebook/
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by OrireSA(m): 3:36am On Jun 28, 2017
fastgyal:
I'm writing this from my own personal experience. Dear girls, don't just fall 'head over heels' for a guy without knowing the nature of his job or any of his close relatives.

There's this guy who's been inviting me over for quite sometime, we met at an event and exchanged contacts. I did that because he assisted me with something at that event. He calls me for about an hour or two every night. That was early this year.

When I asked about his nature of job, he said he was a contractor, he couldn't tell me which firm he works with. He stays at home 24/7 from Monday through Friday, weekends inclusive.

I finally agreed to go out with him sometime in February. This guy owns a Bentley and a Range Rover. Each time I try to bring up the issue of his job, he waives it off. The way he spent money on me and my friend that day was lavish and suspicious. I wasn't comfortable at all. He paid for my Uber ride to and fro. Spent about 80K at the exquisite restaurant just for food and drinks. We were three;Him, my friend And I. He uses two iPhones, one infinix hot4 and a smaller phone. I felt so much discomfort with him that day. Thank God my spirit never accepted him. that evening, he had a minor issue with his friend. I was listening to their conversation and I found out my guess was right. I had to cut up all ties with him after that day. abeg I can't be spending money whose source I know nothing about.

The second was a guy I loved, I won't lie. I met him at the mall and there was this kind of attraction. We flowed freely, got talking and all that. I won't say everything I witnessed at his place for personal reasons. I asked what he's been doing since he graduated, he said business. What kind of business? He replied; 'online business'

The day I visited him, his friends came over and for more than one hr, they were glued to their laptops, doing 'heaven knows what' and making calls to dupe victims. I also saw about 7 master keys for cars. I had no access to his FB account then. only whatsapp and IG.

When I checked his pictures on FB, I was trembling with all the things I saw. he's in a gang, probably a cult. Always wearing shirts with that devilish logo of a skull printed in it. Wearing all Black and all that.

And girls, please don't open your legs for any guy you've just met until you're very sure he's clean. I really loved this last one but although its hard to let go, I just have to.
I'm not saying I'm a virgin, but I just don't open my legs for any one because he throws money at my face whatsoever. I'm being very plain here so girls can learn.

Let this get to front page please mods.
my current girlfriend thought I was part of the illuminati when we started dating because I mostly stay at home too but I eventually told her I am a forex trader and I invest in a few businesses, but I definitely think these guys were shady.

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by taylor88(m): 3:41am On Jun 28, 2017
Joavid:
Which sexist mod changed the title from "agreeing to be his girlfriend" to "opening legs for him"?

disgusting!

they are to be blamed

The mods started this nonsense to an innocent gal with harmless advice

op nothing do u abeg

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by jiangchu: 3:43am On Jun 28, 2017
boiz2men:


Lol... Bros... Nor b near unilag she dey?

Nor b English education she dey study?

I don't know her though like you... I was in the process when I noticed some attitude and I backed off immediately.. She isnt worth knowing... She is here forming not materialistic and gullibles are getting trapped by the facade..

wow so she is a first class OLOSHO
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by madjune(m): 3:53am On Jun 28, 2017
No one is interested in your open legs o.

We don't want STD.

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by OrireSA(m): 3:55am On Jun 28, 2017
fastgyal:
You sound like a poor man. sorry about your predicament
Hahahaha! true, he does.
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Viking007(m): 3:57am On Jun 28, 2017
MrMcJay:
You made a guy spend 80K for food and drinks alone! Are you an IDP?

You open mouth and they put food of 80K inside. The next thing is for you to open legs. You're not even advising ladies to close their mouths and stop eating about like dustbins.

You're a greedy, vain, empty headed and hungry babe with nothing to offer. If you did, you won't let a man spend 80K on you without knowing what he does.

You're going to be the downfall of any unfortunate man who eventually gets into any form of relationship with you.

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by 007s(m): 4:05am On Jun 28, 2017
taylor88:


u shouldn't have brought this online precious
chaiii see gal wey i love been bashed
no wonder u made the statement"" this is the best way to get ride of people like u""
I talk am chaiii


were ni tailor eleyi o, walahi o mo op dele dele ni sha
sister op, o ni eyin naa cocky.
u too imagine u finish 80k for one sitting, and i dey struggle to pay uniben msc fee 150k.
u no c say na person wey dem take dey do ritual u be....
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by livinbygrace: 4:13am On Jun 28, 2017
fastgyal:
I'm writing this from my own personal experience. Dear girls, don't just fall 'head over heels' for a guy without knowing the nature of his job or any of his close relatives.

There's this guy who's been inviting me over for quite sometime, we met at an event and exchanged contacts. I did that because he assisted me with something at that event. He calls me for about an hour or two every night. That was early this year.

When I asked about his nature of job, he said he was a contractor, he couldn't tell me which firm he works with. He stays at home 24/7 from Monday through Friday, weekends inclusive.

I finally agreed to go out with him sometime in February. This guy owns a Bentley and a Range Rover. Each time I try to bring up the issue of his job, he waives it off. The way he spent money on me and my friend that day was lavish and suspicious. I wasn't comfortable at all. He paid for my Uber ride to and fro. Spent about 80K at the exquisite restaurant just for food and drinks. We were three;Him, my friend And I. He uses two iPhones, one infinix hot4 and a smaller phone. I felt so much discomfort with him that day. Thank God my spirit never accepted him. that evening, he had a minor issue with his friend. I was listening to their conversation and I found out my guess was right. I had to cut up all ties with him after that day. abeg I can't be spending money whose source I know nothing about.

The second was a guy I loved, I won't lie. I met him at the mall and there was this kind of attraction. We flowed freely, got talking and all that. I won't say everything I witnessed at his place for personal reasons. I asked what he's been doing since he graduated, he said business. What kind of business? He replied; 'online business'

The day I visited him, his friends came over and for more than one hr, they were glued to their laptops, doing 'heaven knows what' and making calls to dupe victims. I also saw about 7 master keys for cars. I had no access to his FB account then. only whatsapp and IG.

When I checked his pictures on FB, I was trembling with all the things I saw. he's in a gang, probably a cult. Always wearing shirts with that devilish logo of a skull printed in it. Wearing all Black and all that.

And girls, please don't open your legs for any guy you've just met until you're very sure he's clean. I really loved this last one but although its hard to let go, I just have to.
I'm not saying I'm a virgin, but I just don't open my legs for any one because he throws money at my face whatsoever. I'm being very plain here so girls can learn.

Let this get to front page please mods.


How many jobs have you provided,seems you dont know the rate of unemployment in the country and i guess you are still a young lady being spoon feed by your parent?Dont worry when time reach,na your type dey run go shilow every year.
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by VickyRotex(f): 4:26am On Jun 28, 2017
Op, thanks for taking the time to share.
I hope you've learnt and I hope we all learn!

One advise, Change your circle of influence. All the best!

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