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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by pumppin(m): 4:31am On Jun 28, 2017
fastgyal:
I'm writing this from my own personal experience. Dear girls, don't just fall 'head over heels' for a guy without knowing the nature of his job or any of his close relatives.

There's this guy who's been inviting me over for quite sometime, we met at an event and exchanged contacts. I did that because he assisted me with something at that event. He calls me for about an hour or two every night. That was early this year.

When I asked about his nature of job, he said he was a contractor, he couldn't tell me which firm he works with. He stays at home 24/7 from Monday through Friday, weekends inclusive.

I finally agreed to go out with him sometime in February. This guy owns a Bentley and a Range Rover. Each time I try to bring up the issue of his job, he waives it off. The way he spent money on me and my friend that day was lavish and suspicious. I wasn't comfortable at all. He paid for my Uber ride to and fro. Spent about 80K at the exquisite restaurant just for food and drinks. We were three;Him, my friend And I. He uses two iPhones, one infinix hot4 and a smaller phone. I felt so much discomfort with him that day. Thank God my spirit never accepted him. that evening, he had a minor issue with his friend. I was listening to their conversation and I found out my guess was right. I had to cut up all ties with him after that day. abeg I can't be spending money whose source I know nothing about.

The second was a guy I loved, I won't lie. I met him at the mall and there was this kind of attraction. We flowed freely, got talking and all that. I won't say everything I witnessed at his place for personal reasons. I asked what he's been doing since he graduated, he said business. What kind of business? He replied; 'online business'

The day I visited him, his friends came over and for more than one hr, they were glued to their laptops, doing 'heaven knows what' and making calls to dupe victims. I also saw about 7 master keys for cars. I had no access to his FB account then. only whatsapp and IG.

When I checked his pictures on FB, I was trembling with all the things I saw. he's in a gang, probably a cult. Always wearing shirts with that devilish logo of a skull printed in it. Wearing all Black and all that.

And girls, please don't open your legs for any guy you've just met until you're very sure he's clean. I really loved this last one but although its hard to let go, I just have to.
I'm not saying I'm a virgin, but I just don't open my legs for any one because he throws money at my face whatsoever. I'm being very plain here so girls can learn.

Let this get to front page please mods.
you should be ashamed of yourself for advicing your fellow girls to engage themselves with sex before marriage,is that how you were cheaply brought up?to open your legs for any man that has a clean job or records,stop deciving yourself and get married,sex before marriage is funication,yeye folw.

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by aamstih: 4:51am On Jun 28, 2017
Nice one op.

The ultimate is not even opening except he is your husband.
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Ijaya123: 4:52am On Jun 28, 2017
Op, you mean a guy with a good job is guaranteed of girls opening their legs for him?

And it is obvious you don't believe in no sex before marriage.
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by femi4: 4:53am On Jun 28, 2017
fastgyal:
I'm writing this from my own personal experience. Dear girls, don't just fall 'head over heels' for a guy without knowing the nature of his job or any of his close relatives.

There's this guy who's been inviting me over for quite sometime, we met at an event and exchanged contacts. I did that because he assisted me with something at that event. He calls me for about an hour or two every night. That was early this year.

When I asked about his nature of job, he said he was a contractor, he couldn't tell me which firm he works with. He stays at home 24/7 from Monday through Friday, weekends inclusive.

I finally agreed to go out with him sometime in February. This guy owns a Bentley and a Range Rover. Each time I try to bring up the issue of his job, he waives it off. The way he spent money on me and my friend that day was lavish and suspicious. I wasn't comfortable at all. He paid for my Uber ride to and fro. Spent about 80K at the exquisite restaurant just for food and drinks. We were three;Him, my friend And I. He uses two iPhones, one infinix hot4 and a smaller phone. I felt so much discomfort with him that day. Thank God my spirit never accepted him. that evening, he had a minor issue with his friend. I was listening to their conversation and I found out my guess was right. I had to cut up all ties with him after that day. abeg I can't be spending money whose source I know nothing about.

The second was a guy I loved, I won't lie. I met him at the mall and there was this kind of attraction. We flowed freely, got talking and all that. I won't say everything I witnessed at his place for personal reasons. I asked what he's been doing since he graduated, he said business. What kind of business? He replied; 'online business'

The day I visited him, his friends came over and for more than one hr, they were glued to their laptops, doing 'heaven knows what' and making calls to dupe victims. I also saw about 7 master keys for cars. I had no access to his FB account then. only whatsapp and IG.

When I checked his pictures on FB, I was trembling with all the things I saw. he's in a gang, probably a cult. Always wearing shirts with that devilish logo of a skull printed in it. Wearing all Black and all that.

And girls, please don't open your legs for any guy you've just met until you're very sure he's clean. I really loved this last one but although its hard to let go, I just have to.
I'm not saying I'm a virgin, but I just don't open my legs for any one because he throws money at my face whatsoever. I'm being very plain here so girls can learn.

Let this get to front page please mods.
This one you are meeting armed robbers/yahoo yahoo.....you better go wash your head for river.

Likes begat likes
I m afraid everything about you is in between your leg, no brain at all

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by ademusiwa3r: 4:55am On Jun 28, 2017
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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Bibi294(f): 4:57am On Jun 28, 2017
Aunty OP... You're right... The same way I'm afraid making friends with guys in my city... Everybody is driving a car... Everyone of them is living lavishly... Girls keep dying daily,guys keep getting richer... Omo, na to stay celibate o

That was how a friend of mine relocated to another city, he invited me to his hotel room when he came home from the city(an hotel closer to his family house o) he was using iphone7 and a cream worths forty two thousand... I shivered! I kuku told him I wanted to get something outside and that was it... I left...

Guys now are difficult to roll with... My advice for we ladies is to always SHINE YOUR EYE! shocked

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Nobody: 5:01am On Jun 28, 2017
Op you are liar! you have never met anyone driving a toyota micra let alone a Bentley! it's all in your warped Gold digging imaginations, you wished!.

so if he this your imaginary boyfriend wasn't a fraudster you would have opened your smelly pussi right? well.. It wouldn't have made any difference you still opened your legs! grin grin Ashawoo! no offence!

OP please tell us what kind of job do you do?

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by ucnwafor(m): 5:05am On Jun 28, 2017
pumppin:
you should be ashamed of yourself for advicing your fellow girls to engage themselves with sex before marriage,is that how you were cheaply brought up?to open your legs for any man that has a clean job or records,stop deciving yourself and get married,sex before marriage is funication,yeye folw.
so true....
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by emmanuelewumi(m): 5:07am On Jun 28, 2017
doris4u:
I must say ur a sensible lady for opting out but there is something that caught my attention, U said girls should learn to know guys before opening there legs.Must a lady sleep with a guy while dating. For me i don't think is a must u sleep with a guy ur dating,most times it backfires. I don't see it as increasing or reducing love.


Say no to premarital sex and premarital spending from a man.
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by TechPanda(m): 5:09am On Jun 28, 2017
LEAFLET:
Nice story though... Me and you OP know say you made this up but nice skills though.. When's your first comic series coming out

grin Almost Thinking Same. If The Op Spirit Could Reject Those Guys, I Think My Spirit Is Rejecting This
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by TechPanda(m): 5:13am On Jun 28, 2017
fastgyal:
I'm not new on NL abeg.
K, Where Do You Mha Work?
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by joey150(m): 5:17am On Jun 28, 2017
Cholls:
my brother's listen carefully to my advice ...whatever a woman says must be received with caution cuz "A woman's talk heat from grass"












And by the way.... I am fvckup artist any of u ladies who is interested can Pm


Hahah. Man you are following almost all the girls on NL.. I dunno why i checked but its creepy. grin grin
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Jossibest(m): 5:18am On Jun 28, 2017
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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Nobody: 5:22am On Jun 28, 2017
Na una longer throat dey make guys commit all these evil, since u no fit follow dem struggle. All these lavish lifestyle is because of naija girls.

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by bayulll011(m): 5:25am On Jun 28, 2017
fastgyal:
I'm writing this from my own personal experience. Dear girls, don't just fall 'head over heels' for a guy without knowing the nature of his job or any of his close relatives.

There's this guy who's been inviting me over for quite sometime, we met at an event and exchanged contacts. I did that because he assisted me with something at that event. He calls me for about an hour or two every night. That was early this year.

When I asked about his nature of job, he said he was a contractor, he couldn't tell me which firm he works with. He stays at home 24/7 from Monday through Friday, weekends inclusive.

I finally agreed to go out with him sometime in February. This guy owns a Bentley and a Range Rover. Each time I try to bring up the issue of his job, he waives it off. The way he spent money on me and my friend that day was lavish and suspicious. I wasn't comfortable at all. He paid for my Uber ride to and fro. Spent about 80K at the exquisite restaurant just for food and drinks. We were three;Him, my friend And I. He uses two iPhones, one infinix hot4 and a smaller phone. I felt so much discomfort with him that day. Thank God my spirit never accepted him. that evening, he had a minor issue with his friend. I was listening to their conversation and I found out my guess was right. I had to cut up all ties with him after that day. abeg I can't be spending money whose source I know nothing about.

The second was a guy I loved, I won't lie. I met him at the mall and there was this kind of attraction. We flowed freely, got talking and all that. I won't say everything I witnessed at his place for personal reasons. I asked what he's been doing since he graduated, he said business. What kind of business? He replied; 'online business'

The day I visited him, his friends came over and for more than one hr, they were glued to their laptops, doing 'heaven knows what' and making calls to dupe victims. I also saw about 7 master keys for cars. I had no access to his FB account then. only whatsapp and IG.

When I checked his pictures on FB, I was trembling with all the things I saw. he's in a gang, probably a cult. Always wearing shirts with that devilish logo of a skull printed in it. Wearing all Black and all that.

And girls, please don't open your legs for any guy you've just met until you're very sure he's clean. I really loved this last one but although its hard to let go, I just have to.
I'm not saying I'm a virgin, but I just don't open my legs for any one because he throws money at my face whatsoever. I'm being very plain here so girls can learn.

Let this get to front page please mods.

Weldon sensible girl,wish they will learn
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by danigbo(m): 5:31am On Jun 28, 2017
Can any one remind me how that TOMPOLO case was concluded. ..
I just de ask. ...nobi say. ..
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by wadetaw202: 5:36am On Jun 28, 2017
nddydamzi:
nice writeup op...but man must whack...

Yeah, man must whack even if he has to make other people go hungry in the process.
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by wadetaw202: 5:43am On Jun 28, 2017
fastgyal:
Read carefully please. I didn't ask him to do all that. He did it willingly and when I tried to talk, he began asking me if I was the one spending the money. Abeg, a responsible man who worked hard for his money can't spend it foolishly. These things don't get to me. I've seen other people's experience and I've learnt to be wise.

Pls I want to ask a question. Do you think it is right for a girl to take her friend along when going on a date? Isn't dating for two people? Why bringing a third person along? Hope you won't see my question as irrelevant?

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by hedonistic: 5:45am On Jun 28, 2017
networkrecharg:
PLEASE TRY AND REFUND YOUR QUOTA OF THE 80K U ATE...

OF WHAT USE ARE YOU IF U EAT HIS MONEY AND CLOSE YOUR FISVIRGTINED....

Careless thought s

One annoying thing I've noticed about Nigerian girls is how they allow you spend your own money while sizing you up, and then make a decision whether to continue or not. In other words, you are spending your own money to 'audition' yourself before her, at no cost whatsoever to her. This one came to chop N80k on a guy's head, plus Tfare, only to then decide that she's not interested. It's just too annoying.

Guys need to retrace their steps in this regard. Girls shouldn't be encouraged to have their cake and eat it too.

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by eallstar: 5:46am On Jun 28, 2017
fastgyal:
I'm writing this from my own personal experience. Dear girls, don't just fall 'head over heels' for a guy without knowing the nature of his job or any of his close relatives.

There's this guy who's been inviting me over for quite sometime, we met at an event and exchanged contacts. I did that because he assisted me with something at that event. He calls me for about an hour or two every night. That was early this year.

When I asked about his nature of job, he said he was a contractor, he couldn't tell me which firm he works with. He stays at home 24/7 from Monday through Friday, weekends inclusive.

I finally agreed to go out with him sometime in February. This guy owns a Bentley and a Range Rover. Each time I try to bring up the issue of his job, he waives it off. The way he spent money on me and my friend that day was lavish and suspicious. I wasn't comfortable at all. He paid for my Uber ride to and fro. Spent about 80K at the exquisite restaurant just for food and drinks. We were three;Him, my friend And I. He uses two iPhones, one infinix hot4 and a smaller phone. I felt so much discomfort with him that day. Thank God my spirit never accepted him. that evening, he had a minor issue with his friend. I was listening to their conversation and I found out my guess was right. I had to cut up all ties with him after that day. abeg I can't be spending money whose source I know nothing about.

The second was a guy I loved, I won't lie. I met him at the mall and there was this kind of attraction. We flowed freely, got talking and all that. I won't say everything I witnessed at his place for personal reasons. I asked what he's been doing since he graduated, he said business. What kind of business? He replied; 'online business'

The day I visited him, his friends came over and for more than one hr, they were glued to their laptops, doing 'heaven knows what' and making calls to dupe victims. I also saw about 7 master keys for cars. I had no access to his FB account then. only whatsapp and IG.

When I checked his pictures on FB, I was trembling with all the things I saw. he's in a gang, probably a cult. Always wearing shirts with that devilish logo of a skull printed in it. Wearing all Black and all that.

And girls, please don't open your legs for any guy you've just met until you're very sure he's clean. I really loved this last one but although its hard to let go, I just have to.
I'm not saying I'm a virgin, but I just don't open my legs for any one because he throws money at my face whatsoever. I'm being very plain here so girls can learn.

Let this get to front page please mods.
@op after u have enjoyed 80k launch with your friend, u are now here giving advice, trying to block other girls for their own share.
it's a lie, it's not gonna work....kole werk cos am going for my own share also.
NB: next time@op b4 giving advice make sure u are clean, not after u have enjoyed part of d loot then u are given advice blocking other people's chance,
there is not wrong rejecting d offer as u don't know d source but instead u enjoyed d chicken not done still carry ur friend along, and u are here forming saint that u don't know d source. I rest my case.
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Luvdk(f): 5:48am On Jun 28, 2017
No pussy for poor men
Simple!
If I am the only gal on ds earth, I will show them shege

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Climax11: 5:48am On Jun 28, 2017
fastgyal:
I'm writing this from my own personal experience. Dear girls, don't just fall 'head over heels' for a guy without knowing the nature of his job or any of his close relatives.

There's this guy who's been inviting me over for quite sometime, we met at an event and exchanged contacts. I did that because he assisted me with something at that event. He calls me for about an hour or two every night. That was early this year.

When I asked about his nature of job, he said he was a contractor, he couldn't tell me which firm he works with. He stays at home 24/7 from Monday through Friday, weekends inclusive.

I finally agreed to go out with him sometime in February. This guy owns a Bentley and a Range Rover. Each time I try to bring up the issue of his job, he waives it off. The way he spent money on me and my friend that day was lavish and suspicious. I wasn't comfortable at all. He paid for my Uber ride to and fro. Spent about 80K at the exquisite restaurant just for food and drinks. We were three;Him, my friend And I. He uses two iPhones, one infinix hot4 and a smaller phone. I felt so much discomfort with him that day. Thank God my spirit never accepted him. that evening, he had a minor issue with his friend. I was listening to their conversation and I found out my guess was right. I had to cut up all ties with him after that day. abeg I can't be spending money whose source I know nothing about.

The second was a guy I loved, I won't lie. I met him at the mall and there was this kind of attraction. We flowed freely, got talking and all that. I won't say everything I witnessed at his place for personal reasons. I asked what he's been doing since he graduated, he said business. What kind of business? He replied; 'online business'

The day I visited him, his friends came over and for more than one hr, they were glued to their laptops, doing 'heaven knows what' and making calls to dupe victims. I also saw about 7 master keys for cars. I had no access to his FB account then. only whatsapp and IG.

When I checked his pictures on FB, I was trembling with all the things I saw. he's in a gang, probably a cult. Always wearing shirts with that devilish logo of a skull printed in it. Wearing all Black and all that.

And girls, please don't open your legs for any guy you've just met until you're very sure he's clean. I really loved this last one but although its hard to let go, I just have to.
I'm not saying I'm a virgin, but I just don't open my legs for any one because he throws money at my face whatsoever. I'm being very plain here so girls can learn.

Let this get to front page please mods.
I think EFCC needs to invite you for more information
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by legendsilver(m): 5:48am On Jun 28, 2017
fastgyal:
I'm writing this from my own personal experience. Dear girls, don't just fall 'head over heels' for a guy without knowing the nature of his job or any of his close relatives.

There's this guy who's been inviting me over for quite sometime, we met at an event and exchanged contacts. I did that because he assisted me with something at that event. He calls me for about an hour or two every night. That was early this year.

When I asked about his nature of job, he said he was a contractor, he couldn't tell me which firm he works with. He stays at home 24/7 from Monday through Friday, weekends inclusive.

I finally agreed to go out with him sometime in February. This guy owns a Bentley and a Range Rover. Each time I try to bring up the issue of his job, he waives it off. The way he spent money on me and my friend that day was lavish and suspicious. I wasn't comfortable at all. He paid for my Uber ride to and fro. Spent about 80K at the exquisite restaurant just for food and drinks. We were three;Him, my friend And I. He uses two iPhones, one infinix hot4 and a smaller phone. I felt so much discomfort with him that day. Thank God my spirit never accepted him. that evening, he had a minor issue with his friend. I was listening to their conversation and I found out my guess was right. I had to cut up all ties with him after that day. abeg I can't be spending money whose source I know nothing about.

The second was a guy I loved, I won't lie. I met him at the mall and there was this kind of attraction. We flowed freely, got talking and all that. I won't say everything I witnessed at his place for personal reasons. I asked what he's been doing since he graduated, he said business. What kind of business? He replied; 'online business'

The day I visited him, his friends came over and for more than one hr, they were glued to their laptops, doing 'heaven knows what' and making calls to dupe victims. I also saw about 7 master keys for cars. I had no access to his FB account then. only whatsapp and IG.

When I checked his pictures on FB, I was trembling with all the things I saw. he's in a gang, probably a cult. Always wearing shirts with that devilish logo of a skull printed in it. Wearing all Black and all that.

And girls, please don't open your legs for any guy you've just met until you're very sure he's clean. I really loved this last one but although its hard to let go, I just have to.
I'm not saying I'm a virgin, but I just don't open my legs for any one because he throws money at my face whatsoever. I'm being very plain here so girls can learn.

Let this get to front page please mods.
God bless your generation for this dear
Some girls will boldly say my guy is a YY boy, imagine that?

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by hedonistic: 5:50am On Jun 28, 2017
Bibi294:
Aunty OP... You're right... The same way I'm afraid making friends with guys in my city... Everybody is driving a car... Everyone of them is living lavishly... Girls keep dying daily,guys keep getting richer... Omo, na to stay celibate o

That was how a friend of mine relocated to another city, he invited me to his hotel room when he came home from the city(an hotel closer to his family house o) he was using iphone7 and a cream worths forty two thousand... I shivered! I kuku told him I wanted to get something outside and that was it... I left...

Guys now are difficult to roll with... My advice for we ladies is to always SHINE YOUR EYE! shocked

Are you alright? In which city is very guy rich? Why not look around for the hundreds of regular struggling guys who do not own a car, but earn a decent amount to get by daily? They are many of them around you at this moment, but your greedy and materialistic eyes wouldn't see them. Keep deceiving yourself.
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Nobody: 5:52am On Jun 28, 2017
Thunder angry
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by squash47(m): 5:54am On Jun 28, 2017
VargasVee:
Shady Story Op


Your thinking spirit refused him but your monetary spirit did not mind


So after you've been enjoying the money and gave it to him, you're now here giving advice

Are you sure there's not other women in the equation that made you ran? Cause I know the lifestyle this people live.
I just tire for the yeye story and advice...so someone like SEUN is doing a bad job because he works online moreover her story no go deep,she just dy keep person on suspense...
tchew.trash
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Nobody: 5:58am On Jun 28, 2017
fastgyal:
I'm writing this from my own personal experience. Dear girls, don't just fall 'head over heels' for a guy without knowing the nature of his job or any of his close relatives.

There's this guy who's been inviting me over for quite sometime, we met at an event and exchanged contacts. I did that because he assisted me with something at that event. He calls me for about an hour or two every night. That was early this year.

When I asked about his nature of job, he said he was a contractor, he couldn't tell me which firm he works with. He stays at home 24/7 from Monday through Friday, weekends inclusive.

I finally agreed to go out with him sometime in February. This guy owns a Bentley and a Range Rover. Each time I try to bring up the issue of his job, he waives it off. The way he spent money on me and my friend that day was lavish and suspicious. I wasn't comfortable at all. He paid for my Uber ride to and fro. Spent about 80K at the exquisite restaurant just for food and drinks. We were three;Him, my friend And I. He uses two iPhones, one infinix hot4 and a smaller phone. I felt so much discomfort with him that day. Thank God my spirit never accepted him. that evening, he had a minor issue with his friend. I was listening to their conversation and I found out my guess was right. I had to cut up all ties with him after that day. abeg I can't be spending money whose source I know nothing about.

The second was a guy I loved, I won't lie. I met him at the mall and there was this kind of attraction. We flowed freely, got talking and all that. I won't say everything I witnessed at his place for personal reasons. I asked what he's been doing since he graduated, he said business. What kind of business? He replied; 'online business'

The day I visited him, his friends came over and for more than one hr, they were glued to their laptops, doing 'heaven knows what' and making calls to dupe victims. I also saw about 7 master keys for cars. I had no access to his FB account then. only whatsapp and IG.

When I checked his pictures on FB, I was trembling with all the things I saw. he's in a gang, probably a cult. Always wearing shirts with that devilish logo of a skull printed in it. Wearing all Black and all that.

And girls, please don't open your legs for any guy you've just met until you're very sure he's clean. I really loved this last one but although its hard to let go, I just have to.
I'm not saying I'm a virgin, but I just don't open my legs for any one because he throws money at my face whatsoever. I'm being very plain here so girls can learn.

Let this get to front page please mods.
This is what you've doing for so long. Sleeping with these guys. Unfortunately, it seems like you want to settle down and so, you want a good guy. Telling your fellow girls not to date these kind of guys won't work. Because they too want to enjoy life regardless of where the money is coming from.
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Bestchoice4me(m): 5:58am On Jun 28, 2017
fastgyal:
I'm writing this from my own personal experience. Dear girls, don't just fall 'head over heels' for a guy without knowing the nature of his job or any of his close relatives.

There's this guy who's been inviting me over for quite sometime, we met at an event and exchanged contacts. I did that because he assisted me with something at that event. He calls me for about an hour or two every night. That was early this year.

When I asked about his nature of job, he said he was a contractor, he couldn't tell me which firm he works with. He stays at home 24/7 from Monday through Friday, weekends inclusive.

I finally agreed to go out with him sometime in February. This guy owns a Bentley and a Range Rover. Each time I try to bring up the issue of his job, he waives it off. The way he spent money on me and my friend that day was lavish and suspicious. I wasn't comfortable at all. He paid for my Uber ride to and fro. Spent about 80K at the exquisite restaurant just for food and drinks. We were three;Him, my friend And I. He uses two iPhones, one infinix hot4 and a smaller phone. I felt so much discomfort with him that day. Thank God my spirit never accepted him. that evening, he had a minor issue with his friend. I was listening to their conversation and I found out my guess was right. I had to cut up all ties with him after that day. abeg I can't be spending money whose source I know nothing about.

The second was a guy I loved, I won't lie. I met him at the mall and there was this kind of attraction. We flowed freely, got talking and all that. I won't say everything I witnessed at his place for personal reasons. I asked what he's been doing since he graduated, he said business. What kind of business? He replied; 'online business'

The day I visited him, his friends came over and for more than one hr, they were glued to their laptops, doing 'heaven knows what' and making calls to dupe victims. I also saw about 7 master keys for cars. I had no access to his FB account then. only whatsapp and IG.

When I checked his pictures on FB, I was trembling with all the things I saw. he's in a gang, probably a cult. Always wearing shirts with that devilish logo of a skull printed in it. Wearing all Black and all that.

And girls, please don't open your legs for any guy you've just met until you're very sure he's clean. I really loved this last one but although its hard to let go, I just have to.
I'm not saying I'm a virgin, but I just don't open my legs for any one because he throws money at my face whatsoever. I'm being very plain here so girls can learn.

Let this get to front page please mods.
So,u still don't knw dat it's because of u girls some guys look 4 any means 2 get money right?take 4 instance,when u date a broke guy and u eventually brk up wit him,d guy will wonder and say,"was it because am broke" den he will vow and said 2 himself,"u will later come back to beg me",so d guy buckle up and do some pure runz,now he's living large,u may nt wnt 2 date him again o,but deep within u is full of regret dat u leave him,so it's most of u gurls dat push many guys to look 4 money in every means..
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Amarabae(f): 6:06am On Jun 28, 2017
Hahahaha. Some guys here have no chill.
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by henryhemon(m): 6:06am On Jun 28, 2017
Luvdk:
No pussy for poor men
Simple!
If I am the only gal on ds earth, I will show them shege

Only your nose will make poor guys even run away from you aunty no guy man with class will even say hi to you.
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Nobody: 6:09am On Jun 28, 2017
Luvdk:
No pussy for poor men
Simple!
If I am the only gal on ds earth, I will show them shege
Hahahahaha. Funny girl!

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