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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Davidakaolori(m): 6:12am On Jun 28, 2017
Op which church do you attend?
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by judgedredd22(m): 6:13am On Jun 28, 2017
PrinceCEE:


Do you drink orijin?


I could buy a plate of nkwobi for you. I wonder why people are just dyslexic.
How do they even pass comprehension in English language?

Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by FredHandsome(m): 6:15am On Jun 28, 2017
Billyonaire:
I spend more time on laptop too mostly researching and nairaland, and I wear a ring with a skull. Sometimes I spend far more than what you mentioned there for just anyone, girl oh, boy oh, lesbian oh, etc, just depends on how I feel. And if you ask me what I do, I am very sure I do not have time to discuss my businesses with some tramp I met on the streets. This is basically the life style of an average American, European and few Nigerians who are no longer suffering the 9-5 slave trend. So what does that qualify me for ? I think you should date the politicians, they are better thieves than Yahoo Boys. Sorry, I meant Pastors. Their jets are fruits of their hardworks. I know Yahoo boys will rejoice that I support them. When dem catch una, na me go laugh pass.

Judge not. I used to, now I dont. No one is qualified to judge, not even God judges. We judge ourselves.
Nicely said.

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by judgedredd22(m): 6:16am On Jun 28, 2017
Ishilove:

*Run*


so... you no just fit leave him gbagaun for am, abi! cheesy cheesy

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Collins87: 6:19am On Jun 28, 2017
fastgyal:
I didn't say I only date rich guys. I'm talking about my experience with guys who have asked me out whose source of income is unknown.
. Yes why must it be this type of people you always meet. You attract who you are.
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Collins87: 6:19am On Jun 28, 2017
fastgyal:
I didn't say I only date rich guys. I'm talking about my experience with guys who have asked me out whose source of income is unknown.
. Yes why must it be this type of people you always meet. You attract who you are. Seen.
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by judgedredd22(m): 6:19am On Jun 28, 2017
PrinceCEE:



Don't tell me that your cognitive domain is faulty...


Sometimes, we look beyond literal meanings and delve into the implied meaning. Read again, I say, read through her post again and come up with a better argument.

You can better still, go through the page to see where she replied someone affirmatively to my conjecture.

Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by judgedredd22(m): 6:21am On Jun 28, 2017
MrMcJay:


You lack the morals to understand the foundation behind the misplaced advise the OP gave. I won't blame you tho, you can't give what you lack.

I'll advise that you give my initial post to someone with an IQ higher than single-digit IQ to read and explain to you. When done, go and sit in a corner and think about your life.

Sayonara!

Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by whizzyleejr(m): 6:25am On Jun 28, 2017
Leave them let them open it on the first day they met and they will know what life is if they are dumped with pregnancy

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Martin0(m): 6:25am On Jun 28, 2017
gypsey:
Op you are liar! you have never met anyone driving a toyota micra let alone a Bentley! it's all in your warped Gold digging imaginations, you wished!.

so if he this your imaginary boyfriend wasn't a fraudster you would have opened your smelly pussi right? well.. It wouldn't have made any difference you still opened your legs! grin grin Ashawoo! no offence!

OP please tell us what kind of job do you do?
hmmmm
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by judgedredd22(m): 6:26am On Jun 28, 2017
delivryboy:
Typical Nigerian girls write up, no facts nor figures, only spirit voice. Your write up didn't pass any clear message, no new knowledge whatsoever. How did you tell yourself you would post this write up on nairaland forum. You need to learn the art of writing properly before you come up with disconnected assumptions. Anyway stop eating 80 thousand naira worth of food at a sitting, are you fire that consumes everything?

Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by daclint(m): 6:26am On Jun 28, 2017
Ab025:
But how come you only date these guys that are well to do financially, have Bentleys, 7cars etc, then leave them when you discover they are 419ers?

Can't you hook up with that young guy in ur street or out there that has an average job, doesn't have a car, is responsible and will really love you for who you are...

I think the financial worth of the kind of guy you date is also a reflection of your financial taste.

#Lady, reduce your taste...

U deserve an over chilled beer
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by lydiaoluwaseyi(f): 6:29am On Jun 28, 2017
this is called self discipline if a lady lacks this her time counts nw
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by transient123(m): 6:30am On Jun 28, 2017
See nonsense advice. So, you have to open your soak away for all guys whose monies are clean and have genuine means of livelihood.

Op, am having a feeling you are a runs grandma.

Apologies if truth is better.

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by tectonotimes: 6:31am On Jun 28, 2017
Oyindidi:
Praise singer, the op is worst than the girls she's advicing here.
Yes, the OP is worse that those girls she is giving advice to. After sleeping with all sorts of diabolic sugar daddies owing to her quest for material things, she has turned to an adviser to ladies on who to open legs for.
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by judgedredd22(m): 6:32am On Jun 28, 2017
fastgyal:
You sound like a poor man. sorry about your predicament


grin grin grin grin grin

to the guy that owns this reply.....

Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Arijude(m): 6:32am On Jun 28, 2017
You are who you date, period!
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by IRIEBOY(m): 6:34am On Jun 28, 2017
subtlemee:
Why am I having this strange feeling about this thread? And OP got registered just last month and her signature and personal text is suggesting something her topic too is eye catching...


I smell rat
you get sense.. I smell ratssssss
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by crackhouse(m): 6:35am On Jun 28, 2017
fastgyal:
I'm writing this from my own personal experience. Dear girls, don't just fall 'head over heels' for a guy without knowing the nature of his job or any of his close relatives.

There's this guy who's been inviting me over for quite sometime, we met at an event and exchanged contacts. I did that because he assisted me with something at that event. He calls me for about an hour or two every night. That was early this year.

When I asked about his nature of job, he said he was a contractor, he couldn't tell me which firm he works with. He stays at home 24/7 from Monday through Friday, weekends inclusive.

I finally agreed to go out with him sometime in February. This guy owns a Bentley and a Range Rover. Each time I try to bring up the issue of his job, he waives it off. The way he spent money on me and my friend that day was lavish and suspicious. I wasn't comfortable at all. He paid for my Uber ride to and fro. Spent about 80K at the exquisite restaurant just for food and drinks. We were three;Him, my friend And I. He uses two iPhones, one infinix hot4 and a smaller phone. I felt so much discomfort with him that day. Thank God my spirit never accepted him. that evening, he had a minor issue with his friend. I was listening to their conversation and I found out my guess was right. I had to cut up all ties with him after that day. abeg I can't be spending money whose source I know nothing about.

The second was a guy I loved, I won't lie. I met him at the mall and there was this kind of attraction. We flowed freely, got talking and all that. I won't say everything I witnessed at his place for personal reasons. I asked what he's been doing since he graduated, he said business. What kind of business? He replied; 'online business'

The day I visited him, his friends came over and for more than one hr, they were glued to their laptops, doing 'heaven knows what' and making calls to dupe victims. I also saw about 7 master keys for cars. I had no access to his FB account then. only whatsapp and IG.

When I checked his pictures on FB, I was trembling with all the things I saw. he's in a gang, probably a cult. Always wearing shirts with that devilish logo of a skull printed in it. Wearing all Black and all that.

And girls, please don't open your legs for any guy you've just met until you're very sure he's clean. I really loved this last one but although its hard to let go, I just have to.
I'm not saying I'm a virgin, but I just don't open my legs for any one because he throws money at my face whatsoever. I'm being very plain here so girls can learn.

Let this get to front page please mods.
will u date me if I tell u mine?.
It is legit.
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Bibi294(f): 6:35am On Jun 28, 2017
hedonistic:


Are you alright? In which city is very guy rich? Why not look around for the hundreds of regular struggling guys who do not own a car, but earn a decent amount to get by daily? They are many of them around you at this moment, but your greedy and materialistic eyes wouldn't see them. Keep deceiving yourself.
Sorry is your case... Dunno why you guys can't read between lines... I know you're frustrated, kpele... Moreso, I'm never materialistic... I hustle to make end meet.... Do I even have to rely on anyone to fend myself? Not even my parents...
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by judgedredd22(m): 6:36am On Jun 28, 2017
Billyonaire:
I spend more time on laptop too mostly researching and nairaland, and I wear a ring with a skull. Sometimes I spend far more than what you mentioned there for just anyone, girl oh, boy oh, lesbian oh, etc, just depends on how I feel. And if you ask me what I do, I am very sure I do not have time to discuss my businesses with some tramp I met on the streets. This is basically the life style of an average American, European and few Nigerians who are no longer suffering the 9-5 slave trend. So what does that qualify me for ? I think you should date the politicians, they are better thieves than Yahoo Boys. Sorry, I meant Pastors. Their jets are fruits of their hardworks. I know Yahoo boys will rejoice that I support them. When dem catch una, na me go laugh pass.

Judge not. I used to, now I dont. No one is qualified to judge, not even God judges. We judge ourselves.

Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by LoveJesus87(m): 6:37am On Jun 28, 2017
doris4u:
I must say ur a sensible lady for opting out but there is something that caught my attention, U said girls should learn to know guys before opening there legs.Must a lady sleep with a guy while dating. For me i don't think is a must u sleep with a guy ur dating,most times it backfires. I don't see it as increasing or reducing love.
God bless you o. U are the ONLY one that has hit the nail right on the head since. Only sensible comment here. Dis world is just dead and gone. Irredeemable. Deris no fear of God at all. Everyone now takes it as normal. Having sex anyhow. Or having sex just because you are dating not married. Something that is extremely sacred. Can you imagine? D youth of this generation are so cursed beyond redemption, dey are the most filthy set to ever exist since the inception of the world, even sodom and Gomorrah must marvel at their immorality

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Oyindidi(f): 6:37am On Jun 28, 2017
Theblackstalln:

I just felt like Pissing u off
you need Jesus
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by abbadsinger: 6:38am On Jun 28, 2017
fastgyal:
I'm writing this from my own personal experience. Dear girls, don't just fall 'head over heels' for a guy without knowing the nature of his job or any of his close relatives.

There's this guy who's been inviting me over for quite sometime, we met at an event and exchanged contacts. I did that because he assisted me with something at that event. He calls me for about an hour or two every night. That was early this year.

When I asked about his nature of job, he said he was a contractor, he couldn't tell me which firm he works with. He stays at home 24/7 from Monday through Friday, weekends inclusive.

I finally agreed to go out with him sometime in February. This guy owns a Bentley and a Range Rover. Each time I try to bring up the issue of his job, he waives it off. The way he spent money on me and my friend that day was lavish and suspicious. I wasn't comfortable at all. He paid for my Uber ride to and fro. Spent about 80K at the exquisite restaurant just for food and drinks. We were three;Him, my friend And I. He uses two iPhones, one infinix hot4 and a smaller phone. I felt so much discomfort with him that day. Thank God my spirit never accepted him. that evening, he had a minor issue with his friend. I was listening to their conversation and I found out my guess was right. I had to cut up all ties with him after that day. abeg I can't be spending money whose source I know nothing about.

The second was a guy I loved, I won't lie. I met him at the mall and there was this kind of attraction. We flowed freely, got talking and all that. I won't say everything I witnessed at his place for personal reasons. I asked what he's been doing since he graduated, he said business. What kind of business? He replied; 'online business'

The day I visited him, his friends came over and for more than one hr, they were glued to their laptops, doing 'heaven knows what' and making calls to dupe victims. I also saw about 7 master keys for cars. I had no access to his FB account then. only whatsapp and IG.

When I checked his pictures on FB, I was trembling with all the things I saw. he's in a gang, probably a cult. Always wearing shirts with that devilish logo of a skull printed in it. Wearing all Black and all that.

And girls, please don't open your legs for any guy you've just met until you're very sure he's clean. I really loved this last one but although its hard to let go, I just have to.
I'm not saying I'm a virgin, but I just don't open my legs for any one because he throws money at my face whatsoever. I'm being very plain here so girls can learn.

Let this get to front page please mods.
that's Wt z happening
https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=865372503630258&id=834907580010084
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by brainbox2014(m): 6:39am On Jun 28, 2017
fastgyal:
I'm writing this from my own personal experience. Dear girls, don't just fall 'head over heels' for a guy without knowing the nature of his job or any of his close relatives.

There's this guy who's been inviting me over for quite sometime, we met at an event and exchanged contacts. I did that because he assisted me with something at that event. He calls me for about an hour or two every night. That was early this year.

When I asked about his nature of job, he said he was a contractor, he couldn't tell me which firm he works with. He stays at home 24/7 from Monday through Friday, weekends inclusive.

I finally agreed to go out with him sometime in February. This guy owns a Bentley and a Range Rover. Each time I try to bring up the issue of his job, he waives it off. The way he spent money on me and my friend that day was lavish and suspicious. I wasn't comfortable at all. He paid for my Uber ride to and fro. Spent about 80K at the exquisite restaurant just for food and drinks. We were three;Him, my friend And I. He uses two iPhones, one infinix hot4 and a smaller phone. I felt so much discomfort with him that day. Thank God my spirit never accepted him. that evening, he had a minor issue with his friend. I was listening to their conversation and I found out my guess was right. I had to cut up all ties with him after that day. abeg I can't be spending money whose source I know nothing about.

The second was a guy I loved, I won't lie. I met him at the mall and there was this kind of attraction. We flowed freely, got talking and all that. I won't say everything I witnessed at his place for personal reasons. I asked what he's been doing since he graduated, he said business. What kind of business? He replied; 'online business'

The day I visited him, his friends came over and for more than one hr, they were glued to their laptops, doing 'heaven knows what' and making calls to dupe victims. I also saw about 7 master keys for cars. I had no access to his FB account then. only whatsapp and IG.

When I checked his pictures on FB, I was trembling with all the things I saw. he's in a gang, probably a cult. Always wearing shirts with that devilish logo of a skull printed in it. Wearing all Black and all that.

And girls, please don't open your legs for any guy you've just met until you're very sure he's clean. I really loved this last one but although its hard to let go, I just have to.
I'm not saying I'm a virgin, but I just don't open my legs for any one because he throws money at my face whatsoever. I'm being very plain here so girls can learn.

Let this get to front page please mods.

Actually, the point is to never open your legs.
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Nobody: 6:41am On Jun 28, 2017
OrestesDante:






Can you see that you are the one with problem not the guy?


Leave God out your filthiness

Mr judge Judge..are u hoier than her? Carry ur hate and go one corner.
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by hemartins(m): 6:41am On Jun 28, 2017
UbChapter:


You think women still don't want their men as rich as EVANS? Most women careless about what a man does for a living as long as money keeps flying in. SMH!
Read my post again, this time slowly. Try to comprehend it. Then point out the difference between my post and yours.
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by sisisioge: 6:41am On Jun 28, 2017
Hmmmm...I absolutely agree with you. But there's really something in that saying that " you attract who you are". This isn't to say you are also a fastgal like they are fast guys o, they must have seen something in you that keeps drawing them to you.


I remember meeting a guy with the biggest dog I've ever seen in my area. His dog has the biggest fiercest looking head ever yet soooo adorable. The dog was drawn to me,so was he. After all gbogboreferefe, we exchanged contacts. Dude was too posh speaking for me to hear at once grin sef. Anyways, when I did a little digging about him, I realized the guy with the cute dog calls himself Pablo... That's all I needed to know grin. Need I say more...may God Himself keep wahala from our paths.

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Bibi294(f): 6:42am On Jun 28, 2017
Did OP ever said she opened her legs for any man? Why is everyone dishing her? She shared her experience and everyone is lashing her... If she likes, let her open her legs for dogs, that should be her probs and not yours...

Person no fit advise jejely again... If na oyinbo talk this mine talk like this... She go turn celebrity... Nigerians and bad mouth ehn

Pot calling kettl black.... Most of you forming holier than thou are worst than the poor girl

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Adebimpe1(m): 6:42am On Jun 28, 2017
Ab025:
But how come you only date these guys that are well to do financially, have Bentleys, 7cars etc, then leave them when you discover they are 419ers?

Can't you hook up with that young guy in ur street or out there that has an average job, doesn't have a car, is responsible and will really love you for who you are...

I think the financial worth of the kind of guy you date is also a reflection of your financial taste.

#Lady, reduce your taste...
And what if that young guy on her street is not confident enough to approach her? What if her appearance scares the devil out of him?? We are too quick to judging ladies. I know of guys that only has the liver to approach broke-ass ugly ladies

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Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by venoc200(m): 6:46am On Jun 28, 2017
i wuld av totally agree with you on this but i'm certainly sure that greed attracted you to these men in the first place..there is nothing to show that you didn't eventually open your legs to these men b4 u left them from this write up..
Re: Ladies, Know The Type Of Work A Guy Does Before Agreeing To Be His Girlfriend by Nobody: 6:46am On Jun 28, 2017
myking95:


Mr judge Judge..are u hoier than her? Carry ur hate and go one corner.

If you have a problem with my comment Why don't make yours and stop being childish? This is a forum.

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