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Re: Have You Ever Regretted Saying No To A Person? Why? by adewumiopeyemi(m): 8:56am On Jul 04, 2017 |
Ok sir married man kripen: |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Saying No To A Person? Why? by Pope22(m): 8:58am On Jul 04, 2017 |
piroux:Am interested in you now, are you gona make same mistake again? Accept me now! |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Saying No To A Person? Why? by Lionessza(f): 8:59am On Jul 04, 2017 |
Martin0: I don't know what you're talking about here Martin0 because you were the one that asked me a question and I answered you , and now you're telling me I should address people who never asked me ? I'm totally lost here. |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Saying No To A Person? Why? by AliasJoice(f): 9:00am On Jul 04, 2017 |
[quote author=ZarZar post=58085554]OK, I don't regret it per se but I've always wondered what if. I met a "perfect stranger" once, it was when I was about 17 or 18 years old. It was the school holidays & I was going back to my hometown, to spend time with relatives. My sister dropped me off at the bus terminus & I boarded my bus, really not looking forward to the long journey ahead. I was sitting alone, the seat next to me was empty & I put a bag on it on purpose because I didn't feel like small talk with whomever was going to sit next to me. The bus moved from one city to the next, it was there that he boarded the bus. There was not that much available space inside, so I had to give up "my" other seat. I didn't even look up to see who was sitting next to me, I was feeling that much antisocial at the time A very long moment of silence between us went, but then he broke the ice by asking if it was my 1st time going to EL. you made me cry:-(:-( [quote author=ZarZar post=58085554]OK, I don't reg 1 Like |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Saying No To A Person? Why? by Lionessza(f): 9:01am On Jul 04, 2017 |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Saying No To A Person? Why? by Nobody: 9:04am On Jul 04, 2017 |
doughziay: Lol brother... your mind... knack implies intuit oh.. biko nu |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Saying No To A Person? Why? by babahTee: 9:10am On Jul 04, 2017 |
Benita27: Olosho* |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Saying No To A Person? Why? by Jelal0007(m): 9:21am On Jul 04, 2017 |
VajanahDischaj:She's not 'many' girls. And I don't know many girls ( who vaue good things) that say no. |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Saying No To A Person? Why? by Martin0(m): 9:22am On Jul 04, 2017 |
Lionessza:didn't u see how I asked the question?well just be lost like that... |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Saying No To A Person? Why? by Nobody: 9:23am On Jul 04, 2017 |
kennygee: I understand your pain. If it were in those days you could have kept all of them and made your choice later. How time changes. Personally I think there is too much policing in relationships these days. You can't even shake hands with somebody without suspicion. I lay no claim to superior insight as to where the problem is coming from. But I think I can lay my fingers on two factors that have contributed to this climate of prison-like restriction on male/female relationship. 1. the modern trend of jumping into s*x, calling it love 2. the insatiable appetite of some ladies for "gifts" Usually when men give gifts to women they want something in return and when ladies get a gift they want to "reward" the man so that the gift will keep giving. That is not so say there are no guys who give gifts out of generosity. If there are ladies who give s*x out of generosity I cannot say. Commitment for a man is usually about s*x. Most men don't really care how you spend your money. If you like use am buy poo na u sabi, especially if he is a content one. But don't make him a shareholder in the honeypot. He is the SOLE OWNER. I think women care about that and money as well. As a guy I cannot be comfortable dating you and giving you gifts in expectation of marrying you if at the same time you could be taking gifts outside and distributing honey in exchange. I once a asked a girl for a date. The first thing she did was to list all the things I would have to be buying for her monthly. Lolll. The list pass who want go marry. She automatically assumed I wanted s*x without even asking. I just jejely carry go one side. Perhaps I'll settle for buying gifts, but I'll demand 100% commitment. I cannot come and be wasting money na. Even Davido with 30bn no dey do like that. I think we can return to the good old days if ladies stop expecting "gifts" and men stop demanding a taste of the honeypot. But who will bell the cat? Each one must bell his a cat. But I do hope you have moved on. Why waste a good heart if you can't take back what happened? You can take comfort in the fact that you're not alone. Here is the story I read sometime. But I do hope you'll get a better man if you haven't already. I also found some nice hearts for you to choose from. Cheer up cos its a new day. 4 Likes
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Re: Have You Ever Regretted Saying No To A Person? Why? by Martin0(m): 9:26am On Jul 04, 2017 |
Lionessza:eh eh ok ooo |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Saying No To A Person? Why? by Nobody: 9:26am On Jul 04, 2017 |
Lionessza:It seems you don't understand pidgin. So that's the know I'm talking about Lionessza:Ok. But she looks like you Lionessza:Let me go and price hummer jeep first. Where are you from and where are you based? Seems you're not a Nigerian. 1 Like |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Saying No To A Person? Why? by uzoormah(m): 9:28am On Jul 04, 2017 |
Benita27: banana crew |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Saying No To A Person? Why? by Jelal0007(m): 9:29am On Jul 04, 2017 |
chiwetel:Yeah too long....and pls continue to doubt every man that comes ur way huh...!!! |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Saying No To A Person? Why? by Nathanieloo7(m): 9:38am On Jul 04, 2017 |
Benita27:poo nd lies |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Saying No To A Person? Why? by Lionessza(f): 9:43am On Jul 04, 2017 |
TheLordIsGr8: Lol she does , doesn't she ? Lol. Go and do that, the transfer will appear to you after 24 hrs lol. No , I'm not Nigerian. I'm South African based in Johannesburg. 1 Like |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Saying No To A Person? Why? by Nobody: 9:49am On Jul 04, 2017 |
Lionessza: No she doesn't. Does she want to learn? I don't know. I wondered why you couldn't even understand the most common slang in pidgin. Anyway, welcome miss Lion. How is SA today? I'm Nigerian based in Benin City. Yes. Benin City, where the portuguese first set foot in West Africa back in the 18th century and they compared its roads to those in Amsterdam. But today?? Let me not talk. 1 Like |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Saying No To A Person? Why? by Strongman001: 9:55am On Jul 04, 2017 |
Yesterday's big win kick started the month of July. Today (04-07-2017), presents yet another opportunity to another big win.
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Re: Have You Ever Regretted Saying No To A Person? Why? by Lionessza(f): 9:57am On Jul 04, 2017 |
TheLordIsGr8: Lol. Thank you. Ok great , lol. Which state is Benin city in ? |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Saying No To A Person? Why? by MissJoy29(f): 10:02am On Jul 04, 2017 |
vocalprince: Lol...I have no idea what you are talking about |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Saying No To A Person? Why? by MissJoy29(f): 10:03am On Jul 04, 2017 |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Saying No To A Person? Why? by MissJoy29(f): 10:04am On Jul 04, 2017 |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Saying No To A Person? Why? by MissJoy29(f): 10:04am On Jul 04, 2017 |
Sacluxpaint: I'm doing that already...thanks |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Saying No To A Person? Why? by MissJoy29(f): 10:05am On Jul 04, 2017 |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Saying No To A Person? Why? by MissJoy29(f): 10:06am On Jul 04, 2017 |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Saying No To A Person? Why? by Nobody: 10:06am On Jul 04, 2017 |
Lionessza: Edo state. The heartbeat of the nation. lollll. In case you find someone needing a heart transplant 1 Like |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Saying No To A Person? Why? by MissJoy29(f): 10:08am On Jul 04, 2017 |
Martin0: A lot but not unattainable |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Saying No To A Person? Why? by MissJoy29(f): 10:10am On Jul 04, 2017 |
Nma27: please dear, let not #missjoy29# make you "the more you look, the less you see....lol |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Saying No To A Person? Why? by MissJoy29(f): 10:11am On Jul 04, 2017 |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Saying No To A Person? Why? by Lionessza(f): 10:12am On Jul 04, 2017 |
TheLordIsGr8: Ok . Why are laughing at this? Are the best hospitals in Nigeria located in Edo state ? |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Saying No To A Person? Why? by piroux(f): 10:13am On Jul 04, 2017 |
patola080: Oga, i did not say anything about feeling beautiful, i said i felt young. And no, i have met good guys and i avoid generalisation so i will never say men are evil if they are not. |
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