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Countrygirl:
seriously.. I always wonder whenever they type this kind of nonsense

ndubueze92:
I think it's a revelation of what's really happening... I share this experience to support the Op. When I was in my finals in school... I met this girl then I liked her, and we starting talking. One day she called me and told me she's heartbroken I rushed to see her on the way I called she told me it was a joke... Another day, I visited my course mate in the hostel didn't know she stayed in the same hall with her...when I left the hostel she called and asked what I came there for? she kept doing this... One day I called her out for a talk... she told me I was a gentleman, she needs me to become a swagger! I'm not a musician I couldn't imagine myself sagging, wearing funny haircuts and probably spotting multicolored dresses at that stage of my life! Though I liked her. She was really beautiful.... I had to back off....So you see some girls are selfish and immature... Both sexes are at fault.... forgive me am not trying to be judgmental here... I think the girls/ladies at that stage are more at fault... So stop wondering and start talking to other fellas into such kindergarten behaviors... Thanks for your attention...

Divay22:
Nah seeing (Damaging )sent a shiver down my spine...i think Ayam okay

RasTafariI:
Good morning
You know you've not contributed to the post
What do you think about it?
I think he's right to a large extent

lelvin:
Based on the sharp shooter weh u be, I know the end already. #Chop knuckle

SingleDad:
Really, why sending a shiver down your spine?

Blackhawk03:
From my comment to those dunderheads, it's quite obvious I agree with his write up only that he made it gender specific and generalized, that I disagree with. Maturity comes with age and experience, it cuts across both genders.

Josephamstrong1:
It's not abt OP creating a thread.
If you did or have an apt/glimpse of/abt human psychology... Ull kw better.
Read! Get a book on Human development then you'll know his assertions are quite factual. Nada applies to both gender.
Have whole lots to say buh...ain't go no time. Just make a research and read up.

Divay22:
Damage someone's heart, I think I'll to shift from you

SingleDad:
Why would u shift? . u ain't my gf nah, abi u dey reason am?

Divay22:
No I'm not

SingleDad:
tell me the truth baby, let's shame the devil together

Divay22:
Singleuncle Noooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo

ikp120:
Most of them are just useless! Just thinking of them and you're thinking of how much you get for pocket. Na wa o. Na ashawo I dey think about ni?

That's why I call them hoes because they simply go to the highest bidder.

JB789:
There is this post trending on social media "Once you tell a Nigerian girl you love her, you start owing her money." This is true and I need to make some clarifications:

This mentality is mostly applicable to girls aged 18-25 years. These set of girls are just trying to understand life and how their bodies work. They do not understand the meaning of 'bad economy' or 'recession'. They don't understand 'saving for the rainy day' or 'investment.' They believe that all there is to life is their bodies, beauty and looks. They will most likely not be able to offer a man any useful advice about how to plan his life. They don't understand 'cost-saving measures'. They believe any man dating them should pay their bills and give them the comfortability they fantasise. They believe their boyfriends/husbands must provide for them even things their parents couldn't give them quite unlike men that start early to plan how to 'make it' even if their parents didn't really 'make it.'

They are usually very enthusiastic about marriage despite being ill prepared for it. There is a positive relationship between their age of marriage and divorce rate. (Social scientists should do well to carry out a proper research on this).

These set of girls are particularly very insulting, disrespectful and tend to run their mouths. They can talk to anyone anyhow they like. They do not know what they want, they don't even understand themselves. They believe they are doing you a favour by dating you.

This attitude is made worse by the number of admirers they get on a regular basis and the volume of attention they get from men. They can afford to misbehave because the next minute, another guy is walking up to them. They forget that this stage of the prime of their life vanishes faster than it started and thus are more likely to make wrong choices about relationship/marriage partners. At this stage, the qualities they look out for in men do not reflect sound judgment and the realities of life. They need proper guidance on relationship choices to avoid destroying their lives with the wrong men with its dire consequences.

If the said girl is still a virgin, it could be worse. Just expect drama; yes, lots of them as they believe life begins and ends with their 'virginity.'

They tend to admire guys with 'wizkid' kind of dressing, dreadlocks, ridiculous haircuts and some attributes they call 'swag'. If you are not ready to sag your trousers amd wear 'three-quarters' and snap pictures in awkward and lidicrous poses, these girls will not roll well with you.

If you need peace of mind in your home, it should be clear to you that they are psychologically immature for marriage. Go for an older woman or wait for them to understand life better. Unless you are a man with loads of patience, forbearance, understanding and tolerance, these set of girls will provoke you, disorganise you, upset and frustrate you completely. You need to be patient and calm with them as they are given to mood changes and attitude problems. They are more likely to change their minds without warning and without cogent reason; this minute they are saying one thing and the next minute they are nagging about a completely different thing. You will get yourself worked-up trying to figure out what their problem is and how to fix it.

You need to be an extraordinary man to handle them properly and effectively and still retain your sanity. You need to be ready to apologise even when you are not wrong. If she is wrong, you have to apologise more.

They do a lot of comparisons at this stage. They compare you with their friends' boyfriends, with the movies they watch and the celebrities on social media. They are all out to live their fantasies and anything short of it they begin to complain about virtually everything;
There are few exceptions though but more often than not, 18-25 year old girls tend to fall into this category.

On the other hand, most ladies (not girls) aged 26 and above can distinguish between fantasy and reality. They have seen some 'things' and understand life more deeply. These group of women know you are doing them a favour by dating them. They are more mature and more ready to handle marriage and what comes with running a home. They are very careful, economical, conscientious and foresighted. They understand what love and relationship is.

They can offer a man a useful advice about how to plan for himself and his family. In fact, my best relationship so far was with a lady of about 26 years old. Judith, may GOD bless you wherever you are, it is very unfortunate we can't get married for reasons beyond our control!

marisdgreat:
Look at you calling some girls hoe cos of their materialistic in nature. how much did u have in your account? were u not d one begging to be in the list of those that will benefit from 10,000 in the education sector from one of the nairalander. That means I can even feed u or pay some of your school expenses. Dress yourself well before addressing someone. If some girls are hoes as u called them then u must be a filthy rag, gold digger or those cooperate beggars.#
#soirritatingboy

GregJo:
olosho, how market?