thepussyhunter:



i dont think op limited his post to nl ladies only.........

I didn't limit mine to NL ladies also. What they come here to post shows what they are witnessing in reality. most of them needs to change their circle,orientation and mentality before they tag all ladies the same.

we yaff suffered. buh it's kinda true though😂

MzLarem:
It's just preposterous, they feel they have the right to label ladies but they don't want to be labeled. They ought to know that you play 30% role in determining the kind of relationship you find yourself in.

Even boys that just finished Ssce too will also be having opinion...Lol. Like what have you even seen in life?

Don't take it personal, I know I'm not in the category of ladies the poster stated, I don't really care what he thinks

Girls (age 18-24)...are clueless
Ladies(24-29)....are less clueless
Women(30 upwards) still less clueless
Why? Since the beginning of time, ladies have always been like that, it's up to men not to fall for these shite, history tend to repeat itself, don't bash Em, focus on ur goals, get one, impregnate her, take responsibility ND off u go

Countrygirl:
Don't take it personal, I know I'm not in the category of ladies the poster stated, I don't really care what he thinks

I'm not taking it personal and everyone has a right to their opinions anyways

MzLarem:
I didn't limit mine to NL ladies also. What they come here to post shows what they are witnessing in reality. most of them needs to change their circle,orientation and mentality before they tag all ladies the same.

oh my bad

took the follow for the "follow button" here thats why i thought you were referring to nl alone


and yeah you're right.....it all depends on the kinda ladies we men have met.....................

Though generalising aiint right but one must confess seeing or haven come in contact with more than a dozen of these kinda ladies one cant help but generalise

MzLarem:
Makes me wonder the kind of ladies most guys on this thread follows or should I say, makes me wonder the kind of guys they are themselves.

just keep quiet. like you are not among them.

MzLarem:
I'm not taking it personal and everyone has a right to their opinions anyways

yeah, it's the generalization that annoys me

SingleDad:


Bro, she ain't a kid, and she's working.

Not referring to ur case specifically, just generalised using the sample talked about by the OP.

mapist:


Not referring to ur case specifically, just generalised using the sample talked about by the OP.

I dig. Was contributing to your comment

tosyne2much:
Even though this write-up comes like the rattle of a gun, I will sieve the bashing and will agree with you, because you made some right assertions about most Nigerian ladies

I will agree with you on the fact that most ladies that fall within this age range are not so intellectually or morally matured to keep a relationship, and I believe that's why many of them will only put you in the state of obscurity and discombobulation the moment they come into your life.

I will also agree with you on the fact that some of them have no atom of respect for elderly people (inclusive of their own parents). They don't accept correction, they lack manners, and are usually filled with rage of ego due to the volume and rapt attention they get from interested suitors.

Another thing is that they are not very reliable because indecisiveness and lack of contentment are their greatest challenges. They are easily swayed by material things just to satisfy their fantasies. They are usually the ones that come online expressing their disgust for financially unstable men because they have a flawed mentality towards relationship. They go with the highest bidder and follow anything on boxers at the expense of their insatiable desires.

The only thing that usually open the eyes of many ladies to reality and change them completely is when they have a sorrowful experience. E.g disease, breakup, abortion, etc.

Well, I believe there are still a handful of ladies who are within this age range and are still intellectually and morally upright to fit in in marriage

Well thought....you omitted one major reason that opens the eyes of these kinda ladies and changes their mentality....''When they get older and kept seeing younger girls taken down the aisle, they turn a new leaf after futile efforts of blaming their uncles in the village''.

Countrygirl:
I totally agree with your last paragraph.

You should know I'm a realist

austyn0:
Well thought....you omitted one major reason that opens the eyes of these kinda ladies and changes their mentality....''When they get older and kept seeing younger girls taken down the aisle, they turn a new leaf after futile efforts of blaming their uncles in the village''.

Gbaaaaam! You have said it all bro

tosyne2much:
You should know I'm a realist

I've observed that

SingleDad:


I dig. Was contributing to your comment

Thumbs up...

I am here to read comment biko
Victornezzar bros lefulefu bring pop corn

hehehehe.. thank God I'm not 25..sipping my zobo

Michelle55:
hehehehe.. thank God I'm not 25..sipping my zobo

how old are you jare

sunshineG:
how old are you jare

lolsss..i Don old sha.. anyway I dey 35.

Michelle55:
lolsss..i Don old sha.. anyway I dey 35.

na lie
Make I check your pics first

sunshineG:
na lie
Make I check your pics first

lolsss..na lie, as in? I no understand.. shey na you born me ni? I Don tell you my age, you dey doubt me, oya reborn me na... lolsss

JB789:
There is this post trending on social media "Once you tell a Nigerian girl you love her, you start owing her money." This is true and I need to make some clarifications:

This mentality is mostly applicable to girls aged 18-25 years. These set of girls are just trying to understand life and how their bodies work. They do not understand the meaning of 'bad economy' or 'recession'. They don't understand 'saving for the rainy day' or 'investment.' They believe that all there is to life is their bodies, beauty and looks. They will most likely not be able to offer a man any useful advice about how to plan his life. They don't understand 'cost-saving measures'. They believe any man dating them should pay their bills and give them the comfortability they fantasise. They believe their boyfriends/husbands must provide for them even things their parents couldn't give them quite unlike men that start early to plan how to 'make it' even if their parents didn't really 'make it.'

They are usually very enthusiastic about marriage despite being ill prepared for it. There is a positive relationship between their age of marriage and divorce rate. (Social scientists should do well to carry out a proper research on this).

These set of girls are particularly very insulting, disrespectful and tend to run their mouths. They can talk to anyone anyhow they like. They do not know what they want, they don't even understand themselves. They believe they are doing you a favour by dating you.

This attitude is made worse by the number of admirers they get on a regular basis and the volume of attention they get from men. They can afford to misbehave because the next minute, another guy is walking up to them. They forget that this stage of the prime of their life vanishes faster than it started and thus are more likely to make wrong choices about relationship/marriage partners. At this stage, the qualities they look out for in men do not reflect sound judgment and the realities of life. They need proper guidance on relationship choices to avoid destroying their lives with the wrong men with its dire consequences.

If the said girl is still a virgin, it could be worse. Just expect drama; yes, lots of them as they believe life begins and ends with their 'virginity.'

They tend to admire guys with 'wizkid' kind of dressing, dreadlocks, ridiculous haircuts and some attributes they call 'swag'. If you are not ready to sag your trousers amd wear 'three-quarters' and snap pictures in awkward and lidicrous poses, these girls will not roll well with you.

If you need peace of mind in your home, it should be clear to you that they are psychologically immature for marriage. Go for an older woman or wait for them to understand life better. Unless you are a man with loads of patience, forbearance, understanding and tolerance, these set of girls will provoke you, disorganise you, upset and frustrate you completely. You need to be patient and calm with them as they are given to mood changes and attitude problems. They are more likely to change their minds without warning and without cogent reason; this minute they are saying one thing and the next minute they are nagging about a completely different thing. You will get yourself worked-up trying to figure out what their problem is and how to fix it.

You need to be an extraordinary man to handle them properly and effectively and still retain your sanity. You need to be ready to apologise even when you are not wrong. If she is wrong, you have to apologise more.

They do a lot of comparisons at this stage. They compare you with their friends' boyfriends, with the movies they watch and the celebrities on social media. They are all out to live their fantasies and anything short of it they begin to complain about virtually everything;
There are few exceptions though but more often than not, 18-25 year old girls tend to fall into this category.

On the other hand, most ladies (not girls) aged 26 and above can distinguish between fantasy and reality. They have seen some 'things' and understand life more deeply. These group of women know you are doing them a favour by dating them. They are more mature and more ready to handle marriage and what comes with running a home. They are very careful, economical, conscientious and foresighted. They understand what love and relationship is.

They can offer a man a useful advice about how to plan for himself and his family. In fact, my best relationship so far was with a lady of about 26 years old. Judith, may GOD bless you wherever you are, it is very unfortunate we can't get married for reasons beyond our control!

That's y these type of ladies,wen ever you finally catch them,just "F" them and move on....

Michelle55:
lolsss..na lie, as in? I no understand.. shey na you born me ni? I Don tell you my age, you dey doubt me, oya reborn me na... lolsss

no be your pics dey your profile jhor

I still doubt your age

sunshineG:
no be your pics dey your profile jhor

I still doubt your age

lolsss..i no get pics... my pics fit burn your phone

Michelle55:
lolsss..i no get pics... my pics fit burn your phone

don't worry
You post it first
If the blows I will buy another one

sunshineG:
don't worry
You post it first
If the blows I will buy another one

nice try but I don't take pictures.. but make I just pity you upload one

Michelle55:
nice try but I don't take pictures.. but make I just pity you upload one

OK do that
I am waiting

sunshineG:
OK do that I am waiting

Done!!!

Michelle55:
Done!!!

you are pretty
Nice pics

sunshineG:
I am here to read comment biko
Victornezzar bros lefulefu bring pop corn

film dey happen here?

lefulefu:

film dey happen here?