Benita27:
When you're broke, what have you to spend on a lady?.

Oyindidi:

BobbyKilo:
If u are a broke guy,ask yourself "will u marry urself if u were a woman"when u answer that honestly, u will then understand where some women who have the notion of not settling with a broke guy is coming from.
#IsBobbyKilo

Amarabae:
what a dry and empty bullying tactics. I am not moved by it, dear. Nuisance? Is that the only word you can decode from my writeup? Horrible. Also, I have a federal job and financially stable even before marriage. And last, I have the legal right to be in any section that I want. Ok?

Nma27:
You bad.

ronald4lif:


If I were a woman I won't settle for a broke guy for sure and won't advise anyone to. If I were also a woman I won't label guys broke at any given opportunity especially if I'm broke myself or have nothing going on for me. And I won't see relationship/marriage as a free meal ticket but would rather work on self development and being self-reliant so as not to be a liability to any man.

If a lady is broke it's okay to want a rich fella to help her and her family out but it's wrong to openly deride broke guys, an affliction she's also inflicted with. They don't have such right and carte blanche. Doing so is hypocritical and a big mockery to themselves even more than the people they aim to deride

It doesn't matter who is telling you as long as its the truth. You can either accept it and work on yourself or go and sleep. Truth is truth. The source doesn't change the fact. As far as the op is concerned you dont know her so stop generalizing and being fallacious and stick to the message. It would help the male folks a lot

MissRaine69:

I cannot fathom how you can not see how superficial you come across in that statement you wrote.
In a nutshell according to you a woman wants a man with a 3 bed house and a car that's your prerequisite for a man. With those things a woman is comfortable? This is why women get dumped when a guy's hard work starts to bear fruit.
How many women grew up in a three bedroom house or had a car that you put that as a minimum for someone else's child to provide for you?
Does his mother live in a three bed house andoes she drive she drive an old Camry? That is what I call being entitled beyond the very word.

ronald4lif:


If I were a woman I won't settle for a broke guy for sure and won't advise anyone to. If I were also a woman I won't label guys broke at any given opportunity especially if I'm broke myself or have nothing going on for me. And I won't see relationship/marriage as a free meal ticket but would rather work on self development and being self-reliant so as not to be a liability to any man.

If a lady is broke it's okay to want a rich fella to help her and her family out but it's wrong to openly deride broke guys, an affliction she's also inflicted with. They don't have such right and carte blanche. Doing so is hypocritical and a big mockery to themselves even more than the people they aim to deride

thesuave10:


It doesn't matter who is telling you as long as its the truth. You can either accept it and work on yourself or go and sleep. Truth is truth. The source doesn't change the fact. As far as the op is concerned you dont know her so stop generalizing and being fallacious and stick to the message. It would help the male folks a lot

Amarabae:
what a dry and empty bullying tactics. I am not moved by it, dear. Nuisance? Is that the only word you can decode from my writeup? Horrible. Also, I have a federal job and financially stable even before marriage. And last, I have the legal right to be in any section that I want. Ok?

ronald4lif:


Generalising and fallacious? Fallacious about what if I may ask or you just love using that word? Please also feel free to tell where I mentioned her opinion as false if you don't mind. My point was and still is, being broke isn't gender based and she shouldn't straitjacket her points to the male folks. Women don't have a pass to be broke more than men have

Why did you bring it up here. It's totally out of context with the message

Amarabae:
what a dry and empty bullying tactics. I am not moved by it, dear. Nuisance? Is that the only word you can decode from my writeup? Horrible. Also, I have a federal job and financially stable even before marriage. And last, I have the legal right to be in any section that I want. Ok?

thesuave10:


Why did you bring it up here. It's totally out of context with the message

ronald4lif:


No, it's not out of point. It falls within the message she's trying to convey which is broke guys should work hard and the entire message was fixated on guys without a balance and making it seem like it's a crime for a guy to be broke but not so much for the female folks. A balanced writer should have highlighted even if passively that women and indeed no one should be broke. This is common with Naija girls today that once they come across the word broke or want to mention it guys are their target

thesuave10:

I'm done with you

thesuave10:


It doesn't matter who is telling you as long as its the truth. You can either accept it and work on yourself or go and sleep. Truth is truth. The source doesn't change the fact. As far as the op is concerned you dont know her so stop generalizing and being fallacious and stick to the message. It would help the male folks a lot

KingOfThePay:


Shut the f.uc.k up!

ogorwyne:
Op men can be broke and so also ladies. Why don't you just advice both sexes to work hard and change their financial status? Or are the men supposed to bust their asses so they can spend it all on a female who thinks she deserves it simply because she possesses the female ge.nitalia in the relationship?

Amarabae:
what a dry and empty bullying tactics.
I am not moved by it, dear.
Nuisance? Is that the only word you can decode from my writeup?
Horrible.
Also, I have a federal job and financially stable even before marriage.
And last, I have the legal right to be in any section that I want.
Ok?

thesuave10:


Lol I swear. They showed their frustration today it was epic lol

Mup4life:
BROKE DUDE LOOKING FOR MARRIED PSSY TO STRAF.F. goan sell your E-books idiot.

Amarabae:
A LETTER TO THE BROKE GUYS.
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Greetings all!
I will like to briefly to thank all who wished me a Happy Birthday yesterday.
Thank you my Darlings. *kisses*
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Back to my main subject, THE BROKE GUYS.
I have noticed that one of the most frustrating moments in a man's life is when he is broke!
This era of financial scarcity always leave many men with feeling of emptiness,
No wonder the sighting of that word "BROKE" always touches the nerve in many guys, no wonder the insults, bullying and aggressiveness they exhibit as a response to any thread that is dedicated to such a dreaded word.
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NOW Broke Guys listen, let me give you a bit of advice..
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Every woman dream of a comfortable future, a future where even if she is not been treated like a queen, atleast she will not be a slave.
Most ladies grew up and saw the financial difficuly and suffering their mothers went through in the name of marriage and thereby took a resolution not to be part of that fate.
So before you blame them for rejecting you as a broke guy, remember this.
1. Being broken is NOT a permanent situation, work hard to change the status.
2. Even if you are an unemployed graduate, you can raise a capital and move into business.
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FINANCIAL STABILITY AND SECURITY is an Important Requirement many women look at including me.
How can you expect a girl to reject a rich guy for you that live in a public yard and earn below #30,000 monthly?
The girl may really love you but she need a partner who is Financially stable,
Many ladies are not looking for a Dangote kind of guy but a Hardworking Financially Stable Guy.
and I see nothing wrong in that.
He may not have his own house, atleast let him afford a 1 or 2-bedroom flat.
He may not have a murano or quest, atleast let him afford a mercedes even if it is old model.
Women just want to be comfortable.
So Mr Broke guy,
Why not focus on improving your financial status instead?
From #30,000, aim to be getting atleast up to #70,000 and above, monthly.
From Public yard, aim at living in a comfortable apartment.
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No woman want to suffer, YES the woman may have a good job or business, but she need an equal or higher earner than her as a partner.
You get the drift?.
ALSO.
Some Broke Guys are LAZY in nature!
Women do appreciate hardworking guys, we do.
But the lazy type! Hush.
There are many unemployed graduate who love staying indoors, sleeping and always online looking for a girl to bully.
Why are such guys suprised at being broke?
They are proud and lazy to humble themselves and learn an income earning skill.
Tomorrow, these are guys who will be calling girls "GOLD DIGGERS" for rejecting their lazy azz.
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Dear broke guy, Wake up,
Work hard to improve your financial status,
Go and learn an income earning Skill,they are many out there to learn from.
My Final point is that a guy should be financial stable first before thinking of a serious relationship or marriage.
OK. Broke is not permanent to a hard working guy.
LOVE YOU ALL.
Thank you.

thesuave10:


Don't cry my man. Your bank account will be fine soon

KingOfThePay:


Smh
Will feed you & your generations..

Bester44:


You roasted the muggin.

thesuave10:


In dj Khaled's voice *another one*

Mup4life:
chai!!!! See babe, beauty and brain. I for like marry you o but unfortunately am part of the Broke guys crew, will you manage me