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nsiazu:
I think she needs time to face her studies...
op what course is she studying and where is the location of the school?

SEe o abi u wan go look for her too? Abi u dey suspect sey na your gf

DaPuncline:
The truth is i have been a little bit down and unable to get a sound sleep since yesterday night.

I met this cool lady like a month ago, what really got me attracted to her was her beauty, calmness, and her carriage. We started talking and i asked her out the following week: she just kept smiling and that was all her response, so since then, she do branch at my laboratory where i do my research work whenever she's done with her lectures. We do have great time gisting and all she's fun to be with it and all my friends like her.


Two weeks after, i invited her to my place and she agreed, though she couldn't meet up the first day she promised to come due to her reading schedule, but she later came the following day even though i thought she might not come that day because rain fell heavily around the time she promised to show up, though the rain later stopped but was still drizzling. I was so happy when her call came in and went to pick her up, i welcomed her to my place warmly and we started talking, she was seated on the chair and i sat on the table facing her, we had a great talking time and we laughed over many things.

As a normal guy i tried to make a "harmless" move to kiss her but she ignored by turning her face sideway with a warm smile, i also played along and told her to feel free. We gisted for a while and i made another attempt but encountered same fate, she later told me she'd soon be leaving because it was late already and rain was already drizzling, i was already lying on my bed and she was still sitting, so i stood up and made the last move which she also ignore with her warm smile. So i escorted her home and when I got back home, she sent a thank you text on my watsapp and we started chatting. I later told her how i find it difficult to read her mind due to her smile and calmness: her response was unexpected, she told me she doesn't know how to say it, that she only want us to be friends with nothing attached, i was so shocked and confused, she said she would advise me to look for someone else, i felt so bad and agitated. I really love her so much, i just don't know what to do to get her back. I asked her whether i've done anything wrong and she said NO. Please i need your help house. I don't Want to lose her at all.

cc: lalasticlala, rocktation, farano.

she's taken das all... Just want to have fun with you or she need a male frnd. Stay in d friend zone u may at last have her(rare though)

DaPuncline:
The truth is i have been a little bit down and unable to get a sound sleep since yesterday night.

I met this cool lady like a month ago, what really got me attracted to her was her beauty, calmness, and her carriage. We started talking and i asked her out the following week: she just kept smiling and that was all her response, so since then, she do branch at my laboratory where i do my research work whenever she's done with her lectures. We do have great time gisting and all she's fun to be with it and all my friends like her.


Two weeks after, i invited her to my place and she agreed, though she couldn't meet up the first day she promised to come due to her reading schedule, but she later came the following day even though i thought she might not come that day because rain fell heavily around the time she promised to show up, though the rain later stopped but was still drizzling. I was so happy when her call came in and went to pick her up, i welcomed her to my place warmly and we started talking, she was seated on the chair and i sat on the table facing her, we had a great talking time and we laughed over many things.

As a normal guy i tried to make a "harmless" move to kiss her but she ignored by turning her face sideway with a warm smile, i also played along and told her to feel free. We gisted for a while and i made another attempt but encountered same fate, she later told me she'd soon be leaving because it was late already and rain was already drizzling, i was already lying on my bed and she was still sitting, so i stood up and made the last move which she also ignore with her warm smile. So i escorted her home and when I got back home, she sent a thank you text on my watsapp and we started chatting. I later told her how i find it difficult to read her mind due to her smile and calmness: her response was unexpected, she told me she doesn't know how to say it, that she only want us to be friends with nothing attached, i was so shocked and confused, she said she would advise me to look for someone else, i felt so bad and agitated. I really love her so much, i just don't know what to do to get her back. I asked her whether i've done anything wrong and she said NO. Please i need your help house. I don't Want to lose her at all.

cc: lalasticlala, rocktation, farano.

Gravest mistake was making a move on her when she came to your house. ..all ladies are not the same.
All she wanted was a trait/character that would enable her mind and you gave yourself away

delishpot:
I did not say you are. I said in her mind you may be. Just like a girl looking for money to treat her sick parent may come to you to solicit sexbfor pay after listening to friends who tell her men don't give something for nothing. If you do not know her story you would think she is a cheap whor.e right? Even if that was her first time having s.ex but you don't know it yet and weren't feeling her. so, that is the point. You are judged by your character you display not by the character you keep hidden in your heart. No vex for the words I used. I guess your friends are otondos. If you find a nice girl you like, don't listen to them again o.

You should call her and apologize to her for your behaviour. but let her know that you would want to make it up to her(I am not saying spend all your money on her) by being a gentle man. Make her know that you are still interested in dating her and you would take things slow and walk at her pace. No agree to be friends o. She go dey carry boyfriend's come dey show you for house and discuss heartbreak with you and how I she and her bf are doing Lol. Tell her you appreciate her offer but you choose to keep proving that you a good bf for her.

how old are u

R3B3L:
how old are u

Old enough to not let prick control my brain.

DaPuncline:
The truth is i have been a little bit down and unable to get a sound sleep since yesterday night.

I met this cool lady like a month ago, what really got me attracted to her was her beauty, calmness, and her carriage. We started talking and i asked her out the following week: she just kept smiling and that was all her response, so since then, she do branch at my laboratory where i do my research work whenever she's done with her lectures. We do have great time gisting and all she's fun to be with it and all my friends like her.


Two weeks after, i invited her to my place and she agreed, though she couldn't meet up the first day she promised to come due to her reading schedule, but she later came the following day even though i thought she might not come that day because rain fell heavily around the time she promised to show up, though the rain later stopped but was still drizzling. I was so happy when her call came in and went to pick her up, i welcomed her to my place warmly and we started talking, she was seated on the chair and i sat on the table facing her, we had a great talking time and we laughed over many things.

As a normal guy i tried to make a "harmless" move to kiss her but she ignored by turning her face sideway with a warm smile, i also played along and told her to feel free. We gisted for a while and i made another attempt but encountered same fate, she later told me she'd soon be leaving because it was late already and rain was already drizzling, i was already lying on my bed and she was still sitting, so i stood up and made the last move which she also ignore with her warm smile. So i escorted her home and when I got back home, she sent a thank you text on my watsapp and we started chatting. I later told her how i find it difficult to read her mind due to her smile and calmness: her response was unexpected, she told me she doesn't know how to say it, that she only want us to be friends with nothing attached, i was so shocked and confused, she said she would advise me to look for someone else, i felt so bad and agitated. I really love her so much, i just don't know what to do to get her back. I asked her whether i've done anything wrong and she said NO. Please i need your help house. I don't Want to lose her at all.

cc: lalasticlala, rocktation, farano.

Just send me an empty mail via tolamide7@gmail.com
I believed she can be redeemed.

delishpot:
Old enough to not let prick control my brain.

well.. completely one sided fellow u are.. maybe dated just one or two his entire life... why u probably sound ignorant.

R3B3L:
well.. completely one sided fellow u are.. maybe dated just one or two his entire life... why u probably sound ignorant.

Thanks sir. I don hear your own side.

alex81:
1st day somebody came to ur house u want to kiss haba bros, is dat how u use to do

what do u expect her to think?

No mind am! He thinks all ladies are loose?

Op is a loco.

DaPuncline:
The truth is i have been a little bit down and unable to get a sound sleep since yesterday night.

I met this cool lady like a month ago, what really got me attracted to her was her beauty, calmness, and her carriage. We started talking and i asked her out the following week: she just kept smiling and that was all her response, so since then, she do branch at my laboratory where i do my research work whenever she's done with her lectures. We do have great time gisting and all she's fun to be with it and all my friends like her.


Two weeks after, i invited her to my place and she agreed, though she couldn't meet up the first day she promised to come due to her reading schedule, but she later came the following day even though i thought she might not come that day because rain fell heavily around the time she promised to show up, though the rain later stopped but was still drizzling. I was so happy when her call came in and went to pick her up, i welcomed her to my place warmly and we started talking, she was seated on the chair and i sat on the table facing her, we had a great talking time and we laughed over many things.

As a normal guy i tried to make a "harmless" move to kiss her but she ignored by turning her face sideway with a warm smile, i also played along and told her to feel free. We gisted for a while and i made another attempt but encountered same fate, she later told me she'd soon be leaving because it was late already and rain was already drizzling, i was already lying on my bed and she was still sitting, so i stood up and made the last move which she also ignore with her warm smile. So i escorted her home and when I got back home, she sent a thank you text on my watsapp and we started chatting. I later told her how i find it difficult to read her mind due to her smile and calmness: her response was unexpected, she told me she doesn't know how to say it, that she only want us to be friends with nothing attached, i was so shocked and confused, she said she would advise me to look for someone else, i felt so bad and agitated. I really love her so much, i just don't know what to do to get her back. I asked her whether i've done anything wrong and she said NO. Please i need your help house. I don't Want to lose her at all.

You dont love her! U just want to fuçk! She found out on time that why u aint getting her!

How can u try kissing her on her first visit?? Haba!

DaPuncline:
The truth is i have been a little bit down and unable to get a sound sleep since yesterday night.

I met this cool lady like a month ago, what really got me attracted to her was her beauty, calmness, and her carriage. We started talking and i asked her out the following week: she just kept smiling and that was all her response, so since then, she do branch at my laboratory where i do my research work whenever she's done with her lectures. We do have great time gisting and all she's fun to be with it and all my friends like her.


Two weeks after, i invited her to my place and she agreed, though she couldn't meet up the first day she promised to come due to her reading schedule, but she later came the following day even though i thought she might not come that day because rain fell heavily around the time she promised to show up, though the rain later stopped but was still drizzling. I was so happy when her call came in and went to pick her up, i welcomed her to my place warmly and we started talking, she was seated on the chair and i sat on the table facing her, we had a great talking time and we laughed over many things.

As a normal guy i tried to make a "harmless" move to kiss her but she ignored by turning her face sideway with a warm smile, i also played along and told her to feel free. We gisted for a while and i made another attempt but encountered same fate, she later told me she'd soon be leaving because it was late already and rain was already drizzling, i was already lying on my bed and she was still sitting, so i stood up and made the last move which she also ignore with her warm smile. So i escorted her home and when I got back home, she sent a thank you text on my watsapp and we started chatting. I later told her how i find it difficult to read her mind due to her smile and calmness: her response was unexpected, she told me she doesn't know how to say it, that she only want us to be friends with nothing attached, i was so shocked and confused, she said she would advise me to look for someone else, i felt so bad and agitated. I really love her so much, i just don't know what to do to get her back. I asked her whether i've done anything wrong and she said NO. Please i need your help house. I don't Want to lose her at all.

you need our help for what? To talk to her or Evans her?

Selah!

Kids attitude.. you make a mistake.. She had come to your abode, you don't have to gave that move, all you could have done was to be on a plain side.. talk, play an agape, allow her to be at home.. instead you're are given her rushing.. Don't worried you can still correct it and she would be yours forever..

Is it not you that wanted white girls for friendship and not for fun?

Abeg swerve jo

Sometimes it is a good thing to totally concur when a girl says "lets just be friends" don't fight it but flirt like hell with other girls when she is around, check out cute girls when she is around and if she has any kind of feelings for you at all, she will come running.
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DaPuncline:
Like i earlier said, i was wrongly advised by friends and i regret it. I'm not that type of guy, I'm a cool guy and that was why i got attracted to her, she's the cool type too. I'm not a potential street dog. It was a mistake, i have sisters too.

Get to meet up with her, apologise for your high urges, hear what she has to say, then stay platonic with her. If she likes you, she will come back. Lest i forget, don't invite her to your house again, unless she decides to come on her own wish

If I advice you will you listen and do as I instruct u?

Why are you allowing this minor incident to weigh you down. Stay calm bro. Do not reply her friendzone request. Pretend like you never saw her sms, do not apologize to her, act normal to her like you've been doing before she visited you. Try to check on her more, remove sex on your mind with her for now, be friendly with other ladies. I tell you she will come running after you. It worked for me and still works.

NeeKlaus:
Dude, don't misunderstand me. His attempts to kiss her in the first place were bad and asking her out just after ONE WEEK?? Where's the rapport?

All I am saying is that he rushed things. You can't win a girl's affection and trust in one week. Except if she's after something else.. my opinions, tho. You have yours.

Bro forget oo....The dudes mouth may be smelly(Halitosis)..So lets weigh in every options

DaPuncline:
The truth is i have been a little bit down and unable to get a sound sleep since yesterday night.

I met this cool lady like a month ago, what really got me attracted to her was her beauty, calmness, and her carriage. We started talking and i asked her out the following week: she just kept smiling and that was all her response, so since then, she do branch at my laboratory where i do my research work whenever she's done with her lectures. We do have great time gisting and all she's fun to be with it and all my friends like her.


Two weeks after, i invited her to my place and she agreed, though she couldn't meet up the first day she promised to come due to her reading schedule, but she later came the following day even though i thought she might not come that day because rain fell heavily around the time she promised to show up, though the rain later stopped but was still drizzling. I was so happy when her call came in and went to pick her up, i welcomed her to my place warmly and we started talking, she was seated on the chair and i sat on the table facing her, we had a great talking time and we laughed over many things.

As a normal guy i tried to make a "harmless" move to kiss her but she ignored by turning her face sideway with a warm smile, i also played along and told her to feel free. We gisted for a while and i made another attempt but encountered same fate, she later told me she'd soon be leaving because it was late already and rain was already drizzling, i was already lying on my bed and she was still sitting, so i stood up and made the last move which she also ignore with her warm smile. So i escorted her home and when I got back home, she sent a thank you text on my watsapp and we started chatting. I later told her how i find it difficult to read her mind due to her smile and calmness: her response was unexpected, she told me she doesn't know how to say it, that she only want us to be friends with nothing attached, i was so shocked and confused, she said she would advise me to look for someone else, i felt so bad and agitated. I really love her so much, i just don't know what to do to get her back. I asked her whether i've done anything wrong and she said NO. Please i need your help house. I don't Want to lose her at all.

What piss her off was the fact that you tried to kiss her. bro, its a wrong move

OP....do you have a smelly mouth

delishpot:
How can you just kiss a woman like that? Too many movies have spoilt you. She clearly resisted the first time. why keep pushing? That is quite disgusting in my opinion.What next? It is not a gentlemanly attitude it shows desperation and lack of self control on your part. Her next visit now she would think you would try to squeeze her ní.pples and remove her pants? And if she resists you will keep trying every 5 mins interval? Young men lack sexual discipline these days sha. Change that attitude. If you want a good girl don't "bẹ"

Dont mind those desperados.

Guys in this category dont know that showing much eagerness to want to get down, makes the lady fedup of the guy already. But as the saying goes, a diccck has its own mind.


Op she's gone. Wait for another level headed chickk to cross your path again.

And even u decide to flirt like hell with other chickks .. Just know say, u had better stick with those chicks, cos she ain't looking back on u again.

Great company, great moments together. For me thats what you really need. Tell her its ok by you and remain good friends. She could change her mind tomorrow about you. Its possible she has some ither guy. Delete your friends and their company. They are not your type if really you are a cool guy. All the best. Always be a gentleman. Ladies love them.

Lol
Trust me .. girls are like software just give her some time she will get used to you .. and the rest follows
Meanwhile

my brother what I can advice is to call her and apologies and let her know you are deeply sorry for your mistake tell her you love her and if you really sure you love her tell her you are ready for the relationship without sex and let her think about it. if she still insist on friendship then play along sometimes some ladies like to marry their friend just my self as example my wife insisted on just be a friend in the first approach but later we agree to be in relationship

It's likely the lady is bothered by something, call her chat with her as usual then very calmly tell that you understand her response but you would appreciate it very much if she give cogent reasons for her response in other to clarify your confused mind n to possibly correct your mistake if any in future, tell her you would very disappointed n upset if she keep mute.

RadicallyBlunt:
The seriousness of your write up sef makes me think its one terrible something. Its nothing new na. Guy will like girl but girl wont yield cheaply..that's just d case here.

She enjoys ur company, but making sexual move on her first invitation would definitely piss her off. This one even gentle. Some go come after you don carry them go eatery, dem go still come ur house come drink juice, watch tv and feel at home yet if you make d normal guyish move, na slap upon insult you go collect...some are that rude.

Just like the poster above me said..not to give yourself headaches. Ive resolved to make brothels my regular companion till marriage..its not a matter of irresponsibility at all. Thats one of the places you can find sex with rest of mind.

This sex thing is not enthusiastic for girls like it is for guys and when they eventually have it with you, the lovely calm good girl you know becomes a monster demanding worship and you may never really enjoy her anymore. The wahala is so unworth it abeg. There are call girls everywhere willing to do all styles with you at ease so long you have a little change.

You're not under obligation to follow my footsteps o but it will save you headaches such as this.

3 gbosa for you.
You are so on point.