ShobayoEmma:
Life is more than sex relationship and marriage. Without these three, you can still enjoy life to the fullest. These three things mentioned are bound to bring you headache.

harriet412:


I love this reply..

Hope u sound half as good as u are in real life

Rozaytee:
my dear just like there are randy guys..so it is for gals too..some are randy as hell...people are different some gals will see u as bolor for not touching dem d first day..while some will respect u......i have had such experience too...i visited a friend and it rain badly dat day...i had to end up spending d night at his place...despite d fact we slept on d same bed...he respected himself. Some other guys would wanna have their way...this made me like him more...i love men who respect demselves sexually especially towards ladies.....

SlayQueenSlayer:


I really don't like girls who play hard to get. Once she says no, I leave her to her own devices. Most of the girls I have dated are girls who are bold enough to accept my overtures without the fear of being labeled cheap. I tend to respect those kinda girls more.

kyaagbanairaland:
Why are you allowing this minor incident to weigh you down. Stay calm bro. Do not reply her friendzone request. Pretend like you never saw her sms, do not apologize to her, act normal to her like you've been doing before she visited you. Try to check on her more, remove sex on your mind with her for now, be friendly with other ladies. I tell you she will come running after you. It worked for me and still works.

Prittygift:
Ur not trying atal, why making attempt to kiss her Has she gave you a good response to ur friendship proposal? You men think that when ever a lady smile at u all she need is just for you to prove to be a man by sexing her? Ayam not understanding you guys atal.... U don't love her u just want to have her... Why can't u wait before trying 3kisses same day u geh luck say she no slap u self

RadicallyBlunt:
The seriousness of your write up sef makes me think its one terrible something. Its nothing new na. Guy will like girl but girl wont yield cheaply..that's just d case here.

She enjoys ur company, but making sexual move on her first invitation would definitely piss her off. This one even gentle. Some go come after you don carry them go eatery, dem go still come ur house come drink juice, watch tv and feel at home yet if you make d normal guyish move, na slap upon insult you go collect...some are that rude.

Just like the poster above me said..not to give yourself headaches. Ive resolved to make brothels my regular companion till marriage..its not a matter of irresponsibility at all. Thats one of the places you can find sex with rest of mind.

This sex thing is not enthusiastic for girls like it is for guys and when they eventually have it with you, the lovely calm good girl you know becomes a monster demanding worship and you may never really enjoy her anymore. The wahala is so unworth it abeg. There are call girls everywhere willing to do all styles with you at ease so long you have a little change.

You're not under obligation to follow my footsteps o but it will save you headaches such as this.

delishpot:


You more than goofed. You destroyed your reputation for her hand. If she were my sister I would advise her not to come back. Because any woman you like you just set out for intimacy straight that means by the time a girl is sending you a thank you SMS it man's you have chopped her pkonmo. Such men are randy and would pick little excuses to cheat. A man with self control gives his woman peace of mind. She can rest assured that he wouldn't jump in bed with the first woman that catches his fancy or tries to seduce him. No one wants to be with a potential Street dog Na. You sef reason am.

Okay let me crack a joke which may be true in the end. Maybe she no gree because e be like you dey stay face me I face you or self contain. Na inside same 1 room bed and parlor dey . She no expect that Kain standard. Plus you come want start o riapko her put on top.

SlayQueenSlayer:

Talk has, and will always be cheap.

DaPuncline:

I know i goffed anyway but i never knew she would feel bad, i could not control myself.

pocohantas:


They don't get it... there is a difference. Later they'll say girls have only sex to over, see this one that seems responsible and focused on her studies...he can't even allow the girl land before pouncing on her...chai!!! This is what happens when you use experience with one to judge others.

I don't think he should keep asking her out. I think it's better they be friends first...some people like to be friends first to understand each other before dating, but the average guy doesn't like this. They want to hit it as soon as possible.

She seems reserved, you don't rush such girls. It's either she needed more time to get comfortable and his desperation has sent her packing or she truly isn't interested. I will go for the former.

He can as well ask her directly why she wouldn't want to date him.

fpeter:


Did you brush your mouth? Did you freshen your breath? Do you have mouth odour?

Henrypraise:


bros u better up ur game o b4 u end up chairman of d friend zone...

u av to show her u ar a bad boy... don't u tink of apologising to her, wat did u do wrong dat u want to apologise, Infact reply dat her message wit: "k"... invite her to a public place next tym n distant ur emotions.... act like u av bin offended by her actions... but don't be rude or arrogant about it... wait till she ask u why are u acting up, den tell her u are not comfortable on her terms be firm n direct abt it, den switch to play mode...

wat ever u do bro, remove marriage from ur mind n focus on d kitty, I bet u, if u gud at d game, she gonna ask afta u hit d kitty d second tym: "wat are we now dat u av had ur way"? u gonna respond: " we ar but pencils in d hands of the creator" heheheehe

Rozaytee:
i play hard to get to guys i dont really like...even guys i like i give dem space small.....well its depends on different peeps sha

RadicallyBlunt:

If only this underaged idiot with his inexperienced life can keep his mouth shut, I would have thought nairaland has an extra matured minded person but nairaland actually has d reverse...an immature fowl with poor presentation that lacks understanding.

hepzystev:



Ride on man...the last I check HIV/AIDS still doesn't have a cure!!....

BIDOO:

Even from the outset before i mention you i know how irrational your thinking faculty will be, just because i pointed out some facts you blurred your eye to see i was counted immature/inexeperience? what else did i expected from someone who fail to determine his standard in life, absolutely nothing! You have failed already only the grace can get you back on the right track.

RadicallyBlunt:

Wish you same

Rozaytee:
i play hard to get to guys i dont really like...even guys i like i give dem space small.....well its depends on different peeps sha

hepzystev:


I wish u wat u wish me bro....10 times better....

in another note I never wished u Hiv made a sentence...so if u wish urself DAT.....mehn...ride on bro

DaPuncline:

i know i messed up and i regret it, so what can i do now to help the situation. I was wrongly advised.

RadicallyBlunt:
The seriousness of your write up sef makes me think its one terrible something. Its nothing new na. Guy will like girl but girl wont yield cheaply..that's just d case here.

She enjoys ur company, but making sexual move on her first invitation would definitely piss her off. This one even gentle. Some go come after you don carry them go eatery, dem go still come ur house come drink juice, watch tv and feel at home yet if you make d normal guyish move, na slap upon insult you go collect...some are that rude.

Just like the poster above me said..not to give yourself headaches. Ive resolved to make brothels my regular companion till marriage..its not a matter of irresponsibility at all. Thats one of the places you can find sex with rest of mind.

This sex thing is not enthusiastic for girls like it is for guys and when they eventually have it with you, the lovely calm good girl you know becomes a monster demanding worship and you may never really enjoy her anymore. The wahala is so unworth it abeg. There are call girls everywhere willing to do all styles with you at ease so long you have a little change.

You're not under obligation to follow my footsteps o but it will save you headaches such as this.

DaPuncline:
The truth is i have been a little bit down and unable to get a sound sleep since yesterday night.

I met this cool lady like a month ago, what really got me attracted to her was her beauty, calmness, and her carriage. We started talking and i asked her out the following week: she just kept smiling and that was all her response, so since then, she do branch at my laboratory where i do my research work whenever she's done with her lectures. We do have great time gisting and all she's fun to be with it and all my friends like her.


Two weeks after, i invited her to my place and she agreed, though she couldn't meet up the first day she promised to come due to her reading schedule, but she later came the following day even though i thought she might not come that day because rain fell heavily around the time she promised to show up, though the rain later stopped but was still drizzling. I was so happy when her call came in and went to pick her up, i welcomed her to my place warmly and we started talking, she was seated on the chair and i sat on the table facing her, we had a great talking time and we laughed over many things.

As a normal guy i tried to make a "harmless" move to kiss her but she ignored by turning her face sideway with a warm smile, i also played along and told her to feel free. We gisted for a while and i made another attempt but encountered same fate, she later told me she'd soon be leaving because it was late already and rain was already drizzling, i was already lying on my bed and she was still sitting, so i stood up and made the last move which she also ignore with her warm smile. So i escorted her home and when I got back home, she sent a thank you text on my watsapp and we started chatting. I later told her how i find it difficult to read her mind due to her smile and calmness: her response was unexpected, she told me she doesn't know how to say it, that she only want us to be friends with nothing attached, i was so shocked and confused, she said she would advise me to look for someone else, i felt so bad and agitated. I really love her so much, i just don't know what to do to get her back. I asked her whether i've done anything wrong and she said NO. Please i need your help house. I don't Want to lose her at all.

RadicallyBlunt:

Lol. Keeping quiet and ignoring a post that wasn't directed to you would have been best.

Talking to me about HIV and AIDS wasn't a big deal neither.

But sending a three-word phrase "Wish you same" seem to be such a problem to you that you had to reply back in five lines..what you could probably just ignore.

DaPuncline:

why you no kuku shoot me on her behalf

GodBlessMe4Life:

Gosh what a big fool!

DaPuncline:

Bros please help my life naw, don't even know what to tell her when i see her on monday. I was wrongly advised by my friends. I'm a cool guy.

mofewilkie:
Apologize and move on. You can keep in touch sha. She might just come around.
Don't be desperate, it's unbecoming

kullozone:
I don't see anything wrong with him trying to kiss her the very first day she visited him sha.
She's just not attracted to him romantically.
Oga, don't make it hard for yourself ehn, just find another girl like she advised you... Because I think she had already made up her mind to friendzone you.

If you like make you listen to all those panya wey dey tell you to apologise, yuyeh?
Mtcheeew!!!
What matters is how both of you have been relating. You can kiss any girl on the first day she visits if you play it well.
Forget those yeye "no kiss for first visit" rubbish jare.