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Re: Can You Give Your Spouse/lover Your ATM Card To Pay Their Bills? by sukkot: 11:50pm On Aug 04, 2017
yup
Re: Can You Give Your Spouse/lover Your ATM Card To Pay Their Bills? by excess4luv: 11:57pm On Aug 04, 2017
i do it often with my Babe, sister and cousin, no trust issues with them. i have given my sister an open-check for withdrawal and she played according to my instructions. I do give any of them anytime in future.
Re: Can You Give Your Spouse/lover Your ATM Card To Pay Their Bills? by Nobody: 12:28am On Aug 05, 2017
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Re: Can You Give Your Spouse/lover Your ATM Card To Pay Their Bills? by Chommieblaq(f): 12:31am On Aug 05, 2017
LordKO:


Thank for your advice. However, I'd rather retain, maintain and sustain a philosophy that has brought unquantifiable blessings to me. I have already crossed so many oceans in life. lol.

A million like for you.
Re: Can You Give Your Spouse/lover Your ATM Card To Pay Their Bills? by Lewaluv(f): 12:35am On Aug 05, 2017
Men have done this with me. Have let my ex use mine for gas. Shrugs. No big deal.
Re: Can You Give Your Spouse/lover Your ATM Card To Pay Their Bills? by DozieInc(m): 12:41am On Aug 05, 2017
LordKO:
If I cannot place absolute confidence in you then, I cannot allow you to remain closer least of having you as a partner - pretense isn't my thing. Yes, I do give, but guess what, once you betray me, that marks the end of whatever bond that hold us closely. I'm the easiest person on earth to betray but about the hardest to outsmart.

I don't subscribe to the general norm of "trust no body" instead I believe in giving everyone that crosses my path an unmerited privilege to prove himself/herself. It's unfortunate that 99% of the people that has crossed my path so far has failed to prove to me that they're worthy of being trusted - no wonder, I have multitudes that refers me as their best friends whereas I don't have more than one person I can refer to as my friend. I roll with associates.

To be a nonconformist isn't an easy task but I enjoy living my life as one.

Re: Can You Give Your Spouse/lover Your ATM Card To Pay Their Bills? by calabardick(m): 1:05am On Aug 05, 2017
HannahHitler:
So recently, I went to visit a special someone. Told her I needed to eat so she just gave me her atm card and was like "go and eat, then withdraw your transport fare"

Lol. Mehn it was a battle. I thought and thought and finally my good side won. I guess I didn't want to abuse the trust so I just withdrew something really small. Although I regret everyday till now but well...


What is your opinion? Can you just let your girlfriend or boyfriend have your ATM card and not faint?

Me I cant o. I will withdraw the money and give you jeje. I cannot shout.

over to you.

I am in Lagos and my salary account ATM card is in the hands of my wife to be as far as Akwa Ibom state, to me there's no big deal
Re: Can You Give Your Spouse/lover Your ATM Card To Pay Their Bills? by geraldo077: 1:06am On Aug 05, 2017
I can allow it because a wise partner ought to know it's a perfect way to test her.i have even given my friend my atm to withdraw, I would definately get an alert...
Re: Can You Give Your Spouse/lover Your ATM Card To Pay Their Bills? by bellotaofeek: 1:24am On Aug 05, 2017
There is nothing wrong with it . I can give it to my spouse . But if I mistakenly dropped it with a side chick . Trust me she won't get more than 3k on the account cos before she reach the next POS or ATM I would have transferred the money in there to another account . grin

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Re: Can You Give Your Spouse/lover Your ATM Card To Pay Their Bills? by hokafor(m): 2:11am On Aug 05, 2017
Trust is the key Word here. But unfortunately I Trust no one with money.
Re: Can You Give Your Spouse/lover Your ATM Card To Pay Their Bills? by MadCow1: 2:13am On Aug 05, 2017
Not a big deal.. Done it and still do it.
Re: Can You Give Your Spouse/lover Your ATM Card To Pay Their Bills? by Engineer3: 3:14am On Aug 05, 2017
My white girlfriend and I did it during our school days a lot and we never violet neither abuse it. In fact we did not even care to check balance just withdraw and return the card. However, I did it thrice when I returned to naija and I regret twice. So it depends the kind of lady you are with. When you want to date; take your time.
Re: Can You Give Your Spouse/lover Your ATM Card To Pay Their Bills? by mrphysics(m): 3:24am On Aug 05, 2017
bellotaofeek:
There is nothing wrong with it . I can give it to my spouse . But if I mistakenly dropped it with a side chick . Trust me she won't get more than 3k on the account cos before she reach the next POS or ATM I would have transferred the money in there to another account . grin
Bad guy. Only when you don't trust such a person. Anyone who is not faithful in money issues will live a short life
Re: Can You Give Your Spouse/lover Your ATM Card To Pay Their Bills? by airlord2020: 4:46am On Aug 05, 2017
I usually do that no big deal.
Re: Can You Give Your Spouse/lover Your ATM Card To Pay Their Bills? by MrCork: 4:49am On Aug 05, 2017
HannahHitler:
So recently, I went to visit a special someone. Told her I needed to eat so she just gave me her atm card and was like "go and eat, then withdraw your transport fare"

Lol. Mehn it was a battle. I thought and thought and finally my good side won. I guess I didn't want to abuse the trust so I just withdrew something really small. Although I regret everyday till now but well...


What is your opinion? Can you just let your girlfriend or boyfriend have your ATM card and not faint?

Me I cant o. I will withdraw the money and give you jeje. I cannot shout.

over to you.



^^^^gold digggger...so all u wannnnto do is chop our money cozzzz u tink we Londonner are steeeerrin..innnnit!!(no oofeense) angry

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Re: Can You Give Your Spouse/lover Your ATM Card To Pay Their Bills? by MrCork: 4:50am On Aug 05, 2017
Rorachy:
I can't.


angry
Re: Can You Give Your Spouse/lover Your ATM Card To Pay Their Bills? by MrCork: 4:53am On Aug 05, 2017
Rorachy:
I can't.






^°°°anoda gold digggger...so all u wannnnto do is chop our money cozzzz u tink we Londonner are steeeerrin..innnnit



typikal black woman.. ((Shame)).
. No oofeense? angry
Re: Can You Give Your Spouse/lover Your ATM Card To Pay Their Bills? by YelloweWest: 5:56am On Aug 05, 2017
My hus has my card numbers and I have his.

We are both signatories to each others accounts. No secrets.

Lg. Life is good then things are kept simple.
Re: Can You Give Your Spouse/lover Your ATM Card To Pay Their Bills? by vivalavida(m): 5:57am On Aug 05, 2017
QueenMarvella:
Many Times.....Na His Hand My ATM Dey ,I Will Just Be Seeing Alerts But He Do Refund It.


Wow

This is a special girl
Re: Can You Give Your Spouse/lover Your ATM Card To Pay Their Bills? by deybholar(f): 6:00am On Aug 05, 2017
Why would you be in love with someone you can't trust with your card? I do this a lot. In fact my ex used to do it too. He'll just give me and ask me to withdraw whatever would be enough for me. How will I now take advantage of the opportunity and make senseless withdrawals? When you love someone, you even become their financial manager and encourage them to save not spend.

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Re: Can You Give Your Spouse/lover Your ATM Card To Pay Their Bills? by vivalavida(m): 6:02am On Aug 05, 2017
CzarChris:
Why not? Since my main account doesn't have an atmosphere card, so whatever change that's in any of my other bank accounts make her destroy her chances with me by showing her level of greed.

U ke?
Re: Can You Give Your Spouse/lover Your ATM Card To Pay Their Bills? by YelloweWest: 6:09am On Aug 05, 2017
supereagle:
I have trusted my sister with my ATM, but I can't trust my wife with my ATM. She can't trust me with hers either.
You're too close to ur sister. Try and build that bond with ur wife
Re: Can You Give Your Spouse/lover Your ATM Card To Pay Their Bills? by vivalavida(m): 6:15am On Aug 05, 2017
I keep wondering why it didn't work between me and her.

She was the first girl that taught me how to trust girls. First girl that will not password her phone and allows me go through everything there cuz she loved me. I didn't give her my ATM card tho. I gave her cash countless times to hold for me so that I won't spend it and when I need it I get it back that day. First and only girl I borrowed money and she always paid back when she said she would.

God bless u Nenye

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Re: Can You Give Your Spouse/lover Your ATM Card To Pay Their Bills? by Coldfeets: 6:17am On Aug 05, 2017
Na wa o!

I thot you lesbians are supposed to love each other so much more than anything else?

How come your own love of money is greater than your love of whatever nonsense you girls are doing?

Tufiakwa unu. shocked

But to answer your question anyway, I don't mind giving any of my girls my ATM card.

Why?

Okay listen to this.

According to Anthony Robbins, given the option of making more money or holding onto the money you already have, MOST people will do everything possible to hold onto the money they already have.

I am not MOST people.

Which means, I am never afraid of my money finishing.
Re: Can You Give Your Spouse/lover Your ATM Card To Pay Their Bills? by Psoul(m): 6:18am On Aug 05, 2017
It depends on the kind of person u have as ur spouse. How responsible he or she is.

For me and my wife, we don't have issues doing dat. She knows my Card PIN just d same way i knows her. The same is applicable to our phones. I can give her my card even can leave it wt her for days and she can never take anything that will make u regret giving her such privilege.

I drop my wallet without knowing how much therein and she can only take money from there if it has to do wt expenses for the entire family. Hardly will she take money from my wallet for her personal issues unless wt my permission. She has such financial discipline that i trust her in managing my finances. Give her N10,000 she will multiply it more than u can imagine. We have built this trust and discipline that money has and can never be an issue bw us.
Re: Can You Give Your Spouse/lover Your ATM Card To Pay Their Bills? by promiseicha(m): 6:30am On Aug 05, 2017
i will nt do dat ok
Re: Can You Give Your Spouse/lover Your ATM Card To Pay Their Bills? by tosinjay(m): 6:31am On Aug 05, 2017
Yes, and I'll inform her nt to check balance report if need be, she fear God, she no go do. Permission matters. lipsrsealed
Re: Can You Give Your Spouse/lover Your ATM Card To Pay Their Bills? by Nobody: 6:42am On Aug 05, 2017
Yes I can!
Re: Can You Give Your Spouse/lover Your ATM Card To Pay Their Bills? by fykes(m): 6:46am On Aug 05, 2017
I have 2 ATM's on my account. She uses one but don't withdraw without asking n agreeing with me
Re: Can You Give Your Spouse/lover Your ATM Card To Pay Their Bills? by Patented: 6:49am On Aug 05, 2017
I can, I have and I still do and vice versa.

its amazing how being trust worthy is almost worthless in our society these days.
Re: Can You Give Your Spouse/lover Your ATM Card To Pay Their Bills? by yeballs(m): 7:00am On Aug 05, 2017
HannahHitler:
So recently, I went to visit a special someone. Told her I needed to eat so she just gave me her atm card and was like "go and eat, then withdraw your transport fare"

Lol. Mehn it was a battle. I thought and thought and finally my good side won. I guess I didn't want to abuse the trust so I just withdrew something really small. Although I regret everyday till now but well...


What is your opinion? Can you just let your girlfriend or boyfriend have your ATM card and not faint?

Me I cant o. I will withdraw the money and give you jeje. I cannot shout.

over to you.


My Wife did the same thing for me by giving me her ATM to withdraw 95k when my iPome 6 was stolen as at then we were only dating. We know each other's ATM password afterwards
Re: Can You Give Your Spouse/lover Your ATM Card To Pay Their Bills? by Nobody: 7:40am On Aug 05, 2017
what a stupid question! yes! my current woman have one of my credit which she uses for anything reasonable she wants to buy. she paid my rent too when I didn't have a job. so again what a stupid question!

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