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Re: Can U Accept A Lady You Left As Virgin Before & Now Not a Virgin again?? by redarrr(m): 3:16am On Aug 20, 2017
hmmm....everybody has a past
Re: Can U Accept A Lady You Left As Virgin Before & Now Not a Virgin again?? by Fourwinds: 5:52am On Aug 20, 2017
QueenSekxy:
why won't you??are you dating the virginity or the girl??
but the girl initially told the guy she will wait till after marriage before loosing it.... so how come it is no longer intact.
Re: Can U Accept A Lady You Left As Virgin Before & Now Not a Virgin again?? by Fourwinds: 5:58am On Aug 20, 2017
Rorachy:
Why won't you accept her? is she your wife or does she owe you her virginity?
but she said she will wait till after marriage... so how come what she did give to her previous boy friend she now gave to another after a break up... please the OP thread again
Re: Can U Accept A Lady You Left As Virgin Before & Now Not a Virgin again?? by Fourwinds: 6:02am On Aug 20, 2017
Lalas247:
U must have been inlove with her virginity not her undecided
Kids up n down mtcheew
but she was free to give it out in the next relationship after telling the first guy she is keeping it till marriage.... if you are such a girl I will see you as unstable.... a decent person say something and keep to it till the end
Re: Can U Accept A Lady You Left As Virgin Before & Now Not a Virgin again?? by Fourwinds: 6:04am On Aug 20, 2017
Evaberry:
Virginity is always over hyped

It's no big deal and guys who freak out about it need to have their head examined.


Most virgins are just scared and unprepared that's all.
ok you live in UK... I understand
Re: Can U Accept A Lady You Left As Virgin Before & Now Not a Virgin again?? by Lalas247(f): 7:37am On Aug 20, 2017
Fourwinds:
but she was free to give it out in the next relationship after telling the first guy she is keeping it till marriage.... if you are such a girl I will see you as unstable.... a decent person say something and keep to it till the end
Don't judge
You don't know th circumstances which led to her loosing it besides its non of our biz ... she lost she lost it
Who cares virginitydoesnt secure marriage and my dear God didn't state no where in the bible that you have to be a virgin
Remember onceyou ask God for forgiveness all past wrongs is washed away

So y do mare human beings think virginity holds the key to happy home

My friend married age 24 virgin ... look at her now 3 weeks after wedding night ( infact that's a topic for another day )
Only 3 month into the marriage he has already cheated so please she kept herself 24 years to end up with a cheat ..now she crying
Re: Can U Accept A Lady You Left As Virgin Before & Now Not a Virgin again?? by feelgoodInc: 7:55am On Aug 20, 2017
eberetos:
If you are so much in love with a lady & she tells you not to touch her because she is waiting till marriage & that she is a virgin, & later in life you meet her again with same love, but she says she is no more a virgin..... Will you accept her backhuh
https://www.nairaland.com/3844556/should-women-save-virginity-marriage
Re: Can U Accept A Lady You Left As Virgin Before & Now Not a Virgin again?? by feelgoodInc: 7:56am On Aug 20, 2017
Lalas247:
Don't judge
You don't know th circumstances which led to her loosing it besides its non of our biz ... she lost she lost it
Who cares virginitydoesnt secure marriage and my dear God didn't state no where in the bible that you have to be a virgin
Remember onceyou ask God for forgiveness all past wrongs is washed away

So y do mare human beings think virginity holds the key to happy home

My friend married age 24 virgin ... look at her now 3 weeks after wedding night ( infact that's a topic for another day )
Only 3 month into the marriage he has already cheated so please she kept herself 24 years to end up with a cheat ..now she crying
This story is a very big lie

https://www.nairaland.com/3844556/should-women-save-virginity-marriage
Re: Can U Accept A Lady You Left As Virgin Before & Now Not a Virgin again?? by Nobody: 9:00am On Aug 20, 2017
elipheleh:
No I will just chop and leave.
She never truly loved you OP.
It is best you never marry such a lady, you are just a second or third option for her.
Thus is wisdom.
Be ware of such women if you want to live long. You'll always get crumbs from her. Women mostly give their pride to the man they love whole heartedly
You're a wise man, I love the way you think.
The whole ish just screams #redflag. All those cold nights she wudn't grease his plank, all for saving the deuce till marriage. Yet here she is worse off than he left her.

That's not love.
OP, you can have your pound of flesh, but do well to not dare think of putting a ring on that finger. She's damaged goods.
Re: Can U Accept A Lady You Left As Virgin Before & Now Not a Virgin again?? by Fourwinds: 10:04am On Aug 20, 2017
Lalas247:
Don't judge
You don't know th circumstances which led to her loosing it besides its non of our biz ... she lost she lost it
Who cares virginitydoesnt secure marriage and my dear God didn't state no where in the bible that you have to be a virgin
Remember onceyou ask God for forgiveness all past wrongs is washed away

So y do mare human beings think virginity holds the key to happy home

My friend married age 24 virgin ... look at her now 3 weeks after wedding night ( infact that's a topic for another day )
Only 3 month into the marriage he has already cheated so please she kept herself 24 years to end up with a cheat ..now she crying
there you go.... who said God didn't want a woman to get married as a virgin... in fact that is what God expect of all human beings whether male or female... you said I shouldnt judge? did I judge? there is a difference between correction and judgement.... what I did was to put out something to correct... if I'm to judge, she will serve the punishment of breaking the oath of not remaining virgin... yes virginity does not mean a marriage will be successful does that mean you shouldn't do the right thing of being a virgin into marriage? it is like saying since God already know those who will go to heaven therefore every human being do not need to struggle to attain spiritual growth needed to go to heaven.... it perplex me what kind of society will have today
Re: Can U Accept A Lady You Left As Virgin Before & Now Not a Virgin again?? by favourmic(m): 11:12am On Aug 20, 2017
The problem is i dont love back again unless i just want to Bleep and go, we date each other we depart other guys Bleep you, i cant have you back talk less of been a virgin forget it
Re: Can U Accept A Lady You Left As Virgin Before & Now Not a Virgin again?? by Xtopherprince(m): 11:30am On Aug 20, 2017
I refuse to comment, Before Amy will come check what i wrote. grin
Re: Can U Accept A Lady You Left As Virgin Before & Now Not a Virgin again?? by Lalas247(f): 12:11pm On Aug 20, 2017
Fourwinds:
there you go.... who said God didn't want a woman to get married as a virgin... in fact that is what God expect of all human beings whether male or female... you said I shouldnt judge? did I judge? there is a difference between correction and judgement.... what I did was to put out something to correct... if I'm to judge, she will serve the punishment of breaking the oath of not remaining virgin... yes virginity does not mean a marriage will be successful does that mean you shouldn't do the right thing of being a virgin into marriage? it is like saying since God already know those who will go to heaven therefore every human being do not need to struggle to attain spiritual growth needed to go to heaven.... it perplex me what kind of society will have today
Ok
Re: Can U Accept A Lady You Left As Virgin Before & Now Not a Virgin again?? by Lalas247(f): 12:17pm On Aug 20, 2017
feelgoodInc:
This story is a very big lie

https://www.nairaland.com/3844556/should-women-save-virginity-marriage
You mean he tricked me shocked
Na ban be dat can you imagine the calories I wasted typing all that out grin
Re: Can U Accept A Lady You Left As Virgin Before & Now Not a Virgin again?? by FvckShiT(m): 12:21pm On Aug 20, 2017
Lalas247:
You mean he tricked me shocked
Na ban be dat can you imagine the calories I wasted typing all that out grin
Fúckingßigßumßum grin

wink grin
Re: Can U Accept A Lady You Left As Virgin Before & Now Not a Virgin again?? by youngfocus(m): 2:13pm On Aug 20, 2017
Lalas247:
Don't judge
You don't know th circumstances which led to her loosing it besides its non of our biz ... she lost she lost it
Who cares virginitydoesnt secure marriage and my dear God didn't state no where in the bible that you have to be a virgin
Remember onceyou ask God for forgiveness all past wrongs is washed away

So y do mare human beings think virginity holds the key to happy home

My friend married age 24 virgin ... look at her now 3 weeks after wedding night ( infact that's a topic for another day )
Only 3 month into the marriage he has already cheated so please she kept herself 24 years to end up with a cheat ..now she crying
U are nt close wit ur bible, read wat d scripture says abt virginity
Deuteronomy:22.17
Now he has slandered her and said, 'I did not find your daughter to be a virgin.' But here is the proof of my daughter's virginity." Then her parents shall display the cloth before the elders of the town,
Deuteronomy:22.18
and the elders shall take the man and punish him.
Deuteronomy:22.19
They shall fine him a hundred shekels of silver and give them to the girl's father, because this man has given an Israelite virgin a bad name. She shall continue to be his wife; he must not divorce her as long as he lives.
Deuteronomy:22.20
If, however, the charge is true and no proof of the girl's virginity can be found,
Deuteronomy:22.21
she shall be brought to the door of her father's house and there the men of her town shall stone her to death. She has done a disgraceful thing in Israel by being promiscuous while still in her father's house. You must purge the evil from among you.
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