Humility017:

I think you're very right...
I once had one who always...love talk such..
and even told me....she can't stay in a relationship without kissing and cuddling...
she makes me know she was just being sincere...and that she can't be wit me...in a relationship and I don't give these...and that she will even go seduce me to yield to it...
I was so devastated bro...
I am really tired of everything....
I think relationships was not meant for my kind

Humility017:

to be honest with you dear...many simply don't know what they want...
I am a guy who believes and practise "abstinence from sex till marriage"
but unfortunately I find it difficult gettin a lady by my side...
I have always loved,care and do all i need to do....
many just love me as a friend but when I wanna go extra mile they decline and take me for granted...
the truth is good people find it difficult upholding godly values in today's present world...
the only guys ladies are mad over are those who go to have sex wit them....then they will be obessed wit the dude...because he has seen them....
real God fearing guys are only needed when marriage come calling definitely not in a relationship because relationships wit such guys to them....are boring being that there is no sex, kissing and petting...

my advise to godly guys....is to keep being good and always know the reason why they're living Godly is because God say so and for their own good and not for the sake of confused lady compromise their stance

WiredLeggings:
Continue to stick to your values. Guys like you are rare. The girl you're looking for does exist. Kudos.

Destined2win:
Are you a woman?

Humility017:

to be honest with you dear...many simply don't know what they want...
I am a guy who believes and practise "abstinence from sex till marriage"
but unfortunately I find it difficult gettin a lady by my side...
I have always loved,care and do all i need to do....
many just love me as a friend but when I wanna go extra mile they decline and take me for granted...
the truth is good people find it difficult upholding godly values in today's present world...
the only guys ladies are mad over are those who go to have sex wit them....then they will be obessed wit the dude...because he has seen them....
real God fearing guys are only needed when marriage come calling definitely not in a relationship because relationships wit such guys to them....are boring being that there is no sex, kissing and petting...

my advise to godly guys....is to keep being good and always know the reason why they're living Godly is because God say so and for their own good and not for the sake of confused lady compromise their stance

Destined2win:
90% of the times when you ask a lady the attributes she wants in a man, you will see amongst others, "he must be God fearing"! But what baffles me in actuality is that a lot of them do not act accordingly.

It leaves me wondering if they have a totally different meaning to God-fearing. I know a guy who tried to live to his dream lady's expectation of being a God-fearing young man. He goes to church always and tells the lady, he always talk about the Bible. He doesn't talk about Sex or like things. But at the end, the lady abandoned him for a guy who didn't really care much about church or related things.

Even slay queens are not left out of desiring a God-fearing man yet you see their lifestyle saying completely opposite.

Ladies maybe you can let us understand what you mean when you say, "I need a God-fearing man"!

If there is also a limit to how God-fearing your man can be, please what is it.

Thanks!

Destined2win:
But guys are saying that what you ladies mean actually is a mumu man

LaEvilIMiss:


People say a lot of things just so they do not sound stupid.. same thing when they say Financially stable, Romantic, Tall Dark and Handsome.. this is a sign that the woman you are talking to has little ambition hence cannot quantify the value or measure of what she claims to sufficiently know when she sees it.

God-fearing is usually relative and constantly phasing in-out based on either how righteous or church you are on certain conditions or whether you just came from your pastors hows.. I am yet to see a God-fearing man

biblegirl:
Shebi d question is what ladies mean n not what guys mean

zubydave:
Op it's like you read my thoughts yesterday and created this thread. You know, looking down at the girls at the ground floor in my lodge and the way they were shouting and wrapping their hands around their marijuana smoking boyfriends, I began to think; these are the same girls that would announce to the world that they need a God fearing man. I begin to wonder if smoking of eegbo and drinking of strong drinks amount to God creating. No offence to eegbo smokers on the house sha.

supersystemsng:


The question is who is a God-fearing man

LaEvilIMiss:


Abraham is one example, David and Solomon are not. so it will be one who fears God (not Loves him) enough to keep to all the laws of the 10 commandments.. e don reach?

kindredspirit:


You've said it all. A friend and I were discussing this very issue the other day.

Most of these women want a "God-fearing man" who is GOOD IN BED. The question is, can a man be truly god-fearing and also indulge in Sex ? Doesn't that mean he isn't god-fearing since God frowns at illicit sexual activity outside of marriage?

The average girl will actually dump their truly god-fearing guy if he ACTUALLY proves to be god-fearing especially as far as sexual activity goes. You would be seen as boring and they would ditch you for another " god-fearing " dude who has proven to them practically that he is good in bed.

LaEvilIMiss:


Abraham is one example, David and Solomon are not. so it will be one who fears God (not Loves him) enough to keep to all the laws of the 10 commandments.. e don reach?

PaperLace:


Well said. They are obviously not married. I endorse the emboldened, Nigerians don't like seeing a man being mugu for his wife _misery sure loves company.

Gerrard59:



How about looking towards the pious girls? The likes of Deeper Life, The Lord's Chosen etc? Do you think it will save you all the stress?

In biology, likes attract likes.

supersystemsng:


Next question Ma if you don't mind.... How come, your page... you peeped into hell and most of the inhabitants are female....

Narrated by al-Bukhari, 3241; Muslim, 2737 “ I looked into Paradise and I saw that the majority of its people were the poor. And I looked into Hell and I saw that the majority of its people are women.”

bukatyne:


My sister, in some cases, experience is the best teacher. When I was seeing they still want a romantic husband bla bla, I knew that they not yet there.

Misery sure loves company.

LaEvilIMiss:

supersystemsng:


It takes an intense revelation of God to become a man that fears Him.. it's beyond the level of the ordinary pastor. I akin it to one that has had his burning bush experience with the Lord and not just His words...i'm not on the forum to comment sha...I think the term God-fearing has been grossly discounted although there are God fearing men and women in this nation, alot.

Destined2win:
Nice post.

But you haven't directly answered the question

Divay22:
It means a man that has a right standing with God..
The fact that you go to church every Sunday doesn't mean you fear God...
If you fear God you'll cleave to her and her alone as he has commanded..
If you fear God you'll do nothing to hurt her.

Humility017:

Lol....
what makes u think....it is by appearance?

supersystemsng:


It takes an intense revelation of God to become a man that fears Him.. it's beyond the level of the ordinary pastor. I akin it to one that has had his burning bush experience with the Lord and not just His words...i'm not on the forum to comment sha...I think the term God-fearing has been grossly discounted although there are God fearing men and women in this nation, alot.

LaEvilIMiss:


True!. which is why i contend that majority of women do not know what they mean or how to answer this particular question when confronted with it. however it is obvious to women who know their onions

supersystemsng:


God forbid at your comments a man that loves his woman must be a mumu or somthing of such... any woman try am, my brothers will change it quickly

LaEvilIMiss:


you will imagine that nearly 80 million christian men and women actually count for much in God's sight.. we are a sinful nation period.point.blank but to the matter at hand

bukatyne:


Please speak english

Gerrard59:



They are more likely to agree with your "no sex before marriage stance". So why not date someone from there or with similar beliefs?

For instance, I am friends with religious lasses, but I cannot and won't date such. It will now be hypocritical for me to say I've met more religious girls than otherwise.


My view: Go for what you want.