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Ever since my boyfriend came into my life, my life has really changed, I truly love him n the feelings is reciprocal from his end. Since he came into my life I find it so hard to let another man into my heart. we are in a distant relationship.
Lately, I don't know I just fell so much in love with him n I got so intoxicated with my feelings toward him but the issue is some days ago I sent him a marriage broadcast n his response made me so upset and it made me had a change of mind towards. The truth is that I truly love him so much that I can't let him go n I don't know if his intentionson are still what he says it is. I tired talking things with him both using a calm and harsh tone in portraying how I felt when he told me the word he said and I urge him to try convince me it not what I think but he refused to say anything, he is not the saying out his mind kind of person.
Please I need your help fellow nairalander help a sister coz am at the edge of letting go of him.

What did he say to you dear?

Then stop loving him


People are really pathetic

Rick Ross fall on you

slimthugchimee2:
Then stop loving him


People are really pathetic

So you think marriage is something you can easily talk a guy into abi? Kwantinu!

op problem fall on you

Lewaluv:
Rick Ross fall on you

HMM.YOUNG LADY WHAT YOU NEED TO UNDERSTAND IS THAT THE WAY WE GUYS SEE MARRIAGE IS DIFFERENT FROM THE WAY YOU LADIES SEE IT.WE THINK ABOUT THE EMOTIONAL,SPIRITUAL AND MOST ESPECIALLY FINANCIAL COMMITMENT.FOR ME, I BECOME SCARED TO TALK ABOUT MARRIAGE SINCE I KNOW FOR NOW I AM NOT YET FINANCIALLY BUOYANT. SORRY I FORGET!!!THIS ONLY APPLY TO RESPONSIBLE GUYS.

Normally what he said we often joke over it but when he said I wasn't in a good mood n I took it so hard on him but I expected him to say something to calm me down but he didn't.

Loveeneh:
Normally what he said we often joke over it but when he said I wasn't in a good mood n I took it so hard on him but I expected him to say something to calm me down but he didn't.

It seems u'r the guilty one here,u'r obviously intoxicated by his love and u'r probably expecting too much...chillax,talk to him and u'll b fine

slimthugchimee2:
Then stop loving him


People are really pathetic

Some people don't worth the love given to them.

Truth is, the guy is not ready to settle down.
Wait for him or you date a guy that is ready to settle down.
Next time don't love to the extent that you will not be able to leave a person.

Transcendwonder:
So you think marriage is something you can easily talk a guy into abi? Kwantinu!

It is also not something that you can easily talk a Lady into.

If someone like me don't want to marry you, there is nothing you will say in this world that will change my stubborn mind .

Rorachy:
Truth is, the guy is not ready to settle down.

Wait for him or you date a guy that is ready to settle down.

Next time don't love to the extent that you will not be able to leave a person.

chai,u no get joy o!!...why u gotta be so brutal ?

Tamel:
chai,u no get joy o!!...why u gotta be so brutal ?

The truth is bitter.

When I saw this thread

I first checked your profile

My observations are

1.Its obvious you had a blood covenant with him that's why u can't let him go.

2.He hasn't paid your bride price,yet u went and started living with him. He's tired of fúckng you that's why he hasn't given you answer if he will marry you or not.

3. Your a desperate biitch trying to force a young man to marriage because he's dating you and that is why your love for him is diminishing.

finally stop been desperate ,support him , and watch how he will propose to you in 5yrs coming

Rorachy:
It is also not something that you can easily talk a Lady into.

If someone like me don't want to marry you, there is nothing you will say in this world that will change my stubborn mind .

juju nko?? or I take u to mars.only me n u.last last, na u go beg me to marry u

hope2wise2:
juju nko?? or I take u to mars.only me n u.last last, na u go beg me to marry u

You don't know me o, if I make up my mind not to do something, no Jupiter can stop me, all I need to do is to make up my mind. That's me. My decisions are not flexible.

That's what my friends complain about me, I don't change my mind easily.

So do all you want, if I don't want to marry you, my decision is final. Ask guys that I turned down.

Homeboiy:
When I saw this thread

I first checked your profile

My observations are

1.Its obvious you had a blood covenant with him that's why u can't let him go.

2.He hasn't paid your bride price,yet u went and started living with him. He's tired of fúckng you that's why he hasn't given you answer if he will marry you or not.

3. Your a desperate biitch trying to force a young man to marriage because he's dating you and that is why your love for him is diminishing.

finally stop been desperate ,support him , and watch how he will propose to you in 5yrs coming

Plz oo... nothing of such

Loveeneh:
Ever since my boyfriend came into my life, my life has really changed, I truly love him n the feelings is reciprocal from his end. Since he came into my life I find it so hard to let another man into my heart. we are in a distant relationship.
Lately, I don't know I just fell so much in love with him n I got so intoxicated with my feelings toward him but the issue is some days ago I sent him a marriage broadcast n his response made me so upset and it made me had a change of mind towards. The truth is that I truly love him so much that I can't let him go n I don't know if his intentionson are still what he says it is. I tired talking things with him both using a calm and harsh tone in portraying how I felt when he told me the word he said and I urge him to try convince me it not what I think but he refused to say anything, he is not the saying out his mind kind of person.
Please I need your help fellow nairalander help a sister coz am at the edge of letting go of him.

has he not tried enof? someone u cheated and still forgives u..... would u like to end up with someone who u know would one day cheat on u..... I really understand ur bf now. after reading a post of urs. free d guy. I doubt u love him as u claim u do......

Loveeneh:
Plz oo... nothing of such

From your topics

Rorachy:
You don't know me o, if I make up my mind not to do something, no Jupiter can stop me, all I need to do is to make up my mind. That's me. My decisions are not flexible.

That's what my friends complain about me, I don't change my mind easily.

So do all you want, if I don't want to marry you, my decision is final. Ask guys that I turned down.

ewo...... don't think I want to marry u o.any way sha. my point is everyone has a pin code..... and ones it is realised, you'd finally b tamed.... meanwhile I don't like girl that do hard to get sef

hope2wise2:
ewo...... don't think I want to marry u o.any way sha. my point is everyone has a pin code..... and ones it is realised, you'd finally b tamed.... meanwhile I don't like girl that do hard to get sef

I was using you as an example.


I don't play hard to get, neither do I need to be tamed, if someone is my type, I will accept the person notwithstanding.

The person should just have the few attributes I like in a partner, then the rest is history, no forming, I don't form or play.
I'm just me.

reading comments in 3D

Rorachy:
I was using you as an example.


I don't play hard to get, neither do I need to be tamed, if someone is my type, I will accept the person notwithstanding.

The person should just have the few attributes I like in a partner, then the rest is history, no forming, I don't form or play.
I'm just me.

so wat are d attributes. would like to know

Do you even know what love is that u want to die koz of somebody

Loveeneh:
Normally what he said we often joke over it but when he said I wasn't in a good mood n I took it so hard on him but I expected him to say something to calm me down but he didn't.

to calm you down cos say you smoke oshogbo weed..

Wtf does intentions on mean

Loveeneh:
Ever since my boyfriend came into my life, my life has really changed, I truly love him n the feelings is reciprocal from his end. Since he came into my life I find it so hard to let another man into my heart. we are in a distant relationship.
Lately, I don't know I just fell so much in love with him n I got so intoxicated with my feelings toward him but the issue is some days ago I sent him a marriage broadcast n his response made me so upset and it made me had a change of mind towards. The truth is that I truly love him so much that I can't let him go n I don't know if his intentionson are still what he says it is. I tired talking things with him both using a calm and harsh tone in portraying how I felt when he told me the word he said and I urge him to try convince me it not what I think but he refused to say anything, he is not the saying out his mind kind of person.
Please I need your help fellow nairalander help a sister coz am at the edge of letting go of him.

1. what was the content of the marriage broadcast?
2. have you guys sheepishly talked life after relationship issues before?
3. what was his response to number one?
4. and what was your response to number 3?

Answer these and I'll tell you the truth!

First of all, if you are really a graduate your English is very disappointing

Secondly is this the same guy you posted about in July or another sucker?


Thirdly, I hope you won't come and open another thread about how you hate men, life or relationship


Please note this comment was written after analyzing your two love topics in recent times , and a warning to stop sharing your destiny on social media because if open breakup thread some people that have been following you from villa and nairaland will see it



OH and an in a beautiful high spirits

Find the clue

You just waste your precious time to write rubbish..

Collins4u1:
to calm you down cos say you smoke oshogbo weed..

hhh