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If you have picture evidence of the havoc your sister caused. Kindly report to the nearest police post. Police will invite her and arrest her. From that point, insist to the police that they should file the issue to court. And never accept any plea she gives there. Engage a lawyer or human right activist to take up the challenge. Please never relent once this case starts. She will cry, beg, sweat and end up in detention. After 5 days, ensure she agrees to provide all documents taken away by her, she must also pay for all the cloths destroyed. Then after she fulfills all that. You can now meet a pastor for forgiveness. But you must have made your right proven

sharpwriter:
Why cant you leave your own gangster neighbours war to God wey yu dey sleep with axe and the rest . A weakling is a weakling just as this man. O' yes , i can arrest my blood if such is unreasonable and dangerous to my living. Read again, there is time for everything. If you cant defend yur wife, you are a weakling, and yu dont have the knowledge of God because you have become one with such wife according to God's standard. How can one beat yur wife till blood comes out of her nose and yu say keep quiet. Let's even forget the beating. What is she doing with another person's certificate? That is wht she must be arrested for.

It's a forum.. Not a ground for bragging rights...feel free to declare your opinion...leave my character and my opinions out of the discuss...


Best of luck

kenbee:
Take Ur wife back to her mum for retraining cause it's obvious that she lacked manners for Ur sis to have dealt with her this much

You well so?

OP call her, infact boker peace with her, be the bigger man, but den again be very wary of her, why call her you say, she has your wife's documents and your pictures. if ypur not ready to arrest her and charge her for breaking and forcefull entery, then you should call beg and once she gives you the document, pack and lev tour family hoise 4 Christ seek, you be man start taking responsibility. i remember your story, i didn't have any respect 4 you den and none till now. evn if your papa build duplex with 20 rooms, pack out and fend 4 yourself finish

omron:
Good morning everyone

Remember I posted on this platform about my Elder sister who came to visit our mum where I was staying In the family house with my wife and my child.

It was a day I shall never forget in my life
whenever I remember that day I have a terrible feeling and it affected me so much

To those that don't know about the story


https://www.nairaland.com/3778429/how-blood-sister-treated-wife
That is the link

She beat my wife Blood was coming out of her nose she broke our private room that was padlocked gained entrance into the room and tore all my wife clothes and baby clothes in the wardrobe and also carried my wife certificates and up till now denying she never carries it



We were 4 members in the family I am the last born she was the second born and my sister was the eldest with one of my junior brother


To cut the long story short three month is gone and she still denied she didn't carry my wife certificates and my life photo album.

My eldest sister has called me again after visiting the pastor a prophet told her that she should call me and apologize for what he did if she really wants to move forward in her life but she refuse saying my number is switched off I know it's a lie she wanted me to call her first.... Tho she has realized the wrong she did the last time I saw her was on my mum Birthday Thanksgiving in the church she feel sober and could not even look me in the eye..... She believes so much in seniority and because she doesn't want to be the one to call first but i learnt that she always talk to my elder sister that she is remorseful for all thathappened but don'tknowhow to put it to me

Now the question is should I call her?
Tho I don't wish to becos I have vowed never to do that until she releases my property and also apologize tonn me but someone told me am the Aburo (junior) that I should call her first

That if I call her she might release the property She made away with
pls is this advisable I need a strong advice
though despite how she maltreated my wife ,my wife has called her and apologize despite that she did not release her certificates and our wedding photo album and other things..... Pls am confused advice me

You are stupid for living in your father's house with your wife and kids. Nonsense, why won't she do all that.
If you are broke, rent out your space and use it to rent a place somewhere.
I can't advice you further until you move out if that house. You also need to keep away from that kind of family. Only see your sister like once a year and do the remaining contacts by phone and online banking, in case of contributions.

supersystemsng:
It's a forum.. Not a ground for bragging rights...feel free to declare your opinion...leave my character and my opinions out of the discuss...


Best of luck

Bro... no be fight na...was just passionate...let's leave this man abeg, no vex. Please, dont forget to update me on that tin

Hbaba:
If you have picture evidence of the havoc your sister caused. Kindly report to the nearest police post. Police will invite her and arrest her. From that point, insist to the police that they should file the issue to court. And never accept any plea she gives there. Engage a lawyer or human right activist to take up the challenge. Please never relent once this case starts. She will cry, beg, sweat and end up in detention. After 5 days, ensure she agrees to provide all documents taken away by her, she must also pay for all the cloths destroyed. Then after she fulfills all that. You can now meet a pastor for forgiveness. But you must have made your right proven

I like you

omron:
Good morning everyone

Remember I posted on this platform about my Elder sister who came to visit our mum where I was staying In the family house with my wife and my child.

It was a day I shall never forget in my life
whenever I remember that day I have a terrible feeling and it affected me so much

To those that don't know about the story


https://www.nairaland.com/3778429/how-blood-sister-treated-wife
That is the link

She beat my wife Blood was coming out of her nose she broke our private room that was padlocked gained entrance into the room and tore all my wife clothes and baby clothes in the wardrobe and also carried my wife certificates and up till now denying she never carries it



We were 4 members in the family I am the last born she was the second born and my sister was the eldest with one of my junior brother


To cut the long story short three month is gone and she still denied she didn't carry my wife certificates and my life photo album.

My eldest sister has called me again after visiting the pastor a prophet told her that she should call me and apologize for what he did if she really wants to move forward in her life but she refuse saying my number is switched off I know it's a lie she wanted me to call her first.... Tho she has realized the wrong she did the last time I saw her was on my mum Birthday Thanksgiving in the church she feel sober and could not even look me in the eye..... She believes so much in seniority and because she doesn't want to be the one to call first but i learnt that she always talk to my elder sister that she is remorseful for all thathappened but don'tknowhow to put it to me

Now the question is should I call her?
Tho I don't wish to becos I have vowed never to do that until she releases my property and also apologize tonn me but someone told me am the Aburo (junior) that I should call her first

That if I call her she might release the property She made away with
pls is this advisable I need a strong advice
though despite how she maltreated my wife ,my wife has called her and apologize despite that she did not release her certificates and our wedding photo album and other things..... Pls am confused advice me

Jus t put a call to her. Say "hello" "how are you" "Hope you are taking care of yourself". Dont tell her to return those items she took. She will guitily and shamely return them.

Originalsly:
Bro.... your sister beat up your wife bloody.... and you're talking about what prophet said... what someone else said...who is senior to who....now asking what we have to say? This your sister behaviour towards you is nothing new.... from small she knew you are a weakling.... and being married doesn't make a difference. In her eyes... you are her little sister... and your wife.... her step sister. She has no respect for you...nor your wife... and guess whose fault is it? There is nothing you can personally tell her or confront her direcrlly.... you don't have the guts.. the balls to do so. Your other family members will be of no help as well ...there is some underlying issue ...something the family doesn't like about your wife. For the matter on ground....like the first person said.... you need to report her to the Police .... that's the only way you'll get the certificates back.ZLET her be locked up for a week or so...it will benefit her a whole lot...only then will she realise there are consequences. Take a deep breath in..... gather some balls....pull on the pants trousers and go tell your sis...certificates by Sunday or next week will begin as en eve opener for her.

Well said!�

Bambela:
Your advice is evil and against morality. this is family and there is no roof without leakage. Though you sound strong, I know you can not take such decision in your family. Such seed in family is too bad because it will affects generations upon generations. refrain from such advice.

You obviously haven't been following the OP's posts. He has tried every peaceful means to reconcile issues with this sister of his to no avail. there is a saying that those who make peaceful change impossible, make violent change inevitable. If you are pushed to the wall as a man, you cannot drill a hole through the wall. You just have to fight back.

OP should man up and face her. After which they can reconcile amicably if she agrees. If she still continues, then so be it. Wetin man go do na.

GOD BLESS YOU" YOU HAVE SAID IT ALL.

pato405:
Dude, I recollect this story and I'm shocked you are still at daggers drawn with this troublesome sister of yours.

My advise: NEVER succumb to oppression! else you'll kill the man in you.

She ought to call you, NOT the other way round. I'm just wondering, if you call first, what exactly will be your line of discourse? " I called to plead with you to kindly apologize to me" or Please beg me na? I Don't get it. Is there no man in you at all.

If at all you have any reason to call, an sms will do giving her a STRONG ULTIMATUM to release the certificate she is confiscating on/before (state deadline) else you'll involve the police. Some of the women we have around us nowadays, if you don't sternly handle their insolence, you'll have yourself to blame. The moment they see you as a sissy, they'll have no regard or respect for you and turn you into a vegetable.

Let your wife take up the issue of seized certificate with her and give her ALL the support you can - except if she wants us to believe that she doesn't need her certificates anymore. If possible, visit a police station, tender your grievance with evidences (since all effort to resolve it amicably through the family way has been thwarted). I remember you took pictures, present them as evidences. You may not lock her up (just based on family values/sentiments - but I think she deserves to be locked up if you ask me, even if it's just for a day or 2). You really need to drill some fear into this sister of yours.

I appreciate every gentle man, but sometimes people take gentility for cowardice. I'll always advise is that, for such people who take quietness for weakness, teach them a lesson that for every coin, there are two sides - you can be a gentle man and at the same time, blow hot when the need arises - Not until this point is proven, they will not restrain their craze when they meet you o!

omron:
Good morning everyone

Remember I posted on this platform about my Elder sister who came to visit our mum where I was staying In the family house with my wife and my child.

It was a day I shall never forget in my life
whenever I remember that day I have a terrible feeling and it affected me so much

To those that don't know about the story


https://www.nairaland.com/3778429/how-blood-sister-treated-wife
That is the link

She beat my wife Blood was coming out of her nose she broke our private room that was padlocked gained entrance into the room and tore all my wife clothes and baby clothes in the wardrobe and also carried my wife certificates and up till now denying she never carries it



We were 4 members in the family I am the last born she was the second born and my sister was the eldest with one of my junior brother


To cut the long story short three month is gone and she still denied she didn't carry my wife certificates and my life photo album.

My eldest sister has called me again after visiting the pastor a prophet told her that she should call me and apologize for what he did if she really wants to move forward in her life but she refuse saying my number is switched off I know it's a lie she wanted me to call her first.... Tho she has realized the wrong she did the last time I saw her was on my mum Birthday Thanksgiving in the church she feel sober and could not even look me in the eye..... She believes so much in seniority and because she doesn't want to be the one to call first but i learnt that she always talk to my elder sister that she is remorseful for all thathappened but don'tknowhow to put it to me

Now the question is should I call her?
Tho I don't wish to becos I have vowed never to do that until she releases my property and also apologize tonn me but someone told me am the Aburo (junior) that I should call her first

That if I call her she might release the property She made away with
pls is this advisable I need a strong advice
though despite how she maltreated my wife ,my wife has called her and apologize despite that she did not release her certificates and our wedding photo album and other things..... Pls am confused advice me

Ur really an idiotic² individual........Are u calling her for what for beating ur wife, for stealing ur wife's certificates n your stuffs too. Which one exactly

saw this on someone's Facebook page.

Call her tell her to return the document or you will involve the police, if she doesn't return them then you will have to arrest her . I will advise you to leave that family house .

omron:
Good morning everyone

Remember I posted on this platform about my Elder sister who came to visit our mum where I was staying In the family house with my wife and my child.

It was a day I shall never forget in my life
whenever I remember that day I have a terrible feeling and it affected me so much

To those that don't know about the story


https://www.nairaland.com/3778429/how-blood-sister-treated-wife
That is the link

She beat my wife Blood was coming out of her nose she broke our private room that was padlocked gained entrance into the room and tore all my wife clothes and baby clothes in the wardrobe and also carried my wife certificates and up till now denying she never carries it



We were 4 members in the family I am the last born she was the second born and my sister was the eldest with one of my junior brother


To cut the long story short three month is gone and she still denied she didn't carry my wife certificates and my life photo album.

My eldest sister has called me again after visiting the pastor a prophet told her that she should call me and apologize for what he did if she really wants to move forward in her life but she refuse saying my number is switched off I know it's a lie she wanted me to call her first.... Tho she has realized the wrong she did the last time I saw her was on my mum Birthday Thanksgiving in the church she feel sober and could not even look me in the eye..... She believes so much in seniority and because she doesn't want to be the one to call first but i learnt that she always talk to my elder sister that she is remorseful for all thathappened but don'tknowhow to put it to me

Now the question is should I call her?
Tho I don't wish to becos I have vowed never to do that until she releases my property and also apologize tonn me but someone told me am the Aburo (junior) that I should call her first

That if I call her she might release the property She made away with
pls is this advisable I need a strong advice
though despite how she maltreated my wife ,my wife has called her and apologize despite that she did not release her certificates and our wedding photo album and other things..... Pls am confused advice me

are u a fool?

SweetJoystick:
You be last born and you still get younger brother? I no understand you Bros

family is everything bro but this one is just one off which symbolises a devil incarnate of a sister.

donspero:
OP call her, infact boker peace with her, be the bigger man, but den again be very wary of her, why call her you say, she has your wife's documents and your pictures. if ypur not ready to arrest her and charge her for breaking and forcefull entery, then you should call beg and once she gives you the document, pack and lev tour family hoise 4 Christ seek, you be man start taking responsibility. i remember your story, i didn't have any respect 4 you den and none till now. evn if your papa build duplex with 20 rooms, pack out and fend 4 yourself finish

why must he pack out from what rightly belongs to him? Only for peace sake? The early he start fighting the evil the better for him.

omron:
Good morning everyone

Remember I posted on this platform about my Elder sister who came to visit our mum where I was staying In the family house with my wife and my child.

It was a day I shall never forget in my life
whenever I remember that day I have a terrible feeling and it affected me so much

To those that don't know about the story


https://www.nairaland.com/3778429/how-blood-sister-treated-wife
That is the link

She beat my wife Blood was coming out of her nose she broke our private room that was padlocked gained entrance into the room and tore all my wife clothes and baby clothes in the wardrobe and also carried my wife certificates and up till now denying she never carries it



We were 4 members in the family I am the last born she was the second born and my sister was the eldest with one of my junior brother


To cut the long story short three month is gone and she still denied she didn't carry my wife certificates and my life photo album.

My eldest sister has called me again after visiting the pastor a prophet told her that she should call me and apologize for what he did if she really wants to move forward in her life but she refuse saying my number is switched off I know it's a lie she wanted me to call her first.... Tho she has realized the wrong she did the last time I saw her was on my mum Birthday Thanksgiving in the church she feel sober and could not even look me in the eye..... She believes so much in seniority and because she doesn't want to be the one to call first but i learnt that she always talk to my elder sister that she is remorseful for all thathappened but don'tknowhow to put it to me

Now the question is should I call her?
Tho I don't wish to becos I have vowed never to do that until she releases my property and also apologize tonn me but someone told me am the Aburo (junior) that I should call her first

That if I call her she might release the property She made away with
pls is this advisable I need a strong advice
though despite how she maltreated my wife ,my wife has called her and apologize despite that she did not release her certificates and our wedding photo album and other things..... Pls am confused advice me

@ OP sorry to say this. Cut off your balls and hand over to bobrisky, you are not a man

FemiFemola:
Family is not everything. No allow person go dey believe say because blood dey, dem fit dey do anyhow.

to me, family is every thing. I don't joke with my family. You can get away with it if you screw with me, but you can't get away with it if you screw with my family. I know my sister wouldn't do that to my wife but if she do, I will call her by her name twice, turn my face away, I bet you dt she will not sleep except she apologise. But if she fails to do so, I will still call her to express my grievances. We suffered too much together.

DUDE not to hurt your feelings,but you are kinda like a biyyaatcch (bitc.h.)...You are a man goddamit....You cant even protect your family from your sister who is clearly getting her fix from oppressing you...WAKE THE FVVUCK UP....Report her to the cops over the stolen documents and man-up...senior no be anything for mature pipo like una,she dey trespass badddd ghon.. I dey vex with you baddd and i dont even know u from adam.....

Brother, the fundamental mistake you made is marrying your wife into family house. That has taken away your independence.

Your wife should be number one on your life, you should defend her and ensure she lives without any fear or oppression. Where were you when your sister was beating your wife bloodily. Why not have broken one of your sisters hands, or can she beat you.

You don't know who is a wife. Nobody visits my house without invitation and I don't go to anyone house without being invited. For that reason, I put my family in an estate where nobody can say, let me just branch and check on me. By the time you pass through 3 gates and you call me and I ask you if you were invited, next time you won't check on me any how.

Is that the way her own inlaws beat her in her own husband's house, or she's not married.

Brother, I will stop come back to you. You are really annoying me. I will talk to you later. Please remind me I have advice for you.

Liverpoolfc:
to me, family is every thing. I don't joke with my family. You can get away with it if you screw with me, but you can't get away with it if you screw with my family. I know my sister wouldn't do that to my wife but if she do, I will call her by her name twice, turn my face away, I bet you dt she will not sleep except she apologise. But if she fails to do so, I will still call her to express my grievances. We suffered too much together.

You almost make water roll down me eyes. I also suffered so much with my sisters too. Though, I senior them. Unfortunately, I lost one to the cold hand of death in 2010. They respect me and will never even speak against my wife.

But any useless extended family, Dem no born them even no matter how close, I will completely severe the relationship. I'm not souly attached to anybody except my wife.

So, no stupid person can come and beat my wife. Hennn, beat my wife, yeepa. The person don finish.

The guy is really annoying me too...omg,Yes he is married and they live in the family house,SO WHAT??,a lot of people i know have gone down that road but this man's story is a first for me,i mean its strange!!.A man has to be a man,anytime,anyday especially when it comes to protecting his own family...My sister go beat my wife,tufiakwa,she go regret baddd.,,,i just dey vex,the story annoy me..

Well, I thank God that there is no body in my family that is bold enough to try that kind of shot with me or my wife.

dollarlander:
You almost make water roll down me eyes. I also suffered so much with my sisters too. Though, I senior them. Unfortunately, I lost one to the cold hand of death in 2010. They respect me and will never even speak against my wife.

But any useless extended family, Dem no born them even no matter how close, I will completely severe the relationship. I'm not souly attached to anybody except my wife.

So, no stupid person can come and beat my wife. Hennn, beat my wife, yeepa. The person don finish.

Your own na beat beat beat, what if you jam person wey power pass your own or do you think all women are timid? It is only the poster that knows his family maybe the woman is way beyond his physical or spiritual capabilities, let's not push this man from frying pan to fire!

omron:
Good morning everyone

Remember I posted on this platform about my Elder sister who came to visit our mum where I was staying In the family house with my wife and my child.

It was a day I shall never forget in my life
whenever I remember that day I have a terrible feeling and it affected me so much

To those that don't know about the story


https://www.nairaland.com/3778429/how-blood-sister-treated-wife
That is the link

She beat my wife Blood was coming out of her nose she broke our private room that was padlocked gained entrance into the room and tore all my wife clothes and baby clothes in the wardrobe and also carried my wife certificates and up till now denying she never carries it



We were 4 members in the family I am the last born she was the second born and my sister was the eldest with one of my junior brother


To cut the long story short three month is gone and she still denied she didn't carry my wife certificates and my life photo album.

My eldest sister has called me again after visiting the pastor a prophet told her that she should call me and apologize for what he did if she really wants to move forward in her life but she refuse saying my number is switched off I know it's a lie she wanted me to call her first.... Tho she has realized the wrong she did the last time I saw her was on my mum Birthday Thanksgiving in the church she feel sober and could not even look me in the eye..... She believes so much in seniority and because she doesn't want to be the one to call first but i learnt that she always talk to my elder sister that she is remorseful for all thathappened but don'tknowhow to put it to me

Now the question is should I call her?
Tho I don't wish to becos I have vowed never to do that until she releases my property and also apologize tonn me but someone told me am the Aburo (junior) that I should call her first

That if I call her she might release the property She made away with
pls is this advisable I need a strong advice
though despite how she maltreated my wife ,my wife has called her and apologize despite that she did not release her certificates and our wedding photo album and other things..... Pls am confused advice me

This is deeper family issues o. But I really think you should let your sister know her boundaries and you too have to grow up man.

But you can call her and apologize.

Thanks so much everyone for your candid I really appreciate you all... I will feed back the update

donlucabrazi:
Oga shift jor! Did we tell you we don't want to be seduced?

Read the article, I addressed you guys that don't bother being seduced

kenbee:
Take Ur wife back to her mum for retraining cause it's obvious that she lacked manners for Ur sis to have dealt with her this much

stuuupidity at its peak.

Bros flee devil o...woman wey beat your wife na God deliver you from her, the next episode na sombori dead body go result...make she hol her side, you sef hol ya own.

Delete your sister...husstle hard and get your sh*t outta your family house

Nothing like alajobi. Any blood related person doing anyhow should be deleted