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Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by michaelwilli(m): 6:49am On Aug 25, 2017
Contact d guys dat promises you fsars, immediately you get d docs back, cut all ties with her.
Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by nurusystem(m): 7:55am On Aug 25, 2017
My first advice to you is don't support your wife, she may be at fault,
Second thing is report your sister to helders of your family. to return her certificate .
I suspect your wife is at fault and your sister mess up. So unit them
Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by guru03(m): 8:49am On Aug 25, 2017
Young Man, you are too soft for reacting late, you would have face her immediately by giving her a run for what she has done. others will equally have the opportunity to abuse your wife like that. if any of your family member have any issue with your wife, your attention should be sorted out before any face-off with your wife, any face-off with your wife among to lack of respect for you. be a man and deal with any situation that comes up immediately.
Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by donspero(m): 8:58am On Aug 25, 2017
1metre:
why must he pack out from what rightly belongs to him? Only for peace sake? The early he start fighting the evil the better for him.
How e take belong to am? no be em papa house abeg shift, we should grow beyond our fada 2 ours his sister have a ryt to that property, she could claim that in court and win, it wasn't willed to him was it? as i said OP man up and start setting your tract, if you were in you own house tell me how your sister for come do this thrash?

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Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by 1metre: 9:14am On Aug 25, 2017
donspero:

How e take belong to am? no be em papa house abeg shift, we should grow beyond our fada 2 ours his sister have a ryt to that property, she could claim that in court and win, it wasn't willed to him was it? as i said OP man up and start setting your tract, if you were in you own house tell me how your sister for come do this thrash?
the best form of defence is attack. Only cowards will run away. Op should defend what rightly belongs to him.
Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by MaeBlocks(f): 9:25am On Aug 25, 2017
Abeg try find his first post and read.
This your comment no follow at all.
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kenbee:
Take Ur wife back to her mum for retraining cause it's obvious that she lacked manners for Ur sis to have dealt with her this much

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Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by donspero(m): 9:25am On Aug 25, 2017
1metre:
the best form of defence is attack. Only cowards will run away. Op should defend what rightly belongs to him.
cowards also live 2 die another day
Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by 1metre: 9:51am On Aug 25, 2017
donspero:

cowards also live 2 die another day
pls can u explain this in relation with the subject on discourse.
Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by emmayo15(f): 9:52am On Aug 25, 2017
I have been married for only three years. And marriage has taught me some things.
See, I feel it is better to handle this with wisdom of correct elders. Sometimes, it is less stressful, time-saving, result-achieving and smart to stoop to conquer.
I have never been in your shoes, so I can't really advise you. But I will suggest the following:
1. Resist the pressure from people to involve the police, SARs, etc. Your family (wife and son) won't be spared from the consequences.
2. Could you please move your family out of your mom's house?
3. Learn to pray alone, and with your wife. Pray for protection, courage and wisdom.
4. Until you move out of the family house, let your family stay elsewhere whenever your sister is visiting.
5. Would you mind lovingly telling your wife never to answer back an in-law, and especially this sister of yours? There are a million ways to get back at people, even without words.

As a rider, what has your mom done to help your own family recover the alleged stolen items?

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Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by fannybaby(f): 10:11am On Aug 25, 2017
dasrackhor:
No b for better for worse again MadamHaba


for better for worse. imagine some husband relatives destroying the wife's hard earned certificate. cheesy cheesy
Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by afroxyz: 10:41am On Aug 25, 2017
Somebody beat your wife, tore her clothes and your baby's wears, seized her certificate, and you are asking whether you should call her first because she is your senior? Are you a man at all? No wonder she had the audacity to beat your wife in the first place. What have you not locked her up since she doesn't want to provide the certificates? Get her locked up. Escalate this issue to the larger family (umunna). By now I am.wondering why you have not even beaten her up yourself. Na your wife I dey even pity. Grow some balls!!!!
Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by dasrackhor(m): 11:15am On Aug 25, 2017
fannybaby:


for better for worse. imagine some husband relatives destroying the wife's hard earned certificate. cheesy cheesy
yeah...its very bad bt a gud wife shud stick with her hubby no matter d situation because u neva can predict tomao.....
Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by Donemmy(m): 11:19am On Aug 25, 2017
pato405:
Dude, I recollect this story and I'm shocked you are still at daggers drawn with this troublesome sister of yours.

My advise: NEVER succumb to oppression! else you'll kill the man in you.

She ought to call you, NOT the other way round. I'm just wondering, if you call first, what exactly will be your line of discourse? " I called to plead with you to kindly apologize to me" undecided or Please beg me na? I Don't get it. angry Is there no man in you at all.

If at all you have any reason to call, an sms will do giving her a STRONG ULTIMATUM to release the certificate she is confiscating on/before (state deadline) else you'll involve the police. Some of the women we have around us nowadays, if you don't sternly handle their insolence, you'll have yourself to blame. The moment they see you as a sissy, they'll have no regard or respect for you and turn you into a vegetable.

Let your wife take up the issue of seized certificate with her and give her ALL the support you can - except if she wants us to believe that she doesn't need her certificates anymore. If possible, visit a police station, tender your grievance with evidences (since all effort to resolve it amicably through the family way has been thwarted). I remember you took pictures, present them as evidences. You may not lock her up (just based on family values/sentiments - but I think she deserves to be locked up if you ask me, even if it's just for a day or 2). You really need to drill some fear into this sister of yours.

I appreciate every gentle man, but sometimes people take gentility for cowardice. I'll always advise is that, for such people who take quietness for weakness, teach them a lesson that for every coin, there are two sides - you can be a gentle man and at the same time, blow hot when the need arises - Not until this point is proven, they will not restrain their craze when they meet you o!
gbam , God bless you Bro
Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by Dmec(m): 11:22am On Aug 25, 2017
omron:


I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife


The best thing to do is to arrest your her. Before you release make sure she write letter of undertaking that if she touches your wife in any way, you will make sure she rot in jail
Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by donspero(m): 1:54pm On Aug 25, 2017
1metre:
pls can u explain this in relation with the subject on discourse.
as if your not a nigerian, d sister gets 2 desperate she myt go for his actual head, no paper ask ozobulo pple how far
Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by Busuyib(f): 9:55pm On Aug 25, 2017
Hmmmm
Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by pek(m): 7:28am On Aug 26, 2017
nurusystem:
My first advice to you is don't support your wife, she may be at fault,
Second thing is report your sister to helders of your family. to return her certificate .
I suspect your wife is at fault and your sister mess up. So unit them
Which one be helders abeg?
Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by nurusystem(m): 9:11am On Aug 26, 2017
pek:
Which one be helders abeg?
helders don't understand what I mean is elders forget about my spelling but tk the massage
Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by pek(m): 9:19am On Aug 26, 2017
nurusystem:
helders don't understand what I mean is elders forget about my spelling but tk the massage
how will I have understood since there is nothing like helders. Now you are using massage instead of message
Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by nurusystem(m): 9:27am On Aug 26, 2017
pek:
how will I have understood since there is nothing like helders. Now you are using massage instead of message

You are just selfish and crazy because you are just jealous of my opinion, I am not writing former documents or exam. Fvck you
Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by pek(m): 9:58am On Aug 26, 2017
nurusystem:


You are just selfish and crazy because you are just jealous of my opinion, I am not writing former documents or exam. Fvck you
I laugh in Chinese. Selfish and crazy because I don't understand your writing. Jealous of your opinion? You have not written anything worth my time that is in the least sensible and comprehendible. When you can spell elders, formal and message, then you will have gotten to the level to tie my laces. And if you want to f u c.k, I can help you out to relieve your pent up fury.
Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by Missnairaland: 4:18pm On Aug 26, 2017
wat beta advice do u need wen u fail 2 protect ur wife from her wicked inlaws (ur people)? weak man angry angry angry angry
Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by nurusystem(m): 8:47pm On Aug 27, 2017
pek:
I laugh in Chinese. Selfish and crazy because I don't understand your writing. Jealous of your opinion? You have not written anything worth my time that is in the least sensible and comprehendible. When you can spell elders, formal and message, then you will have gotten to the level to tie my laces. And if you want to f u c.k, I can help you out to relieve your pent up fury.


You are just a antagonist .so get yourself Bleep up �

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