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Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by Nobody: 8:04pm On Aug 24, 2017
fannybaby:
things some women go through all in the name of marriage cheesy cheesy cheesy

staying in their husband's family house cheesy cheesy

Is this the best you could talk about given the sensitivity of the issue? Why are we so carefree and unrestrained?
Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by Nobody: 8:04pm On Aug 24, 2017
omron:
Good morning everyone

Remember I posted on this platform about my Elder sister who came to visit our mum where I was staying In the family house with my wife and my child.

It was a day I shall never forget in my life
whenever I remember that day I have a terrible feeling and it affected me so much

To those that don't know about the story


https://www.nairaland.com/3778429/how-blood-sister-treated-wife
That is the link

She beat my wife Blood was coming out of her nose she broke our private room that was padlocked gained entrance into the room and tore all my wife clothes and baby clothes in the wardrobe and also carried my wife certificates and up till now denying she never carries it



We were 4 members in the family I am the last born she was the second born and my sister was the eldest with one of my junior brother


To cut the long story short three month is gone and she still denied she didn't carry my wife certificates and my life photo album.

My eldest sister has called me again after visiting the pastor a prophet told her that she should call me and apologize for what he did if she really wants to move forward in her life but she refuse saying my number is switched off I know it's a lie she wanted me to call her first.... Tho she has realized the wrong she did the last time I saw her was on my mum Birthday Thanksgiving in the church she feel sober and could not even look me in the eye..... She believes so much in seniority and because she doesn't want to be the one to call first but i learnt that she always talk to my elder sister that she is remorseful for all thathappened but don'tknowhow to put it to me

Now the question is should I call her?
Tho I don't wish to becos I have vowed never to do that until she releases my property and also apologize tonn me but someone told me am the Aburo (junior) that I should call her first

That if I call her she might release the property She made away with
pls is this advisable I need a strong advice
though despite how she maltreated my wife ,my wife has called her and apologize despite that she did not release her certificates and our wedding photo album and other things..... Pls am confused advice me



A man who will allow his wife to be beaten even by his mother is a weak fool and dissent deserve happiness. Idiot if you like don't go and get her arrested cause that's the only way the white you call a sister will release the documents. She fit don burn your wife own. Why am I even calling your wife your wife? You are an idiot and don't deserve her. #BigFool! I hope your wife's brothers beat you and and she stands by like you did. Your lack of actions is what is even making your wife feel so demeaned to apologise when she for plank her head instead.

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Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by Lexusgs430: 8:05pm On Aug 24, 2017
omron:
Good morning everyone

Remember I posted on this platform about my Elder sister who came to visit our mum where I was staying In the family house with my wife and my child.

It was a day I shall never forget in my life
whenever I remember that day I have a terrible feeling and it affected me so much

To those that don't know about the story


https://www.nairaland.com/3778429/how-blood-sister-treated-wife
That is the link

She beat my wife Blood was coming out of her nose she broke our private room that was padlocked gained entrance into the room and tore all my wife clothes and baby clothes in the wardrobe and also carried my wife certificates and up till now denying she never carries it



We were 4 members in the family I am the last born she was the second born and my sister was the eldest with one of my junior brother


To cut the long story short three month is gone and she still denied she didn't carry my wife certificates and my life photo album.

My eldest sister has called me again after visiting the pastor a prophet told her that she should call me and apologize for what he did if she really wants to move forward in her life but she refuse saying my number is switched off I know it's a lie she wanted me to call her first.... Tho she has realized the wrong she did the last time I saw her was on my mum Birthday Thanksgiving in the church she feel sober and could not even look me in the eye..... She believes so much in seniority and because she doesn't want to be the one to call first but i learnt that she always talk to my elder sister that she is remorseful for all thathappened but don'tknowhow to put it to me

Now the question is should I call her?
Tho I don't wish to becos I have vowed never to do that until she releases my property and also apologize tonn me but someone told me am the Aburo (junior) that I should call her first

That if I call her she might release the property She made away with
pls is this advisable I need a strong advice
though despite how she maltreated my wife ,my wife has called her and apologize despite that she did not release her certificates and our wedding photo album and other things..... Pls am confused advice me




Let this woman be, leave her to her own devices. Till she kills someone abi ?

Go retrieve replacement certificates & get the photographer to print extra copies...........
Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by freecocoa(f): 8:05pm On Aug 24, 2017
Bambela:
Your advice is evil and against morality. this is family and there is no roof without leakage. Though you sound strong, I know you can not take such decision in your family. Such seed in family is too bad because it will affects generations upon generations. refrain from such advice.
Wtf are you on about? What's evil in such genius advice? I bet it's folk like you, who do whatever thinking you can get away with it, hiding under one umbrella or the other, family my a$$, did his sister treat him like family? Such a one, who can transfer aggressions to nieces and nephews shouldn't be family in the first place, nonsense! angry

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Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by Nobody: 8:06pm On Aug 24, 2017
GodBlessMe4Life:


A man who will allow his wife to be beaten even by his mother is a weak fool and dissent deserve happiness. Idiot if you like don't go and get her arrested cause that's the only way the white you call a sister will release the documents. She fit don burn your wife own. Why am I even calling your wife your wife? You are an idiot and don't deserve her. #BigFool! I hope your wife's brothers beat you and and she stands by like you did. Your lack of actions is what is even making your wife feel so demeaned to apologise when she for plank her head instead.

Stop giving evil counsels...It's not an easy thing to arrest your blood..abeg proffer something wiser abeg
Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by bejeria101(m): 8:06pm On Aug 24, 2017
She went too far! Tearing up baby clothes/things haba! Who her seniority epp? Does it put food on her table or money in her pocket?

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Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by Nobody: 8:08pm On Aug 24, 2017
freecocoa:
Wtf are you on about? What's evil in such genius advice? I bet it's folk like you, who do whatever thinking you can get away with it, hiding under one umbrella or the other, family my a$$, did his sister treat him like family? Such a one, who can transfer aggressions to nieces and nephews shouldn't be family in the first place, nonsense! angry

Easy, you;re tensed up...family issues are treated wearing gloves and not with iron gloves
Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by AdeniyiA(m): 8:08pm On Aug 24, 2017
May I use this opportunity to pray for every married man here that poverty will not befriend us...
Do you know that the problem of this my brother started from lack of financial power to rent his own apartment after he got married but staying in the family house where the elder sister was able to shamelessly deal with him and the wife... if he had his own apartment outside it'd have been so difficult for the sister to perform her evil enterprise.
If she can not swallow her pride to ask for forgiveness leave her...

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Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by Okeycima: 8:08pm On Aug 24, 2017
I saw that line where someone adviced you to call her because you are the junior, and am *shaking my head*. that's why other tribes in Nigeria hate we easterners but we don't give a Bleep after all respect is reciprocal
UGWU bu ngwane ngwane, o ihe nwanyi giri muta ibe ya

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Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by peacemara54(m): 8:09pm On Aug 24, 2017
Ok.
Check my signature
Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by shollyBi(m): 8:09pm On Aug 24, 2017
omron:
Good morning everyone

Remember I posted on this platform about my Elder sister who came to visit our mum where I was staying In the family house with my wife and my child.

It was a day I shall never forget in my life
whenever I remember that day I have a terrible feeling and it affected me so much

To those that don't know about the story


https://www.nairaland.com/3778429/how-blood-sister-treated-wife
That is the link

She beat my wife Blood was coming out of her nose she broke our private room that was padlocked gained entrance into the room and tore all my wife clothes and baby clothes in the wardrobe and also carried my wife certificates and up till now denying she never carries it



We were 4 members in the family I am the last born she was the second born and my sister was the eldest with one of my junior brother


To cut the long story short three month is gone and she still denied she didn't carry my wife certificates and my life photo album.

My eldest sister has called me again after visiting the pastor a prophet told her that she should call me and apologize for what he did if she really wants to move forward in her life but she refuse saying my number is switched off I know it's a lie she wanted me to call her first.... Tho she has realized the wrong she did the last time I saw her was on my mum Birthday Thanksgiving in the church she feel sober and could not even look me in the eye..... She believes so much in seniority and because she doesn't want to be the one to call first but i learnt that she always talk to my elder sister that she is remorseful for all thathappened but don'tknowhow to put it to me

Now the question is should I call her?
Tho I don't wish to becos I have vowed never to do that until she releases my property and also apologize tonn me but someone told me am the Aburo (junior) that I should call her first

That if I call her she might release the property She made away with
pls is this advisable I need a strong advice
though despite how she maltreated my wife ,my wife has called her and apologize despite that she did not release her certificates and our wedding photo album and other things..... Pls am confused advice me



I remember clearly. Your sister is very difficult and clearly irrational, so what do you do? Play the monkey, you don't need her apology bro, call her, apologise and plead that she give everything back, then move on with your life, no time for prolonged nonsense.

Do what you have to do to get what you want, it's very very hard I must confess, no point trying to be a man just for her, just make this nonsense stop please and please it's enough.

My one cent though
Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by oladele00(m): 8:09pm On Aug 24, 2017
Hmmmmm, my brother, this is a trivial issue that needs the intervention of the men in black. I think u are fortunate to have a good wife. If it were to be another woman, by now ur so called elder sister will have been in jail rotten away. Why will she carry her certificate in the first place? wot she did was a lackadaisical thing to do and is totally uncalled for. For u to retrieve the items mentioned above, kindly go to the police station and inform the men in black.
Those advising u to go and beg her didn't mean well for you. In fact, permit me to say that ur elder sister is a witch. Her witch get grade. Her own witch fit commot all the rats for aso rock. Don't beg her ooo because if u try it, u are a dead man walking.. I mean a ghost in the making...I luv u
Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by AuroraB(f): 8:09pm On Aug 24, 2017
What did I just read shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked
Seriously, your wife is waiting on your a** to get her very own certificate from your heathen-of-a-sister
Mbanu! Adi eme ya eme smiley wink undecided angry

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Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by bigtt76(f): 8:10pm On Aug 24, 2017
Make it even more difficult for her by calling her and tell her to forgive you and your wife if any of you had wronged her in any way. Say no more than that. By so doing you've nailed her literally.

If you don't do this, she will continue to harbor ill feelings towards you. But if you apologize, she will be humbled for life and will end up returning your stuff.. All the best.




omron:
Good morning everyone

Remember I posted on this platform about my Elder sister who came to visit our mum where I was staying In the family house with my wife and my child.

It was a day I shall never forget in my life
whenever I remember that day I have a terrible feeling and it affected me so much

To those that don't know about the story


https://www.nairaland.com/3778429/how-blood-sister-treated-wife
That is the link

She beat my wife Blood was coming out of her nose she broke our private room that was padlocked gained entrance into the room and tore all my wife clothes and baby clothes in the wardrobe and also carried my wife certificates and up till now denying she never carries it



We were 4 members in the family I am the last born she was the second born and my sister was the eldest with one of my junior brother


To cut the long story short three month is gone and she still denied she didn't carry my wife certificates and my life photo album.

My eldest sister has called me again after visiting the pastor a prophet told her that she should call me and apologize for what he did if she really wants to move forward in her life but she refuse saying my number is switched off I know it's a lie she wanted me to call her first.... Tho she has realized the wrong she did the last time I saw her was on my mum Birthday Thanksgiving in the church she feel sober and could not even look me in the eye..... She believes so much in seniority and because she doesn't want to be the one to call first but i learnt that she always talk to my elder sister that she is remorseful for all thathappened but don'tknowhow to put it to me

Now the question is should I call her?
Tho I don't wish to becos I have vowed never to do that until she releases my property and also apologize tonn me but someone told me am the Aburo (junior) that I should call her first

That if I call her she might release the property She made away with
pls is this advisable I need a strong advice
though despite how she maltreated my wife ,my wife has called her and apologize despite that she did not release her certificates and our wedding photo album and other things..... Pls am confused advice me


Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by freecocoa(f): 8:13pm On Aug 24, 2017
supersystemsng:


Easy, you;re tensed up...family issues are treated wearing gloves and not with iron gloves
you don't know the first thing about tension Mr.

There are lines family should not cross, you can't beat up my spouse, tear my child's clothes(especially when you know I'm still struggling), seize/deny taking important stuffs of mine and still call yourself my family.

Not in my world, anyways, I'm glad my family know better.
Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by oz4real83(m): 8:13pm On Aug 24, 2017
A remorseful person:
1. Take first step at apologising
2.swallow pride and be humble
3.make restitution if need be
4. May come with somebody to do the above if he or she doesnt feel safe doing it alone.
Guy your sister hasnt done any of these and you are claiming she is remorseful. Is it that you are so desperate to get your wife's certificates back to the extent that you are willing to make wrong assumptions?

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Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by dasrackhor(m): 8:13pm On Aug 24, 2017
okenwaa:
Make ur sis go marry joor.......she no go like dey her husband house too


Dey chop anoda woman food.

Family comes 1st and d@'s ur immediate nuclear family.
Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by Funkybabee(f): 8:14pm On Aug 24, 2017
I don't know appropriate advice I can give to you, but I wonder what could have caused her to beat your wife oo I can't side anybody cuz I don't know what others may also say and Bible say investigate matters very well!!!!!! But my advice for you now is to go and beg her as Normal,don't let others push u to what is not good.. if you use police to arrest her now and ur family members go to released her what look or view would you like them to see ur wife, let remember tomorrow guys,it easy to forgive ur child but what about your wife who came from another family. I pray nothing will not befall you and your family just go and settle it once and for all and collect your wife property.....let conscience be disturbing her alone don't let it affect you too bro.........I pray God would send a financial assistant to you quickly.....
Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by dasrackhor(m): 8:14pm On Aug 24, 2017
fannybaby:
things some women go through all in the name of marriage cheesy cheesy cheesy

staying in their husband's family house cheesy cheesy
No b for better for worse again MadamHaba
Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by peacemara54(m): 8:14pm On Aug 24, 2017
Check my signature
Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by YelloweWest: 8:15pm On Aug 24, 2017
sybarite7:
I CLEARLY REMEMBER THIS TOPIC.
MY ADVICE IS ,YOU SHOULD CALL YOUR SISTER AND APOLOGIZE AND PROBABLY BROKER PEACE ,SO THAT YOU CAN GET YOUR STUFFS BACK...
That woman is a witch. Let the op wife apply for new certificate.
Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by pink67(f): 8:16pm On Aug 24, 2017
seriously why isn't hasn't she been locked up ?
Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by StopBanningMyEx: 8:16pm On Aug 24, 2017
Where are you from in Ondo state @omron?
Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by Afritop(m): 8:17pm On Aug 24, 2017
omron:
Good morning everyone

Remember I posted on this platform about my Elder sister who came to visit our mum where I was staying In the family house with my wife and my child.

It was a day I shall never forget in my life
whenever I remember that day I have a terrible feeling and it affected me so much

To those that don't know about the story


https://www.nairaland.com/3778429/how-blood-sister-treated-wife
That is the link

She beat my wife Blood was coming out of her nose she broke our private room that was padlocked gained entrance into the room and tore all my wife clothes and baby clothes in the wardrobe and also carried my wife certificates and up till now denying she never carries it



We were 4 members in the family I am the last born she was the second born and my sister was the eldest with one of my junior brother


To cut the long story short three month is gone and she still denied she didn't carry my wife certificates and my life photo album.

My eldest sister has called me again after visiting the pastor a prophet told her that she should call me and apologize for what he did if she really wants to move forward in her life but she refuse saying my number is switched off I know it's a lie she wanted me to call her first.... Tho she has realized the wrong she did the last time I saw her was on my mum Birthday Thanksgiving in the church she feel sober and could not even look me in the eye..... She believes so much in seniority and because she doesn't want to be the one to call first but i learnt that she always talk to my elder sister that she is remorseful for all thathappened but don'tknowhow to put it to me

Now the question is should I call her?
Tho I don't wish to becos I have vowed never to do that until she releases my property and also apologize tonn me but someone told me am the Aburo (junior) that I should call her first

That if I call her she might release the property She made away with
pls is this advisable I need a strong advice
though despite how she maltreated my wife ,my wife has called her and apologize despite that she did not release her certificates and our wedding photo album and other things..... Pls am confused advice me


I REMEMBER YOUR STORY VERY WELL. I WILL ADVICE YOU SEEK THE CONSENT OF YOUR WIFE FIRST BECAUSE SHE WAS THE WORST AFFECTED IN THIS ISSUE. BESIDES BECAUSE SHE IS OLDER THAN YOU DOES NOT IMPLY YOU CALL HER FIRST BECAUSE YOU DID NO WRONG. IF SHE IS INDEED REMORSEFUL AND SORRY FOR WHAT SHE DID, SHE WILL CALL YOU AND NOT PRETEND TO YOUR ELDEST.

THAT SHE DID NOT WANT TO CALL YOU IMPLIES THAT SHE IS PREPARING FIRE FOR THE MOUNTAIN.
Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by bababodmas(m): 8:19pm On Aug 24, 2017
motun2017:
as i read dz story now. fear just catch me. really? sister?
You too fine abeg.... Can we be friends? Lol... I yam serious ooo
Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by Nobody: 8:20pm On Aug 24, 2017
freecocoa:
you don't know the first thing about tension Mr.

There are lines family should not cross, you can't beat up my spouse, tear my child's clothes(especially when you know I'm still struggling), seize/deny taking important stuffs of mine and still call yourself my family.

Not in my world, anyways, I'm glad my family know better.


Your opening statement was aggressive, your closing line is also aggressive...He that knows violence advocates peace......I won't talk...further..
Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by Ameeria: 8:22pm On Aug 24, 2017
This is your opportunity to retain some decorum in your family. Leave your sister where she is. Please refrain from any association. If she calls you, cool. If not, let everybody mind their business. Eventually, she will return the things she took.

What a family yours is!
Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by Lewaluv(f): 8:22pm On Aug 24, 2017
You should apologize. Then collect all ur tings from her. Promptly afterwards beat her or if you dont want to send girls to do it for cheap price.I am sure if you tell a few women this story they will do it for you. grin
Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by Bambela(m): 8:22pm On Aug 24, 2017
freecocoa:
Wtf are you on about? What's evil in such genius advice? I bet it's folk like you, who do whatever thinking you can get away with it, hiding under one umbrella or the other, family my a$$, did his sister treat him like family? Such a one, who can transfer aggressions to nieces and nephews shouldn't be family in the first place, nonsense! angry
I will not join issues with you. Who knows the family that brought you up.
Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by guitarmanpharell(m): 8:24pm On Aug 24, 2017
kenbee:
Take Ur wife back to her mum for retraining cause it's obvious that she lacked manners for Ur sis to have dealt with her this much
Abi didirin leleyi ni?

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Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by Trexnemesis(m): 8:27pm On Aug 24, 2017
If you want to jump very high, you go down first. To catch a monkey, one may need to behave like one. What I'm saying is that you should behave like the fool she thinks you are first. Flatter her ego and you will bring her down. Call her and jovially say " Aunty, I hope your temper has cooled down. I can't forget my sister just like that o, because blood is thicker than water...........and so on" Rub her ego very well and don't talk about the things she took for sometime. She will most likely call you to return those things. This may take some time. Be patient. However, the day you get everything back, start by not picking her calls again. If she tries to complain or harrass you or your wife like she used to do, then it is time to banish her completely from your life till the day she comes to apologize for the pains she had caused your family. Elders in the family may want to intervene, maintain your resolve to force her to express some form of remorse to you. Case is resolved and closed at that point. If you don't put her where she belongs, she will come back to torment you again.

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Re: I Need A Strong Advice Concerning My Sister Who Maltreated My Wife by zabadii(m): 8:29pm On Aug 24, 2017
Don't be weak brother. Call the police for investigation

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