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alexialin:
Op don't mind peeps saying u should change to a bad guy
If u are naturally a good guy, and u change to bad guy because of having a good woman, my dear u will feel empty and become entangled with your true nature and the make believe nature.
Dont change, u wil just waste precious time pretending to be who u are not. And u will look back and regret afterwards. Cause come what may, u will still end up as you are. How long will u play such role to keep a good girl that drools over a bad guy.

There are good girls out there that crave for a good loyal guy. Be patient. U will have one by your side. Just be patient and work on yourself, your dress code and communication skills. Add swags to it. But dont change to a bad guy.
It doesnt work for every guy out there.

I turned into a semi bad girl thinking it would help my love life cos deep down i cant fully become a bad gurl or slay queen, at the end I felt like a totally different person. Which end up making me feel empty and unfulfilled. So, I went back to the drawing board and retraced my steps back, cut off guys who wants a bad girl ( that tag is not for me) and focus on bn who I am,

Which is a mummy's girl ( even though shes late, am still her girl)

And I love myself die!

I just love who I am now, no apologies whatsoever.

Hate me or love me? I don't care. Its my life.

So have crossed that bridge and am better off this way and at peace inside out.


And I love good guys with sharp dress code, great goals and good communication skills..

Bad guys, I run like kilode from

over a Yr now since I made a comment on nairaland, but I was impressed to log in by ur comment, God bless ur soul dear sister.

@op she's absolutely right
all d best bro.

My guy, test all the babes in your LGA I bet you before you complete the rounds you will find a good girl. Thank me later when you succeed.

We kind of have same experience. Same age, same relationship views, can't date more than one girl at a time.... pastor stuff even more. We are In the same situation like right now in my life. sociologist, psychologist your contributions can help...

First, you need to understand and practice what it takes to be a 'bad boy'!

On the other hand, just know that;

certain things are not meant to be and others will be when they will.
Just be cool bro, u will survive yet.

Skinni:
I have heard this several times but how do I change myself?
I thought people are being advised to change from bad to good? Why should I do otherwise?
I have a very strong Christian background. I can't just give in to some things. Most of my friends have tried to force some certain lifestyle yet I hardly succumb.
I just can't

alexialin:
Op don't mind peeps saying u should change to a bad guy
If u are naturally a good guy, and u change to bad guy because of having a good woman, my dear u will feel empty and become entangled with your true nature and the make believe nature.
Dont change, u wil just waste precious time pretending to be who u are not. And u will look back and regret afterwards. Cause come what may, u will still end up as you are. How long will u play such role to keep a good girl that drools over a bad guy.

There are good girls out there that crave for a good loyal guy. Be patient. U will have one by your side. Just be patient and work on yourself, your dress code and communication skills. Add swags to it. But dont change to a bad guy.
It doesnt work for every guy out there.

I turned into a semi bad girl thinking it would help my love life cos deep down i cant fully become a bad gurl or slay queen, at the end I felt like a totally different person. Which end up making me feel empty and unfulfilled. So, I went back to the drawing board and retraced my steps back, cut off guys who wants a bad girl ( that tag is not for me) and focus on bn who I am,

Which is a mummy's girl ( even though shes late, am still her girl)

And I love myself die!

I just love who I am now, no apologies whatsoever.

Hate me or love me? I don't care. Its my life.

So have crossed that bridge and am better off this way and at peace inside out.


And I love good guys with sharp dress code, great goals and good communication skills..

Bad guys, I run like kilode from

OP, try your luck with this one.

sisisioge:
No thanks...I am a bona fide member of the "eleha" clique. Enjoy your morning.

na wa oh. i know you would decline.

Make yaself a gud and enviable guy

Philip1914:
We kind of have same experience. Same age, same relationship views, can't date more than one girl at a time.... pastor stuff even more. We are In the same situation like right now in my life. sociologist, psychologist your contributions can help...

meet the type of girls you want, when you get close don't dull, don't be boring, hang-out, I'm not the religious type, but the religious ones will say you should pray about it

timades:
can we try if things will work out
bin having unfaithful and bad tempered guys which I can't deal with
let's c if this might work
08102407540

Try me babe how old are you

bjhaid:
meet the type of girls you want, when you get close don't dull, don't be boring, hang-out, I'm not the religious type, but the religious ones will say you should pray about it

What is wrong with praying about relationships?

timades:
can we try if things will work out
bin having unfaithful and bad tempered guys which I can't deal with
let's c if this might work
08102407540

Na wa, we ministers don suffer...read your post ...can't help laffing

go to skls to final years of dept u wl like ur wife to graduate frm...check out the near 1st class gals...not 1st class ooo...den ask some few guyz in d dept abt dem..dia u get ur good gal

Lakeside79:
You worked with over 100 youths in a month ? In what capacity ? Do you sell recharge cards ?

Haha.. it's work

VeeVeeMyLuv:
Bro i repeat, there is nothing like unemployable graduate,
it is only in Nigeria the term is used. never say people are useless or unemployable it is a terrible viewpoint

the reason why there widespread squalor of alarming proportions. university living residences where water system is not running (this total insanity).

bro compare the hostel in other countries in other climes to those in UI and UNIBEN, you will clearly find that over 90% are living like animals. (refer explorers thread on universities residences posted yesterday).

Well i worked with over a 100 people and i can tell you not up to 6 impressed me.....And i screened over 400 people before working with this 100 folks, so technically just 5 people out of 400 people impressed me abit... a guy posted here that over 70% of Nigerias have the I.Q. of an unfit person...it kinda relates with what the guy said

be a good man, then you will find a good girl. they are everywhere, just that how you treat some will determine if they will be good to you or not.

kurlz:
be a good man, then you will find a good girl. they are everywhere, just that how you treat some will determine if they will be good to you or not.

True talk

supersystemsng:
What is wrong with praying about relationships?

i didn't say there's something wrong

supersystemsng:
Well i worked with over a 100 people and i can tell you not up to 6 impressed me.....And i screened over 400 people before working with this 100 folks, so technically just 5 people out of 400 people impressed me abit... a guy posted here that over 70% of Nigerias have the I.Q. of an unfit person...it kinda relates with what the guy said

well you have said it all...

the more i try to reject or debunk the actual fact/picture/claim that these particular group of individuals have little or nothing to offer, the harder it gets.

the truth is that the system has rendered a lot of these people mentally,morally,spiritually,intellectually(esp) incapacitated!

it is really appalling bro.

Skinni:
I'm a guy of 28 years but I have a serious problem.
Throughout my life I have never been in any 'serious' relationship. Although I have had couple of relationships in the past but most of them fizzled out just like that. In fact, few girls that I have been with were never committed.

I must say that I'm introverted, so I have only been into few relationships.

But that aside, I just realised that most girls that I have wasted my time with; were nothing to write home about. And I find it very hard pretending to be in a relationship that isn't heading anywhere.

My own case is just simple, once I discover that a girl is neither truthful nor committed, I will just quit the friendship.

I'm the kind of person that can't date two ladies at the same time. This makes me to always be out of relationship for long before I could find another.

My friends do call me pastor because once in a relationship with any girl, I can never enter into another.
But my only problem now is how to know and meet a very nice lady. A lady who is sincere. A lady that is dependable. A lady that has conscience.

The last girl that I broke up with was so terrible that I am now even scared to approach any other lady. I don't want to waste another part of my life in an unserious relationship. It weighs me down.

Guys please i need advice.
How do I get to meet a good girl?
What signs should I look for? What will the body language look like?
Please I need sincere advice.

you could try going to your village to look for a decent girl with the help of your mum or guardian. I hope this helps

VeeVeeMyLuv:
well you have said it all...

the more i try to reject or debunk the actual fact/picture/claim that these particular group of individuals have little or nothing to offer, the harder it gets.

the truth is that the system has rendered a lot of these people mentally,morally,spiritually,intellectually(esp) incapacitated!

it is really appalling bro.

My bad started teaching me since 10 years old never to expect to work for anyone.. personally been putting the hustle on since a kid...started making legit money as early as 9 years old.. Its strange people have become mentally incapacitated that as of 30 years old they haven't launched a single project to make money...

supersystemsng:
My bad started teaching me since 10 years old never to expect to work for anyone.. personally been putting the hustle on since a kid...started making legit money as early as 9 years old.. Its strange people have become mentally incapacitated that as of 30 years old they haven't launched a single project to make money...

wow impressive!
keep it up bro.

VeeVeeMyLuv:
wow impressive!
keep it up bro.

What can i say... Everyone is now into betting..e're not discussing skills acquisition and personal development anymore... just sex talks, my girl friend this, my girl friend that...men dress up and hang around neighborhood, go back home and pretend like they went to walk, they stand at news paper stands morning till night....youths on Nairaland morning till nite...I will stop here, it is well

Skinni:
Interesting! but I just don't want to believe this

You better don't

Skinni:
I'm a guy of 28 years but I have a serious problem.
Throughout my life I have never been in any 'serious' relationship. Although I have had couple of relationships in the past but most of them fizzled out just like that. In fact, few girls that I have been with were never committed.

I must say that I'm introverted, so I have only been into few relationships.

But that aside, I just realised that most girls that I have wasted my time with; were nothing to write home about. And I find it very hard pretending to be in a relationship that isn't heading anywhere.

My own case is just simple, once I discover that a girl is neither truthful nor committed, I will just quit the friendship.

I'm the kind of person that can't date two ladies at the same time. This makes me to always be out of relationship for long before I could find another.

My friends do call me pastor because once in a relationship with any girl, I can never enter into another.
But my only problem now is how to know and meet a very nice lady. A lady who is sincere. A lady that is dependable. A lady that has conscience.

The last girl that I broke up with was so terrible that I am now even scared to approach any other lady. I don't want to waste another part of my life in an unserious relationship. It weighs me down.

Guys please i need advice.
How do I get to meet a good girl?
What signs should I look for? What will the body language look like?
Please I need sincere advice.

my dear search no more.am here 4 you.yea

Skinni:
I'm a guy of 28 years but I have a serious problem.

I must say that I'm introverted, so I have only been into few relationships.

But that aside, I just realised that most girls that I have wasted my time with; were nothing to write home about. And I find it very hard pretending to be in a relationship that isn't heading anywhere.

My own case is just simple, once I discover that a girl is neither truthful nor committed, I will just quit the friendship.

I'm the kind of person that can't date two ladies at the same time. This makes me to always be out of relationship for long before I could find another.

The last girl that I broke up with was so terrible that I am now even scared to approach any other lady. I don't want to waste another part of my life in an unserious relationship. It weighs me down.

Guys please i need advice.
How do I get to meet a good girl?
What signs should I look for? What will the body language look like?
Please I need sincere advice.

Hi. U sound like the male version of me. You already have one strength, u are self aware, that is u knw who u are and know what u are searching for. You know when they say game knows game? If u are honest too, open and searching for something real. u will knw the signs when u see it, without the need for much doubt. Their actions will match their words. They will talk in terms of a future because they are in it for the long run. They will always tell u their mind than play games. You will know when u find it. Just dnt give up!

[quote author=supersystemsng post=59989312]Date the guy to find out nau[/quote lol

Xmen149:
check him out first lets see

hahahahaha no oh he seems too good to be true

Am lady's choice,.I also in need of a good,lovely,God's fearin girl please i don't need your beauty all i need is your mind/love .08036717595.Emmanuel base in calabar

alexialin:
Op don't mind peeps saying u should change to a bad guy
If u are naturally a good guy, and u change to bad guy because of having a good woman, my dear u will feel empty and become entangled with your true nature and the make believe nature.
Dont change, u wil just waste precious time pretending to be who u are not. And u will look back and regret afterwards. Cause come what may, u will still end up as you are. How long will u play such role to keep a good girl that drools over a bad guy.

There are good girls out there that crave for a good loyal guy. Be patient. U will have one by your side. Just be patient and work on yourself, your dress code and communication skills. Add swags to it. But dont change to a bad guy.
It doesnt work for every guy out there.

I turned into a semi bad girl thinking it would help my love life cos deep down i cant fully become a bad gurl or slay queen, at the end I felt like a totally different person. Which end up making me feel empty and unfulfilled. So, I went back to the drawing board and retraced my steps back, cut off guys who wants a bad girl ( that tag is not for me) and focus on bn who I am,

Which is a mummy's girl ( even though shes late, am still her girl)

And I love myself die!

I just love who I am now, no apologies whatsoever.

Hate me or love me? I don't care. Its my life.

So have crossed that bridge and am better off this way and at peace inside out.


And I love good guys with sharp dress code, great goals and good communication skills..

Bad guys, I run like kilode from

Skinni.... just go for this babe.. she's single, intelligent nd ready to mingle... With all the right qualities to be a wife material....

Her advice says it all...

Ciao

Ballmer:
Dude am assuming you ain't gonna get lucky because am not Jesus. My advice is sample enough relationships possibly without sex to avoid your judgment being clouded n determine which girl you can live with. Your context of righteous can n will only lead to ceaseless heartbreaks. Sorry am a pessimist judging from experience.

Bros don't u think sampling 'll come with a lot of financial implications?

Skinni:
I'm a guy of 28 years but I have a serious problem.
Throughout my life I have never been in any 'serious' relationship. Although I have had couple of relationships in the past but most of them fizzled out just like that. In fact, few girls that I have been with were never committed.

I must say that I'm introverted, so I have only been into few relationships.

But that aside, I just realised that most girls that I have wasted my time with; were nothing to write home about. And I find it very hard pretending to be in a relationship that isn't heading anywhere.

My own case is just simple, once I discover that a girl is neither truthful nor committed, I will just quit the friendship.

I'm the kind of person that can't date two ladies at the same time. This makes me to always be out of relationship for long before I could find another.

My friends do call me pastor because once in a relationship with any girl, I can never enter into another.
But my only problem now is how to know and meet a very nice lady. A lady who is sincere. A lady that is dependable. A lady that has conscience.

The last girl that I broke up with was so terrible that I am now even scared to approach any other lady. I don't want to waste another part of my life in an unserious relationship. It weighs me down.

Guys please i need advice.
How do I get to meet a good girl?
What signs should I look for? What will the body language look like?
Please I need sincere advice.

try to work on yourself first. Are you a guy that looks for sexy ladies as partner?
you might meet a nice lady and be like she's too boring for your liking, she has big tommy and stuff, then later fall into the hands of a play girl.
try picking up a less classy babe and build her up to your taste, make her understand that you want to be serious with her, trust her, whenever you find something wrong about her, try to correct her and not dump her. And most importantly, pray biko!

kurlz:
be a good man, then you will find a good girl. they are everywhere, just that how you treat some will determine if they will be good to you or not.

Doing only that may not yield result especially if he has desired specs. He has to make himself conspicous by being in the right place with the right crowd. Sometimes a change of location helps too. Nothing wrong consciously hunting for what you want.