streetzdreamz:
geez,calm down!! I said ur assumption which is true, overly quiet ones depicts something fishy hence she needs to double check,aint those ur words??and ion see a reason for ur choice of words,cuz mine wasnt insultive in any way,d fellow with d fish brain betwixt us is obvious to d world,why do u people choose to reason alike??i dont support abuse of any kind and i didnt support what the guy did either,just stating the reasons that might be attached to his actions,for u to av a s*lly ex that treated u like shit doesnt mean all guys with the same attributes the op listed are potential bad husbands,they just need that one thing to set em aright,which is a heart to heart talk and if the actions persists u take a walk,you dont own the problem of the world,even if u do take ur frustrations elsewhere,i hate beings who cant converse intelligently, exchange diff views and ideas without driving their point home with insults and foul words,ur kettle of fish anyways.

Zoharariel:


Same here babie, but there's always a starting point. We can learn from each other.

Babie, I am not yet in luv with you, but the cosmic spirit in me tells me that you were my wife in the 14th century, and at that time - we both lived in the land of Kemet.

[b]Let us stop delaying our destinies; Come, let me inject the seed of heaven into your fertile womb. [/b]Yes?

дерьмо́

Evacroft:

U can go on and rant bout this,u picked d points I stated out and I replied u back for not opening ur eyes to see,cos it was obvious I didn't generalize. And who told u am frustrated,boy u're in dream land. Next time answer the questions u want to and don't pick pple out of assumptions cos I guess u are a fully grown dude. I still maintain d fish brain though.

confistified:
Evening ma

fexyrich:
arnt u intelligent enuf to read between d lines..Does she need to come here and wash her dirty linens b4 u know she has skeleton in her cupboard..pls!!!

veave:



Evening honey

mimzy:


He is possessive, doesn't necessarily mean he does not love you.



The fact that he is a jealous and possessive lover does not mean he is not capable of treating you right in public or in private.


Please explain what you mean by the emboldened, is it that you have painted him to be who he is not to the members of your family or what?


All these are signs of insecurity, while i am not in support of his attitudes, have you also taken your time to have a tête-à-tête with him, have you tried to understand your man's love language? Men can be really funny at times and you will be surprised at your findings when you have a heart-to-heart convo with him.



You are the one in the relationship, you know where the shoe pinches, you are the one that will say "I do forever" to the guy in question, so put aside what your family members will think or say. But, trust me my dear, the grass is not always greener on the other side, your relationship with him still has a very good chance of survival.


After all said and done, we can only but proffer advise, the final decision lies in your hands, BE WISE MY SISTER!!!

mimzy:


He is possessive, doesn't necessarily mean he does not love you.



The fact that he is a jealous and possessive lover does not mean he is not capable of treating you right in public or in private.


Please explain what you mean by the emboldened, is it that you have painted him to be who he is not to the members of your family or what?


All these are signs of insecurity, while i am not in support of his attitudes, have you also taken your time to have a tête-à-tête with him, have you tried to understand your man's love language? Men can be really funny at times and you will be surprised at your findings when you have a heart-to-heart convo with him.



You are the one in the relationship, you know where the shoe pinches, you are the one that will say "I do forever" to the guy in question, so put aside what your family members will think or say. But, trust me my dear, the grass is not always greener on the other side, your relationship with him still has a very good chance of survival.


After all said and done, we can only but proffer advise, the final decision lies in your hands, BE WISE MY SISTER!!!

veave:



I'm not intelligent at all

fexyrich:
point of correction .you are very intelligent just that you didn't look deeper before analysing the post...

confistified:
hw was ur nite

veave:




Perfect. Yours?

confistified:
Short but ok..... I need a favor pls

veave:



Something I can do?

confistified:
sure ...... I need you to pls vote Vizkiz for Mr Nairaland

veave:






Hmmmmmnnnn. Where

Mekyno:

Best advice........hv a heart to heart convo with him. Grass is nt always greener on the other side....noted

iamNotAlone:
He talks like a woman when he's angry. Overtly jealous , reads meaning to every of my moves.
If you see us on the street, you will think we are a perfect couple because of the way he treats me in public.
This is someone I tried so hard to make my family accept and right now my family likes him a lot because he has managed to put up a good image with them.

This guy is frustrating me a lot,suspects every move I make,quarrels like a woman, always going through my phone like I am hiding something in d phone. I am not happy most times and thinking of leaving but I don't know how to go about it..........I don't know what and how to tell my people cos they will start shouting on me and saying all sorts.
Again, he's always around me, wouldn't give me space. People think it's love but he's choking me.
I can't deal no more..... Pls, Fam.....what do I do

Smileprince:
So many immature going into a relationship these days. Have been reading comments have not seen a lady advise on trying to make it work.
Hmmm is relationship now all about yourself and how you feel alone.? What about what the other person feels?
It's so painful that only few is saying something about making it workout for you.

Now about his behaviour am totally against it, it's not nice to do all that. But do you now see such problems as not having any solution.?

Talk to him one on one. Ask him how exactly he wants you to behave in this relationship. Allow him to lay down his rules and scrutinise it. What you can do tell him you'll do it. But what you can't do tell him you can't do it. And tell him how you feel comfortable with him. And ask him what's going to make him comfortable with you.

All I see is that most relationship lack intimate communication and it's killing every relationship. You can't pour out your heart as a man. And as a woman you can't also speak what makes you comfortable.

Ladies instead of trashing what they hate about their guy. They'll start losing interest. Which is very bad about ladies of now. None of you think of how to make it work and also learn to do what he likes and adapt. All you people is for a guy to always adapt to your behaviours and make you comfortable all times. How about him? What effort are you making to make him comfortable too.

See leave him today. You'll find out something bad about your next relationship. No guy is 100% learn to adapt and adjust to people.


CioAngels estym greatgod2012 Evacroft iamNotAlone

streetzdreamz:
rant?? What you people dont understand is that no one has a monopoly for violence, i chose to reply u in a matured way but that further fueled your ego,thought u said u r married,a supposed adult eeh?? So many overgrown babies claiming adulthood,fully grown dude?maturity has nothing to do with age,its a way of relating with everybody according to the level of their understanding, i picked ur point,just one "overly quiet dudes" cuz am annoyingly quiet and i possess none of those attributes which made me give an opinion,and i never said u generalized you are obviously a blind bat for you not to see where i opined ur words might be right,was only trying to correct a bad image u making of quiet guys,its just an opinion why go berserk oer it?can u comprehend a thing now??hell no!!you obviously too slow to pick up any!and thats your personal conviction,people goin tru this will know whose grey matter is deficient of some cells betwixt us,mrs ode.

iamNotAlone:
He talks like a woman when he's angry. Overtly jealous , reads meaning to every of my moves.
If you see us on the street, you will think we are a perfect couple because of the way he treats me in public.
This is someone I tried so hard to make my family accept and right now my family likes him a lot because he has managed to put up a good image with them.

This guy is frustrating me a lot,suspects every move I make,quarrels like a woman, always going through my phone like I am hiding something in d phone. I am not happy most times and thinking of leaving but I don't know how to go about it..........I don't know what and how to tell my people cos they will start shouting on me and saying all sorts.
Again, he's always around me, wouldn't give me space. People think it's love but he's choking me.
I can't deal no more..... Pls, Fam.....what do I do

thorpido:
By using your legs......as in walk away.
If you really think the relationship makes you unhappy and is choking you,simply let him know you can't continue that way.You've got a possessive guy and he won't change.I wonder what marriage will be like with someone like that.
As for your family,let them shout.You're the one who's going to be in the marriage anyway.A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage.Simply let them know it won't work.

analice107:

But she needs to break it up with Wisdom. Guys like that can turn brutal and even hurt her.
When you see a guy acting like that, he can hurt someone.

thorpido:
By using your legs......as in walk away.
If you really think the relationship makes you unhappy and is choking you,simply let him know you can't continue that way.You've got a possessive guy and he won't change.I wonder what marriage will be like with someone like that.
As for your family,let them shout.You're the one who's going to be in the marriage anyway.A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage.Simply let them know it won't work.

Blackfire:




Sweetheart @Analice107 I will disagree with you on this... What if you hear the other person story..

I know deep down that story is incomplete.

analice107:

I agree. But, i particularly will not be around any man who does the things she talked about. The day i'd make a mistake and greet an acquaintance, he will flay up and hurt me seriously.

No sir. that's not love.

Blackfire:




U see some women makes a good guy turn to a monster, and they still turned around and claim victim.
And you know sometimes women don't tell you all details

I couldn't reply my 80k phone was stolen or misplaced on Sunday.