Blueberrie:


Lies. You're just using that as an excuse..to avoid even trying to be self-controlled and holding yourself accountable. So when a guy rapes a woman, it wasnt his fault at all?

Rapmoney:
Typical example of a foolish girl!!! What's so strange if he actually made some moves? As if you haven't tasted 'the thing' before. How come you didn't go on twitter to drop posts after all the past sexual escapades you must have had?

May the huge old wrinkled balls of Idemudia fall on her!!!

t2luv1:



Rape is a different subject matter I draw a line on that. In this case we are discussing I still go with my initial defense. Self control !!! now that is subjective. Every person has their individual level of self control. Higher for some and lower for some depending on each person DNA makeup.

humilitypays:
‎The simple truth is, Nigerian ladies are very selfish and stingy!

The only reason ladies keep saying that they prefer keeping male friends than female friends is because they love taking advantage of guys financially in the name of friendship without offering anything in return to the guy they call friend.

A lady will demand money, call cards, flight ticket, house rent, gifts, free lunch, free ride, etc from her male friends....she expects her male friends to help her fix her home theatre when it develops fault, help her fix fan, help her refill her cooking gas, help drive her to salon, and parties, help fix her car or take it to mechanic, and also help her secure a job but what does she offer to this her male friend Irrelevant gossip and nonsense talk that has no financial or business meaning and she expects this her male friend to be happy with her forever!

Is he your brother or father Even your father that's training you in school and sponsoring u financially expects that when u finally become financially capable tomorrow, that u will take care of him at his old age. So what does your male friends stand to benefit for helping you all through your life And u also expect them to storm your wedding day to shower u with expensive gifts for being a parasite to them all year long and then u go to your husbands house to go and deposit all the value your male friends dumped in your life and they go back home empty handed like Israelites returning from Egypt, lol...I don't blame u ladies sha, I blame some gullible sisy men lol

Nigerian women need to wake up to reality; you can't be a parasite to a man in the name of he is my friend and expect the man to be happy with u forever, not possible!

Guys wake up o, the same girl u have been helping financially, academically, career-wise, business-wise, spiritually for free in the name of "she is my friend" and she gives u nothing in return is busy offering free sex and more to one inconsequential guy that's doing nothing for her at all! In fact, the guy she sleeps with and cooks for and cleans his house and wash his clothes does nothing for her at all....he even beats her join, so Naija guys wake up!

Don't do anything free for any girl in the name of ordinary friend....if u have plenty money to give out, give your sisters, your cousins, nieces, aunts and help the less privilege in the society. 

If a girl isn't your sister, not your‎ cousin, not your niece, not your sweet mum, not your girlfriend, not your fiancée, not your wife, not your business partner, then she is nobody but a stranger...if u want to help her, help her as a stranger or a less privilege person, not as a female friend because female friends are parasites in Nigeria!!
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To be a good female friend to a guy, offer him some value if u don't want to offer him sex. If u can, buy him a car, help him get a good job, lend him big money to invest in his business, sometimes surprise him with worthy and useful gifts, ladies stop being parasites to men....Nigerian men are waking up! you ladies need to wake up too!

You ladies can buy your male friends car and houses na, you can do it! Do it and if he asks u for sex after u have bought him car, house or helped him secure good job, then slap the thunder out of him and report him to me for proper dealing‎

Adaumunocha:
Do men force ladies for sex? Seriously?

PAGAN9JA:
what happened with yiubis unfortunate. the comments section will show you the aavagery and rapist mentality of Nigerians.

you would do better to leave this country and live in a more civilized setting where women are respected and not seen as mere se.x toys. my sympathies withm

Nigeria is a fvcked up nation filled with horn.y religous zealots like dogs.

Blueberrie:


Omg! An uncle??!!! What's wrong with male species though?? Can't they control their urges. Actually, do they even try to control their urges..

Daeylar:


I'm so irritated, the way they treat women on this nairaland is very irritating, I don't know the real story but based on what the girl narrated I'm struggling to see where she did anything wrong so I wonder why she is being insulted.

It's very annoying, nairaland posters treatment of women is so disgusting.

Afrobasic:
You call him your friend and you cannot give him your puna to taste?? but you'd give a random stranger abi?

What kind of friend are you

A friend in need is a friend indeed.

Elenurazorr:
Ladies are nothing but sex holes to reduce masturbation and baby factories if you ain't rich enough for surrogates.

I hacked my gal WhatsApp, she was fixing sex date with 5 married men at once. WtF

Daeylar:


I'm so irritated, the way they treat women on this nairaland is very irritating, I don't know the real story but based on what the girl narrated I'm struggling to see where she did anything wrong so I wonder why she is being insulted.

It's very annoying, nairaland posters treatment of women is so disgusting.

Daeylar:


I'm so irritated, the way they treat women on this nairaland is very irritating, I don't know the real story but based on what the girl narrated I'm struggling to see where she did anything wrong so I wonder why she is being insulted.

It's very annoying, nairaland posters treatment of women is so disgusting.

ebby9z:

We are sorry that we have decided to stop being blackmailed by the "weaker sex" who find it easy to cry and wail pathetically while they've been the one manipulating the male folks. We are sorry we've wisened up

Daeylar:


I'm so irritated, the way they treat women on this nairaland is very irritating, I don't know the real story but based on what the girl narrated I'm struggling to see where she did anything wrong so I wonder why she is being insulted.

It's very annoying, nairaland posters treatment of women is so disgusting.

Pennywise:


Enjoy your innocence my dear. You dont know this kind of girl, but most of us do. She is a player. An experienced one. But this time, she jam rock.

Blueberrie:


Lies. You're just using that as an excuse..to avoid even trying to be self-controlled and holding yourself accountable. So when a guy rapes a woman, it wasnt his fault at all?

Blueberrie:


Lol. DNA? I didnt know self-control is established in your DNA. That just sounds funny and fake. Ok so you now agree that there are guys out there who are self-controlled and not about all that "we as guys become irrational once the blood leaves the brain and goes down there"?

Daeylar:


Don't quote me grasping for straws on how to justify your silly behaviours.

BunbleBee:
.when you tell them not to be in seclusion with the opposite sex,they'll be like 'whats wrong with that'.,when it happens now, they'll be like 'men are this, men are that'...

they underestimate the power of the devil. Never think you are strong enough to resist the temptation of the devil because the devil is very patient and an expert in his field.
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what am i saying seff

ebosse:



I'm a guy and I don't force ladies for sex. I have male friends, they don't force ladies for sex either. I honestly don't understand where you guys get your data and conclusions from. Probably on nairaland.


Just the way it would be stu'pid of me to say all girls are 'oloshos' cause that's clearly not possible.

That's how extremely stu'pid it is for any1 to conclude that all guys force ladies for sex cause that is not clearly possible.

PAGAN9JA:


I just have one advicee to you Madame.


Don't be brainwashed.

They will try to give all sorts of rubbish advice. They will make you feel it is your fault everytime. You should have the power to deduce right from wrong.Any issue involving women, they will blame women first. Yes there are some issues where women are int he wrong but it is subjective and certainly not always the case.
I escaped this shitty mentality because I was brought up in a Hausa traditionalist background. In our religion and society, women (Magajiya/Sarrounia) are head and Chief Priestess of our society.
Also my mother instilled good values in me.

Coming back to Nairalanders,
They don't realise the reason why they are living in shyt is because of their own attitude which is very difficult to change.

madridguy:
Ladies can be so selfish

BunbleBee:
.when you tell them not to be in seclusion with the opposite sex,they'll be like 'whats wrong with that'.,when it happens now, they'll be like 'men are this, men are that'...

they underestimate the power of the devil. Never think you are strong enough to resist the temptation of the devil because the devil is very patient and an expert in his field.
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what am i saying seff

Adaumunocha:
If they ask you for material things and you refuse, will they force you? Do ladies force you men to spend??!! Let's b matured and reasonable in this argument pls

kimbraa:
From the comments on here, one could tell how the average guy's mind works. It's always;
Sex! sex!! And sex!!!. They don't know there're boundaries not to cross. I pity girls of this generation who're not wise. No wonder most of you act like "dogs" at the sight of women.

The girl should be blamed for rejecting his offer but the fool should be praised for trying to sleep with a girl he doesn't have a relationship with.

Safiaa:
You are the reason why most ladies feel entitled to a mans pocket after opening their legs. The problem starts with you.