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Everybody has his/her own ways of doing things and maybe for many guys out there, it has become norm for them to cohabit with their girlfriend and they enjoy it that way, but you know that everybody can't be the same.

My case is entirely different, as my girlfriend is planning to come and stay with me for only God knows how long she intends staying, but it looks like she wants to stay for a very very long period of time, but I asked her not to.

Not because I don't love her nor because I want to be flirting with other girls in her absence, mind you I am not a casanova to start with. All these that some guys will always want to change or flirt with plenty girls and always ready to go extra miles because of woman like travelling from Kafanchan to somewhere in Ibeju Lekki to see her or to flirt with her, I am not just that type and I don't really have such kind of energy chasing different women around like the way soldier ants do in their network.

But the thing there is that I just don't like the idea of staying or living almost permanently with a girlfriend, because I can't really see how I would be entirely differenciated from a married person and unmarried if she stays permanently with me. I don't just like it. Yes she can come spend weekend or some extra days, but moving or packing in completely is a no no for me.

Have I wronged her for rejecting her request?

My guy you have not done wrong
You did well
Because familiarity brings contempt

Ladies my advice to you
Don't ever cohabit with a man who is not engaged to you

You are losing your dignity and respect
Odds are there that he might end up not marrying you

Let me ask you
If i alway get something for free, why would i still go and pay for it.
Think twice before you make a big mistake

My dear u haven't, first of all is she having accommodation issue? If so well maybe u should help her out till she's able to get an apartment for herself. If not then I really don't know what ladies want o, why would you pack ur stuffs and move to a guy's house,what for? He'll end up fûçking the good things out of ur life then when ure empty, he'll send u out. It's a shameful act o. Please op u have done nothing wrong if that's the case... I think ure a man of integrity and one of the few responsible men we have.. it's a pity our ladies will never learn..

You no wan couple's life

You've done well.

A man who refuses sex should be sent to jail for not having a sensitive dick.

this may be d best decision of ur life

Well done, op. I equally don't get the rationale behind moving in with someone you're dating.

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U did well.......she should respect herself nah.........how on earth can one move into her boyfriends house permanently

She doesn't have parents? You've not done wrong biko.

Op uv not done wrong.

She wan choke u with love?

Haba.

At this stage u need your freedom, and enjoy dating. Then when marriage comes, u will know u are married and start living together.

Some ladies sef.
If she move in with u and u say u no do again. She may end up burning down your apartment and move on. Be wise op.

Free pussssy is not actually free.

You've done well op.

amakadihot87:
U did well.......she should respect herself nah.........how on earth can one move into her boyfriends house permanently

She could be one of those girls who're always on heat

Some babez no just wan get sense again, na so love dey do una?

Move into my bf's house? Hahahaha . Can't trade my freedom for anything. Btw, where would I tell my Mum I'm living? Bf's house

Wooz! Op, you've done well , really well.

It is better........Infact Op u ar Right

I think d only reason why my Neighbor's girlfrnd who stays togeda wit him did Not set his room ablaze the oda day waz because of d effect it wil hav on my Room.....babe got provoked and started Smashin T.V, Refrigerator, babe turn to a destroyer....lol....

My prayer that day waz God shuld nt make dis girl think of settin her Bf room on fire coz I will b affected and God spoke to her not to........

Still I was affected

nawa,,you have not don't the forbidden, ,if she's having accommodation issue,just try and figure out,,if not ask her if she's coming to stay for long or not

Never try it please....

She want marriage

u did everything wrong. ..oponu...I'm suspecting u re impotent sef

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No don't even know how I will live with my husband let alone a bf

GOFRONT:
It is better........Infact Op u ar Right

I think d only reason why my Neighbor's girlfrnd who stays togeda wit him did Not set his room ablaze the oda day waz because of d effect it wil hav on my Room.....babe got provoked and started Smashin T.V, Refrigerator, babe turn to a destroyer..

My prayer that day waz God shuld nt make dis girl think of settin her Bf room on fire coz I will b affected and God spoke to her not to........

Still I was affected

You don't mean it? Onto say the guy cheat on her abi?

GOFRONT:
It is better........Infact Op u ar Right

I think d only reason why my Neighbor's girlfrnd who stays togeda wit him did Not set his room ablaze the oda day waz because of d effect it wil hav on my Room.....babe got provoked and started Smashin T.V, Refrigerator, babe turn to a destroyer....lol....

My prayer that day waz God shuld nt make dis girl think of settin her Bf room on fire coz I will b affected and God spoke to her not to........

Still I was affected

Wetin the guy do? This one weak me o

op ehn...u no want extra drama wen d relationship fail...greetings to u d smart subconscious mind sir

mhizesther:
My dear u haven't, first of all is she having accommodation issue? If so well maybe u should help her out till she's able to get an apartment for herself. If not then I really don't know what ladies want o, why would you pack ur stuffs and move to a guy's house,what for? He'll end up fûçking the good things out of ur life then when ure empty, he'll send u out. It's a shameful act o. Please op u have done nothing wrong if that's the case... I think ure a man of integrity and one of the few responsible men we have.. it's a pity our ladies will never learn..

bongolistik , please even if she's having accommodation issue, don't accommodate her for your own safety.

Infact, if you want to live a long life and achieve success, then stay away from ladies. give them a very big gap. Bet me, her coming is not a genuine one.

No offense, that your Bae is irresponsible ooo.. no vex..

amakadihot87:
U did well.......she should respect herself nah.........how on earth can one move into her boyfriends house permanently

amakadihot87 , your comment di hot and sharp

paiz:
My guy you have not done wrong You did well Because familiarity brings contempt
Ladies my advice to you Don't ever cohabit with a man who is not engaged to you
You are losing your dignity and respect Odds are there that he might end up not marrying you
Let me ask you If i alway get something for free, why would i still go and pay for it. Think twice before you make a big mistake

You are right

A man who refuses sex should be sent to jail for not having a sensitive dick.[/


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