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Re: Is It Right For A Married Woman To Be a Close Friend With Single Guy? by arukwe123(m): 10:43pm On Sep 30, 2017
goingape3:
HE DON ALREADY FVCK HER!!!


natodayy! he dey find escape route.

no worry op! the husband go soon pour hot water for your preek!

Na KARMA go still deal with am last last. Guys go fuvk him wife sotey ....
Re: Is It Right For A Married Woman To Be a Close Friend With Single Guy? by Nobody: 10:43pm On Sep 30, 2017
Smh
Re: Is It Right For A Married Woman To Be a Close Friend With Single Guy? by arukwe123(m): 10:44pm On Sep 30, 2017
goingape3:
HE DON ALREADY FVCK HER!!!


natodayy! he dey find escape route.

no worry op! the husband go soon pour hot water for your preek!

Na KARMA go still deal with am last last. Guys go fuvk him wife sotey ....
Re: Is It Right For A Married Woman To Be a Close Friend With Single Guy? by Nobody: 10:45pm On Sep 30, 2017
PaperLace:


You told her the above and all she could reply is she wants to jump on your bed. She is yet to say what she wants to jump on.
His diick, or what else?
Re: Is It Right For A Married Woman To Be a Close Friend With Single Guy? by enemyofprogress: 10:45pm On Sep 30, 2017
Na so adultery dey take start,na so my landlady take disvirgin me at age 39 cry cry

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Re: Is It Right For A Married Woman To Be a Close Friend With Single Guy? by eyinjuege: 10:47pm On Sep 30, 2017
Run for your life..

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Re: Is It Right For A Married Woman To Be a Close Friend With Single Guy? by tbliss22(m): 10:48pm On Sep 30, 2017
FortifiedCity:
There is this very young and beautiful married woman. She told me she is 28 years. She's been pregnant once. I assisted her brother get a small job lately. Before then, anytime i see her on the road, we greet. If she wanted to buy something, I'll pay with a clean heart and walk away. Ever since then, she's shown me her appreciation in words. Somehow we started talking on whatsapp lately. She gave me her number.

But now, she's telling me that she prefers keeping guys as friends. In fact she has offered to come and cook for me today but I told her I am not around. I was very open to her that her being so close might tempt me to touch her that it's better she stays far from me or we talk whenever we see on the road. I told her this to scare her away from coming close but it's not working.

She says that me telling her that will not make her be free but she still insists that she'd come to my house. She said she'd like to be free with me, jumping on my bed and playing around but she just likes me as a friend.

Is it wrong to be a close friend with a married woman?
Please guys what do you think?

Hello bro,

This shouldn't be an issue. All single guys in one neighbourhood or the other do have married women around at the other flat who always fall in love with their funny and sweet choice of words.

Having her number is not really a bad idea, but digging deep with emotional words like she telling you "I wish to come cook for you and also play around on your bed", what's that??with a married woman??

Just set good boundaries between you two and if possible invite your girlfriend over. Let her see you so close with your woman severally, you will discover her brain will return to factory reset asap.

Finally, I sense some level of likeness from your own side towards her, if you get down with her once then u are in it till her husband discovers, which by then it might be too late.

Every young independent bachelor do have them around but only the smart ones set the boundaries, the stupid and crazy ones get down to it and later get their Bleep up treated either in kuje prison or st Nicholas hospital.

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Re: Is It Right For A Married Woman To Be a Close Friend With Single Guy? by goingape3: 10:49pm On Sep 30, 2017
arukwe123:
Na KARMA go still deal with am last last. Guys go fuvk him wife sotey ....
......she go declare public holiday for her yansh.

Re: Is It Right For A Married Woman To Be a Close Friend With Single Guy? by Chykes403: 10:49pm On Sep 30, 2017
She is Hot. Invite her first, dont make any move wen she visits you. U guys shuld just gist normally. But wen she starts to make any funny move. Tell her to her face dat it wil not happen
Re: Is It Right For A Married Woman To Be a Close Friend With Single Guy? by Nobody: 10:49pm On Sep 30, 2017
FortifiedCity:
Hmmm you have a strategy.

But will allowing her to my home mean much
Dude, are you sure you ain't having second thoughts? Wanna bang her, hun?
Re: Is It Right For A Married Woman To Be a Close Friend With Single Guy? by Respect55(m): 10:53pm On Sep 30, 2017
FortifiedCity:
She was like she wants to be really free with me and play with me in my house....nothing more
I don't think u r alright ma niggar. Another man's wife wants to jump on ur bed and play with u and u r thinking if it is gud or bad. Continue. Dats how some of us guys bring curses n badlucks upon ourselves.
Don't u see single girls around u?
Gid have mercy on ur soul
Re: Is It Right For A Married Woman To Be a Close Friend With Single Guy? by bawz012(m): 10:57pm On Sep 30, 2017
eree kini aja n ba ekun shey?
Re: Is It Right For A Married Woman To Be a Close Friend With Single Guy? by biblegirl: 11:00pm On Sep 30, 2017
OP u sef have started having feelings gradually for her jo.try kissing her one day n she wnt stop u but mind u no man sleeping with someone else's wife is successful in life.so to make it easier for u,delete her number when she calls dnt return her call but u can pick n post her on whatever she says.I pity ur future o guy.
Re: Is It Right For A Married Woman To Be a Close Friend With Single Guy? by biblegirl: 11:01pm On Sep 30, 2017
OP u sef have started having feelings gradually for her jo.try kissing her one day n she wnt stop u but mind u no man sleeping with someone else's wife is successful in life.so to make it easier for u,delete her number when she calls dnt return her call but u can pick n post her on whatever she says.Introduce ur girlfriend to her and talk about ur gf to her often.I pity ur future o guy.
Re: Is It Right For A Married Woman To Be a Close Friend With Single Guy? by Nobody: 11:04pm On Sep 30, 2017
FortifiedCity:
There is this very young and beautiful married woman. She told me she is 28 years. She's been pregnant once. I assisted her brother get a small job lately. Before then, anytime i see her on the road, we greet. If she wanted to buy something, I'll pay with a clean heart and walk away. Ever since then, she's shown me her appreciation in words. Somehow we started talking on whatsapp lately. She gave me her number.

But now, she's telling me that she prefers keeping guys as friends. In fact she has offered to come and cook for me today but I told her I am not around. I was very open to her that her being so close might tempt me to touch her that it's better she stays far from me or we talk whenever we see on the road. I told her this to scare her away from coming close but it's not working.

She says that me telling her that will not make her be free but she still insists that she'd come to my house. She said she'd like to be free with me, jumping on my bed and playing around but she just likes me as a friend.

Is it wrong to be a close friend with a married woman?
Please guys what do you think?


Flee all appearances of evil
Flee fornication
A word is enough for the wwise
Re: Is It Right For A Married Woman To Be a Close Friend With Single Guy? by Qmab: 11:05pm On Sep 30, 2017
OP. If this lady was married to you, would you condone such acts from her? If yes, go ahead. If no, maybe you can see need for a rethink then.

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Re: Is It Right For A Married Woman To Be a Close Friend With Single Guy? by Qmab: 11:05pm On Sep 30, 2017
OP. If this lady were married to you, would you condone such acts from her? If yes, go ahead. If no, maybe you can see need for a rethink then.
Re: Is It Right For A Married Woman To Be a Close Friend With Single Guy? by Godschild89: 11:06pm On Sep 30, 2017
[quote author=pcguru1 post=60982509]

My Solution works try it............... BLOCK HER, because the husband won't hear excuses when he's slicing your flesh he could be following her to check her movements. There's too many single women out there to be in this kinda mess.
Very blunt you nailed it
Re: Is It Right For A Married Woman To Be a Close Friend With Single Guy? by Amarabae(f): 11:14pm On Sep 30, 2017
Humility017:
you're very funny.... so you see nothing wrong in that lady moves...?
maybe she has no bad intention
Re: Is It Right For A Married Woman To Be a Close Friend With Single Guy? by OlivetBen(m): 11:14pm On Sep 30, 2017
If u are a christian, the bible says "FLEE from every APPEARANCES of EVIL."
1. It 's not run but flee
2. From appearances of evil. It is evil in the sense that, the husband might accuse you of sleeping with his wife if he should see the both of you.
3. A married woman coming to cook for u is outrightly evil. A married woman coming to sit on your bed not even jumping and playing in it is evil. Remember it is through play that a woman brings life into this world.
Re: Is It Right For A Married Woman To Be a Close Friend With Single Guy? by condomuser: 11:15pm On Sep 30, 2017
OP invite her to your room, ask her to remove her pant then lick her toto, after that tell her you can't go inside.

Ensure you have already paid 2 years advance elsewhere before trying this.

Here in America, we fvck pple's wife to make a living, if you doubt it i will give you Tunde's number to send you some videos.
Re: Is It Right For A Married Woman To Be a Close Friend With Single Guy? by Nobody: 11:19pm On Sep 30, 2017
Wetin dem dey discuss?
Re: Is It Right For A Married Woman To Be a Close Friend With Single Guy? by Abdul3391(m): 11:22pm On Sep 30, 2017
how cann guys and girls be friends in d 1st place
Re: Is It Right For A Married Woman To Be a Close Friend With Single Guy? by larrypourl(m): 11:25pm On Sep 30, 2017
pcguru1:
I have female married friends but boundaries has to be set and when I call or text I must add greetings to the husband and family and I don't call once its around 5 in the evening and above and also only text during weekends unless its a big problem. You yourself set boundaries

Exactly what I do. Regards to the family if you've got kids, without kids, regards to your hubby. One must be careful and like you rightly said. Op should set boundaries.
Re: Is It Right For A Married Woman To Be a Close Friend With Single Guy? by Kingston6: 11:28pm On Sep 30, 2017
As a married woman she z, d closeness n d friendship z becoming sumtin else
Re: Is It Right For A Married Woman To Be a Close Friend With Single Guy? by hennriposh(m): 11:29pm On Sep 30, 2017
[[font=Lucida Sans Unicode]quote author=Chykes403 post=60988871]She is Hot. Invite her first, dont make any move wen she visits you. U guys shuld just gist normally. But wen she starts to make any funny move. Tell her to her face dat it wil not happen


I weep for you
Re: Is It Right For A Married Woman To Be a Close Friend With Single Guy? by Josh44s(m): 11:30pm On Sep 30, 2017
FortifiedCity:
There is this very young and beautiful married woman. She told me she is 28 years. She's been pregnant once. I assisted her brother get a small job lately. Before then, anytime i see her on the road, we greet. If she wanted to buy something, I'll pay with a clean heart and walk away. Ever since then, she's shown me her appreciation in words. Somehow we started talking on whatsapp lately. She gave me her number.

But now, she's telling me that she prefers keeping guys as friends. In fact she has offered to come and cook for me today but I told her I am not around. I was very open to her that her being so close might tempt me to touch her that it's better she stays far from me or we talk whenever we see on the road. I told her this to scare her away from coming close but it's not working.

She says that me telling her that will not make her be free but she still insists that she'd come to my house. She said she'd like to be free with me, jumping on my bed and playing around but she just likes me as a friend.

Is it wrong to be a close friend with a married woman?
Please guys what do you think?

My broda run for your dear life. Don't ever keep a married woman as friend, be it a pastor's wife or even a married woman who is a pastor. Run run runnnn!!!
Re: Is It Right For A Married Woman To Be a Close Friend With Single Guy? by eodavids(m): 11:33pm On Sep 30, 2017
FortifiedCity:
There is this very young and beautiful married woman. She told me she is 28 years. She's been pregnant once. I assisted her brother get a small job lately. Before then, anytime i see her on the road, we greet. If she wanted to buy something, I'll pay with a clean heart and walk away. Ever since then, she's shown me her appreciation in words. Somehow we started talking on whatsapp lately. She gave me her number.

But now, she's telling me that she prefers keeping guys as friends. In fact she has offered to come and cook for me today but I told her I am not around. I was very open to her that her being so close might tempt me to touch her that it's better she stays far from me or we talk whenever we see on the road. I told her this to scare her away from coming close but it's not working.

She says that me telling her that will not make her be free but she still insists that she'd come to my house. She said she'd like to be free with me, jumping on my bed and playing around but she just likes me as a friend.

Is it wrong to be a close friend with a married woman?
Please guys what do you think?

The answer is right in your own very words. Now, if you go ahead, it going to be another suicide, period
Re: Is It Right For A Married Woman To Be a Close Friend With Single Guy? by Kebreal92(m): 11:39pm On Sep 30, 2017
IS IT GOOD IF YOUR OWN WIFE SHOULD KEEP A MALE FRIEND WHOM SHE WILL VISIT AT ANYTIME AND BE FREE TO PLAY AROUND ON HIS BED?
ANSWER YOURSELF OGA.
Re: Is It Right For A Married Woman To Be a Close Friend With Single Guy? by kushsy: 11:42pm On Sep 30, 2017
Guy from your response its either you In or you are already In...all the same its your choice... the day you will be caught..don't mention the devil.
Re: Is It Right For A Married Woman To Be a Close Friend With Single Guy? by kushsy: 11:44pm On Sep 30, 2017
kushsy:
Guy from your response its either you want in or you are already In...all the same its your choice... the day you will be caught..don't mention the devil.

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