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Mofe72:
Was it pant and bra or bikini at the beach? :-/

BigSarah:
So there's this guy in my department looks so much like my primary school sweetheart who passed away .
Anytime I see him I get so drawn to him.. I'm a really shy person like nervous, Sweating,heartracing kinda shy, only around him though.
So I took his number off my department group chat and started sending him all sort of texts and he replied back well for the first 3days but he kept saying that I should tell him who I'm (I didn't use my number got a new line, just for that purpose). As of Yesterday He Sent me this mean text

.Mtchew.... Wtf
Sarah or whatever ur name is, dont call nor text me again
Who cares abt who u are.
Let's dis be the last time u call and text me..
To hell with u, mtchew ..

I didnt call him throughout that day, but I called today he still asked who is dis, I ignored the question then he hanged up.
What do I do now? Telling him it's me is gonna be so embarrassing to me I've poored out my heart shamelessly in those texts and it'll be horrible if he ends up not dating me after the revelation.
I don't wanna miss him please Tips

BigSarah:
I wasn't rejected well technically, he doesn't know it's me you talentless slowpoke no take me kick-start your comedy career

Peachess:
Funny thing is that I can't be in that kind of situation cos I don't feel anymore, I don't care about people. It's all trash to me.

ahnie:
This,really got me...oh Bleep
Hahahahahahagagaghahahaha queen of savagery you are babe.damn you got my ribs so mufasa*ed*

Choi Airforce1 wee not sleep well this NYT.

BigSarah:
So there's this guy in my department looks so much like my primary school sweetheart who passed away .
Anytime I see him I get so drawn to him.. I'm a really shy person like nervous, Sweating,heartracing kinda shy, only around him though.
So I took his number off my department group chat and started sending him all sort of texts and he replied back well for the first 3days but he kept saying that I should tell him who I'm (I didn't use my number got a new line, just for that purpose). As of Yesterday He Sent me this mean text

.Mtchew.... Wtf
Sarah or whatever ur name is, dont call nor text me again
Who cares abt who u are.
Let's dis be the last time u call and text me..
To hell with u, mtchew ..

I didnt call him throughout that day, but I called today he still asked who is dis, I ignored the question then he hanged up.
What do I do now? Telling him it's me is gonna be so embarrassing to me I've poored out my heart shamelessly in those texts and it'll be horrible if he ends up not dating me after the revelation.
I don't wanna miss him please Tips

DedeNkem:
You behaved childishly! How old are you? 8?

First, you can't love someone you had no relationship with. And you can't love anyone within three days of anonymously texting them.

Secondly, you are seeing your dead school sweetheart (A) in this new guy (B). So you're obsessed with B simply because his looks reminds you of A, which is bad.

Thirdly, you can't be sending anonymous text to a guy and not expect him to suspect something. If he has a girlfriend, he may think his girl is testing his faithfulness! You must not do that again! It is so childish.

If you're truly serious and want to start a relationship with him, be bold enough to introduce yourself to him and apologize telling him your name in time. That's what a matured girl would do after a fck up as you did.

I don't know why Nigerian women find it so hard to approach men they would like to start relationship with. Most women have missed out on good men because of this mentality. They would rather wait for men to approach them and sometimes end up havng the wrong ones.

I'm not saying it is wrong to expect a man to approach you. If you only date men who approach you, you may have miss the right man for you. Be approached and approach.

Every woman has a man she knows, admires and wants to date. There are women reading this post right now who have been approached by many men except the particular men they've been eying.

We are in 2017 not 1817. If you see a man you want to date, as long as he's single, nothing should stop you from approaching him.

Best way to approach a man;

1. Make sure he sees you, especially, when you're well dressed and looking pretty.
2. Make sure you get close to him.
3. Look for something to talk with him about, relating to the place both of you are. Or you can ask hm to help you check what's wrong with your phone. There are many things you can use.
My lady friend asked a man (she wanted) to check if he could see a fly in her left eye. The guy is her hubby today.
4. If he still doesn't approach you after the all above, then you can go nuclear by asking for his name and number.
5. After collecting the info. stay with him a little and get to know him a little bit and gently walk away in style.

Goodluck.

rhames:
This is what pisses me off about Nigerian and African girls. If you like a guy,walk up to him and tell him how you feel about him and not come to Nairaland to tell us cock and bull stories bout love. African men will love it when the new generation of African women will be direct and not hide under a dead culture to cover a worse motive.

My one kobo.

Dasherz:
she wasn't at the beach. .. twas a bathroom picture. . I know what I saw before I made that post

IamAirforce1:
You don't deserve a reasonable reply with that pic up your profile ..

BigSarah:
So there's this guy in my department looks so much like my primary school sweetheart who passed away .
Anytime I see him I get so drawn to him.. I'm a really shy person like nervous, Sweating,heartracing kinda shy, only around him though.
So I took his number off my department group chat and started sending him all sort of texts and he replied back well for the first 3days but he kept saying that I should tell him who I'm (I didn't use my number got a new line, just for that purpose). As of Yesterday He Sent me this mean text

.Mtchew.... Wtf
Sarah or whatever ur name is, dont call nor text me again
Who cares abt who u are.
Let's dis be the last time u call and text me..
To hell with u, mtchew ..

I didnt call him throughout that day, but I called today he still asked who is dis, I ignored the question then he hanged up.
What do I do now? Telling him it's me is gonna be so embarrassing to me I've poored out my heart shamelessly in those texts and it'll be horrible if he ends up not dating me after the revelation.
I don't wanna miss him please Tips

Mofe72:
How many non-african ladies have you met?

Forget all that thing you see on TV and social media.

Approaching someone is not a race thing.

People are different

DedeNkem:
You behaved childishly! How old are you? 8?

First, you can't love someone you had no relationship with. And you can't love anyone within three days of anonymously texting them.

Secondly, you are seeing your dead school sweetheart (A) in this new guy (B). So you're obsessed with B simply because his looks reminds you of A, which is bad.

Thirdly, you can't be sending anonymous text to a guy and not expect him to suspect something. If he has a girlfriend, he may think his girl is testing his faithfulness! You must not do that again! It is so childish.

If you're truly serious and want to start a relationship with him, be bold enough to introduce yourself to him and apologize for not telling him your name in time. That's what a matured girl would do after a fck up as you did.

I don't know why Nigerian women find it so hard to approach men they would like to start relationship with. Most women have missed out on good men because of this mentality. They would rather wait for men to approach them and sometimes end up havng the wrong ones.

I'm not saying it is wrong to expect a man to approach you. If you only date men who approach you, you may have miss the right man for you. Be approached and approach.

Every woman has a man she knows, admires and wants to date. There are women reading this post right now who have been approached by many men except the particular men they've been eying.

We are in 2017 not 1817. If you see a man you want to date, as long as he's single, nothing should stop you from approaching him.

Best way to approach a man;

1. Make sure he sees you, especially, when you're well dressed and looking pretty.
2. Make sure you get close to him.
3. Look for something to talk with him about, relating to the place both of you are. Or you can ask hm to help you check what's wrong with your phone. There are many things you can use.
My lady friend asked a man (she wanted) to check if he could see a fly in her left eye. The guy is her hubby today.
4. If he still doesn't any interest in you after the all above, then you can go nuclear by asking for his name and number.
5. After collecting the info. stay with him a little and get to know him a little bit and gently walk away in style. He'll think about you all day.

Goodluck.

JONNYSPUTE:
. Hahahahah. U wicked

rhames:
My girlfriend is an American and we have been together for five years.

IamAirforce1:
You don't deserve a reasonable reply with that pic up your profile ..

Youngsage:

Why though??

Dasherz:
..

BigSarah:
So there's this guy in my department looks so much like my primary school sweetheart who passed away .
Anytime I see him I get so drawn to him.. I'm a really shy person like nervous, Sweating,heartracing kinda shy, only around him though.
So I took his number off my department group chat and started sending him all sort of texts and he replied back well for the first 3days but he kept saying that I should tell him who I'm (I didn't use my number got a new line, just for that purpose). As of Yesterday He Sent me this mean text

.Mtchew.... Wtf
Sarah or whatever ur name is, dont call nor text me again
Who cares abt who u are.
Let's dis be the last time u call and text me..
To hell with u, mtchew ..

I didnt call him throughout that day, but I called today he still asked who is dis, I ignored the question then he hanged up.
What do I do now? Telling him it's me is gonna be so embarrassing to me I've poored out my heart shamelessly in those texts and it'll be horrible if he ends up not dating me after the revelation.
I don't wanna miss him please Tips

bobokunlexzy:
Funny enough.....I couldn't stop lol wen I saw ur post here on NL cos.........the guy in question is my friend's roommate & we are very good friends. I really feel for u cos I can understand ur plight & I'm ready to help u get d guy(trust me) Just mail me here & let's talk.

BigSarah:
So there's this guy in my department looks so much like my primary school sweetheart who passed away .
Anytime I see him I get so drawn to him.. I'm a really shy person like nervous, Sweating,heartracing kinda shy, only around him though.
So I took his number off my department group chat and started sending him all sort of texts and he replied back well for the first 3days but he kept saying that I should tell him who I'm (I didn't use my number got a new line, just for that purpose). As of Yesterday He Sent me this mean text

.Mtchew.... Wtf
Sarah or whatever ur name is, dont call nor text me again
Who cares abt who u are.
Let's dis be the last time u call and text me..
To hell with u, mtchew ..

I didnt call him throughout that day, but I called today he still asked who is dis, I ignored the question then he hanged up.
What do I do now? Telling him it's me is gonna be so embarrassing to me I've poored out my heart shamelessly in those texts and it'll be horrible if he ends up not dating me after the revelation.
I don't wanna miss him please Tips

IamAirforce1:
You're so shameless

A big shame to womanhood ..

Your body isn't even attractive to start with , why won't he reject you...

He rejected you and you run come nairaland to seek for advice ..