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A Sequel To my previous post https://www.nairaland.com/4115465/me-im-love-him

So I went with the advice of the majority, who commented I told him who I am, he replied okay and then hanged up, I was startled I expected some sort of ranting but I got none, so I offered we hang out but I got no reply,then called and he said he has a GF that I should quit disturbing his Life...
Life Was Better as An Homosexual, I think I deserve such happiness .
Romancelanders Your Advice Sucked..

When he didn't know who I was, he replied to my texts(not all but he does reply ) , he rushes to pick my call...
But after going with your horrible advice, no text backs, I call twice, and even if he picks at the first buzz he waits a lot before speaking..

I have given up, yes that easily, I've never been rejected,it stinks it's awful, guys try alot... I hope this doesn't ruin what's left of my self esteem..

I almost took you serious, until I checked your profile and discovered every single one of your topics are trash.

Too bad boy

calm down... PM me and I will tell you how to get him back. its simple... but next time do not listen to majority

BigSarah:
A Sequel To my previous post https://www.nairaland.com/4115465/me-im-love-him

So I went with the advice of the majority, who commented I told him who I am, he replied okay and then hanged up, I was startled I expected some sort of ranting but I got none, so I offered we hang out but I got no reply,then called and he said he has a GF that I should quit disturbing his Life...
Life Was Better as An Homosexual, I think I deserve such happiness .
Romancelanders Your Advice Sucked..

When he didn't know who I was, he replied to my texts(not all but he does reply ) , he rushes to pick my call...
But after going with your horrible advice, no text backs, I call twice, and even if he picks at the first buzz he waits a lot before speaking..

I have given up, yes that easily, I've never been rejected,it stinks it's awful, guys try alot... I hope this doesn't ruin what's left of my self esteem..

Haha:-D Sounds funny.. You still like this dude?

LifeofAirforce:
Don't you have real life friends you can talk to ?

Why bother us with your unromantic life story

Lesbos won't get me
Bia Nwokem zu eba puo

profstar:
I almost took you serious, until I checked your profile and discovered every single one of your topics are trash.

Too bad. boy

I get bored

Why would a guy in his right sense reject a beautiful lady like you......... who does that........ NO man tries that shit with me....... reasons why I don't love make sure a man loves you more than how you love him before giving him a listening ear....... sis don't love Nigerian guys ain't worth it

BigSarah:
Lesbos won't get me
Bia Nwokem zu eba puo

So you're even Igbo

Oya , sorry .

From what you put out here, he's taken.
Let him be please ok .

Sweetheart, listen and listen real good. You are not ugly but something about you is a 'turn-off' for the guy. In summary, he's seeing you more like an unnecessary distraction.

greatnaija01:
calm down... PM me and I will tell you how to get him back. its simple... but next time do not listen to majority

I'm good, I wouldn't like taking him from someone, clearly my head was in the cloud but not any more, I'm over him.. Just hope I won't get attached when I keep seeing him

nairalanders,especially romancelanders gave you advice and you follow it....

I Told You To Allow Me Guide You But You refused... Maybe You Had Something Else At The back Of Your Mind... Sorry Though... Move On...

SMSguru:
Sweetheart, listen and listen real good.
You are not ugly but something about you is a 'turn-off' for the guy.
In summary, he's seeing you more like an unnecessary distraction.

Distraction I doubt that, he's not like crazy cute but reminds me of someone who passed away via cancer who I loved, clearly he's nothing like bolaji, bolaji will never reject me

Follow @srigeorgeom to deal with emotional and mental barriers. It helped me too

mofeoluwadassah:
nairalanders especially romancelanders gave you advice and you follow....

Now I know better, I should have backed off without revealing my sef, I thought he was single when he said, I need to know you before I date you, what kind of guy who is taken says that?

DeadRat:
I Told You To Allow Me Guide You But You refused... Maybe You Had Something Else At The back Of Your Mind... Sorry Though... Move On...

He's not worth taking a Guide to get

You Probably Thought I Would Take Advantage Of Our Private chat... Hahahahaha. Hope You Have Learnt Today That "everybody Can Be Wrong"... You Love Problem Was An Easy One But You Needed to Be Smart... You Are Lucky You Didnt Approach Him Physically maybe You For Faint

Why not snap a pic of ur pussssy and send it to him?

BigSarah:
He's not worth taking a Guide to get

hahahahaha... Its Okay To Talk Trash about Him... I Know That Feelin when You Cant Get The One You Love... You Conclude They Are Not Worth It, sayin That So You Can Get Him Out Of Mind... Lol... Its Okay Shit happens

So you mean after all the heavy make ups and all,you couldn't attract a real man to your life other than some guy who is irritated just at the thought of you? Girl leave the poor man alone. He doesn't dig you at all.

DeadRat:
hahahahaha... Its Okay To Talk Trash about Him... I Know That Feelin when You Cant Get The One You Love... You Conclude They Are Not Worth It, sayin That So You Can Get Him Out Of Mind... Lol... Its Okay Shit happens

Lol, he's dating someone else I don't think it'd be healthy for me to intrude and me I can't do desperate... But if I see him around in school should I divert my eyes and act like he's not existent even after all the shitty text I sent?

What do you suggest?

biacan:
Why would a guy in his right sense reject a beautiful lady like you......... who does that........ NO man tries that shit with me....... reasons why I don't love make sure a man loves you more than how you love him before giving him a listening ear....... sis don't love Nigerian guys ain't worth it

The usual crap.

dollyjoy:
So you mean after all the heavy make ups and all,you couldn't attract a real man to your life other than some guy who is irritated just at the thought of you? Girl leave the poor man alone. He doesn't dig you at all.

I don't use Makeup, it's not good for naturally beautiful women...

BigSarah:
I don't use Makeup, it's not good for naturally beautiful women...

I can hear Tiiiiiiiii, are you saying anything please??

If only you followed my advice.

Its obvious the guy is not into you and you were really rushing him, you see some men get scared when women are running after them, they find it abnormal cos they love to chase after women which makes it worth it. I told you to be his friend first but you wanted more, Had it been you were his friend, he would have been close to you, start liking you and maybe if he breaks up with his supposed gf, he will end up dating you, you need to be smart in playing this kind of game, stop being buggy and childish.


That guy might not even have a girlfriend sef, he might just tell you that for you to bugger off.

The decision you took was the best one. Now you know he's taken, if you hadn't told him, you would have been worrying over him and blamed yourself later that if you had known you would have told him because you will be thinking he wasn't taken before. Now your mind is at rest.
Kudos to you for your courage. These are the kind of girls I love.

LifeofAirforce:
Don't you have real life friends you can talk to ?

Why bother us with your unromantic life story

Yours is worst.

You do bark on every thread like an untamed dog

biacan:
Why would a guy in his right sense reject a beautiful lady like you......... who does that........ NO man tries that shit with me....... reasons why I don't love make sure a man loves you more than how you love him before giving him a listening ear....... sis don't love Nigerian guys ain't worth it

Its not about beauty my dear, most guys look beyond beauty.

She was obviously rushing him, if I decide to get a man to date me or love me, that's not the approach I will use. There are ways to go about it and it must work for me, though I don't have time for such.

Florblu:
Yours is worst.

You do bark on every thread like an untamed dog

Looool