sunshineG:
Some of the ladies claiming they can date undergraduate are the most "egotistic" ladies on this forum ( full of themselves) like they own nairaland or something

They even hardy return friendly mentions of guys they deem to be below them....

Hypocrisy at its peak

crixuss:
As far as I am concerned, there are three hallmarks of being educated.

1. The ability to express yourself articulately in spoken and written English(or the lingua franca of your country)

2. The acquisition of a skill or knowledge that is marketable and lucrative.

3. Being extensively informed about your environment and the world at large.

The above are what defines an educated person. and if I was a lady, this would be my criteria in choosing a guy, and not some piece of paper that can be easily bought or undeservedly acquired.

MaritzaNL:
These folks you are calling up and down are in a civilized society, they are in developed country where they learn worthy skills without a degree and are very fluent in English, the non degree holders here mostly can't even make a correct sentence, most of them. So I wouldn't want to be in a situation where I will keep correcting someone's grammatical errors and blunders, thereby making me feel embarrassed and ruining my image which means a lot to me. Also why I said our thinking level won't be the same is because most of these non-degree holders perceive you as acting or feeling big because you have a degree and they don't, I don't know if you are getting my point, you can't give him your opinion or advice as a husband without him saying "Is it because I didn't go to school" or reminding you of him not being a graduate, there is this inferiority complex they carry around , I'm not cut out for that shiit.

Also I never made mention of one having a degree will make him automatically smart, going to school or being in school is a guide not really what makes you smart.

lefulefu:
in naija if u get plenty pepper for akant u can marry any woman of ur choice in Nigeria even if u are a stark illiterate and u no sabi spell ur name.is it daniella okeke u want.. Go get am...if it Roman goddess or any society big lady ..she go fall for ur hand.u no dey see illiterate igbo business wey no sabi speak one word of English having beautiful educated wives at home.some even have classy mistresses all over town.though if a guy na bus conductor or truck pusher with no prospects i dont think any educated girl go look im way oo.money is what equates everything in naija.

lefulefu:
getting married to some of these illiterate traditional chiefs has many benefits for young ladies..if u are educated up to univ level they treat u more special compared to their other illiterate wives.u might have ur own flat with a car and a driver assigned.u will live in complete luxury.tell me wich lady can resist such in naija.and about the issue of bead wearing and wrapper tying ...it wont be a 24 hour tin na.its only during occasions u will have to wear beads and tie wrapper.

tosyne2much:
Pride and ego won't allow ladies admit they will date men that are not educated but when money comes in place they swallow their pride and lower their standard

Isn't Asha Buhari more educated than most likely for the ladies on this thread yet she married Bubu

Cc
Lefulefu

Medicineguy:
my brother, u sabi reason well...that is why u hadly see me in any unnecessary, back and forth argument with NL girls...it is a waste of time and energy when I know it is only on social media dey get delusional power to make demands...@crixuss even get time arguing with them....personally, I will just laugh and scroll to another article

pocohantas:


No lady can resist, yet some lady left the Ooni of Ife. I'm sure before then, some of you would have sworn no lady can leave him.
Continue to deceive yourselves.



This is what happens when you don't know your history. How old was Aisha when she married Buhari? Was she with all her education when they got married? Buhari was also a top military personnel

And where did you get the impression Aisha married him for money, better go read Aisha's family history before using her for example.

Why the unnecessary bringing in of some few rich men, the question is "can you marry a man with SSCE"? The OP didn't say rich or not! You people don't fail to disappoint sha

tosyne2much:
Pride and ego won't allow ladies admit they will date men that are not educated but when money comes in place they swallow their pride and lower their standard

Isn't Asha Buhari more educated than most likely for the ladies on this thread yet she married Bubu

Cc
Lefulefu

Medicineguy:
my brother, u sabi reason well...that is why u hadly see me in any unnecessary, back and forth argument with NL girls...it is a waste of time and energy when I know it is only on social media dey get delusional power to make demands...@crixuss even get time arguing with them....personally, I will just laugh and scroll to another article

HRHQueenPhil:


In this age, i cant do it. there are uncountable stories of people who struggled 2 train themselves through school. he didnt do it, not because of money BUT because he thought it was not necessary. Any man with that mentality is not fit to be my husband and life partner. when we get married, i would have submit to him, i cant marry such a man only for him 2 tell me my children does not need to do BSc or MSc is a waste of money.

Dasherz:


when you speak with Someone that is smart you don't bother if they're degree holders or not ... so far he's well enlightened and had something good going for him

some degree holders are far worse than a caveman that just don't think

Chigorkizz:
I Saw U As A Real Woman The Day U Came Soliciting For A Job For Ur Fiancee Here On Nairaland But U Got This Wrong.Though Its Ur View.

Peachess:
No, fucking way, I can't do that. You don't expect me to go through the stress of getting a degree, then settling with someone lesser than I am. The truth is, there's always going to be jealousy and so many annoying shit like that. I want someone that reasons better than me, that I can have a reasonable conversation with. Most educated people can't even have a reasonable conversation not to talk of a school dropout.

HRHQueenPhil:


In this age, i cant do it. there are uncountable stories of people who struggled 2 train themselves through school. he didnt do it, not because of money BUT because he thought it was not necessary. Any man with that mentality is not fit to be my husband and life partner. when we get married, i would have submit to him, i cant marry such a man only for him 2 tell me my children does not need to do BSc or MSc is a waste of money.

lefulefu:

it was the ooni of ife dat broke up with her ooo .he caught her cheating on him wit a lebanese business man as i heard

pocohantas:


No lady can resist, yet some lady left the Ooni of Ife. I'm sure before then, some of you would have sworn no lady can leave him.
Continue to deceive yourselves.



This is what happens when you don't know your history. How old was Aisha when she married Buhari? Was she with all her education when they got married? Buhari was also a top military personnel

And where did you get the impression Aisha married him for money, better go read Aisha's family history before using her for example.

Why the unnecessary bringing in of some few rich men, the question is "can you marry a man with SSCE"? The OP didn't say rich or not! You people don't fail to disappoint sha

Yab me or not, many ladies on this thread will lower their standard when money comes in place

That's the reality

MaritzaNL:
You are not making any sense, I'm sapiosexual and I can only marry intelligent person.

For your info, I don't do cram and pour, you can't do that in my course, you will fail woefully.

tosyne2much:
Yab me or not, many ladies on this thread will lower their standard when money comes in place

That's the reality

pocohantas:


I didn't yab, I corrected you. Why won't we lower it...we will even lower it and marry goat. Dey pray make your babe no meet money, she'll lower her standard and leave you...

Deceive yaselves

Don't tell me you will lower your standard and date a riff-raff at the expense of greed?

tosyne2much:
Don't tell me you will lower your standard and date a riff-raff at the expense of greed?

HRHQueenPhil:


In this age, i cant do it. there are uncountable stories of people who struggled 2 train themselves through school. he didnt do it, not because of money BUT because he thought it was not necessary. Any man with that mentality is not fit to be my husband and life partner. when we get married, i would have submit to him, i cant marry such a man only for him 2 tell me my children does not need to do BSc or MSc is a waste of money.

pocohantas:


I will na, am I not a Nigerian girl again?
I will date anybody, as long as he has money...

I know you more than you can ever imagine. You no go fit carry that kind man go house

Peachess:
No, fucking way, I can't do that. You don't expect me to go through the stress of getting a degree, then settling with someone lesser than I am. The truth is, there's always going to be jealousy and so many annoying shit like that. I want someone that reasons better than me, that I can have a reasonable conversation with. Most educated people can't even have a reasonable conversation not to talk of a school dropout.

tosyne2much:
I know you more than you can ever imagine. You no go fit carry that kind man go house

yeyerolling:
which bsc does indimi, ahmed musa or emenike have . Having a bsc doesnt make u a beta or worse person. In the uk (who colonised us) secondary school education is seen as enuf. A female doc can marry a gardner or cleaner. And no fuss wud be made of it. We really have a long way to go in nigeria. Some have bsc they cant speak or write good english. All those expats in julius berger, cappa and d alberto, and those oil workers in PH . most dont have bsc just vocational courses. Smh for nigeria o

QueenSekxy:
nope,,I don't think we can reason alike,,especially when I want to further my education.

Dnockeror333:


You are an over pompous girl! Who told you he wont allow his children to go to an higher place than he'd been?

Are we men on same intelligent level?

Do you know how he'd suffered, giving thanks to his Chi that he could still breath and hence have a living hope for tomorrow?

Do you know how he'd struggled to go but without a way? Please, come down...


Heads are not equal, niether are they on same level, nor are they predestined to go swim in same water! Come down...

HRHQueenPhil:


seriously.. OVER POMPOUS GIRL.lol.u are calling me, a girl, cant remember wen last i was called dat. i know men dat will never a lady that is not going to school or has a degree. anyway am entitled to my opinion. stop attacking me.kilode.

MaritzaNL:
You are not making any sense, I'm sapiosexual and I can only marry intelligent person.

For your info, I don't do cram and pour, you can't do that in my course, you will fail woefully.

MaritzaNL:
You are not making any sense, I'm sapiosexual and I can only marry intelligent person.

For your info, I don't do cram and pour, you can't do that in my course, you will fail woefully.