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Sweet hrt no mind that guy

Rokia2:
LOL that is a big misconception. People that know me in real life know me to be a gem.

But online people are free to believe what they want to.

Nah my wife, she get complete sense no b for MKT

FortifiedCity:
You have sense oo

I was thinking women with big bum bum don't usually have sense

maybe she never left her first bf in the first place, using the guy to kill time

alexialin:
Sighs I understand how you feel. It also affected me emotionally but av not gone bad yet. Cause I naturally have a soft but wise heart Now.

About your sister, I know how it is. She's your blood. Over look and do what u have to do for her.


The guys after me are not broke. They are self independent.

I don't even pally with broke guys

Lol

no really I do best for my sister.

It's a really sad world we live in where material things are measurement of our success. It's very sad. Society is what creates this perception and it harms us.

Even our parents worship us when we have the money. This world is just too materialistic and I hate it.

Sorry about your past. Let's be nairaland friend (don't think I want to toast you) lol

alexialin:
Nope, am not married.

I had offers , breakups cos I made huge mistakes dating the wrong men, and the last kind of man I need is a man whom I know he's marrying me because of financial gains or marrying me to eventually use for money rituals. The money rituals own where from two of past exs. It was God who saved me. I would have been dead by now.
God truly saved me.

So due to such experiences, am very very careful. I can't come and marry at the end, it's all waste.
I don't need such marriage. I rather remain single, than marry and before a year, na my enemy obituary go dey online. God forbid

It's better to get it late and be settled than getting it early and either be used as rituals or divorced later.

My brother, this life no be am o.

Human beings are wicked.. Not all o , but the wicked ones exist. That's for sure.

Ok, apologies. I thought you were married na, Since you almost ONLY contribute to married Family threads. But this ritual thing is weird. Are you sure it's not a Yahoo Yahoo boy you were dating?

Because it's them that most likely use ladies for their Ritual. Anyway, always be prayerful & I wish you luck. Cheers.

[1quote author=lefulefu post=62057268] the average nigerian man today believes that the right way to woe a woman is to use money.this is why we hear of broken relationships here and there.nothing wrong in spending on a woman o but its only when she has her heart for u that's when u spend.all this wey some guys day throway money at random babes to get their attention na complete waste.u can lost that juicy job anytime any day.guy no go gree spend one kobo buy new wrapper for ur mama wey use d money from the Akara wey she day fry for street send u to school but u will buy Venza for one slayqueen and wen u lost ur job and she dump u then u will go to joro blog and complain how all women are evil.[/quote]no money no love..gbam

jay2pee:
Guy, just hustle and make money, and she will come back to you......

Engage her too, remove the roof over her father's house, with the promise of re-roofing it.....


And disappear

Hahaha baddo u wicked oh

So what if the girl uses 20k cream per month and the broke guy can't afford it? Stick with him in the name of love and change colour?

Very very few women will stick with a broke guy. Those who stay will be secretly seeing men who give them money.

oglalasioux:
So what if the girl uses 20k cream per month and the broke guy can't afford it? Stick with him in the name of love and change colour?

Very very few women will stick with a broke guy. Those who stay will be secretly seeing men who give them money.

Most women in Nigeria are poor and from poor homes,they wanna marry a rich guy even if there is no love to escape the cycle of proverty

elantraceey:
She always had eyes for her ex, you just didn't notice or chose to ignore . Don't worry just make more money and she'll get back to you.

Apt! I once had a GF who was constantly intouch with her Ex. All efforts to make stop was rebuffed, omo I took a next available exit. People should be in relationship w their brain.

Lalas247:
When you wooed her with money and not with your head or heart ...

This is the result!

Wipe your tears .. you have to go through this to grow .. this is called learning only a BOY will start treating ladies bad over one lousy mistake .. it’s your fault

Always go for ladies who are not money grabbing or materialistic...

Please post their addresses here since I believe you know where they can be found.

cruchenutii:
Ok, apologies. I thought you were married na, Since you almost ONLY contribute to married Family threads. But this ritual thing is weird. Are you sure it's not a Yahoo Yahoo boy you were dating?

Because it's them that most likely use ladies for their Ritual. Anyway, always be prayerful & I wish you luck. Cheers.

Smiles I contribute to married family threads cos all my friends are married and have learnt Alot from them. The knowledge I have about them, will also guide me too.

Funny enough the two exs I mentioned came to me as struggling guys.
Have already gotten a bank job for one of them, thinking av helped him to land a good job, unknown to me, he had already done some rituals in my name to kill me at the end of 7days. Before the 7days, I became asmathic.

Asthma wey my mama no born me with. Have never had health issues in my life. But during that period of dating him ,asthma came.. Sighs. Anyways thank God, a Pastor saved me. I don't have asthma anymore and the Pastor told me everything he did against me. On the 3rd day, he broke up with me, without any congent reason saying his family forbids marrying from delta and his dad will disown him, if he marries a delta woman. And his dad wants him to marry Edo woman. And I was like u didn't know before u were wooing me and hanging out with me?

I just shook my head and smiled through my phone and he was spewing rubbish.

Can u imagine
Well I already knew why he broke up with me, cause he thought I would be dead on the 7th. But God pass am!



The second ex was before the 1st ex, that one came home with coffin..

I was so shocked. I was like what are u using coffin for? He said because he's traveling, and am in his house during weekends in ikorodu, he does not want thieves to harm me, so I should give him one of my blouse so he can keep in the coffin and bury it,all for protection.
I went inside brought my blouseand gave him. He took it, went to the back yard and started digging the ground and he buried the coffin

Hmmmm.


Anyways to cut story short, i thank God I came back to my senses and I had to break off our engagement, and tell both families, we are no longer getting married, cos we got engaged in a big way.

Abeg my story long


But Thank God, am better, stronger, wiser, a survivor and a victory.

God truly exist! That I know.

Lalas247:
The thing is he hasn’t learnt the vital lesson ..... plenty more heart breaks to come he just started
Don’t you see threads full ground “how to get a woman” Biko wt do all these cotton wool brained guys say “Money” ! So now the use the only tool available to them .. then they cry when the inevitable happens ....

He should get lost.... All the way lost

Why u dey para?

SonsOfLiverpool:
no really I do best for my sister.

It's a really sad world we live in where material things are measurement of our success. It's very sad. Society is what creates this perception and it harms us.

Even our parents worship us when we have the money. This world is just too materialistic and I hate it.

Sorry about your past. Let's be nairaland friend (don't think I want to toast you) lol

Very materialistic, and greedy.

Thanks dear.. Sorry about yours too.

Smiles, cmon? My mind is not even there sef. We can be friends, no wahala

Lemme have your email?

jay2pee:
Guy, just hustle and make money, and she will come back to you......

Engage her too, remove the roof over her father's house, with the promise of re-roofing it.....


And disappear

i believe u scarra

alexialin:
She's not forcing herself on the man. The man sef no go allow her rest. From the moment she says yes, their hands will start roving her body, as if they swear for them. No single patience.

No need pitying the men, they are marrying what dem eat remain.

If Na shafts remain o

All well and good.

I just pity ladies giving their bodies to men anyhow just to marry..
It's not ideal.

She's not forcing herself on the man.

The man sef no go allow her rest. From the moment she says yes, their hands will start roving her body, as if they swear for them. No single patience.

No need pitying the men, they are marrying what dem eat remain.

So Funny

oglalasioux:
Please post their addresses here since I believe you know where they can be found.

Lol haba u want me to do all the hard work

SonsOfLiverpool:
how are you sure he wooed her with money? Or are you trying to say money is not important in a relationship? How many girls out there would stay with a guy who has nothing when the next guy has more? Please let be realistic.

Plenty girls like that are out there ... who work so don’t need nothing from the guy that to support and help him achieve his ...
Are you saying this doesn’t exist in Nigeria ?

Lalas247:
Plenty girls like that are out there ... who work so don’t need nothing from the guy that to support and help him achieve his ...
Are you saying this doesn’t exist in Nigeria ?

You're right. They are scarce to find. May the sun shine on me to find such. The searching process is stressing

KreativGenius:
You're right. They are scarce to find. May the sun shine on me to find such. The searching process is stressing

And give you the wisdom to seperate the hungry from the fed Amen o
It’s not easy .. even my brothers now face the same fate ... small small girls wey no fit cook rice flocking him ... maka why hope I won’t be the mean sister in law sha lol
Hope ur weekend going well ...

Lalas247:
And give you the wisdom to seperate the hungry from the fed Amen o
It’s not easy .. even my brothers now face the same fate ... small small girls wey no fit cook rice flocking him ... maka why hope I won’t be the mean sister in law sha lol
Hope ur weekend going well ...

Men, this has been bothering my mind since yesterday jare. This same issue. I feel like throwing the search away, its frustrating. It's worse finding it and the girl doesn't reciprocate, it's hell finding her and falling out of luck, it's annoying being single too long too. Too much wahala

KreativGenius:
Men, this has been bothering my mind since yesterday jare. This same issue. I feel like throwing the search away, its frustrating. It's worse finding it and the girl doesn't reciprocate, it's hell finding her and falling out of luck, it's annoying being single too long too. Too much wahala

I feel ur pain dear ... just hang in there ,.. chics just like shaKara you have to play your cards right ..

Lalas247:
I feel ur pain dear ... just hang in there ,.. chics just like shaKara you have to play your cards right ..

I've given up completely.

I just gave up last week, resigning to business.

Not that there aren't chicks, but too many mediocres, i can't explain it. It's frustrating to find it, lose it, or it have it at all, or not have the whole thing reciprocated. It's tiring.

Rokia2:
LOL that is a big misconception. People that know me in real life know me to be a gem.

But online people are free to believe what they want to.

Come see, when was the last time someone helped you eat that thing?
You must have a dude trying get his tongue up in there everynight. Damn

holuwajobar:
Don't need to thank me

Thank you

Rokia2:
a bullet dodged If you ask me. He needs to be thankful to God he didn't even marry her in the first place.

Nice one BUT if table turns, will you still maintain this position? will you not join others to say men are wicked? just thinking though..

And And ex collect am back?

Lalas247:
Plenty girls like that are out there ... who work so don’t need nothing from the guy that to support and help him achieve his ...
Are you saying this doesn’t exist in Nigeria ?

Plenty? out where? Are you talking about this same Nigeria I have lived all my life? Maybe there are a few but definitely they are in the minority so I won't be wrong to say there are no such girls. Really Nigerians in general are very materialistic and it cuts across everybody and yes it's worse with the ladies.

I even have female colleagues who earn same as I do but still feel they must get someone better like what's the point? Always the money money money even when they have theirs they want someone who has more because of greed.

SonsOfLiverpool:
Plenty? out where? Are you talking about this same Nigeria I have lived all my life? Maybe there are a few but definitely they are in the minority so I won't be wrong to say there are no such girls. Really Nigerians in general are very materialistic and it cuts across everybody and yes it's worse with the ladies.

I even have female colleagues who earn same as I do but still feel they must get someone better like what's the point? Always the money money money even when they have theirs they want someone who has more because of greed.

Haba trust me there are good girls out there but maybe you looking in the wrong places ...
But then you can’t blame them ... look at the economy our country doesn’t make it easy for these girls ... also they have that mentality that Men are Providers which was the norm for so many years ...

Lalas247:
Haba trust me there are good girls out there but maybe you looking in the wrong places ...
But then you can’t blame them ... look at the economy our country doesn’t make it easy for these girls ... also they have that mentality that Men are Providers which was the norm for so many years ...

Are you saying if i marry you, you will do the providing ?

alexialin:
Anyways to cut story short, i thank God I came back to my senses and I had to break off our engagement, and tell both families, we are no longer getting married, cos we got engaged in a big way.

Abeg my story long

But Thank God, am better, stronger, wiser, a survivor and a victory.

God truly exist! That I know.

Whew !!! you story is really long lol. One question i have is, where do you meet these kinds of Guys though? They seem like they are purely evil.

Please, Biko, look for God fearing men. Either a strong christian or muslim. I don't know what your religion is.

Now, one thing is for a guy to occasionally OR constantly cheat. Another is for the guy to be completely evil & want to kill you.

The former is what ladies usually cry about, but your case is very unique. Please be prayerful.