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Innobee99:
Hi Nairalander
I have read alot of relationship issues on this platform and I know many have gotten their solution from here. Am presently in a great confusion about a life time decision.
I met this lady while I was still serving, i.e 2015. I mean during my NYSC days. I love and cherish her so much and she knows. Immediately after my service, I moved to Abuja to find a greener pasture, after being through hell, I finally got a place with an Estate developer. Money wasn't my problem and I do send my babe money as a nice guy. Her birthday came, I did the necessary things a gentleman will do to please his woman.
Fast forward, I lost my job cuz the company was sealed up by EFCC. I started managing my life with the little I saved. My babe started displaying some nasty attitudes like she no longer call unless I call. She now compares me with how other guys are taking good care of their babes. Though I recently got a job with National Open University of Nigeria, and my pay is not too bad. I used my first salary to rent a self contain apartment so I dnt bother my colleague I was initially staying with which my babe knew that was what I used the money for. I haven't gotten salary for last month and I got a text from her telling me how she is tired of my broke as, dryness, poverty, how I have not added any value to her life and many provocative languages beyond my comprehension. Forgetting how I once took good care of her. This lady will only flash me and if I dnt call back due to the fact that I dnt have airtime, all manner of insults will rain on me that day.
Please, my people, is she someone that can really stand by you when things are rough? I love her so much but I dnt want to ever make a life time mistake. She threatens me of going out with other guys if I dnt get her a phone before December.
Should I quit and move on or what do you guys suggest I do as this point.
cc: Lalasticlala

emerged01:
Dem no dey tell blind man say rain don start,him go feel am.

marisdgreat:
Ha that s wen u even needed her d most, to support n encourage. It s better this happened in dating than in marriage. Atleast u hav known her kind of person
When u will know a true lov is wen d person stands by u after u hav lost somethings. If it s marriage, she would hav divorced u, Not by ignoring n leaving u to ur fate. A helper is someone that stands by u both in good n in bad times, come rain or sunshine. It s well, God will give u a better job n a lady that will understand u very well
When she will sees u next time after u hav gotten back to ur feet, she will b gnashing her teeth n looking for a way to come back but by then u wil b in wealth n wit ur true n lovly partner Though in this life u will never know a person till u get close to that person.
It s better u move on with your life cos she never loved u for whom u are but for what u have. A lady like her is not good for marriage only good for a sex mate. A broken relationship is better than a failed marriage.
May God help u, blesses u n give u a good&responsible woman

Innobee99:
God will give you reasons to smile.

Heloct:
Is she someone that can stand by you when things are rough?

I'm amazed you know the answer to the above but chose to be daft.

marisdgreat:
Amen n u too

Innobee99:
But ur neighbour dey knack ur babe every weekend oooo, are u aware?

Innobee99:
Hi Nairalander
I have read alot of relationship issues on this platform and I know many have gotten their solution from here. Am presently in a great confusion about a life time decision.
I met this lady while I was still serving, i.e 2015. I mean during my NYSC days. I love and cherish her so much and she knows. Immediately after my service, I moved to Abuja to find a greener pasture, after being through hell, I finally got a place with an Estate developer. Money wasn't my problem and I do send my babe money as a nice guy. Her birthday came, I did the necessary things a gentleman will do to please his woman.
Fast forward, I lost my job cuz the company was sealed up by EFCC. I started managing my life with the little I saved. My babe started displaying some nasty attitudes like she no longer call unless I call. She now compares me with how other guys are taking good care of their babes. Though I recently got a job with National Open University of Nigeria, and my pay is not too bad. I used my first salary to rent a self contain apartment so I dnt bother my colleague I was initially staying with which my babe knew that was what I used the money for. I haven't gotten salary for last month and I got a text from her telling me how she is tired of my broke as, dryness, poverty, how I have not added any value to her life and many provocative languages beyond my comprehension. Forgetting how I once took good care of her. This lady will only flash me and if I dnt call back due to the fact that I dnt have airtime, all manner of insults will rain on me that day.
Please, my people, is she someone that can really stand by you when things are rough? I love her so much but I dnt want to ever make a life time mistake. She threatens me of going out with other guys if I dnt get her a phone before December.
Should I quit and move on or what do you guys suggest I do as this point.
cc: Lalasticlala

chibuike65:
hope its not a crime if i say hello

chibuike65:
hope its not a crime if i say hello

marisdgreat:
no it s not

chibuike65:
hmm hello from the other side

marisdgreat:
hi how r u

marisdgreat:
hi how r u

chibuike65:
am good and you

chibuike65:
what about somewhere cool just you and me, hope am nt asking too much somewhere prvt

marisdgreat:
ok send me a pm then we share watsap num there