Most Ladies 'become Foolish' When You Tell Them You Are Interested. Why? - Romance (2)

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Re: Most Ladies 'become Foolish' When You Tell Them You Are Interested. Why? by zinizta: 9:08am On Nov 13, 2017

Medicineguy:
love this comment...Dating Drills by Hardon should be made compulsory and must be read by every male before u register an account in nairaland..so many beta males complaning and confused..that is why ugly, looking females with nothing to write home about is getting more confident by the day because of this crybabies...they are the type that will thank a woman for adding them on facebook

LMAO!!!

It Is Crazy! Love Is Blind.

Re: Most Ladies 'become Foolish' When You Tell Them You Are Interested. Why? by femi4: 10:49am On Nov 13, 2017

pocohantas:
Some of you guys are just too stupid to know when you're not wanted. Later you blame it on being a good guy. Isn't it good guys we see their prewedding pictures all over frontpage?

Know when you're wanted.
If you are not wanted, bounce with your self esteem intact.
Anything else would result in you being manipulated.

A girl knows a guy she can fuk or date within a short time, any else is just formalities. Your so called 'bad guys' know this, not like they have any special trick they use. Damn!!! Men whining so much these days.

Abeg commot that ojuju calabar for your dp

Re: Most Ladies 'become Foolish' When You Tell Them You Are Interested. Why? by ElDaIllest(m): 11:26am On Nov 13, 2017

wickyyolo:
Bros, naija women are programmed like that. After dating a white girl I find it hard to date a Nigerian girl. Due to their low intellect.

My advice is this, if a girl you tried to ask out doesn't reply your missed call forget about her and move on. Persistent isn't good in matters of the heart.

Preach brother preach!!! grin

Re: Most Ladies 'become Foolish' When You Tell Them You Are Interested. Why? by ElDaIllest(m): 11:30am On Nov 13, 2017

pocohantas:
Some of you guys are just too stupid to know when you're not wanted. Later you blame it on being a good guy. Isn't it good guys we see their prewedding pictures all over frontpage?

Know when you're wanted.
If you are not wanted, bounce with your self esteem intact.
Anything else would result in you being manipulated.

A girl knows a guy she can fuk or date within a short time, any else is just formalities. Your so called 'bad guys' know this, not like they have any special trick they use. Damn!!! Men whining so much these days.

True...but even if a girl wants to date you in this part of the world,she'll make you work your a$$ off for it...no bash me o,I'm in the hospital right now grin

Re: Most Ladies 'become Foolish' When You Tell Them You Are Interested. Why? by Pheals(f): 11:53am On Nov 13, 2017

wHyyyyyyyyyY:
c ur mouth. Is dat crayon u paint in ur lips?

at least u notice something ? u like my mouth? come on u are a fan

Re: Most Ladies 'become Foolish' When You Tell Them You Are Interested. Why? by handsomebanana(m): 12:26pm On Nov 13, 2017

zinizta:
Judging By The Comments Here Some Ladies Have Problems Understanding Comprehension.

For Emphasis I Would Summarize What The OP Stated In A Nutshell.

He Gets Turn Down By A Lady Moves On To Another But The Former Starts Acting Jealous And Wants Him Now That He Has Moved On.

So What Is The Connection With "Men nagging" Or Not Being Able To Deal With Rejection?

Oh! I Get It The Going-Ons In Your Private Lives Is Creating A Barrier Of Interference To Your Understanding.

Bro d stupidity here is baffling. Your post dey gimme hope.

Reading and comprehending what u read na two diff tins

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Re: Most Ladies 'become Foolish' When You Tell Them You Are Interested. Why? by tosyne2much(m): 12:57pm On Nov 13, 2017

Pheals:
Not all gals bro... Later u will say girls are cheaps arrgh it's well o..
U better drop girls matter now and sleep...

So you sef dey this thread come lash OP cheesy

.. How have you been JAWE?

Re: Most Ladies 'become Foolish' When You Tell Them You Are Interested. Why? by Pheals(f): 1:06pm On Nov 13, 2017

tosyne2much:
So you sef dey this thread come lash OP .. How have you been JAWE?

lolz big bro am cool and u..?

doing my things jejely this days ni o

Re: Most Ladies 'become Foolish' When You Tell Them You Are Interested. Why? by tosyne2much(m): 1:09pm On Nov 13, 2017

Pheals:
lolz big bro am cool and u..?

doing my things jejely this days ni o

I can see you're doing your things jejely. See how your cheeks don shoot out for your DP wink

Re: Most Ladies 'become Foolish' When You Tell Them You Are Interested. Why? by Pheals(f): 1:17pm On Nov 13, 2017

tosyne2much:
I can see you're doing your things jejely. See how your cheeks don shoot out for your DP

...unh make I change my photo ��

Re: Most Ladies 'become Foolish' When You Tell Them You Are Interested. Why? by Tman104(m): 1:31pm On Nov 13, 2017

Bibi294:
The op is confused, some guys can choke someone all in the name of love.... If a girl doesn't love you, just accept and leave! Naija girls this, naija girls that! Wetin we do una... If a girl rejects u, another one I'll accept... One man's food, another man's poison

Re: Most Ladies 'become Foolish' When You Tell Them You Are Interested. Why? by Nobody: 1:40pm On Nov 13, 2017

when iLegendd tell you to come and buy his books you people will not buy but will come here to whine and create low self-esteem threads.

ladies are too easy but some of y'all make them appear complicated

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Re: Most Ladies 'become Foolish' When You Tell Them You Are Interested. Why? by Mofe72: 2:34pm On Nov 13, 2017

Draei:
Alright and at age 40, you'd start laying blames on nature for being single huh?

Or you'd start becoming punctual at prayer grounds for being divorced over & over again after saying YES to different sets of wrong men.? mtcheeew!

LOOOL, Who hurt you nigga?
Is it your single?
See vex.

Re: Most Ladies 'become Foolish' When You Tell Them You Are Interested. Why? by Mofe72: 2:39pm On Nov 13, 2017

wickyyolo:
Bros, my mother and sisters are programmed like that. After dating a white girl I find it hard to date my community girls. Due to their low intellect.

My advice is this, if a girl you tried to ask out doesn't reply your missed call forget about her and move on. Persistent isn't good in matters of the heart.

Much better

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Re: Most Ladies 'become Foolish' When You Tell Them You Are Interested. Why? by Mofe72: 2:42pm On Nov 13, 2017

Medicineguy:
love this comment...Dating Drills by Hardon should be made compulsory and must be read by every male before u register an account in nairaland..so many beta males complaning and confused..that is why ugly, looking females with nothing to write home about is getting more confident by the day because of this crybabies...they are the type that will thank a woman for adding them on facebook

Thank you!
It's a wide world

Re: Most Ladies 'become Foolish' When You Tell Them You Are Interested. Why? by 2buffagain(m): 2:53pm On Nov 13, 2017*

zinizta:
Judging By The Comments Here Some Ladies Have Problems Understanding Comprehension.

For Emphasis I Would Summarize What The OP Stated In A Nutshell.

He Gets Turn Down By A Lady Moves On To Another But The Former Starts Acting Jealous And Wants Him Now That He Has Moved On.

So What Is The Connection With "Men nagging" Or Not Being Able To Deal With Rejection?

Oh! I Get It The Going-Ons In Your Private Lives Is Creating A Barrier Of Interference To Your Understanding.

Reading & Comprehension is a nairaland problem in general.
This site seems to attract only those who failed at school or something.
Because of all the people who usually respond to opening posts, only about 10% of them actually read that shiit past the subject line.
We got some real daft fuckers in here thats fo sho. grin

As to the OPs post, thats definitely an african woman thing.
They pride themselves in knowing that there are "guys I am saying no to" (GIASNT).

When their friends get together to talk about their GIASNTs, she too needs to be able to put down the names of her own GIASNTs otherwise she loses face. It's like military badges, the more you have the better cheesy

. That's how things work in the female cartel grin

If she loses one of her GIASNTs to another lady, she might only act jealous because it is a blow to her ego...not that she cares for it (thats right, I said IT, that's all you are to her if you are a persistent GIASNT). She has one less GIASNT to show off (defame) to her friends.

The key thing as a guy is to know when a girl is trying to turn you into a GIASNT and remove her from the equation before she even succeeds.

Now I know some might think "that's how this guy got that girl, blah blah blah" but I'm gonna level with you.
Unlike lying aunties and previous/current GIASNT holders would have you believe, Very rarely does a GIASNT ever actually turn into her man.

That only happens when either the actual guy she has been pursuing doesn't send her (maybe even used and chopped her finish) or she begins to notice a rapid decline in the number of GIASNTs at her disposal (getting ugly/old/fat/wuteva) and figures she better respect herself and grab on to one of these GIASNTs seeing as she is unable to find MEN. If she was successful in bitching out this GIASNT, the GIASNT should be honored that she finally chose it...I mean him grin

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Re: Most Ladies 'become Foolish' When You Tell Them You Are Interested. Why? by Garshyzee(m): 3:06pm On Nov 13, 2017

I was once chyking one babe.. She was doing anyhow, i tried to win her heart, bt she no gree... Her friend wa just giving me green light anyhow, then i made my move.. She accepted with alacrity and we had something good going on..
This babe i was initially chyking come da come closer as in those seductive body languages.. I was like come, no be u da form im nt ready fr a relationship then? undecided

So u'r ready now.. Her reply was dat.
She has a right to form na...i just banished her frm my mind then..
What im trying to say is dat.. Most nigerian ladies are goddamn CONFUSED...

Re: Most Ladies 'become Foolish' When You Tell Them You Are Interested. Why? by pocohantas(f): 3:49pm On Nov 13, 2017

ElDaIllest:
True...but even if a girl wants to date you in this part of the world,she'll make you work your a$$ off for it...no bash me o,I'm in the hospital right now

Of course we know girls from other part of the world are always nice to the average Naija guy. They don't play hard to get for you all, they wanna fuk you all, they have high intellect, they are everything good.

What we don't know is why you guys only come back with grannies from other part of the world... undecided

femi4:
Abeg commot that ojuju calabar for your dp

Why?

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Re: Most Ladies 'become Foolish' When You Tell Them You Are Interested. Why? by zinizta: 4:00pm On Nov 13, 2017

^ *NODS HEAD*

Re: Most Ladies 'become Foolish' When You Tell Them You Are Interested. Why? by Nobody: 4:07pm On Nov 13, 2017

A lot of guys must have had experience in this matter.

See how all of them replying with some much seriousness. LOL grin

Re: Most Ladies 'become Foolish' When You Tell Them You Are Interested. Why? by GOFRONT(m): 4:57pm On Nov 13, 2017*

Even with my father's Honda bullet and my personal swag that time (2007), Becky turned me down wen i explained my feelings to her. T feels so bad then.

Now she has gone to dig me out on facebook dropp Msg in my inbox askin abt my marital status. Told her am stil single. I dnt want to Retoast her again coz her present Fatness dey fear me

Re: Most Ladies 'become Foolish' When You Tell Them You Are Interested. Why? by Nobody: 5:23pm On Nov 13, 2017

GOFRONT:
Even with my father's Honda bullet and my personal swag that time (2007), Becky turned me down wen i explained my feelings to her. T feels so bad then.

Now she has gone to dig me out on facebook dropp Msg in my inbox askin abt my marital status. Told her am stil single. I dnt want to Retoast her again coz her present Fatness dey fear me

Lol

Fatness is something that can be changed though.

Re: Most Ladies 'become Foolish' When You Tell Them You Are Interested. Why? by GOFRONT(m): 6:41pm On Nov 13, 2017

Better to embrace slimmin tea

Re: Most Ladies 'become Foolish' When You Tell Them You Are Interested. Why? by ElDaIllest(m): 7:38pm On Nov 13, 2017

pocohantas:
Of course we know girls from other part of the world are always nice to the average Naija guy. They don't play hard to get for you all, they wanna fuk you all, they have high intellect, they are everything good.

What we don't know is why you guys only come back with grannies from other part of the world...

Why?

You need to see my German chick,she'll make you rethink your words. grin

. You're representing the female folks on here very well, have you considered applying for moderation?

Re: Most Ladies 'become Foolish' When You Tell Them You Are Interested. Why? by ajog1: 12:51pm On Nov 14, 2017

ElDaIllest:
You need to see my German chick,she'll make you rethink your words. . You're representing the female folks on here very well, have you considered applying for moderation?

With all due respect to all the the ledies in this clime, it has become more of a way of life for them in response to the mindset of ancient male folks. In a nutshell, the society has molded them.

Re: Most Ladies 'become Foolish' When You Tell Them You Are Interested. Why? by hotwax: 4:11pm On Nov 14, 2017

Same happened to me. The girl come dey tell me later that I wasnt serious.

After inviting her over, chatting on whatsap...Always insulting and snubbing me.

I kuku went after her friend who accepted me with open arms.

https://www.nairaland.com/2100870/taking-advantage-helpless-girl

Re: Most Ladies 'become Foolish' When You Tell Them You Are Interested. Why? by ElDaIllest(m): 4:53pm On Nov 14, 2017

ajog1:
With all due respect to all the the ledies in this clime, it has become more of a way of life for them in response to the mindset of ancient male folks. In a nutshell, the society has molded them.

I can not agree any better,the female folks are part of our reflection as male folks.Sweden has one of the most feminist populations,thier women do not know what is "hard to get",as soon as a girl becomes sexually active,she is taught by her parents and society how to live a good sexual and fulfilling lifestyle without fear of slut shaming.I wonder why I was born here in the first place.

Re: Most Ladies 'become Foolish' When You Tell Them You Are Interested. Why? by wHyyyyyyyyyY: 1:05am On Nov 15, 2017

Pheals:
at least u notice something ? u like my mouth? come on u are a fan

god forbid

Re: Most Ladies 'become Foolish' When You Tell Them You Are Interested. Why? by Nobody: 1:54am On Nov 15, 2017

wHyyyyyyyyyY:
c ur mouth. Is dat crayon u paint in ur lips?

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Re: Most Ladies 'become Foolish' When You Tell Them You Are Interested. Why? by Nobody: 2:03am On Nov 15, 2017

GOFRONT:
Even with my father's Honda bullet and my personal swag that time (2007), Becky turned me down wen i explained my feelings to her. T feels so bad then.

Now she has gone to dig me out on facebook dropp Msg in my inbox askin abt my marital status. Told her am stil single. I dnt want to Retoast her again coz her present Fatness dey fear me

she go don drop(born)dats why she add.

Re: Most Ladies 'become Foolish' When You Tell Them You Are Interested. Why? by Pheals(f): 8:20am On Nov 15, 2017

wHyyyyyyyyyY:
god forbid

better

Re: Most Ladies 'become Foolish' When You Tell Them You Are Interested. Why? by GOFRONT(m): 4:12pm On Nov 15, 2017

Maybe.......

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