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Re: My Flatmate Is Asking My Girlfriend Out by Crossguy: 11:25am On Nov 15, 2017 |
Nice one bro ottohan: |
Re: My Flatmate Is Asking My Girlfriend Out by Belafonte(m): 11:30am On Nov 15, 2017 |
I don't blame girls for their numerous foibles, it's guys who have given them the leeway to be so disrespectful. If this guy dumps her now she will start chanting he wasted x number if years of my life. But, babe, you were showing ho tendencies and he did the logical thing and dumped your trifling ass. Ladies, quit playing yourselves. 3 Likes |
Re: My Flatmate Is Asking My Girlfriend Out by dollytino4real(f): 11:30am On Nov 15, 2017 |
pls ignore them as if u dont know wat is happening btw them, exchange her for a wrist watch. |
Re: My Flatmate Is Asking My Girlfriend Out by Marshalxv(m): 11:33am On Nov 15, 2017 |
danny34: This works when ur girl is loyal and probably from a rich home. Try am with poor babe,ur name go be sorry . 3 Likes |
Re: My Flatmate Is Asking My Girlfriend Out by Nobody: 11:35am On Nov 15, 2017 |
YoungDaNaval:that guys hit on married women? Does it sound funny? |
Re: My Flatmate Is Asking My Girlfriend Out by pocohantas(f): 11:37am On Nov 15, 2017 |
What thrash am I reading here? You mean before then she didn't have your flatmate's number and people are asking why she gave the number? The only thing suspicious is him asking for it in your absence. If I am dating a guy and we're pretty serious, I will have the number of every damn person close to him. Flatmate would be the first. You people should sort yourselves out. |
Re: My Flatmate Is Asking My Girlfriend Out by brunobaba(m): 11:38am On Nov 15, 2017 |
DIKEnaWAR:I was almost liking your comment until you became tribalistic,receive a lot of sense. |
Re: My Flatmate Is Asking My Girlfriend Out by zinizta: 11:40am On Nov 15, 2017 |
chill the fvck out... don't you ask other people's gf out?... tackle it like a man - discuss it . don't start getting violent over every bvllsh!t that comes your way it's painful but deal with it like a man |
Re: My Flatmate Is Asking My Girlfriend Out by YoungDaNaval(m): 11:41am On Nov 15, 2017 |
pahen1991:No mind the woman wrapper |
Re: My Flatmate Is Asking My Girlfriend Out by YoungDaNaval(m): 11:41am On Nov 15, 2017 |
frenzyduchess:Married women with ring on their finger? |
Re: My Flatmate Is Asking My Girlfriend Out by 2sexycom(m): 11:46am On Nov 15, 2017 |
ottohan:boss... boss, ur brain is there. |
Re: My Flatmate Is Asking My Girlfriend Out by Nobody: 11:51am On Nov 15, 2017 |
fellowman: Really? Wait, what kind of friendship do u think you have with your so-called paddy? Your long time friend do not value what you guys have. He does not even respect you , how much more respect your woman. For him to be wooing your babe behind your back. Do you honestly think u have a good friend in him? That friend can even fucvk his wife, if the guy is not careful. As for me, he's not a friend. He's a useless he goat. I rather protect my girl if I were a man from such friend. Than call it off with my girl and stick with a friend who do not value true friendship. Is that one a friend? Abeg! You guys will just miss out on a wife material and stick with a betrayal, saying he's my paddy way back. If he's your paddy way back, why is he chyking your babe? |
Re: My Flatmate Is Asking My Girlfriend Out by addictiv(m): 11:52am On Nov 15, 2017 |
@ dharamanil , you have to understand whats going on, ur girl showed you the chats as evidence for something she could have shut down herself.its possible she doesnt know what she is doing but still the question now is WHAT WOULD YOU DO? if you keep quiet you will only give her excuse to screw him. cos at this point ur flatmate is looking like the Alpha and boss who can have anything he wants while you are looking like his subordinate who cannot defend his territory. You have to take charge and its not by fighting him or beating him up. You have to show him you are the bigger man but that you will not tolerate any advances on ur girl and you have to do it in front of your woman so that she too gets the message. Gather them together at home without letting her know what you want to do, openly tell him that your girl has informed you that he is asking her out and you have read all their chats. he will be shocked and most likely try to deny or get defensive, let him embarrass himself a little (she needs to see him do this), cut him short and then calmly tell him that you are disappointed that he can do this to you after you have housed him and regarded him as a friend and family however the fact that you are sharing a flat doesn't mean you will tolerate any advances by him on your woman. Then ask him to apologise to her and then to you. maintain a very relaxed and calm but serious look even if he tries to get antagonistic, dont shout. watch your girls reaction while all this is happening. you will take away any attraction she has for him and restore your position as the alpha and the man in the house. however keep a very close eye on your woman after this. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Flatmate Is Asking My Girlfriend Out by Nobody: 11:52am On Nov 15, 2017 |
ConcernedNL: He says Flatmate, not Neighbor, there is a diff. But If so, Just confront him. Its going to cause War but No p. Even if the GF ends up with the US guy. He must move out of that house. I rather DIE than seeing the Idiot sleep with my babe while I'm alive. This won't end well obviously. |
Re: My Flatmate Is Asking My Girlfriend Out by Nobody: 11:54am On Nov 15, 2017 |
dollytino4real: A wrist watch? Perhaps a Richard Millie you mean? |
Re: My Flatmate Is Asking My Girlfriend Out by sukkot: 11:54am On Nov 15, 2017 |
nigga your room-mate is a snake. dunno bout you but i cant co-exist with a snake. i just cant. either move out or kick him out and disassociate from him forever. problem solved 1 Like |
Re: My Flatmate Is Asking My Girlfriend Out by Nobody: 11:58am On Nov 15, 2017 |
Hehehe, you are not in this country? YoungDaNaval: |
Re: My Flatmate Is Asking My Girlfriend Out by madone: 12:00pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
No need to disgrace anybody.just call a meeting with the guy tell him to stop whatever he is up to. No fight him or drive him out. Tell ur girl too to stop the chat with him . Then sit back and watch. My guy I the chat betwn them still continue after the meeting kick both of them out of your life. |
Re: My Flatmate Is Asking My Girlfriend Out by Nobody: 12:00pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
Best advice ever ,you sound like a psychologist addictiv: |
Re: My Flatmate Is Asking My Girlfriend Out by dollytino4real(f): 12:01pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
cruchenutii:cheap one without name |
Re: My Flatmate Is Asking My Girlfriend Out by pocohantas(f): 12:02pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
addictiv: You are a man... Your post turned me on |
Re: My Flatmate Is Asking My Girlfriend Out by Timmie331(m): 12:02pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
Just set his flat ablaze jor |
Re: My Flatmate Is Asking My Girlfriend Out by lereinter(m): 12:05pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
jacyhelen: are u one of the few |
Re: My Flatmate Is Asking My Girlfriend Out by YoungDaNaval(m): 12:07pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
frenzyduchess:Hmmm what is left to be seen on Earth then? it is finished |
Re: My Flatmate Is Asking My Girlfriend Out by Nobody: 12:08pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
YoungDaNaval:welcome to earth bro |
Re: My Flatmate Is Asking My Girlfriend Out by YoungDaNaval(m): 12:10pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
alexialin:My dear friend |
Re: My Flatmate Is Asking My Girlfriend Out by Nobody: 12:15pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
addictiv: One thing you should note, Make sure you have guys over, Incase fight starts. This will not end well. It may even end of Picking up bottles and stabbing each other. You have to prepare for the worst in these Scenario. 1 Like |
Re: My Flatmate Is Asking My Girlfriend Out by Mrnairalandd: 12:17pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
Daeylar: Bleep off Douchebag Look at this slowpoke blaming us for her miserable life Get the fuckkk outta here you freaking hoe The lady is at fault here. Period! Men ll always approach you either you are in relationships/marriage or not cos they don’t know your relationship status, it’s your natural duty to tell them off if you don’t have anything to do with them. The friend is next on the list to blame but the lady started it all. It’s normal and natural to be approached as a lady but you should know how to set your boundary. 1 Like |
Re: My Flatmate Is Asking My Girlfriend Out by kilokeys(m): 12:20pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
babe be looking for an excuse to dump ya sorry arse.. u get to fight the guy chase him out.. he gets the yansh her somehwere else.. na americana.., weda deported or imported |
Re: My Flatmate Is Asking My Girlfriend Out by Nobody: 12:24pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
Re: My Flatmate Is Asking My Girlfriend Out by sisisioge: 12:27pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
...but she gave him her number Madam is porting small small... 1 Like |
Re: My Flatmate Is Asking My Girlfriend Out by clemzo101(m): 12:27pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
U better be careful, dont get served in the process. The dude came from America, u know dos people head no dey ground, if u do anyhow him fit shoot u ooo. After all this mouth let it not be that its u dat will be on the floor in pool of blood. God forbid. Why not talk to him nicely and let him know what hes doing is not good. Fight wont solve anything, tomoro u babe fit still leave u for another man. Br careful |
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