AlexCk:
Lol,
Not necessarily though,

Some people (boy or girl), don't really know how to chat, infact, got a friend (a gurl), that's a terrible chatter, but when we are together or on the phone, jesus!!!, she talks tooooo much, . Lol,
I onced asked her, why she couldn't chat just like how she talks, she wss like, 'too much typing stressful biko, she prefers Voice notes, or calls'. Lol.

So, all na preference

Blackhawk01:


Hehehehe

Call me tigress

Yab? Depends man, if the situation calls for it, I drop it and bounce.

Loyalblak007:
Nigerian guys can't hold meaningful conversations, all they want to talk about is romance and s*x

pocohantas:
I was hoping to see the OP take up the challenge of starting and keeping a conversation. He didn't...

Na them complain pass.

Loyalblak007:
Nigerian guys can't hold meaningful conversations, all they want to talk about is romance and s*x

bobolizim:
what the op said may not necessarily be absolute. I've a friend that has the same issue with Nigerian girls. I've had conversations with white girls and I Can tell you that it's easier to make friends with them... They're mostly open and good at expressing their thoughts...
I am verbose and I hate boring chats like plague, I even had to tell a lady in the past that she should just start from telling me anything that comes to her min and I'll listen,cause I let her discover that she' are so boring.

pocohantas:


That's the same thing Nigerian ladies say.
So, I wonder who the problem is...

Loyalblak007:
Nigerian guys can't hold meaningful conversations, all they want to talk about is romance and s*x

MISSCONGENIALITY:
you have said it all. They tell you hello and the next thing is, hope you are good in bed, or when last did you have sex. They even go as far as telling you they would like to give you a head. Very stupid set of people whose brains have been washed out and filled with sex thoughts.

There are still some decent ones among them. I have so many good male friends who have good hearts and can add meaning to ones life. Yes, I met some of them here on nairaland.
But from the way op talked about girls, he's one of those guys that have nothing to offer except sex.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
you have said it all. They tell you hello and the next thing is, hope you are good in bed, or when last did you have sex. They even go as far as telling you they would like to give you a head. Very stupid set of people whose brains have been washed out and filled with sex thoughts.

There are still some decent ones among them. I have so many good male friends who have good hearts and can add meaning to ones life. Yes, I met some of them here on nairaland.
But from the way op talked about girls, he's one of those guys that have nothing to offer except sex.

Rolex67:
But there is something guys don't understand, its when a girl does not like you that she will reply you in such a monosyllabic manner.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
you have said it all. They tell you hello and the next thing is, hope you are good in bed, or when last did you have sex. They even go as far as telling you they would like to give you a head. Very stupid set of people whose brains have been washed out and filled with sex thoughts.

There are still some decent ones among them. I have so many good male friends who have good hearts and can add meaning to ones life. Yes, I met some of them here on nairaland.
But from the way op talked about girls, he's one of those guys that have nothing to offer except sex.

Spasmic:


So your idea of how to begin a meaningful conversation is to ask someone "can I meet you?"

MISSCONGENIALITY:
you have said it all. They tell you hello and the next thing is, hope you are good in bed, or when last did you have sex. They even go as far as telling you they would like to give you a head. Very stupid set of people whose brains have been washed out and filled with sex thoughts.

There are still some decent ones among them. I have so many good male friends who have good hearts and can add meaning to ones life. Yes, I met some of them here on nairaland.
But from the way op talked about girls, he's one of those guys that have nothing to offer except sex.

nello111:
you will still friendzone the so called good ones last last you will still friendzone the so called good ones last last

RomeoMarvis:

Now, this is the comment l was hoping to see. you just dropped what's on my mind here. it's good to know most of you girls still know there're good guys (l follow o!) around. don't mind the bad ones spoilin our names.

GoldNiagara:


It is because you exude sexuality, dress like a tramp and act like one. Guys get the overt signals and when they reciprocate you are pissed not because that is not what you want, but because they did not ask nicely with wetting the ground with gifts. Girls and hypocrisy.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
There are good guys out there, many but the most girls have learned it the hard way that guys see them as sex objects.
U sure say you follow for the good ones?

Loyalblak007:
Nigerian guys can't hold meaningful conversations, all they want to talk about is romance and s*x

MISSCONGENIALITY:
There are good guys out there, many but the most girls have learned it the hard way that guys see them as sex objects.
U sure say you follow for the good ones?

RomeoMarvis:

of course na! my stepmom didn't raise a bad boy. but many talks nor dey full basket sha.
since there're still good guys around, same should be said for the ladies. they not much this days

SirBaro:
Sadly, many girls see themselves as sex objects as well.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
LOL. Have a nice day

RomeoMarvis:

same to you, dear!
hope you had a peaceful night?

MISSCONGENIALITY:
I did, and I'm sure you did too

MISSCONGENIALITY:
I've said my own and won't blame you for you own comment because you just gave out want you have. U can expect to cut paw-paw and bring out Apple seed from it. I know howbi deal with your type who see women as sex objects.

Loyalblak007:
Nigerian guys can't hold meaningful conversations, all they want to talk about is romance and s*x

MISSCONGENIALITY:
I've said my own and won't blame you for you own comment because you just gave out want you have. U can expect to cut paw-paw and bring out Apple seed from it. I know howbi deal with your type who see women as sex objects.

GoldNiagara:



I am sure you read that thread where a girl said her vagina can build her a house, how about the one that said she will only date a man that drives Ferrari. Fact speak for itself.