4dor:


Life is not that straightforward, what happens if you have financial issues 5 years into your marriage with someone 7 years younger? You break up and start searching for another younger person?

It's a generic counsel, life is not so straightforward indeed. I agree 100%

Onojasteve:
I met the lady in my 100 level in the university, we have graduated and done with our one year NYSC service, I learn photography and have being surviving with it, I couldn't get any better paying job, so I decided to further my studies, and when I told her about my plans, she only said, she wish me well that she can't wait.

That was all, only for friends to start calling me telling me congratulations, was wondering what the. Celebrations until one draw my attention to her facebook wall, she was engaged last night.

Am just so pain and terrify

Very reasonable sensible lady.

If all ladies were like her,the world would be a better place.

My congratulations to her.

What are you pained for? That she faced reality and moved on with a serious person instead of wasting her time with someone who will end up dumping her later when he has made it,telling her she is old.

You are a devil incarnate

Oya sorry, get over it and go make money forget that furthering of education crap, it's a waste of money. Use that money to learn how to be a better photographer.
Life is tough man up and stop crying over spilt milk. And next time don't just look for beauty. Look for someone that believes in your dream and will stick around through thick and thin. You will know when you meet her.
And learn good English too

Truth served on a hot plate. OP come and do the dishes.

missyadorable:



Very reasonable sensible lady.

If all ladies were like her,the world would be a better place.

My congratulations to her.

What are you pained for? That she faced reality and moved on with a serious person instead of wasting her time with someone who will end up dumping her later when he has made it,telling her she is old.

You are a devil incarnate

All of you people abusing my poor guy all of you are mad. 5 good years haba and you expect him not to be paid. The girl should have just broken up with him since she has been dating that other guy but No she wants to keep both of them just incase my guy just blows by chance in his photography, she didn't even officially break up nor tell him anything about the other guy, my guy just saw it on Facebook like that, I mean that is so disheartening. I'm not against the girl's "leaving him" but she should have broken up since.

Go and find another woman and stop deceiving yourself

Onojasteve:
I met the lady in my 100 level in the university, we have graduated and done with our one year NYSC service, I learn photography and have being surviving with it, I couldn't get any better paying job, so I decided to further my studies, and when I told her about my plans, she only said, she wish me well that she can't wait.

That was all, only for friends to start calling me telling me congratulations, was wondering what the. Celebrations until one draw my attention to her facebook wall, she was engaged last night.

Am just so pain and terrify

so u want her to WAIT


What if u rejects her after you get to the peak of ur career

what if u found lady Richter than her


what if your family rejects her eventually


what if she continue abortion for. and d womb come spoil ( abi u no de duck her Toto

what if you did not make any breakthroughs agter your career


what if u. die while she wait


y did u wanna buy banana island b4 you marry


you see ur priority is career & money

her priority are " I want to be mother, pls make me a wife & get me pregnant

luminouz:

Really
How do u know time ain't on her side?
I think she saw a guy who is loaded compared to hustling OP!
Just my opinion

P.S. some women waited....n got married to the same guy...n they are sensible humans too!

It was obvious she had options...and when he wasn’t forthcoming she port network overnight sharperly to the already buttered bread

From what he wrote it seems she needed an excuse...and that was an opportunity she capitalized on...GBAM

sirusX:

It was obvious she had options...and when he wasn’t forthcoming she port network overnight sharperly to the already buttered bread

From what he wrote it seems she needed an excuse...and that was an opportunity she capitalized on...GBAM

Ur so right bro

Onojasteve:
I met the lady in my 100 level in the university, we have graduated and done with our one year NYSC service, I learn photography and have being surviving with it, I couldn't get any better paying job, so I decided to further my studies, and when I told her about my plans, she only said, she wish me well that she can't wait.

That was all, only for friends to start calling me telling me congratulations, was wondering what the. Celebrations until one draw my attention to her facebook wall, she was engaged last night.

Am just so pain and terrify

So what else did you expect? You've disappointed the girl. A girl that waited for you for all those number of years only for you to dump relationship for the so-called career. If you loved her that much you would have considered her, her age, her commitment and then hussle to see that the two of you come together as husband and wife at a reasonable time. But now you feel you are pursuing career. Then congratulations. What do you want to use the higher qualification for? Life is too short for a girl to stick to you in your stochastic experiment. And who knows when higher qualification will yield result. You have made your choice - career over relationship. Be man enough to face the repercussion.

Onojasteve:
I met the lady in my 100 level in the university, we have graduated and done with our one year NYSC service, I learn photography and have being surviving with it, I couldn't get any better paying job, so I decided to further my studies, and when I told her about my plans, she only said, she wish me well that she can't wait.

That was all, only for friends to start calling me telling me congratulations, was wondering what the. Celebrations until one draw my attention to her facebook wall, she was engaged last night.

Am just so pain and terrify

C DIS CUCUMBER, INSTEAD OF U 2 BE DANCING 4 JOY, UR HERE DOING CRY ME A RIVER. DON'T U NO DAT GOD JUST DELIVERED U FROM A TERRIBLE DISASTER, IF U HAD MARRIED HER.

@Op same thing also happen to me ..infact she want me to be her official photographer..

imustsaymymindo:


But won't a 20 year old dating a 13 year old be paedophillic?

A 20 year old should concentrate on his future.

Jupxter:



Its not about hustling, date girls with age gap, so by the time they get ready, you would have been prepared, don't date your age mate, date 5-7 years younger

God bless u bro, exactly what i tell my friends

Naughtytboy:
God bless u bro, exactly what i tell my friends

She didnt just dump u.
She has been cheating on u all along.

Thank serve you right...
Men are wicked....

Sorry sir.

Sorry sir. Work hard, your time will come. Her time has come, let her celebrate pls.

moskke:


it requires patience, I met my current girlfriend when she was 13yrs and I was 20 believe me she was way matured than her age, but nothing happened I observed and watch her grow, today she's 19 and am 26 and we have officially kicked off the relationship, I know I'm not getting married till am 30-31 by then she will be 23-24.. currently she's in 300L and me am hustling.. in 4-5yrs from now I'll be way comfortable to take care of my family.. so the age gap pays

Wow. You are planning to date for 10 years.

Jupxter:



Its not about hustling, date girls with age gap, so by the time they get ready, you would have been prepared, don't date your age mate, date 5-7 years younger

My dear you can't have a say when love sweeps you of your feet

[quote author=luminouz post=63379771][/quote] luminouz that's just truth.many of these ladies who marry other guys when the guy that they love ain't ready always come back in secret to have flings with their ex.all those married women wey dey frollick with guys for hotel what do u think such guys are to them?.na mostly their ex na.

lefulefu:
luminouz that's just truth.many of these ladies who marry other guys when the guy that they love ain't ready always come back in secret to have flings with their ex.all those married women wey dey frollick with guys for hotel what do u think such guys are to them?.na mostly their ex na.

Na true o...
Me just dey whine u

missyQween:
That's so painful,You just have to work better and make her regret leaving you.
Life Goes On...

regret what?
after 5yrs, u are still expecting her to wait for some years for the guy to finish his education?
well I didn't see anything wrong in what she did.
Do u know how many opportunities she has lost waiting for the guy for 5yrs?
@op she isn't urs, ur wife is coming but please don't tie any lady down for 5yrs again

Jupxter:



What happens when good sends a good wife across our path with good intentions and we dont see it until the moment goes..

what I want u to know us that, a woman meant for u will never another person....if she travel out of the country she will still come back for u......thats God's design....with prayer two of u will connect like browsing with glo

habsydiamond:
what I want u to know us that, a woman meant for u will never another person....if she travel out of the country she will still come back for u......thats God's design....with prayer two of u will connect like browsing with glo

Are you married?

Rainmania:
But bros with this your English sef, how you been take graduate? Na this English you wan use go further? No wonder you couldn't land a job.
Biko just go into spare parts business. Thank you

Person wey him heart don break dey know aw to write better grammar.

Onojasteve:
I met the lady in my 100 level in the university, we have graduated and done with our one year NYSC service, I learn photography and have being surviving with it, I couldn't get any better paying job, so I decided to further my studies, and when I told her about my plans, she only said, she wish me well that she can't wait.

That was all, only for friends to start calling me telling me congratulations, was wondering what the. Celebrations until one draw my attention to her facebook wall, she was engaged last night.

Am just so pain and terrify

Brace up man! Na there way. Just work smart n make Kesh. Keep a close relationship with STAR lager beer( No go drunk o). Finally, hang out with male pals. With tyme u ll be fine. Trust me!

teefaht:

regret what?
after 5yrs, u are still expecting her to wait for some years for the guy to finish his education?
well I didn't see anything wrong in what she did.
Do u know how many opportunities she has lost waiting for the guy for 5yrs?
@op she isn't urs, ur wife is coming but please don't tie any lady down for 5yrs again

Are you saying you can waste 5years out of someone life ? Deceiving them that you will be there all through while you know you ain't going to be there?
Is she not suppose to think of that before accepting him and after 5years that's when she deem it fit to leave.

Jupxter:



Are you married?

nope....but have not stop praying a good wife......cos a good wife results to a good home....which I know that's what we all wanted.

habsydiamond:
nope....but have not stop praying a good wife......cos a good wife results to a good home....which I know that's what we all wanted.

But your words are very deep. Kilode !

Chief you need to go for thanks giving Oyi tin mo nko ti Olorun se fun e. Trust me a year from now if asked if you still want her as a wife your answer will be different. Some times we are just blinded by our emotions, we refuse to see the realities on ground. How come when you mentioned it she was ready to move at once. Sorry to break it to you she moved long time, you only had the container the mind was gone.

Onojasteve:
I met the lady in my 100 level in the university, we have graduated and done with our one year NYSC service, I learn photography and have being surviving with it, I couldn't get any better paying job, so I decided to further my studies, and when I told her about my plans, she only said, she wish me well that she can't wait.

That was all, only for friends to start calling me telling me congratulations, was wondering what the. Celebrations until one draw my attention to her facebook wall, she was engaged last night.

Am just so pain and terrify

LADIES ARE SYNONYMOUS TO MONEY,


I'M NOT SURPRISED BECAUSE THE INTRODUCTION OF "EVE" IN THAT SERENE GARDEN WAS NEVER FAVOURABLE TO "ADAM".