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femi4:
Most cases, its the mother. You ll hear something like "Femi, my spirit does not flow pelu girl to mu wa le yen"

Exactly. My mom will say she's always afraid when she hears his name or whenever i mention him. me sef start to fear

Kentrasso:
Exactly. My mom will say she's always afraid when she hears his name or whenever i mention him. me sef start to fear

Very funny excuses you can't just understand

Bollinger:
You said parents are 85% correct in whatever advice they give which is not true which is why i said what i said. Their advice is even worse when it comes to relationships because what they like will not be what you like. Well, like you said, it's you opinion.

You are right. Although I understand what Moji12 is trying to convey, but like you said, some of this advice is not entirely true. What parents fail to understand is that times have changed---now, I'm not saying part of what they see ain't relevant. No, but they should know that people of these season has grown in evil wisdom to evade even the best of scrutiny. Even supposed 'good' homes produce bad children who you may never know what those kids are involved in outside of their parent's sight (daughter and son).

After dealing with issue of 1) Good character 2) Compatibility in dreams and future prospects (3) Genotype (4) Tribe (5) Age (6) Religion/Education and if she is a good girl or good guy...you now reject, it can bring about bitterness.

@Moji12, they are not always right....why? the world (spiritually) is getting smarter than the light some of our parents carry. Not that some of those things they say are not relevant, but na the dog of today know how to chase the rabbit of today. They should just give you words of wisdom and ask if you are sure this is the one, give their concerns and tell you to be on the lookout. Don't forget even a sincerely good lady or guy can turn to darkness at any time, even though parent-approved...so you can't be absolutely sure. Na only God will save us.

if u take ur lady/guy home and ur parents refuses him/her. Just say no problem.
Few weeks later, bring one ashewo/tout (plan work)home. They ll say no for sure, repeat dis with different wayward girls/guys. Bring pple of bad character several times.
Na ur parents go beg u to bring back dt ur 1st love

DJEhimond:
Good write deturla

Thanks Bruv.