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Boyfriend Wahala by Nobody: 6:29am On Dec 20, 2017
Good morning Everyone, compliment of the season.
I'm currently in a serious relationship with my boyfriend, which might lead to marriage( both hoping) but my boyfriend doesn't want me to keep any male friend, after all had assured him. pls FAM, what can I do?

mature minds only. Thanks

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Re: Boyfriend Wahala by Nobody: 6:30am On Dec 20, 2017
Break up...thank me later

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Re: Boyfriend Wahala by Nobody: 6:31am On Dec 20, 2017
UniQuegrACE:
Good morning Everyone, compliment of the season.
I'm currently in a serious relationship with my boyfriend, which might lead to marriage( both hoping) but my boyfriend doesn't want me to keep any male friend, after all had assured him. pls FAM, what can I do?

mature minds only. Thanks
dats prison...dnt marry hm leave while u still can

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Re: Boyfriend Wahala by Nobody: 6:34am On Dec 20, 2017
grin

I don't see any point to keep male friends when ur in a relationship even let's say its all nothing but platonic..

Listen to ur bf...he knows better wink

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Re: Boyfriend Wahala by Nobody: 6:35am On Dec 20, 2017
cummando:
Break up...thank me later
really?? you think so?
Re: Boyfriend Wahala by Nobody: 6:36am On Dec 20, 2017
nnamdiokere45:
dats prison...dnt marry hm leave while u still can
convince me the more, pls
Re: Boyfriend Wahala by Nobody: 6:37am On Dec 20, 2017
IamKashyBaby:
grin

I don't see any point to keep male friends when ur in a relationship even let's say its all nothing but platonic..

Listen to ur bf...he knows better wink

hmmmn , alright thanks
Re: Boyfriend Wahala by Blackhawk03(f): 6:39am On Dec 20, 2017
IamKashyBaby:
grin

I don't see any point to keep male friends when ur in a relationship even let's say its all nothing but platonic..

Listen to ur bf...he knows better wink


Huh? She had a life which involved friends(male and female) before the boyfriend came along, she can't possibly discard them because she's got a bf now... That's gonna be silly.

Op, you can only listen to him if he's gonna do away with female friends too.

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Re: Boyfriend Wahala by Nobody: 6:40am On Dec 20, 2017
UniQuegrACE:
convince me the more, pls
wat exactly do u nedd d convincing for?its like u wer already considering it.ds is simple

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Re: Boyfriend Wahala by Nobody: 6:41am On Dec 20, 2017
Blackhawk03:


Huh? She had a life which involved friends(male and female) before the boyfriend came along, she can't possibly discard them because she's got a bf now... That's gonna be silly.

Op, you can only listen to him if he's gonna do away with female friends too.
ds guy said it all

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Re: Boyfriend Wahala by Nobody: 6:43am On Dec 20, 2017
Blackhawk03:


Huh? She had a life which involved friends(male and female) before the boyfriend came along, she can't possibly discard them because she's got a bf now... That's gonna be silly.

Op, you can only listen to him if he's gonna do away with female friends too.
exactly my worry I can't discard them all.
but doesn't keep female friends because of me ,but I don't think I can do such
Re: Boyfriend Wahala by Nobody: 6:45am On Dec 20, 2017
nnamdiokere45:
ds guy said it all
alright thanks
Re: Boyfriend Wahala by SaintAlbert53: 6:48am On Dec 20, 2017
UniQuegrACE:
Good morning Everyone, compliment of the season.
I'm currently in a serious relationship with my boyfriend, which might lead to marriage( both hoping) but my boyfriend doesn't want me to keep any male friend, after all had assured him. pls FAM, what can I do?

mature minds only. Thanks
u guys ain't married yet and restriction don dey like this...sorry are u a slave to him

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Re: Boyfriend Wahala by ubunja(m): 6:50am On Dec 20, 2017
those two are just saying "break up" without bothering to explain anything. and its coz they are the sane kinds of losers that hang around other men's women like buzzing flies.
babygal here is the gist if it:
you may not know this coz u are a gal,but guys cant really be friends with gals without going thru periods of wanting to fvck her. now the two losers above me are the very parasites that specialize in that opportunistic behaviour.
your man's demand may seem un-reasonable but it is.we live in the age of cowards that hang around other men's women acting like friends but the moment you go thru problems with your man,they gona wana comfort u:with pen!s.
prove your loyality to him by giving what he's requesting.
and for godsake stop coming to the internet to ask for advice on life-changing issues from strangers whose mental condition u dont know.its easy for someone lying on his bed to text "break up!" while that person is not even in a relationship and is having a bad day and want more people miserable.
go ask your pastor such questions. c'mon now girl. wtf!!

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Re: Boyfriend Wahala by SafetyFirst(m): 6:50am On Dec 20, 2017
UniQuegrACE:
exactly my worry I can't discard them all.
but doesn't keep female friends because of me ,but I don't think I can do such


You said your relationship is serious, and heading towards marriage? It's a good thing you know it's because of you He doesn't keep female friends.

My advice; Cut those male friends, if you want your man to take you seriously.

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Re: Boyfriend Wahala by Blackhawk03(f): 6:51am On Dec 20, 2017
nnamdiokere45:
ds guy said it all

Hian! This must be why I'm yet to get husband from nairaland oooo... angry angry

Iyamm a babe nii grin cheesy

About the topic? Yeah, we compromise in relationships to make adjustment for new developments but asking her to do this reeks of insecurity and selfishness undecided. Who knows what he might be asking of her next...

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Re: Boyfriend Wahala by Nobody: 6:53am On Dec 20, 2017
ubunja:
those two are just saying "break up" without bothering to explain anything. and its coz they are the sane kinds of losers that hang around other men's women like buzzing flies.
babygal here is the gist if it:
you may not know this coz u are a gal,but guys cant really be friends with gals without going thru periods of wanting to fvck her. now the two losers above me are the very parasites that specialize in that opportunistic behaviour.
your man's demand may seem un-reasonable but it is.we live in the age of cowards that hang around other men's women acting like friends but the moment you go thru problems with your man,they gona wana comfort u:with pen!s.
prove your loyality to him by giving what he's requesting.
and for godsake stop coming to the internet to ask for advice on life-changing issues from strangers whose mental condition u dont know.its easy for someone lying on his bed to text "break up!" while that person is not even in a relationship and is having a bad day and want more people miserable.
go ask your pastor such questions. c'mon now girl. wtf!!
thanks so much , i'm really grateful
I only got worried and wanted to have diff people's view about it, thanks again
Re: Boyfriend Wahala by Nobody: 6:56am On Dec 20, 2017
SafetyFirst:



You said your relationship is serious, and heading towards marriage?

My advice; Cut those male friends, if you want your man to take you seriously.
thanks for the advice
Re: Boyfriend Wahala by Nobody: 6:57am On Dec 20, 2017
UniQuegrACE:
really??
you think so?
ubunja:
those two are just saying "break up" without bothering to explain anything. and its coz they are the sane kinds of losers that hang around other men's women like buzzing flies.
babygal here is the gist if it:
you may not know this coz u are a gal,but guys cant really be friends with gals without going thru periods of wanting to fvck her. now the two losers above me are the very parasites that specialize in that opportunistic behaviour.
your man's demand may seem un-reasonable but it is.we live in the age of cowards that hang around other men's women acting like friends but the moment you go thru problems with your man,they gona wana comfort u:with pen!s.
prove your loyality to him by giving what he's requesting.
and for godsake stop coming to the internet to ask for advice on life-changing issues from strangers whose mental condition u dont know.its easy for someone lying on his bed to text "break up!" while that person is not even in a relationship and is having a bad day and want more people miserable.
go ask your pastor such questions. c'mon now girl. wtf!!
you know why I won't blame you? I commented. I guess only pigs roll with pigs. Unique heed her advice. She is right. I'm a loser. But a rich one that was in your shoes...so I won't bother explaining anything.

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Re: Boyfriend Wahala by Nobody: 7:00am On Dec 20, 2017
Blackhawk03:


Hian! This must be why I'm yet to get husband from nairaland oooo... angry angry

Iyamm a babe nii grin cheesy

About the topic? Yeah, we compromise in relationships to make adjustment for new developments but asking her to do this reeks of insecurity and selfishness undecided. Who knows what he might be asking of her next...
no vex,na ur moniker confuse me.happy xmas in advance

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Re: Boyfriend Wahala by Nobody: 7:00am On Dec 20, 2017
cummando:
you know why I won't blame you? I commented. I guess only pigs roll with pigs. Unique heed her advice. She is right. I'm a loser. But a rich one that was in your shoes...so I won't bother explaining anything.
pls do explain further no need for insult ,at least I a asked the question not her, plsssss
Re: Boyfriend Wahala by Blackhawk03(f): 7:03am On Dec 20, 2017
ubunja:
those two are just saying "break up" without bothering to explain anything. and its coz they are the sane kinds of losers that hang around other men's women like buzzing flies.
babygal here is the gist if it:
you may not know this coz u are a gal,but guys cant really be friends with gals without going thru periods of wanting to fvck her. now the two losers above me are the very parasites that specialize in that opportunistic behaviour.
your man's demand may seem un-reasonable but it is.we live in the age of cowards that hang around other men's women acting like friends but the moment you go thru problems with your man,they gona wana comfort u:with pen!s.
prove your loyality to him by giving what he's requesting.
and for godsake stop coming to the internet to ask for advice on life-changing issues from strangers whose mental condition u dont know.its easy for someone lying on his bed to text "break up!" while that person is not even in a relationship and is having a bad day and want more people miserable.
go ask your pastor such questions. c'mon now girl. wtf!!


Shut up! Nothing gets on my nerves as much as hearing people say guys can't be friends with a girl without thinking of sex. WTF! What sorta stupid and shallow reasoning is this? Oh! So you've fantasized about fvckin all your female friends? Dude, you can't possibly think other guys also let their deek make decisions for them... There are good men out there, don't generalize your silly opinion.

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Re: Boyfriend Wahala by Draei: 7:08am On Dec 20, 2017
UniQuegrACE:
exactly my worry I can't discard them all.
but doesn't keep female friends because of me ,but I don't think I can do such
Oh! He doesn't keep female friends cuz
of you? Then he has rights to demand the
same from you which is clear you can't do.

Woman, you ain't ready so move the fùck on.

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Re: Boyfriend Wahala by Blackhawk03(f): 7:15am On Dec 20, 2017
SafetyFirst:



You said your relationship is serious, and heading towards marriage? How will you feel if he's the one keeping female friends?

My advice; Cut those male friends, if you want your man to take you seriously.


Is he gonna cut his female friends too?

Except she's gonna be a full housewife, she can't escape meeting with other men. Business associates, colleagues at work, church members. Heck! Her favourite hairstylist might be a guy!

He should cut off his female friends too and she will take him serious... Hehehehe! cheesy
Re: Boyfriend Wahala by Blackhawk03(f): 7:17am On Dec 20, 2017
UniQuegrACE:
exactly my worry I can't discard them all.
but doesn't keep female friends because of me ,but I don't think I can do such

Oh! He doesn't keep female friends because of you? Oya oya, do away with your male friends too.

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Re: Boyfriend Wahala by Draei: 7:19am On Dec 20, 2017
Blackhawk03:



Is he gonna cut his female friends too?

Except she's gonna be a full housewife, she can't escape meeting with other men. Business associates, colleagues at work, church members. Heck! Her favourite hairstylist might be a guy!

He should cut off his female friends too and she will take him serious... Hehehehe! cheesy
Read what she posted down here... undecided

UniQu.egrACE:
exactly my worry I can't discard them all.
but doesn't keep female friends because of me ,but I don't think I can do such

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Re: Boyfriend Wahala by ubunja(m): 7:19am On Dec 20, 2017
Blackhawk03:



Shut up! Nothing gets on my nerves as much as hearing people say guys can't be friends with a girl without thinking of sex. WTF! What sorta stupid and shallow reasoning is this? Oh! So you've fantasized about fvckin all your female friends? Dude, you can't possibly think other guys also let their deek make decisions for them... There are good men out there, don't generalize your silly opinion.
you are right. there are good men out there.
just give OP the eye-glasses to use to tell the good guys from the bad.

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Re: Boyfriend Wahala by Blackhawk03(f): 7:21am On Dec 20, 2017
Draei:

Read what she posted down here... undecided


Read this too undecided

Blackhawk03:


Oh! He doesn't keep female friends because of you? Oya oya, do away with your male friends too.
Re: Boyfriend Wahala by Draei: 7:23am On Dec 20, 2017
Blackhawk03:


Read this too undecided

After how long she already posted it? Mtcheeeew!

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Re: Boyfriend Wahala by Blackhawk03(f): 7:25am On Dec 20, 2017
ubunja:

you are right. there are good men out there.
just give OP the eye-glasses to use to tell the good guys from the bad.

She doesn't need it. Going from your siggy, one would know you're one of them and you shouldn't be taken serious. Tsk tsk
Re: Boyfriend Wahala by Blackhawk03(f): 7:28am On Dec 20, 2017
Draei:

After how long she already posted it? Mtcheeeew!

Yeah, didn't check my mentions. Still doesn't change my opinion though, she's just lucky the dude is one of the few ones that practice what they preach. Most of you don't undecided

Mstchhhheeeeeeewwwwww
Re: Boyfriend Wahala by ubunja(m): 7:30am On Dec 20, 2017
so many wise men on the internet.LOL
yet so many guys in friendzones.so many guys relying on porn.so many guys single and celibate.
yet so many wise men the internet.
grin grin grin grin grin
you know something doesnt add up when 1+1=3
most guys deal in theory of relationships not real relatiinships.busy dispensing advice they have no right to be dispensing.
its hilarious

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