The last sentence damaged all you just said. But anyway, your case is similar to hormonal imbalance. You have hormonal defect. Consult the right medical personnel.

JESUSBOIY:
please i don't get you.

See the hard truth is that you really believe that you behave like a girl and everyday you are trying to fight the thought. What a serious battle.
Almost nothing you do will solve your problem because Your problem might be solved instantly if everyone that is saying you behave like a girl stop saying so or stop behaving in a way that pass that message but you and I know that might never happen, so you seem to be fighting a lost battle.
But that is not my concern for now. But my contribution is this.

You said you don't have alot of female friend because of this,
Bro your girly behavior has nothing to do with this, trust me it is just you except there is something you are not saying. Stop believing you can't have a girlfriend because you don't behave manly, are you trying to be-friends a girl who are clique with your friends that mock you? If your answer is No then how would every girl have problem that you behave girly, bro from now onward start improving your skill on relating with female friends and put off that mindset of yours. Things might get difficult at first that is because you have not sharpen you skill on relating with female but with time and practice you go improve.

Secondly, you have start to exhibit some anti-social attitude which is as a result of low self-esteem, see bro even if later on you start to behave manly you will still notice you are way back when it comes to socializing,Bro girly behavior is not only your problem now but have you seen someone that is a sissy of behave girly? If yes do you see any behavior that resemble yours and if no then your case might be a little different but trying to be like a boy without know why you behave like a girl and situation you behave like a girl would not erase the girly behavior. So from now on the attentive at which situation you behave like one.

Lastly, I suspect that you have been buying to many cheap talk from people and you are filled with so many silly comment from your friends. Trust me, some friends are calling you whatever they feel like simple because they heard it from someone and not from their own judgment. From now on when someone says something about your girly character try interrogate them and if each time they don't come up with solution or good explanations, start ignoring or shunning them when next they try to do so(there are exceptional cases though).

Now remember I haven't told you why a boy might behave like a girl. By the way I am a human psychologist(per time one though)and that does not mean my contribution fit your situation. I really don't know you in person. So my advice is perfect for my mind model and experiences I have had.

Are you really really sure you're straight??

Just kidding lol

do u have any intimate relationship with dickks? if u don't then u are normal, but if u do , mehn I pity ur asssholee

Pls just be ur self ..do what u want to do and feel good about yourself...u only have one life to live

JESUSBOIY:
this is exactly why i don't talk to my people about this.

Look, i have started barbing skull, because an uncle of mind said that only gay people keep afro.

I am now careful about the colours of cloth i wear, cos some one said pink and yellow etc are for homosexuals .

When i walk or run, i try to raise my shoulders up to look more manly.

Its frustrating that i am trying hard to behave and act most of the things that comes to men naturally .

I can't walk infront of guys cos they will make fun, i can't even sweep or wash cloths around them cos of their mockery.

But please am straight, i am sexually attracted to only women. Thanks lalasticlala

Guy don't condemn yourself u are a man stop pleasing people,instead of u to think about making money at younger age,u are here seeking advice on appearance that don't last,get money get flex,buy good things of life and see how people flocks around u.

Medically, you're probably suffering from low levels of testosterone. Go to a specialist hospital and meet an endocrinologist

Guy you need to change your whole outlook of life.
You have to transform mentally and physically.
First physically: build muscles, exercise, life weight. I recommend you enrole for martial arts and self defence so no one would bully you again This would give you a bolder and more serious look
Then mentally; First research. Go online to find out about guys like you, what did they do to overcome their fears. Read books. develop your relents.
Girls would notice the changes. guys would start to respect. Don't force it give it time. You would be fine

olisehcom:



Are you sure you're straight??, ever thought of being gay? forget the criticism






Just Kidding

Blessing

FitnessDoctor:

Okay, dear, Fire away

okay,
just want to ask, how do you know if your hormone is imbalance. as a woman,
cause am having unwanted hair, which am very sure nobody in my family has it, and I was told is, hormonal imbalance.
thanks

Oxster:

Lol,,am telling u bro,,insult wey I don receive on dat ehh

Hehehe,don't mind them Ur cute like dat..

LoRdCaT:
Blessing

You know me,do I know you?

JESUSBOIY:
I am a guy in my early 20s, a student.
Since my childhood, i have always had complains that i behave and act like a female. I can't jog,run or play soccer cos my friends will make fun of me and say i run like a girl.

i am quite shy/timid too and and i have long discovered that i don't have much physical strength, people have bullied me because of this.


Girls don't take me serious. Cos i don't possess a manly persona so i have never really been in their good books.

Please this is coming from a bleeding heart , I have tried as much as possible to be manly but, its like trying to grow tall overnight. I am tired of my family asking if i am gay. I stay mostly indoors, and i can't even hang out with my peers because of embarrassment.


I am not a believer, so don't tell me to pray. I am only pouring my heart out, i need help(advice)......

note: i am a straight guy!

Join a gym and start working out.

harriet412:


Hehehe,don't mind them
Ur cute like dat..

Thanks bae

Lol..i can't change my self that y I normally wear long sleeve shirt

JESUSBOIY:
this is exactly why i don't talk to my people about this.

Look, i have started barbing skull, because an uncle of mind said that only gay people keep afro.

I am now careful about the colours of cloth i wear, cos some one said pink and yellow etc are for homosexuals .

When i walk or run, i try to raise my shoulders up to look more manly.

Its frustrating that i am trying hard to behave and act most of the things that comes to men naturally .

I can't walk infront of guys cos they will make fun, i can't even sweep or wash cloths around them cos of their mockery.

But please am straight, i am sexually attracted to only women. Thanks lalasticlala

I am psychologist i can help, it is both cognitive and development problem, first love ursef more, let the closest pple around u knw u better, never hide, expres ursef freely in public...there is more send me msg...u also need terestorone boost

jamariwolf:
Am i pose to sympathize with you?
Hell, I can even act like a man anytime I want to. You have no excuse whatsoever.

madam calm down

JESUSBOIY:
I am a guy in my early 20s, a student.
Since my childhood, i have always had complains that i behave and act like a female. I can't jog,run or play soccer cos my friends will make fun of me and say i run like a girl.

i am quite shy/timid too and and i have long discovered that i don't have much physical strength, people have bullied me because of this.


Girls don't take me serious. Cos i don't possess a manly persona so i have never really been in their good books.

Please this is coming from a bleeding heart , I have tried as much as possible to be manly but, its like trying to grow tall overnight. I am tired of my family asking if i am gay. I stay mostly indoors, and i can't even hang out with my peers because of embarrassment.


I am not a believer, so don't tell me to pray. I am only pouring my heart out, i need help(advice)......

note: i am a straight guy!

U r a gay bastard

@ op. I hardly comment on this forum, but you story got me reall good. Your story seems as if you wrote an autobiography of me. I will give u a practical advice. Hit the gym. Start doing exercises like never before; jogging, playing football, gyming etc.

Bro I was a weakly before but a friend introduced me to exercise since then my life has never been the same, am now ladies man, well built guy admired by all, extrovert, social, bold and so on.

Bro once more all u need to do is to work on your health by exercising and doing physically demanding chores.

You are simply a weakly now cause u muscles and bones have not been worked on for long. Within 6months u will get the positive result and your life will turn around forever.

Good luck to you bro.

JESUSBOIY:
I am a guy in my early 20s, a student.
Since my childhood, i have always had complains that i behave and act like a female. I can't jog,run or play soccer cos my friends will make fun of me and say i run like a girl.

i am quite shy/timid too and and i have long discovered that i don't have much physical strength, people have bullied me because of this.


Girls don't take me serious. Cos i don't possess a manly persona so i have never really been in their good books.

Please this is coming from a bleeding heart , I have tried as much as possible to be manly but, its like trying to grow tall overnight. I am tired of my family asking if i am gay. I stay mostly indoors, and i can't even hang out with my peers because of embarrassment.


I am not a believer, so don't tell me to pray. I am only pouring my heart out, i need help(advice)......

note: i am a straight guy!

first of all you claimed you are not religious but your monicker says otherwise now you are telling us that you are a BOY but behave like a GIRL so how do we now believe what you are saying is true

Search online for natural testosterone supplement or booster. You testosterone level may be low. Even there are certain ways a man should be physically, because of differences in both male and female hormones, i do not really think there is anything to worry about. You can continue boosting your hormone level with the supplements and exercises by building your muscles and physique. You need to be aware of your environment and the people around you what they feel and believe about you doesn't matter, do not let them weigh you down psychologically. Be positive about yourself and be comfortable with who you are. Good luck.

how do u knw u r straight

Did @Op just say he can't play football?! Well hello there,NANCY! I might be able to help you there though: First thing,next saturday,look for the nearest street soccer game and join up. I'll advise you to join the last set,which from my of years of experience as a street football player is usually the worst set,and beg them to "help" them play "backman". From then on watch the other 'masculine' players and see how they play. After 6 attempts,come back and thank me.

Did @Op just say he can't play football?! Well hello there,NANCY! I might be able to help you there though: First thing,next saturday,look for the nearest street soccer game and join up. I'll advise you to join the last set,which from my years of experience as a street football player is usually the worst set,and beg them to "help" them play "backman". From then on watch the other 'masculine' players and see how they play. After 6 attempts,come back and thank me.

Oxster:


Thanks bae

Lol..i can't change my self that y I normally wear long sleeve shirt

pm that lady immediately, she is showing you green light. Don't dull !

You're simply effeminate! Stay in front of the mirror every morning and bellow :I am a man!!! 7 times.

JESUSBOIY:
this is exactly why i don't talk to my people about this.

Look, i have started barbing skull, because an uncle of mind said that only gay people keep afro.

I am now careful about the colours of cloth i wear, cos some one said pink and yellow etc are for homosexuals .

When i walk or run, i try to raise my shoulders up to look more manly.

Its frustrating that i am trying hard to behave and act most of the things that comes to men naturally .

I can't walk infront of guys cos they will make fun, i can't even sweep or wash cloths around them cos of their mockery.

But please am straight, i am sexually attracted to only women. Thanks lalasticlala

You talk like a typical Nigerian homosexual. They swear that they are not gay and bla bla bla.

Stop trying to swear or proof or convince people that you are not gay. Every human being has a homosexual tendency. Those who deny this are those battling with this secret and trying so hard to prove to the world that they are straight. And I can categorically prove to you that majority of those males who call you gay because of your feminine look are sexually attracted to you. It is the homosexualism in them that made them think you are gay. My advice to you is to concentrate on your education and be a successful person in the society. Forget about girls and stupid advice from people who say you should start visiting ashawo. You owe no one any explanation about your sexuality. If you like afro, barb afro. It is no body's business. If you have pink clothes you like, wear them. I don't understand the relationship between colour and sexuality. Live your life and stop minding what people say. Only thing you should strive for is to be a successful person. Pursue money. I mean clean money. When you become rich, all other things shall be added unto you. But don't forget God.

I am not a believer, so don't tell me to pray. I am only pouring my heart out, i need help(advice)......

My good brother.

I would have given you my candid advice but it has to do with belief and since you are not a believer, you will hardly believe it.

In that case, I wish you good luck!!

And to think that this is a part of your Profile says a lot:

Personal text: Jesusboiy---> ladies man

jamariwolf:
Am i pose to sympathize with you?
Hell, I can even act like a man anytime I want to. You have no excuse whatsoever.

Look at this saddist, so you're here again to ruin another boy abi? Better go meet your gay friends and leave this innocent boy alone.. So you haven't change your gender to M? I'm coming for you.. She-male Imp. Just wait!