ladyF:


Speak for yourself ma'am. Not all of us are in the habit of being a leech.

Good one.

15k for a whole is too small. Way too small!

Jodha:


My dear it's better to be a leech than an hipocrite ...

How will yhu date a guy for a year..and he has not mistakenly spent up to 15k on yhu...for any reason...
Someone (a guy for that matter) is coming out to tell us the concrete truth...and yhure here deceiving yhurself...

Yhu better change ...come 2018...

Wat is wrong wit u working for money or spending for ur bf

Na your mustache dey deceive you..
No be only 15k, na 15L

Jodha:


He's just trying to create a scale of worth... Not necessarily money...

Joro always slams gold diggers...he's not saying ladies should be gold diggers... He's just emphasizing on a point...yhu can't be dating a guy for years and he's not done something worth 15k for yhu...

It's not the money..but [b]proof of love [/b]and stuff...

Yhu get?

I was rooting for you the whole time until you typed the emboldened line...
It isn't love if you feel I've got to prove it to you at some point and not on my own volition. I like to think of my relationships in recent years as contracts. Fine, I'll give you the cash you need (when I want) and you, in turn, will need to have connections or networks that can help me in life.

And, hey, it works for me!

Jodha:


The 15k ...is just a scale of worth...

so u are worth 15k?

I rather spend it on girls in my family

Lol.. Okay

I know a man that bought a new car for his wife on her birthday
...but killed her before 25th DEC 2017 (battered her and left her to her fate)..

someone on this thread is busy trying to accumulate such men because she believes money equals love..

nice thread ")

Ode! Why them no spend 15k on themselves?

Attention seekers don start again with beards like mistletoe.

hmm..what is 15k.
is better he doesn't even give me that

Relationships should not always be about money.What he said is true though but I won't beg a guy I am dating for money but if he gives me from his heart I would take it,I would never ask him.And he should also advise ladies to spend on their men for as far as I am concerned it is not a crime.

Jodha:


He's just trying to create a scale of worth... Not necessarily money...

Joro always slams gold diggers...he's not saying ladies should be gold diggers... He's just emphasizing on a point...yhu can't be dating a guy for years and he's not done something worth 15k for yhu...

It's not the money..but proof of love and stuff...

Yhu get?

Stop twisting it Sir. He said 15k . Una don come be that, the message is 15k

This is a very funny stuffs to read.

Nairaland boys won't like this at all!

iamadonis2:


I was rooting for you the whole time until you typed the emboldened line...
It isn't love if you feel I've got to prove it to you at some point and not on my own volition. I like to think of my relationships in recent years as contracts. Fine, I'll give you the cash you need (when I want) and you, in turn, will need to have connections or networks that can help me in life.

And, hey, it works for me!

Yhu don't understand my point...and I don't understand yhurs too...let's leave it that way...

sekxy:
hmm..what is 15k.

is better he doesn't even give me that

Name your price.

So quote me were it was boldly stated that is a man full responsibility to always be at mercy door of spending .
That's why few or some guys will never date a liability girls....
Only here in Nigeria that dating becomes contract & that is why such relationship can also be lay off the hook without a second taught because everything was been paid for by the dude. Including the kiss , s*x , clothing , flexing, etc.

Jodha:


My dear it's better to be a leech than an hipocrite ...

How will yhu date a guy for a year..and he has not mistakenly spent up to 15k on yhu...for any reason...
Someone (a guy for that matter) is coming out to tell us the concrete truth...and yhure here deceiving yhurself...

Yhu better change ...come 2018...

Jodha:


Y'all are not getting the point...
I'm not planning on depending on any man..neither am I advocating for ladies to do such...all I'm saying is that Joro is right...

At least if a guy truly loves yhu or takes yhu seriously.. At least for a whole year (365 days)... He should be able to spend up 15k on yhu..maybe on yhur birthday.. Or something... Not by necessarily giving yhu money...but just something of worth ...at least for the whole year...

Hope yhu get me now..

I know guys that sat with their girls through sickness
Some gave valuable business Advice
Some tutored then through exams
Some have been a pillar preventing them from going insane.

How do you monetize these things cos each of them is worth more than 50k.

Dont measure your life with the standards of another person. It is dangerous

Jodha:


The 15k ...is just a scale of worth...

I would be glad if you could tell me the scale of worth for women.

Most of these relationship "experts" aren't even in a stable relationship. How do they expect to counsel others? Counselors with no special training. They've turned experts because they have a bunch of followers on social media. Listen to them at your own risk.

Jodha:


My dear it's better to be a leech than an hipocrite ...

How will yhu date a guy for a year..and he has not mistakenly spent up to 15k on yhu...for any reason...
Someone (a guy for that matter) is coming out to tell us the concrete truth...and yhure here deceiving yhurself...

Yhu better change ...come 2018...

how much have you spent on a guy this year?

Or you want to tell me Nigeria girls don't spend on guys.....

Jodha:
I've always respected this Joro of a guy for his truthfulness... Ride on sir ..we hear yhu...

Mah go calculate how much eer'body don spend.. To know who and who ah go cut off...

Madam Accountant.

Wen I calculated what me and my guy spend for our bae this year, Is not even up to 10k. We don become single b dat by 2018

Joro needs to take a seat. The only woman a man should spend on is the one he is married to. And of course his parents and perhaps siblings. That is it.

I don't see anything wrong in what he said. Me wey I never get steady job, I know how much have spent on the lady am not dating.
He advised both guys and ladies.

Hmm some 1 just asked me to send 15k 2018 Neva start you know your sef this is no co incidence.

Seriously that shit can be so annoying yet they will be claiming testing the lady to know if she will cheat or not on top 4500# from Jan to Nov

Bros siddon there we won't only cheat ooooo, na to replace you with better person,


Who nor like better thing Even a mad man will trow away smelling bread if he see fresh one for ground.

How much did you spend on your man before you react to the empty post?

Jodha:


My dear it's better to be a leech than an hipocrite ...

How will yhu date a guy for a year..and he has not mistakenly spent up to 15k on yhu...for any reason...
Someone (a guy for that matter) is coming out to tell us the concrete truth...and yhure here deceiving yhurself...

Yhu better change ...come 2018...

Are you cutting of only Boyfriend or any random guy who didn't spend up to 15k